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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

So we can meet with 6 people outdoors in England and different ratios in the rest of the UK. So would you meet with 2 other couples (or singles) in a park or somewhere outside for a social distance social? This would be just a social, which some just couldn't get a handle on in pre covid times. Maybe the meets and requests page should reopen in the Fab forum to facilitate this possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We posted something similar last week, about changing the meets button. People are allowed to meet at a social distance, so it should be an option on here.

But we got shot down for it so said no more on the matter

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don’t see the problem. Could have a 3 couple picnic

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

The problem is that this is Fab...

Which means that in one minute people are saying hi at a distance and the other minute they're fucking on the floor like rabbits

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By *amescoupleCouple
over a year ago

north walsham

Socially distanced socials. As long as you follow the rules (outside, 2m distance etc etc) can’t see why it would be a problem.

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By *ungRee4Man
over a year ago

falkirk

I posted I was planning similar... someone reported me to Fab and I got a warning

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"The problem is that this is Fab...

Which means that in one minute people are saying hi at a distance and the other minute they're fucking on the floor like rabbits "

Well that's up to stupid people and they will be doing this anyway. We are on about the respectful people here who do care about others

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"We posted something similar last week, about changing the meets button. People are allowed to meet at a social distance, so it should be an option on here.

But we got shot down for it so said no more on the matter "

Think the trouble has been all the while a number of people have been wanting meets which are against all the guidelines previous which has upset us all seeing these disrespectful people. Thought we might have been shot down too. Not saying we would do this but thought an adult discussion would be a good start. As we said some couldn't comprehend a social only meet before Covid which someone just made a comment about above. Guidelines still say keep meeting folk to a minimum and as short a time as possible. As the government keep saying a balance of isolation and mental health has to be addressed in a safe way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem is that this is Fab...

Which means that in one minute people are saying hi at a distance and the other minute they're fucking on the floor like rabbits "

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines "

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all up for a walk or picnic just ashame the weather has turned shit xx

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Well if 5000 ppl can gather and walk through London .. then I can’t see what the problem is with having a 6 ppl picnic where you as individuals have control over distancing

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

In all honesty we cant see a problem with a 2m distance social, there can still be the flirty chat but none of the touching that's all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials "

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social. "

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

I honestly don’t see an issue as long as rules are stuck to. Likewise I don’t see the harm in waiting either.

People have beeN openly asking for meets all the way through this virus, almost on a daily basis I see the same couple asking for meets for sex on my news feed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were open to meet socially as long as people can maintain themselves and their distance

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social. "

That's great news for people knowing Fab will not give them a warning for this. As said, this is for all the respectful people of fab who really do care about others health as well as their own. Like someone said above, being able to meet out doors and control your social distancing is much better than daily life where its a constant battle to stay safe at work, supermarket and being in public on the street

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

There is nothing to stop you contacting your existing swinger friends and arranging social meets and holding them in a safe way. Why do you need to advertise it on Fab? the only reason could be to identify strangers and then you would be oversubscribed with people wanting to come many of whom might think the term social means something different to you.That would seem pointless to me .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social.

That's great news for people knowing Fab will not give them a warning for this. As said, this is for all the respectful people of fab who really do care about others health as well as their own. Like someone said above, being able to meet out doors and control your social distancing is much better than daily life where its a constant battle to stay safe at work, supermarket and being in public on the street "

I must stress that any meets need to be within govt guidelines which are explained in the thread I linked to

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social.

That's great news for people knowing Fab will not give them a warning for this. As said, this is for all the respectful people of fab who really do care about others health as well as their own. Like someone said above, being able to meet out doors and control your social distancing is much better than daily life where its a constant battle to stay safe at work, supermarket and being in public on the street

I must stress that any meets need to be within govt guidelines which are explained in the thread I linked to "

We would totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's all we do now . Parks and woods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we can meet with 6 people outdoors in England and different ratios in the rest of the UK. So would you meet with 2 other couples (or singles) in a park or somewhere outside for a social distance social? This would be just a social, which some just couldn't get a handle on in pre covid times. Maybe the meets and requests page should reopen in the Fab forum to facilitate this possibility. "
no the temptation to BREAK the law of the land would be too much wait until cockdown ends on xmas eve

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"There is nothing to stop you contacting your existing swinger friends and arranging social meets and holding them in a safe way. Why do you need to advertise it on Fab? the only reason could be to identify strangers and then you would be oversubscribed with people wanting to come many of whom might think the term social means something different to you.That would seem pointless to me . "

You might have been chatting with a fellow fab member for weeks or months and to make contact would help with mental health and isolation, its not just to put up a meet to go meet total strangers. We would say common sense is paramount with these relaxations of restrictions. Remember its the health of you and others.

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By *ominanceMan
over a year ago

peterlee area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem with it. A social can easily be done in accordance with social distancing guidelines.

Those who want to break rules will do so. From some of the messages I've been getting lately, people seem to think lockdown is over completely.

If Fab reinstated the Meet feature right now, it could send out the message that it's ok to meet and swing. It's easy enough to arrange a social without the "Meet today" feature

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It would be nice to say so and it will do wonders for the buildup. when you can do it properly

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We would meet up with couples for a coffee in the park or something like that. We won't have the chance though until the kids are allowed to go to their grandparents house x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/1026660

Have a look at this thread, it explains what's acceptable under fab terms and conditions and government guidelines

I saw this. They seem to be accepting people can socialise but wont open meets.

But the question is, will we get in trouble for asking for socials

You won't get a warning for asking for a socially distant social.

That's great news for people knowing Fab will not give them a warning for this. As said, this is for all the respectful people of fab who really do care about others health as well as their own. Like someone said above, being able to meet out doors and control your social distancing is much better than daily life where its a constant battle to stay safe at work, supermarket and being in public on the street

I must stress that any meets need to be within govt guidelines which are explained in the thread I linked to "

I've just changed my status so hope its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is nothing to stop you contacting your existing swinger friends and arranging social meets and holding them in a safe way. Why do you need to advertise it on Fab? the only reason could be to identify strangers and then you would be oversubscribed with people wanting to come many of whom might think the term social means something different to you.That would seem pointless to me .

You might have been chatting with a fellow fab member for weeks or months and to make contact would help with mental health and isolation, its not just to put up a meet to go meet total strangers. We would say common sense is paramount with these relaxations of restrictions. Remember its the health of you and others. "

Sounds like they were agreeing with you. If you could meet someone safely in a open environment that would be fine. But advertising it publicly on here is going to attract the wrong crowd.

Unfortunately the majority can't be trusted so it's better to not give them the option.

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