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"i have been seeing this alot over the last few weeks i send a simple none rude message normally with what i like about they profile then asking " if i would be the type of guy that your looking to get to know or meet" someu dont reply but other reply with a no your not thanks any how or sorry no but good luck and when i try to reply saying thanks for replying and good luck i find that i have been block so why do so many seem to do this lately it wasn't like this when i fist found came on fab" It could be simply to avoid repeat messages...a lot of guys tend to forget who they have messages,and contact again and again even when they have had a polite thanks but not interested message.I had a guy message me every 2 to 3 weeks with the exact message,each time me replying sorry not interested..after a few months just responded with no offence but so as not to waste either of our times anymore I am just going to block you.so don't take it personally...it could just be people helping you to not message them again inadvertently if thatakes sense... | |||
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"Still sort of newish to FS and im starting to understand the simplicity of people deleating and blocking; on one hand its easy to see why its done as the single men far outway the couples/fems on here so using it is an easy cope out" its not an easy cope out at all when you get the same message of guys for months on end it gets anoying having to repeat yourself by saying no all the time so its best to block but we do clear the block list now and then and have met guys who we have blocked in the past because we wernt ready to meet them at the time we blocked them and single guys do block couples aswell | |||
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"The best ones are that block you when you've never messaged them in the first place. I often find this when reading through threads I often click on someones profile to see who they are out of interest and find they have blocked me because I've probably clicked their profile in the past and I've come up on the who's looked at me list and been blocked from that. I wouldn't mind but most of them I wouldn't want to message in the first place, never mind fuck'em " haha ive had that too, i can only think they are so in awe of my posts that they cannot compete | |||
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"The best ones are that block you when you've never messaged them in the first place. I often find this when reading through threads I often click on someones profile to see who they are out of interest and find they have blocked me because I've probably clicked their profile in the past and I've come up on the who's looked at me list and been blocked from that. I wouldn't mind but most of them I wouldn't want to message in the first place, never mind fuck'em " Couples,tvs, women and men under 45 or over 60 can't message me as that's how I've set my filters. The site provides me with the tools to limit the people who contact me who I have absolutely no interest in. If some people are to arrogant or ignorant to accept that, it's working fine then as they're not who I want to meet either! | |||
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"The best ones are that block you when you've never messaged them in the first place. I often find this when reading through threads I often click on someones profile to see who they are out of interest and find they have blocked me because I've probably clicked their profile in the past and I've come up on the who's looked at me list and been blocked from that. I wouldn't mind but most of them I wouldn't want to message in the first place, never mind fuck'em haha ive had that too, i can only think they are so in awe of my posts that they cannot compete" I have blocked a few people who have never messaged me - usually people who I would normally be interested in and might possibly have sent them a message but I may have seen something I dont like on their status updates that makes them a no-no for me. I cant be bothered writing a private note against their profile reminding me why I am not interested and so a block is much quicker.... | |||
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"I dont have one person now in block ... as i know thay can get other profiles and still look and mail ... so i see no point so i have others ways i deal with it . " we did a count on our block list a while back as we were bored lol and found 11 of the profiles that were blocked all belonged to the same single guy and 3 of them were couples profiles | |||
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"The best ones are that block you when you've never messaged them in the first place. I often find this when reading through threads I often click on someones profile to see who they are out of interest and find they have blocked me because I've probably clicked their profile in the past and I've come up on the who's looked at me list and been blocked from that. I wouldn't mind but most of them I wouldn't want to message in the first place, never mind fuck'em haha ive had that too, i can only think they are so in awe of my posts that they cannot compete I have blocked a few people who have never messaged me - usually people who I would normally be interested in and might possibly have sent them a message but I may have seen something I dont like on their status updates that makes them a no-no for me. I cant be bothered writing a private note against their profile reminding me why I am not interested and so a block is much quicker...." Jez ive been using the private note thingy,its bloody hilarious when up pops a profile with the little blue box and you go in and read what you have put.......you gotta start using it,its fabulous | |||
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"I dont have one person now in block ... as i know thay can get other profiles and still look and mail ... so i see no point so i have others ways i deal with it . we did a count on our block list a while back as we were bored lol and found 11 of the profiles that were blocked all belonged to the same single guy and 3 of them were couples profiles" yes and alot do this .... people think block sorts it , Well at times it dont .. thay just find other ways to get to you here.xx | |||
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" I cant be bothered writing a private note against their profile reminding me why I am not interested and so a block is much quicker.... Jez ive been using the private note thingy,its bloody hilarious when up pops a profile with the little blue box and you go in and read what you have put.......you gotta start using it,its fabulous " I do use it for things like 'Seen his face pic - must shag at earliest opportunity...' but sometimes the block button is just easier | |||
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" I cant be bothered writing a private note against their profile reminding me why I am not interested and so a block is much quicker.... Jez ive been using the private note thingy,its bloody hilarious when up pops a profile with the little blue box and you go in and read what you have put.......you gotta start using it,its fabulous I do use it for things like 'Seen his face pic - must shag at earliest opportunity...' but sometimes the block button is just easier " Must add that I havent actually got that many on my block list though.... | |||
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"i have been seeing this alot over the last few weeks i send a simple none rude message normally with what i like about they profile then asking " if i would be the type of guy that your looking to get to know or meet" some dont reply but other reply with a no your not thanks any how or sorry no but good luck and when i try to reply saying thanks for replying and good luck i find that i have been block so why do so many seem to do this lately it wasn't like this when i fist found came on fab" as others have said, its just a way of protecting against repeat messages from the same person, nothing realy to be bothered about, just profile management techniques | |||
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"If you've received a no thanks why write again? It's to avoid hearing from people you're not interested in again why people block. I don't know why people waste time on those NOT interested in them instead of those that might be! " | |||
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"have just sent a nice message , 5mins ago . and all so was blocked , do not understand this iver.thats why i dont bother so much this days , " It's not an insult! Simply a site tool. | |||
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"I Understand why some ppl block others,the real sexy ones get 100s of messages so blocking n having filters reduces sifting thru unwanted messages plus not everyones polite when faced with rejection The ones that are interested won't block you. I've only blocked one person when she went nuts,I also thort itd keep my excellent verification but she still deleted it....there's nothing like a woman scorned lol" If you block someone their verification will go from your profile and yours to her will go too,she did'nt delete it | |||
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"Thanx for that HP so if I unblock her my verification will cum back?? Not that I'm too worries about it,but some won't chat or meet without verifications as there's lots of fakers on fs n they spoil it for us genuine ppl" If she has'nt counter blocked you then the veri will come back | |||
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"if a prison i messaged sent me a massage like i understand more at less that way i would know i havent say any thing to offend them " lmao - this has gotta be predictive text at work | |||
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"Thanx my sexy little oracle I unblocked her n it's back " Im sure the woman that wrote you an excellent verification is delighted about you telling people she was nuts | |||
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"if a prison i messaged sent me a massage like i understand more at less that way i would know i havent say any thing to offend them " ?????????? are you sending from a mobile? | |||
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"I dont have one person now in block ... as i know thay can get other profiles and still look and mail ... so i see no point so i have others ways i deal with it . we did a count on our block list a while back as we were bored lol and found 11 of the profiles that were blocked all belonged to the same single guy and 3 of them were couples profiles" fucking hell i had two for a while one as a single and one with fuck buddy but to have 11 different talk about a no life twat | |||
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"I have on rare occasions found myself wanting to message people who have me filtered out (usually because either I'm a single guy or because of my age) It's frustrating because on those occasions it's normally not because I want to meet but because I want to say hi after something they've said on the forums, but given some of the horror stories I've seen about stalkers or people sending out mass mails I can see why it's done though, so I just shrug it off. Besides, if they're the kind of person who will block me based on my age or single status and gender, they tend not to be the kind of person I'd enjoy having a conversation with, let alone sleeping with" You're not getting it are you? We are here for our own pleasures. Some of us don't want to be contacted by people we don't want to meet that's why the site has provided the tools. My daughter is having a Moulin Rouge themed hen weekend and someone mentioned they'd organised something similar with someone bigger than me. I wanted to contact her for details but she had women blocked. NEVER crossed my mind to get arsey or feel offended so I truly struggle to understand why others do. | |||
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"Thanx my sexy little oracle I unblocked her n it's back Im sure the woman that wrote you an excellent verification is delighted about you telling people she was nuts " I looked and thought the same! | |||
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"i have been seeing this alot over the last few weeks i send a simple none rude message normally with what i like about they profile then asking " if i would be the type of guy that your looking to get to know or meet" some dont reply but other reply with a no your not thanks any how or sorry no but good luck and when i try to reply saying thanks for replying and good luck i find that i have been block so why do so many seem to do this lately it wasn't like this when i fist found came on fab" saves you wasting yrs and their time anymore | |||
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"how did anybody find out the profiles belonged to same man??" i've never seen guys with mulit profiles other then my self when i had two but have seen couples with mulit ones which are the same in ever way just with a few different pics and then seen ppl i know to be fake start new profiles again and again | |||
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"You're not getting it are you?" Wow, someone's taking things a bit personally I obviously wasn't conveying myself very well, my point was that I *don't* get arsey about it, because I figure I probably wouldn't really have enjoyed talking to them anyway, so their filters saved us both the hassle | |||
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"how did anybody find out the profiles belonged to same man??" because the idiot used the same face pic for every profile | |||
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"i have been seeing this alot over the last few weeks i send a simple none rude message normally with what i like about they profile then asking " if i would be the type of guy that your looking to get to know or meet" some dont reply but other reply with a no your not thanks any how or sorry no but good luck and when i try to reply saying thanks for replying and good luck i find that i have been block so why do so many seem to do this lately it wasn't like this when i fist found came on fab" Because we can and do not need to explain or justify our actions. | |||
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"we have actually blocked you.think you messaged and nik wasnt keen and didnt like the name,implied you wanted bare back" Ditto | |||
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"yes i think i did my useder name dose let me down its one of those things you cant chance those so have to sick with it " You can change your user name. | |||
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"yes i think i did my useder name dose let me down its one of those things you cant chance those so have to sick with it You can change your user name." but can a leopard change its spots? | |||
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"i have been seeing this alot over the last few weeks i send a simple none rude message normally with what i like about they profile then asking " if i would be the type of guy that your looking to get to know or meet" some dont reply but other reply with a no your not thanks any how or sorry no but good luck and when i try to reply saying thanks for replying and good luck i find that i have been block so why do so many seem to do this lately it wasn't like this when i fist found came on fab" I cant be bothered, its that simple, maybe people take a dislike to your username, or your previous threads about bareback sex etc....maybe they just dont reply to people they are not interested in. I wouldnt worry or let it bother you, concentrate on the ones that do want to meet you, as they will reply wont they? | |||
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"its because mostr of the people on here are only into safe sex and your not. You wont be everyones cup of tea so just move on and get over it. " Erm, really.... Did you hear that someplace or see it scribbled somewhere... Safe is sensible and necessary but with people you know / trust or if it's passion fuelled the go with it. Girls that block are a bit lame but the guys should know better and leave alone if not wanted. There are some freakin nutters on here though so it's understandable. | |||
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"its because mostr of the people on here are only into safe sex and your not. You wont be everyones cup of tea so just move on and get over it. Erm, really.... Did you hear that someplace or see it scribbled somewhere..." the problem is quite a few profiles state safe sex, but when you start messaging or even when you meet they come up with excuses as to why they cannot use condoms | |||
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