FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting couples

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Fabbers,

Musing again.

Question for couples meeting other couples before Covid.

Did you have more success finding couples on Fab or in clubs?

I have a fwb and we like to meet fun couples. I would say we had more luck in clubs than on Fab.

If you met through Fab did you communicate a while? Did you have a Social first?

Did you go to parties?

Bhubaysi xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't go to clubs much so all our couples meets have been through fab and years ago other sites. We used to communicate for a while, have a social then either arrange a date to meet to take things further or agree to not see each other again. We have been to parties but I tend to freeze up when faced with situations in which certain behaviours are expected of me so we don't accept invitations. Group, organised socials can be a very successful way of meeting both couples and single men in our experience

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Fab is harder work than clubs but can be more rewarding

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We have found it hard meeting couples through Fab. We have met some but a lot of work goes into it. It's hard to find the mutual attraction and people who want the same thing.

We do spend a while messaging to get to know them and always have a social first.

We only had our first club visit just before lockdown but we do think this will be a good way to meet more couples in the future as you know straight away if you are all attracted x

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We have only had success in meeting couples at party's we do play at clubs but mainly threesomes or solo play, when lock down finished we are planing a couple meet at thier House, thinking if goes well we may play more at houses, but will still use site to check people genuine and chat purposes

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

50/50 really. If we're on a club event thread then we'll usually say hi to couples who catch our eye via PM. Then we'll meet them in person at the event.

We've also met couples at club events without seeing them on fab. Mostly it's purely social but we've played with a few couples this way

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We’ve generally had messages from couples who are going to a club the same night as us. If there’s a thread going for a certain club night, people will look to see who else is going. Other than that, 95% of winks and messages on here we’re not interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always relied on Fab as we not into clubs, yes it's hard work but eventually you so find like minded cpls here.

We arrange to meet for a social and if all goes well then will play on same day or book a hotel.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"We have found it hard meeting couples through Fab. We have met some but a lot of work goes into it. It's hard to find the mutual attraction and people who want the same thing.

We do spend a while messaging to get to know them and always have a social first.

We only had our first club visit just before lockdown but we do think this will be a good way to meet more couples in the future as you know straight away if you are all attracted x

We found it hard work meeting through Fab with couples questioning our rules and some not listening. Pretty selfish really. I do think we preferred meeting couples in clubs.

Parties could be a nice idea after lockdown to get to know more people.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We have found it hard meeting couples through Fab. We have met some but a lot of work goes into it. It's hard to find the mutual attraction and people who want the same thing.

We do spend a while messaging to get to know them and always have a social first.

We only had our first club visit just before lockdown but we do think this will be a good way to meet more couples in the future as you know straight away if you are all attracted x

We found it hard work meeting through Fab with couples questioning our rules and some not listening. Pretty selfish really. I do think we preferred meeting couples in clubs.

Parties could be a nice idea after lockdown to get to know more people. "

We've never been to a party but it's on our list of things to do once we can get back to normal x

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