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By *loryholeNW OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

This is a question for all but am mainly interested in the views of str8 guys.

I have a private gloryhole in my home, totally anonymous floor to ceiling so anyone who comes here has no face to face and, in turn, has no idea who is sucking them. We all know how a glory hole works.

I am a TV/CD and i love to dress fem, in slutty undies this side of the hole and suck away. However, i also have a male friend, non CD etc who sucks through the hole sometimes.

When str8 guys contact for a BJ, very often they will ask if its the guy or me and will insist they only come when the TV is here.

My question is WHY is it so important to str8 guys that when they r being sucked off, despite them not actually seeing us that it is a TV doing the blowing and NOT the male. There must be some rationale for this.

Im not complaining but have never asked this question directly so i am very keen to hear from you guys. And if anyone else has similar experiences. I know this works in a similar way without the hole whereby the str8 guy will only take a bj if i am dressed in TV gear.

Thanks all, i know a little long winded but appreciate the replies. Feel free to message me direct if u prefer to remain discreet and not answer via the forum. Im very keen to know THANX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality "

got me confused aswell

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I reckon with most blokes (and a fair few women) that 90% of horniness is not what's being done, but who is doing it. Although a mouth is a mouth, if the guy thinks that there might be a chance that the mouth doing the sucking is another guy, they won't be turned on. In which case its probably best do give them what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality "

Totally agree - your either srt8 / bi or Gay ; make your mind up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

on the general point about BJ's per say; i mentioned elsewhere that i find it very hard for a women to give my a really god BJ and even rarer for one to actually make me cum;

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

missed end bit off lol .....

But a man who sucks me can ...isnt that a bit odd ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon with most blokes (and a fair few women) that 90% of horniness is not what's being done, but who is doing it. Although a mouth is a mouth, if the guy thinks that there might be a chance that the mouth doing the sucking is another guy, they won't be turned on. In which case its probably best do give them what they want."

Too right the mind is a huge part of satisfaction or else most guys would get a machine to bring them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"missed end bit off lol .....

But a man who sucks me can ...isnt that a bit odd ?"

No, not really.

I've found most women are crap & disinterested, while many men are keen, but just crap at it (usually to fast/rough). Some men, however, are both good & keen, (probably the odd woman too, though I've not met one yet!).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality "

Whats confusing? When you close your eyes, it can be anyone you want it to be! Have you never had sex & imagined you were having it with someone else, even if a different female? Do you think of wanking, when you're wanking? You're playing with a guys cock, yer big poof! lol

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

If you are truely straight (like me) then you wouldnt want or let another guy suck you off whether dressed as a woman or not lol anyone that knowingly does and says they are not bi or curious is in denial imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to watch who's sucking me, and a femmine face helps..I know many TV's that look attractive(yes and some would look better than some women lol)...but I like playing with pussy!-and if its not there , its something else isnt it?(I'll play with my own cock and be happy just with that lol)

and again I've been asked whats the difference on doing anal with a man as opposed to a woman, whats the difference?...the difference is what I want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality

Totally agree - your either srt8 / bi or Gay ; make your mind up lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll never know why a straight guy wants to be sucked of by another guy in the first place, be it a TV or not, it's still a man sucking off another man.

I think many are just confused about their sexuality "

straight men dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread not simply another hint that "there is no such thing as a straight guy". It seems to be a song regularly sung by bisexual men who, it seems are constantly having sex with hoards of guys that claim to be straight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are totally sure you are straight - and will always remain that way - whether it's a cd a tv or a builder it ain't gonna work - end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we should put things into perspective to e honest, there is room for experimentation...without it adding to the sexuality label.It doesnt actually make u bi-cur if uve given something a try.....

I'd sa if the same sex turn u on then ur bi/bi-curious...but not if u have done one thing just to try, and decided u dont think its ur thing

*thats me

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

If your experimenting or thinking of experimenting with same sex activities then surely you would come under "curious" its not exactly rocket science lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your experimenting or thinking of experimenting with same sex activities then surely you would come under "curious" its not exactly rocket science lol "

yes bunk lol...but u know what i meant.

there i s a reason many hate straight guys who pretend to be bi -as its known some men are quite happy just to do what it takes to get any form of action

if a lesbian fucked a guy for the sake of trying it...would that then make her bisexual...cos shes had cock once?

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

No that would make her curious as it works both ways from straight to gay and vice versa,if she enjoyed it and wanted to continue enjoying both sexes then she would be bisexual

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

All just my own opinion mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just see it differently, I see the want and actions as separate issues...if someones having thoughts about the same sex, sexual ones..that shows a curiosity, if some one just decides to go with the flow during some group activity thats just experimenting.

our sexuality is in the mind....I think its sometimes a bit separate from what actions we do. Of course if they keep doing the same types of same sex sexual behaviours then indeed they might as well take the bi-sexual label (and be proud of it)

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

This subject could go on forever with everyone having dif opinions ....everyone will be right and everyone will be wrong thats what I love about the forums lol

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

This is exactly what would make me hesitate before putting my cock in a gloryhole. I'd need to know there was a female on the other side. It makes a big difference to me.

On the " all men are really bi " theme, I've got a meet request for today or I suppose tomorrow as well, looking for ladies or couples and the only answer I have got is from a guy? I replied politely saying he wasn't what I was looking for, he replied ' all men are bi'

??????

I wasn't expecting an avalanche but why on earth would a bi guy come to that conclusion?

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast


" why on earth would a bi guy come to that conclusion?

"

wishful thinking me thinks lol its all just a ploy to try and get all us truely STRAIGHT men to question our sexuality ...not happening here i'm straight and i'm proud

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is exactly what would make me hesitate before putting my cock in a gloryhole. I'd need to know there was a female on the other side. It makes a big difference to me.

On the " all men are really bi " theme, I've got a meet request for today or I suppose tomorrow as well, looking for ladies or couples and the only answer I have got is from a guy? I replied politely saying he wasn't what I was looking for, he replied ' all men are bi'

??????

I wasn't expecting an avalanche but why on earth would a bi guy come to that conclusion?

"

No different from the men that think all the women on here are slappers and must reply to their messages to meet...now!

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"This is exactly what would make me hesitate before putting my cock in a gloryhole. I'd need to know there was a female on the other side. It makes a big difference to me.

On the " all men are really bi " theme, I've got a meet request for today or I suppose tomorrow as well, looking for ladies or couples and the only answer I have got is from a guy? I replied politely saying he wasn't what I was looking for, he replied ' all men are bi'

??????

I wasn't expecting an avalanche but why on earth would a bi guy come to that conclusion?

No different from the men that think all the women on here are slappers and must reply to their messages to meet...now! "

No I guess your right, let them carry on makes the rest of us look good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just see it differently, I see the want and actions as separate issues...if someones having thoughts about the same sex, sexual ones..that shows a curiosity, if some one just decides to go with the flow during some group activity thats just experimenting.

our sexuality is in the mind....I think its sometimes a bit separate from what actions we do. Of course if they keep doing the same types of same sex sexual behaviours then indeed they might as well take the bi-sexual label (and be proud of it)

"

We state bi on our profile but neither of us consider ourselfs bi just sick of bi cpl or singles having at go or wont meet us because we havnt come out! neither one of us fancies the same sex! neither one of us fantasies about the same sex, but neither of us care who,s hand, mouths or cocks,pussy are where!!!

so we say try sexual or just damn greedy with very open minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back on topic (rare I know!)...

This is the enigma that both puts me off gloryholes and yet I am still fascinated by them and watch GH porn all the time!

I would need to know that the person on the other side was a female (not a TV/CD or man) before sticking my cock through the hole. And yet, the whole point is that GH are meant to be anonymous! And if I know who is the other side, then why have the wall? We might as well play in full view!

So I most likely will never play GH unless I pre-arrange and know she's on the other side... So what's the point?!? Lol

Like I said, a massive enigma!

(And I'm also one of these straight men who according to bi-men on here is not being true to myself... But that's another topic)

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By *enguy30Man
over a year ago

Wakefield


"on the general point about BJ's per say; i mentioned elsewhere that i find it very hard for a women to give my a really god BJ and even rarer for one to actually make me cum; "
I'm the same, apart from my gf, in 3 years of swinging, only about 5 women have made me cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a question for all but am mainly interested in the views of str8 guys. "

Sorry you have been misled. Any guy arranging for a guy to suck his cock is bi-something.... Those most in denial are probably the ones who want you dressed up. Stick to real bi men that can at least be honest with you.

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