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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife likes me to read erotic bed time stories to her. I couldn’t find any good ones so I wrote my own. The common thread was they involved her in various fantasies - the electrician, the guy at a works do, the neighbour who comes to collect a parcel. And so on. And those stories lead here ...

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S"

Why the lack of confidence? I find that concerning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

Why the lack of confidence? I find that concerning "

Concerning how? Both of us have our body buggaboos and we have our own anxieties. Shes confident with herself in the sack, cause she bloody rocks but doesnt like her figure. I have lack of experience but prefer to please anyhoo

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife likes me to read erotic bed time stories to her. I couldn’t find any good ones so I wrote my own. The common thread was they involved her in various fantasies - the electrician, the guy at a works do, the neighbour who comes to collect a parcel. And so on. And those stories lead here ... "

Yes we have done that in the past, when i worked nights

S

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

Why the lack of confidence? I find that concerning

Concerning how? Both of us have our body buggaboos and we have our own anxieties. Shes confident with herself in the sack, cause she bloody rocks but doesnt like her figure. I have lack of experience but prefer to please anyhoo

S"

If you're comfortable and trusting with each other, then you should be able to experiment in any way that you do desire.. That's all...

Or do you want a third person to push things along?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S"

do you lack confidence with each other or are you wary of bringing other people in?

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By *TJxComboMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Why don't you both workout it will build your confidence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

Why the lack of confidence? I find that concerning

Concerning how? Both of us have our body buggaboos and we have our own anxieties. Shes confident with herself in the sack, cause she bloody rocks but doesnt like her figure. I have lack of experience but prefer to please anyhoo

S

If you're comfortable and trusting with each other, then you should be able to experiment in any way that you do desire.. That's all...

Or do you want a third person to push things along? "

The very reason were on here to find a lady freind for her. C is legit bi and has had female fun before. Even though i could share in the right circumstances, no extra men allowed at Cs request.

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

do you lack confidence with each other or are you wary of bringing other people in?"

Its confidence in ourselves mainly

S

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

do you lack confidence with each other or are you wary of bringing other people in?

Its confidence in ourselves mainly

S"

so you aren't afraid to experiment with each other but you lack the confidence to experiment with other people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

do you lack confidence with each other or are you wary of bringing other people in?

Its confidence in ourselves mainly

S

so you aren't afraid to experiment with each other but you lack the confidence to experiment with other people?"

To be fair, C surpasses me when it comes to past experiences, so experimentation is a real barrier for me. However, she is underconfident with her body(yes we exersise, yes we eat reletively healthy, yes there are reasons). Personally i think shes stunning but she doesnt see it, which is fair enough.

S

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S

do you lack confidence with each other or are you wary of bringing other people in?

Its confidence in ourselves mainly

S

so you aren't afraid to experiment with each other but you lack the confidence to experiment with other people?

To be fair, C surpasses me when it comes to past experiences, so experimentation is a real barrier for me. However, she is underconfident with her body(yes we exersise, yes we eat reletively healthy, yes there are reasons). Personally i think shes stunning but she doesnt see it, which is fair enough.

S"

Is it a good idea to involve someone else in your sex life if you have issues with experimentation and she doesn't have body confidence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is many options for beginners trying to spice it up in the bedroom. I'd suggest ropes to begin with. Doesn't have to tie the whole body up. Just begin with the arms or legs and work your way up to whole body when your both comfortable. Edge play is another great way for beginners too and if the female is ticklish then tickle play (with a feather or something ticklish) while she is tied up is an amazing way to start things off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so, how do you guys spice things up in the bedroom? We are full of ideas and suggestions, but both of us generally lack the confidence to go for it

S"

How about deciding on one of your ideas and resolving to try it out? Start small with something that's not too daunting and just give it a go. Treat it as a bit of fun and if it doesn't quote go to plan it's something to laugh about together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monky Dust isn't the answer

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Has any one tried actial spice and which condoment has had the best effect

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Watch a porn film together amd copy what they do.

Toys

Fantasies

Dress up

Tie and tease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for suggesting things. Some we have tried, some we havnt so will give them a go

C

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