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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble

Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

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By *oxtonMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Yorkshire

I guess most guys maybe scared to admit their sexuality even though they have meets from tv/ts and fab lots of photos.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"I guess most guys maybe scared to admit their sexuality even though they have meets from tv/ts and fab lots of photos. "

Seems that way but even tvs on their veris they still insist they are straight thats what i cant get my head round

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Its one of fabs biggest mysteries

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By *oxtonMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Yorkshire

Yeah that's true and I've viewed a few that state they are straight as well. I guess we will find out when more people add their comments too your post.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries"
lol so if i snog another woman but she is dressed like man i am also straight??

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Yeah that's true and I've viewed a few that state they are straight as well. I guess we will find out when more people add their comments too your post."

Think my post as scared men away from having an opinion. To me a real man can be open about his sexuality

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries lol so if i snog another woman but she is dressed like man i am also straight?? "

Lol i dont know why you are asking, im not disagreeing here

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Lots of men will consider themselves straight even if they enjoy sucking cock, as they dont want a relationship with a man, others will question why is there a need for labels. If you go by the dictionary though if they choose to play with tvs then no they are not straight, ts i guess it depends how far they are in transition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve seen it so many times and yes it baffles me too.

I’m 110% bi and proud of it (translate as greedy slut that wants everything if you wish lol!)

I’ve had the conversation with some guys and the answer I get varies. With some it’s an internal acceptance of something that to them seems ‘wrong’. With others it’s a strange ‘I only get sucked by tv’s or fuck them. I don’t suck cock or get fucked so I’m not bi’. It’s clearly bollocks but in their heads it must be a distinct difference.

Oh, and the REAL reason so many say they are straight is they perceive that the majority of women and couples on fab are turned off by bi men and want macho straight men. Again, that’s bollocks, I actually think if fab did a poll the majority of swingers are attracted by a bi guy not disgusted.

But if you say straight and have veris from TV’s then ultimately your just stupid! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men who hide their sexuality have to face up to the concequences if their wife or partner ever find out. And i know exactly how that feels.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries"

Not just fab it's the same elsewhere.

Let's look at it from another angle;

" All men are homosexual, some turn straight.

It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an idea of racial purity"

Derek Jarman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries

Not just fab it's the same elsewhere.

Let's look at it from another angle;

" All men are homosexual, some turn straight.

It must be very odd to be a straight man because your sexuality is hopelessly defensive. It's like an idea of racial purity"

Derek Jarman."

Great quote... surely that applies to both men and women, not just men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s like liking Marmite but swearing bling that you don’t like marmite.

I really don’t like marmite but have no problem with marmite lovers.

T

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

At 1st I always thought I was straight

Then tvs gave me the best oral ever then I panicked because I enjoyed it because automatically sought shit I'm gay (no offense/)

But speaking to friends and people on fab it's fine to be bisexual which I have recently came out to my best friend as

Sometimes acceptence is the key

Sorry if I offended anyone have great day x

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"It’s like liking Marmite but swearing bling that you don’t like marmite.

I really don’t like marmite but have no problem with marmite lovers.

T"

Point well made

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"I’ve seen it so many times and yes it baffles me too.

I’m 110% bi and proud of it (translate as greedy slut that wants everything if you wish lol!)

I’ve had the conversation with some guys and the answer I get varies. With some it’s an internal acceptance of something that to them seems ‘wrong’. With others it’s a strange ‘I only get sucked by tv’s or fuck them. I don’t suck cock or get fucked so I’m not bi’. It’s clearly bollocks but in their heads it must be a distinct difference.

Oh, and the REAL reason so many say they are straight is they perceive that the majority of women and couples on fab are turned off by bi men and want macho straight men. Again, that’s bollocks, I actually think if fab did a poll the majority of swingers are attracted by a bi guy not disgusted.

But if you say straight and have veris from TV’s then ultimately your just stupid! Lol"
. i cant have anything but respect for people that are openly proud of their sexuality, its sad that anyone feels the need to hide it, or to decieve others.

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By *ensual -lover69Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

most TV's are more attractive than quite a few of the women on here

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"At 1st I always thought I was straight

Then tvs gave me the best oral ever then I panicked because I enjoyed it because automatically sought shit I'm gay (no offense/)

But speaking to friends and people on fab it's fine to be bisexual which I have recently came out to my best friend as

Sometimes acceptence is the key

Sorry if I offended anyone have great day x"

Bi and gay is totaly differant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen it so many times and yes it baffles me too.

I’m 110% bi and proud of it (translate as greedy slut that wants everything if you wish lol!)

I’ve had the conversation with some guys and the answer I get varies. With some it’s an internal acceptance of something that to them seems ‘wrong’. With others it’s a strange ‘I only get sucked by tv’s or fuck them. I don’t suck cock or get fucked so I’m not bi’. It’s clearly bollocks but in their heads it must be a distinct difference.

Oh, and the REAL reason so many say they are straight is they perceive that the majority of women and couples on fab are turned off by bi men and want macho straight men. Again, that’s bollocks, I actually think if fab did a poll the majority of swingers are attracted by a bi guy not disgusted.

But if you say straight and have veris from TV’s then ultimately your just stupid! Lol"

Exactly this. They have a strong preference for women and are afraid to be shunned when the odds are already against them on here.

I've got myself as bi-curious as I've played a bit with a few guys but haven't gone all the way with one. I've stated this in my profile and while I'm sure it has made me lose some interest it's better than having to lie in my opinion especially when I'm classed in the younger category

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries lol so if i snog another woman but she is dressed like man i am also straight?? "

Yes that's fab straight didn't you know haha x

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I guess if they're turned on by someone is outwardly feminine then they reason that they must be straight

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By *iscreteBiBuilderMan
over a year ago

Bury

These guys are hopelessly confused or in self-denial. Many are self-hating too, ironically they can be some of the most homophobic men I come across, even on Grindr (gay app) the TV hunters throw their weight around shouting about men offensively and stating how straight they are yet want....men in wigs. Hypocritical and an affront to the gay and bi men with balls that accept what they are.

Would you seriously still agree a vegan was vegan as they said that slab of meat they ate covered in a lovely vegetable coating was what they wanted, they don’t eat meat and not attracted to meat and don’t identify as a meat eater? Same concept here. Face up to reality boys we know you are watching this

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"I guess most guys maybe scared to admit their sexuality even though they have meets from tv/ts and fab lots of photos.

Seems that way but even tvs on their veris they still insist they are straight thats what i cant get my head round "

Lol it's all fucked up. Simple life is always better in my eyes. People are just selfish want their cake and eat it too.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Another interesting post about I guys, for single truly single guys they tend to be more honest with there sexuality while being single, once hooked up they seem to feel they have to hide it for a reason that they haven't Ben honest with there new partner and don't wish to expose thereselves to rejection, I get plenty of straight mainly married guys who are single contact me, really what they want is some cock play and go, soon find out there married and no she doesn't know! Tvs are proberly an in between track thing oh looks like a women, easier to get there cock sucked etc, just a thought oh that was profound for Saturday morning lol,

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By *omplexchiqueTV/TS
over a year ago

Sale


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Few, if any, men on here engage emotionally. So their default is ‘conquest and go’. For a man having sex with a TV or even another man is limited to the sex act itself and therefore to maintain their options of either meeting a genetic woman or being at ease in whatever community they occupy outside fab they declare themselves straight. It’s a foil behaviour pattern

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Few, if any, men on here engage emotionally. So their default is ‘conquest and go’. For a man having sex with a TV or even another man is limited to the sex act itself and therefore to maintain their options of either meeting a genetic woman or being at ease in whatever community they occupy outside fab they declare themselves straight. It’s a foil behaviour pattern "

Well put, far better than I posted but pretty much the same thought process, forgive my grammar as its Saturday morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s like liking Marmite but swearing bling that you don’t like marmite.

I really don’t like marmite but have no problem with marmite lovers.

T

Point well made"

Ha ha thanks that’s a first for me!!!!!

T

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it"

Hi mate, that is true to a degree, people trying to conform as to what they perceive as correct, far easier to be open especially on here, my mottos always been each to there own, don't judge and everyone's a person, doesn't mean you have to like everyone, I've noticed even on here people who tend to critise others sexuality are not really as open minded as they say or less experienced than they portray

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

most TV's are more attractive than quite a few of the women on here

"
without a doubt yes, but it still doesn't make the guy straight if he's shagging them

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I identify as a bi man but do have sex with a lot of "straight men" mainly because they are more interested in meeting for sex than straight or bi women

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it"

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

Hi mate, that is true to a degree, people trying to conform as to what they perceive as correct, far easier to be open especially on here, my mottos always been each to there own, don't judge and everyone's a person, doesn't mean you have to like everyone, I've noticed even on here people who tend to critise others sexuality are not really as open minded as they say or less experienced than they portray "

I also think theres more pressure on men to conform. If you have ever worked in a male dominated environment you learn very quickly not to deviate from the 'norm'

It's a shame how guys are so quick to stigmatize other guys. We might live longer if we were a bit nicer to each other

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

"

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

I don’t think fabbing a TV’s pic as a man makes any difference to what sexuality you are

There are some stunning TV’s who take stunning pics so credit where credit is due

As for having straight as their sexual orientation in here it is mainly because a lot of women won’t meet bi / bi curious guys for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I identify as a bi man but do have sex with a lot of "straight men" mainly because they are more interested in meeting for sex than straight or bi women "

But this is the point Alan because if you have sex with a straight man he will get his bi card in the post because he is no longer straight due to partaking in sex with you.

Or if a vampire bites a straight man he is still straight but becomes a vampire due to being bitten by a fully paid up vampire.

T

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

I don’t think fabbing a TV’s pic as a man makes any difference to what sexuality you are

There are some stunning TV’s who take stunning pics so credit where credit is due

As for having straight as their sexual orientation in here it is mainly because a lot of women won’t meet bi / bi curious guys for some reason

"

I agree with fabbing pics, we can all appreciate a good pic of anyone no matter the gender as it has nothing to do with showing your sexuality.

There are some stunning people full stop so if you like the pics then fab away, liking a pic means you like the pic and has nothing to do with your sexuality.

Youd think that might be the case that it puts women off if you say you're bi but in my experience it's anything but.

You'd think even more would be put off by a man in womens clothes yet I find that's not the case either.

Of course some will choose not to meet or engage with you but then if you are a guy with blonde hair and a woman wants to meet a guy with black hair then she wouldn't pick you either.

Not everyone is going to like you for some reason so why not be honest about who you are and find those who will like you for being you.

You might even get to meet bi couples as well and imagine how much fun that is.....saying you're straight means that wont happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

"

And this post has taken the nail and hit it right on the head with a fuck off big hammer of truth.

Well done Sophie

T

Sorry if I spelt your name wrong but I’m thick!!!

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

I don’t think fabbing a TV’s pic as a man makes any difference to what sexuality you are

There are some stunning TV’s who take stunning pics so credit where credit is due

As for having straight as their sexual orientation in here it is mainly because a lot of women won’t meet bi / bi curious guys for some reason

"

That is very true, for me if the person judges you just because your open to other things then that's not the person for you, however I get us guys are less emotionaly attached when it comes to just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because even on here bisexual men get alot of stick, so they lie, hoping it ups their chances getting laid by a female

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Some pretty hot bi men on fab, I'm damn sure that if I was a guy I'd be bi and proud

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"Because even on here bisexual men get alot of stick, so they lie, hoping it ups their chances getting laid by a female "

Yes Ofcourse there's that factor and when there horny and can't get laid they turn fab straight haha

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"I identify as a bi man but do have sex with a lot of "straight men" mainly because they are more interested in meeting for sex than straight or bi women

But this is the point Alan because if you have sex with a straight man he will get his bi card in the post because he is no longer straight due to partaking in sex with you.

Or if a vampire bites a straight man he is still straight but becomes a vampire due to being bitten by a fully paid up vampire.

T"

I don't bite people on the neck or sleep in a coffin , no one is forced to meet

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By *corpio999Man
over a year ago

anerly

Agreed, guys be honest.

I'm no and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

There seems to be a lot of judgement from people on here regarding gay men and bi men, which is odd as gay women and bi women don’t have the same

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

There seems to be a lot of judgement from people on here regarding gay men and bi men, which is odd as gay women and bi women don’t have the same

"

It's not very often that gay and bi men get judged on here, it's the ones who are hiding the fact they are bi claiming to be straight yet post or message that they want to suck dick or get fucked up the butt.

It's the honesty side of it that sucks, not that they're bi as that doesnt stop them from getting meets with women or couples as much as they seem to think it will.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

"

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

There seems to be a lot of judgement from people on here regarding gay men and bi men, which is odd as gay women and bi women don’t have the same

It's not very often that gay and bi men get judged on here, it's the ones who are hiding the fact they are bi claiming to be straight yet post or message that they want to suck dick or get fucked up the butt.

It's the honesty side of it that sucks, not that they're bi as that doesnt stop them from getting meets with women or couples as much as they seem to think it will."

Yes but people aren't honest about their sexuality, either with others or themselves. This is not exactly breaking news

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

"

Ooooh good idea, I'll get on sorting one of those out today while I hide from the sun

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

Ooooh good idea, I'll get on sorting one of those out today while I hide from the sun "

And don't forget to make them to sign it because then it means they're definitely telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A new "label" is needed if bisexual doesn't cut it. Maybe trysexual is more appropriate?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

Ooooh good idea, I'll get on sorting one of those out today while I hide from the sun

And don't forget to make them to sign it because then it means they're definitely telling the truth"

I'll fill one in for you, I've got nowt to hide.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

If they can't be truthful with themselves then they aren't going to be truthful with you.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

Ooooh good idea, I'll get on sorting one of those out today while I hide from the sun

And don't forget to make them to sign it because then it means they're definitely telling the truth

I'll fill one in for you, I've got nowt to hide."

Ahh but how would we know?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"To be fair, the way that mens sexuality is scrutinised on here you can kind of understand why they hide it

There is a very good reason that so many men's sexuality is scrutinised on here, because they lie about it and everyone knows they're lying.

If they were truthful about it then what would there be to scrutinise?

Seriously, who wants to get involved with someone who is lying straight off the bat as this means they're happy to hide behind a bare faced lie so what else are they lying about....no I dont have an STD, of course I'm single, no I wont try to suck hubby's cock on the sly, yes of course I will turn up when I say I will and not stand you up.

Be honest for fucks sake, you will probably get laid more often and more than likely you wont get judged badly for being bi either.

And that's all good and well in principle but unless you're going to make everyone you meet fill out a questionnaire of their entire sexual history how would you ever know what their true sexuality is

Ooooh good idea, I'll get on sorting one of those out today while I hide from the sun

And don't forget to make them to sign it because then it means they're definitely telling the truth

I'll fill one in for you, I've got nowt to hide."

Me too, should I do it in triplicate

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Whenever lots of men get together, without women,such as the military/ prison etc there will be sexual behaviour involved,but I dont think this determines sexual identity.. Perhaps we should have more options, such as predominantly straight,except in emergencys lol.

I am in the camp that is not bothered one way or the other...but it really does fire lots of you up.

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

tenerife

We always laugh at this..we first look if a guy is straight..not bi ...then look at what he is looking for..so many are looking for women couples and tvs.well that means they are bi

.why cant they just put bi on their profiles.? Lastly they have say 10 verifications they show say 8 from couples or ladies ..but have hidden the 2 from tvs ..who are they trying to fool ?

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By *ptimus758Man
over a year ago

brentwood

I think with so many gender identities that are around these days... Is being bi even a thing anymore, I love trans woman but don't find guys who dress as a woman appealing at all and I don't find men attractive either, but I do like the idea of sucking a cock and being fucked. But would much rather do this with a nice slim slender attractive trans woman then a bloke dressed in his wife's Sunday dress, trans woman are a huge turn on, so yeah I guess I'm bi and have no problem saying I'm bi, but men just don't turn me on like a trans woman....... Did I go a little off topic there lol

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex


"I think with so many gender identities that are around these days... Is being bi even a thing anymore, I love trans woman but don't find guys who dress as a woman appealing at all and I don't find men attractive either, but I do like the idea of sucking a cock and being fucked. But would much rather do this with a nice slim slender attractive trans woman then a bloke dressed in his wife's Sunday dress, trans woman are a huge turn on, so yeah I guess I'm bi and have no problem saying I'm bi, but men just don't turn me on like a trans woman....... Did I go a little off topic there lol "

Not at all, I think that actually answers the question posted very well indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see tv/ts in hot pics it makes me think that there are more bisexual people than I would of ever imagined and to be honest I think I would have to be gay not to feel attracted to some of then, but that is as far as it will go for me in reality.

What I don't get are the bisexual men who are "only looking for straight men" one messaged me and told me that he only as sex with straight men

Sounds like they're only fooling themselves. Surely if two men are fucking each other they are both bi or gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I identify as a bi man but do have sex with a lot of "straight men" mainly because they are more interested in meeting for sex than straight or bi women

But this is the point Alan because if you have sex with a straight man he will get his bi card in the post because he is no longer straight due to partaking in sex with you.

Or if a vampire bites a straight man he is still straight but becomes a vampire due to being bitten by a fully paid up vampire.

T

I don't bite people on the neck or sleep in a coffin , no one is forced to meet "

I know it was merely bad humor executed badly!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Maybe its not a struggle with their sexuality but an attraction, curiosity or desire to sample something different. Maybe we are all at least bi-curious? It's all the fault of those damn Tv's confusing those poor straight men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there not bi sexual, but just think TVs fit into dresses better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because even on here bisexual men get alot of stick, so they lie, hoping it ups their chances getting laid by a female "

Do they though? Ive not had any for being Bi in the three years I've been here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe there not bi sexual, but just think TVs fit into dresses better "

But you do know that under that pretty fitted dress lurks a cock right?????

T

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Maybe there not bi sexual, but just think TVs fit into dresses better "

Trust me, TV's do not fit dresses better than a woman does

I look like I've got a tiny saggy arse compared to a womans curves

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By *9089Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Its one of fabs biggest mysteries lol so if i snog another woman but she is dressed like man i am also straight?? "

The mind boggles

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"When I see tv/ts in hot pics it makes me think that there are more bisexual people than I would of ever imagined and to be honest I think I would have to be gay not to feel attracted to some of then, but that is as far as it will go for me in reality.

What I don't get are the bisexual men who are "only looking for straight men" one messaged me and told me that he only as sex with straight men

Sounds like they're only fooling themselves. Surely if two men are fucking each other they are both bi or gay. "

I think fantasy can play a huge part in sex..Many gay/bi men love the idea of having a 'str8 bloke'.Deep down most realise what it is..I have a gay friend who identifies as straight cos he gets more views and more cock by doing so..

It is not straightforward! npi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of men contact me on this profile.

Loads are down as straight but soon as we start chatting its obvious that they are bisexual.

I am straight but it doesn't mean I wont chat to bisexual or gay men.

It would be better if men were more open about their sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its because if you are bi ie like cock and pussy....its almost impossible to get pussy.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Its because if you are bi ie like cock and pussy....its almost impossible to get pussy. "

Oh jesus it's so not....even in a bloody dress it happens so being bi is hardly a cock block.

Its down to the guy, how he looks, how he behaves and if whoever it may be likes him or not and not that he is bi.

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By *ilk and all things niceTV/TS
over a year ago

secret bunker

Most men say they are straight to women because they think they have a better chance with the woman that way.. they think liking TVs will put women off !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its because if you are bi ie like cock and pussy....its almost impossible to get pussy. "

Who told you that?!

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Most men say they are straight to women because they think they have a better chance with the woman that way.. they think liking TVs will put women off ! "

...and it is true, it will put some women off..Not just TV's but gay and bi also.I spoke to a woman recently who said that once a guy had told her he had been with another man, it was an instant turn off..She would rather not have known.

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I am bisexual as it says on my profile I am bi-curious because I have topped men & TV’s but only had toys used on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men say they are straight to women because they think they have a better chance with the woman that way.. they think liking TVs will put women off ! "

But then alternatively a hell of a lot of women find it an immense turn on...

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Can’t believe the amount of “straight “single guys who want meet with us. The excuses are ridiculous when we ask why “ straight “on profile. But guess that’s there choice ..but it’s our choice not to play in way we want not changing for anyone ...so why do they send abusive messages afterwards when we say no. ????

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Because even on here bisexual men get alot of stick, so they lie, hoping it ups their chances getting laid by a female

Do they though? Ive not had any for being Bi in the three years I've been here..."

Good to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking love transvestites and cross dressing actually. I genuinely think that as a phenomena transvestitism throws such a massive spanner in the works of overly macho bullshit that it should get an eight pm national clap...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Its because if you are bi ie like cock and pussy....its almost impossible to get pussy. "
lots of bi men on here don't seem to be struggling to get pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its because if you are bi ie like cock and pussy....its almost impossible to get pussy. lots of bi men on here don't seem to be struggling to get pussy"

All the women I'm friendly with on here (and out there) find guy on guy hot as fuck actually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a older women to play with. That’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *igchest40ddWoman
over a year ago

Mansfield

I've had a 2 sum with 2 bi guys

.. Or not a problem with guys if they are bisexual... My problem is if you go on there page says straight but all verified are of men.. It then puts me of because if can't be honest about it on a site like this when verifications say very different. What else they not say.... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just want a older women to play with. That’s it "

Have you tried the nursing home?

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Iv been fucked by many straight men, when they are in me I often think "Yep! As gay as a Christmas tree" Xx

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm going to say something controversial. I'm bisexual well more pan and if I as a woman play with a TV or ts. I file it in my head as girlie sex not guy sex.

A ts is not a man dressed up it's someone transitioning who presents female.

A TV it depends on how they identify and how I play with them I guess.

A CD is definitley classes as guy sex in my internal filing system...hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most men say they are straight to women because they think they have a better chance with the woman that way.. they think liking TVs will put women off ! "

This is the issue! Everyones trying to be all things to all people! Just be you, there are enough types out there to fulfill everyone!

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich


"I'm going to say something controversial. I'm bisexual well more pan and if I as a woman play with a TV or ts. I file it in my head as girlie sex not guy sex.

A ts is not a man dressed up it's someone transitioning who presents female.

A TV it depends on how they identify and how I play with them I guess.

A CD is definitley classes as guy sex in my internal filing system...hmmm"

I totally agree with you, I put a lot of effort into doing this transvestite thing.

The women I have played with all say the same, that with a TV they get a cock to play with but a very soft, sensual and gentle lover.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

Crikey...another thread about why bisexual men pose as straight (I'm sorry OP, I'm not being a dick Xx).

To deviate slightly off the original thread topic I will also ask something seemingly controversial, even though deep down I don't intend any controversy: if it's not ok for bi men to pose as 'straight' and lie about who they are, why is it ok for the bi men of MF couples to pose as straight, when they are actually, very, very bisexual?

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"Crikey...another thread about why bisexual men pose as straight (I'm sorry OP, I'm not being a dick Xx).

To deviate slightly off the original thread topic I will also ask something seemingly controversial, even though deep down I don't intend any controversy: if it's not ok for bi men to pose as 'straight' and lie about who they are, why is it ok for the bi men of MF couples to pose as straight, when they are actually, very, very bisexual? "
we don’t. ...

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

I don’t think fabbing a TV’s pic as a man makes any difference to what sexuality you are

There are some stunning TV’s who take stunning pics so credit where credit is due

As for having straight as their sexual orientation in here it is mainly because a lot of women won’t meet bi / bi curious guys for some reason

I agree with fabbing pics, we can all appreciate a good pic of anyone no matter the gender as it has nothing to do with showing your sexuality.

There are some stunning people full stop so if you like the pics then fab away, liking a pic means you like the pic and has nothing to do with your sexuality.

Youd think that might be the case that it puts women off if you say you're bi but in my experience it's anything but.

You'd think even more would be put off by a man in womens clothes yet I find that's not the case either.

Of course some will choose not to meet or engage with you but then if you are a guy with blonde hair and a woman wants to meet a guy with black hair then she wouldn't pick you either.

Not everyone is going to like you for some reason so why not be honest about who you are and find those who will like you for being you.

You might even get to meet bi couples as well and imagine how much fun that is.....saying you're straight means that wont happen.

"

Yep never understood why women would be put off myself but only going on what bi guys have said to me about women on here

Far too many judgemental idiots

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Is it because they want to consider TV or TS as women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting thread so far.. I Spent to many years hiding from what I was and am.. the love of a understanding wonderful wife and soulmate brought out both of our inner selfs. But yes To get back to the main point of this thread Ive had all sorts of questions asked in real life and on here so my first question is to any guys is..why the straight on your profile. lets chat about this and the conversations either get very intresting or end abruptly..

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Crikey...another thread about why bisexual men pose as straight (I'm sorry OP, I'm not being a dick Xx).

To deviate slightly off the original thread topic I will also ask something seemingly controversial, even though deep down I don't intend any controversy: if it's not ok for bi men to pose as 'straight' and lie about who they are, why is it ok for the bi men of MF couples to pose as straight, when they are actually, very, very bisexual? we don’t. ... "

No you are not, but from my experiences, I have been contacted by MF couples who pose as straight male/bi female...probably for the same reasons that bi males pose as straight. People get criticised, probably very unfairly and very ignorantly, that if they are male and bi that they can't keep their hands off another man. That's my thought.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Most men say they are straight to women because they think they have a better chance with the woman that way.. they think liking TVs will put women off ! "
..

True but do they think women don't look at verification? Personally I prefer the man to put bi curious or sexual if they had sexual encounters with cocks. I'm absolutely fine with men who been with other men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are male and having sex with a man you are not straight!

Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly seems like the percentage of people who are not straight cos they sleep with tgirls etc is pretty HIGH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all the men on here classed themselves as straight, I’d be a a very lonely girl. It’s a pure sexual thing, you look good then they want you.

Oh and some do like my cock also x

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"If all the men on here classed themselves as straight, I’d be a a very lonely girl. It’s a pure sexual thing, you look good then they want you.

Oh and some do like my cock also x"

I don't flippin' blame them for liking your cock

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I'm going to say something controversial. I'm bisexual well more pan and if I as a woman play with a TV or ts. I file it in my head as girlie sex not guy sex.

A ts is not a man dressed up it's someone transitioning who presents female.

A TV it depends on how they identify and how I play with them I guess.

A CD is definitley classes as guy sex in my internal filing system...hmmm

I totally agree with you, I put a lot of effort into doing this transvestite thing.

The women I have played with all say the same, that with a TV they get a cock to play with but a very soft, sensual and gentle lover. "

Ha I can't say any of my sex is soft and sensual. I just see a girl in front of me so that's how it files in my head. Maybe just me.

It's definitley not because I'm hiding anything. I'm a woman and I enjoy guys and girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

most TV's are more attractive than quite a few of the women .........exaactly the turn on imo what r u serious ? if a guy can absolute smash it and make themselves look sexy af if ya turned on by some feminine hotness r u gay?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Crikey...another thread about why bisexual men pose as straight (I'm sorry OP, I'm not being a dick Xx).

To deviate slightly off the original thread topic I will also ask something seemingly controversial, even though deep down I don't intend any controversy: if it's not ok for bi men to pose as 'straight' and lie about who they are, why is it ok for the bi men of MF couples to pose as straight, when they are actually, very, very bisexual? "

I wasnt aware anyone said that was ok

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Another forum that's bound to appeal to the trolls on here.

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

TS/TV can look like a woman. Penis is irrelevant. A hot looking woman is hot even if hes a dude!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"TS/TV can look like a woman. Penis is irrelevant. A hot looking woman is hot even if hes a dude!"

For a TS if she so chooses it could be called irrelevant as many don't wish for that part of them to have any input if they are pre-OP but for a TV like myself it matters greatly...I love my penis and use it whenever I can and many like me do.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"Crikey...another thread about why bisexual men pose as straight (I'm sorry OP, I'm not being a dick Xx).

To deviate slightly off the original thread topic I will also ask something seemingly controversial, even though deep down I don't intend any controversy: if it's not ok for bi men to pose as 'straight' and lie about who they are, why is it ok for the bi men of MF couples to pose as straight, when they are actually, very, very bisexual?

I wasnt aware anyone said that was ok"

Maybe not but if you read forum threads as well as profiles, the wording usually focuses on shunning single men who say "straight" but they are not...it doesn't focus on the secretly-bi buys of MF couples.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

most TV's are more attractive than quite a few of the women on here

"
ok so that makes you straight does it ? And by more atrractive do you really mean easier?? Just a thought

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By *unandlaughter69Couple
over a year ago

Boston


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

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Think you are straying from the thread . Knowbody is judging anyone i dont care if guys are bi sexual or not or judging tvs in anyway , some of them are amazing . Im merely asking why guys find it difficult to admit openly their sexuality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another forum that's bound to appeal to the trolls on here. "

Point the trolls out and report them because personally I think this thread is full of good posts discussing the issue but of course I may be wrong.

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

Think you are straying from the thread . Knowbody is judging anyone i dont care if guys are bi sexual or not or judging tvs in anyway , some of them are amazing . Im merely asking why guys find it difficult to admit openly their sexuality? "

Agreed. Its not a question of being judgemental, its more about just being honest. Did you know for instance that every time a bisexual man declares himself "fab straight" a fairy dies...

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Trolls persist on winding up people so whilst we all have different opinions I think it's important to recognise what's opinion and what's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess most guys maybe scared to admit their sexuality even though they have meets from tv/ts and fab lots of photos.

Seems that way but even tvs on their veris they still insist they are straight thats what i cant get my head round "

It's for several reasons.

Internalised homophobia

Toxic masculinity

Fear of rejection from cis women

It's never going to change whilst being bi or gay is still considered shameful by a large proportion of the population.

Being trans is even worse though. We are either despised or pitied, in equal proportions. Humans are fucking horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most “fab” straight men are too scared to admit there bi of gay , I’m gay most of my messages are from straight men asking for sex or a blow job ,

But if you sleep with a man in a dress you clearly are not straight

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I guess most guys maybe scared to admit their sexuality even though they have meets from tv/ts and fab lots of photos.

Seems that way but even tvs on their veris they still insist they are straight thats what i cant get my head round

It's for several reasons.

Internalised homophobia

Toxic masculinity

Fear of rejection from cis women

It's never going to change whilst being bi or gay is still considered shameful by a large proportion of the population.

Being trans is even worse though. We are either despised or pitied, in equal proportions. Humans are fucking horrible."

“Humans are fucking horrible”; sadly I will say, amen to that! I have lost track of the times I’ve read on a guy’s profile on fabguys “I don’t do men in women’s underwear, I want real men”. The amount of times I’ve wanted to email those people and say “ they ARE real men you f@cking tosseeeerrr”

Prejudice is not kind.

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

Jewel here (sissy cuck if the couple) before being in this dynamic I had a profile on here as a single guy, my profile said bi-curious as at the time I was unsure. And the amount of times that womens or couples profiles said they didn't want a bi guy was alot.

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By *unandlaughter69Couple
over a year ago

Boston


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

And I’m m

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

Think you are straying from the thread . Knowbody is judging anyone i dont care if guys are bi sexual or not or judging tvs in anyway , some of them are amazing . Im merely asking why guys find it difficult to admit openly their sexuality? "

And I’m merely giving my opinion, this is a forum right

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

And I’m m

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

Think you are straying from the thread . Knowbody is judging anyone i dont care if guys are bi sexual or not or judging tvs in anyway , some of them are amazing . Im merely asking why guys find it difficult to admit openly their sexuality?

And I’m merely giving my opinion, this is a forum right "

Yes but an opinion which as absoloutly nothing to do with the debate so if you want to discuss something else why not start your own thread ?

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By *onto222Man
over a year ago

South west wales

I am bi love women to be women and men to be men guys in underwear just don't to it for me. But have seen some amazing pics of some stunning TV but not my thing

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Gender and sexuality are more complex than some who want billions of unique people squashed in to 2 or 3 boxes would think.

Think outside of the box.

And, if someone tries something, you don't have to pigeonhole them for life. Perhaps some people are just a little more exploratory or imaginative than you've been.

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By *ouise HartleyTV/TS
over a year ago

the street of failed artists Liverpool

So many m/f couples with a bisexual fem and rarely a bisexual male, I get lots of messages from married men, go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Are all their verifications from meets or cams?

Sometimes that's missed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your thinking about it your bi curious

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By *eatwaveMan
over a year ago

Barnet

I think it is all down to the definition of what bi means. To me bi means you are attracted to a man and a woman.

I am not sexually attracted to a man, however a convincing TV/TS i am, almost like a 3rd species a female with a cock lol.

Strangley i have a bi friend who does not get the attraction of a TV/TS and would go for either a man or a woman.

As i am writing i dont even know what i have put as my sexuality but one reason i would not put Bi would be that it would encourage men to message me which i dont want.

Ps however i am kinky and could fall on some form of bi intrest but also dont feel bi as again i am not attracted to the look of men.

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By *eatwaveMan
over a year ago

Barnet

Just checked am down as bi-curious lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Well I’ve meet loads of T girls at clubs and some have given verifications, it’s nothing to do with being bi or confused, it’s to do with me being gay friendly and them always being polite and friendly, plus these lovelies never insist on my playing with them. Even if straight single guys have played with T girls it doesn’t mean anything more then going with the flow.

Let’s not be judgemental out there eh? Xxx

"

So like in Thailand, Tgirls are the third gender which means if a man enjoys being with pre or post op t girls, it doesn't make them have gay tendency? As from your comment, you classed Tgirls as being gay. am I not understanding this right? So if they're third gender then the 'straight' man isn't lying when he says he's straight? TBH I get so confused about this and prefer to believe T girls are just a third gender. i understand from a biological/scientific point of view, they are born as a man. So in that case, a straight man interested in T girl would be classed as bi. As a woman, I would like to know if my lovers been with Tgirls and enjoy cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most the messages I get on here are bi/tv asking to fuck/suck a straight man... Surely I wouldn't be straight if I said yes

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Most the messages I get on here are bi/tv asking to fuck/suck a straight man... Surely I wouldn't be straight if I said yes

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Rookie mistake. Lol

Haven't you realised yet that the word "straight" on Planet Fab has no universally shared interpretation?

"Straight" guys are having heaps of sex with other "straight" guys on fab.

Sometimes I think the word straight is only of value to bi/gay guys who understand that by claiming to be straight it makes them more appealing to other bi/gay guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their words not mine lol

I'm fairly new here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yeah that's true and I've viewed a few that state they are straight as well. I guess we will find out when more people add their comments too your post.

Think my post as scared men away from having an opinion. To me a real man can be open about his sexuality"

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

As a couple and unless we were at a party, we only play with bi guys, singly or in a couple. For years I (F) wondered what it would be like to suck cock. What an incredible discovery that was! It's the discrimination from bi women, who say straight only. Can anyone honestly tell me what the difference in a woman receiving anal and a man. Everyone has their choice and I respect that but it just seems like double standards. When I opened up to my partner that I was bi, she positively encouraged it. Win win for me!

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By *ictoriaathomeTV/TS
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Get so many messages from 'straight' guys, don't think the word means anything on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gender and sexuality are more complex than some who want billions of unique people squashed in to 2 or 3 boxes would think.

Think outside of the box.

And, if someone tries something, you don't have to pigeonhole them for life. Perhaps some people are just a little more exploratory or imaginative than you've been. "

Completely agree with this. Sexuality is a fluid concept, entirely dependent on circumstances, the other person (or people) and even psychological mood, hormone levels, amount of sunlight, length of lockdown...

Why force people on fab to tick a box? Let people describe themselves. Or would that make filtering out undesirables too difficult?

O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets me every time !!

I get more messages from " straight " men.

Get real and be real to yourself

Same thing goes for TV's who say they are straight

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By *orkiemanMan
over a year ago

Morley

If you are "straight" but wanting to try cock or meet a Tv/Ts, then you are bi curious!

Be proud of what you are and don't put "straight" on your profile just to get a female or couple!

Also why do some couples put "no bi males" do they think we are going to jump on the straight male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can happily say I’m 100% straight never been with a guy/tv and never will, I don’t judge you do what you want to do, but if a “straight” guy is happy to be sucked off by a tv then I’m sorry but he’s bi end of!

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"If you are "straight" but wanting to try cock or meet a Tv/Ts, then you are bi curious!

Be proud of what you are and don't put "straight" on your profile just to get a female or couple!

Also why do some couples put "no bi males" do they think we are going to jump on the straight male "

Could it be that people mention "No bi males" because meeting a bi guy simply doesn't add anything to their fantasy?

We are on fab to fulfil fantasies and simply put we don't have any fantasies which involve bi guys.

It is not as if there is any fear of the guy pouncing without warning. Bi guys simply don't add anything extra to the event for us.

That is likely the explanation for most couples not interested in meeting bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many couples put No Bi Men

But if you look 85-90 out of 100 are or they have verification from a TV CD or M

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"So many couples put No Bi Men

But if you look 85-90 out of 100 are or they have verification from a TV CD or M"

Not sure exactly what point you are trying to make here.

We play with males on occasion. Straight play only. Many couples we know also meet males. Again straight play only.

We are still not interested in meet bi or gay males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand how you've seperate bi male from straight male in play. How one can bring something to the fantasy and the other not.

Both males could give the lady equal attention, especially for spit-roasting or DP....

I know bi males are looked upon as less alfa than straight guys and to tell you the truth, the bi ones have spent more time exploring my body then the straight - in my experience anyway....

That's you choice anyway and entitled....

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We can't of course. If the bi guy insists on describing himself as straight there is no way to know for sure.

Like I said though it is about fantasy.

It is certainly not a situation where we look down on bi guys as being less "alpha".

Nor is it a (bizarre) fear that we have seen mentioned elsewhere that bi guys are more likely to have an std.

And it certainly is not a fear that bi guys can't play straight if asked. (God protect the poor bi guy if he broke that rule with hubby! Lol)

No it is really simple. Straight guys excite where bi guys just don't.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

OP, you are right, there's are so many guys on here with numerous verifications from TVs and Similar friends lists yet they state they are straight.

Straight, bisexual, gay... They are all just labels society places on people, in my opinion who cares. If you enjoy sleeping with tvs and still adore women (as I do) then surely you're bisexual?

The stranger thing though is I often find TV profiles that state categorically they only want straight guys, no bisexual or gay guys... How on earth does that work?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We can't of course. If the bi guy insists on describing himself as straight there is no way to know for sure.

Like I said though it is about fantasy.

It is certainly not a situation where we look down on bi guys as being less "alpha".

Nor is it a (bizarre) fear that we have seen mentioned elsewhere that bi guys are more likely to have an std.

And it certainly is not a fear that bi guys can't play straight if asked. (God protect the poor bi guy if he broke that rule with hubby! Lol)

No it is really simple. Straight guys excite where bi guys just don't. "

Ahh right I see

Thanks for getting back X

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Straight men don't have sex with tv's....its simple as a tv is a man dressed as a woman.

Ts is a different matter as they are women born into the wrong body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely there are lots of guys who are not totally straight, they are 'partly bi' so they wouldn't want to kiss a guy guy on the lips, perhaps not into anal sex at all but still attracted to a bit of cock play, especially with someone who dresses like a woman - but they remain more comfortable thinking of themselves as straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some who cross dressers who are completely straight, the dressing thing limited to being a simple sexual fetish

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A one off bi experience 10 years ago, are you still bi ? Would the couple who don’t want to be with a bi guy say that’s long enough ?

Or absolutely no Male on Male play at all ?

Mutual masturbation no touching is ok but giving another guy a tug isn’t ?

What same sex fun is too bisexual or absolutely not even glancing at another guy in the shower, straight is the minimum

So many questions, which unfortunately for the couple the guy will decide how bi they are, not you. He will add to his profile that he’s straight but was shagging another guy a year ago but as he’s not had the thoughts recently he’s now straight.

This isn’t a criticism of any couple who doesn’t want to meet bi guys, that in my opinion is a preference but unfortunately for you, you’ll never really know if you did or didn’t.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

As we have already recognised it is impossible to tell whether a guy is in fact bi or not unless he owns up.

However for us it is no bi play at all. Ever.

That's where we draw the line. Our choice. Our preference.

Others interpret the issue differently and that is their choice. Thankfully as this means there are opportunities for all.

In matters of desire, attraction and fantasy we all are different thankfully. So

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I think the only problem is peoples insistance on putting everyone into neat little catogories human sexualty is far more varied than binary choices.

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By *mandajane01TV/TS
over a year ago

Ballymena

I’ve met more than a few straight guys, some of them who never want to see me in the male mode and so many were more than just bi curious. Some want to play with your cock others don’t want to touch you, some just want a blow job some want to fuck you. Most want you dressed! The fact is life is not about categories, like a television, technically it may emit red blue and green but what you see is a whole myriad of colours and we all have a favourite colour or maybe shade. People love the variety of colours on their Television so why not in their sexuality. Let’s keep the boxes for the one that we goggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met more than a few straight guys, some of them who never want to see me in the male mode and so many were more than just bi curious. Some want to play with your cock others don’t want to touch you, some just want a blow job some want to fuck you. Most want you dressed! The fact is life is not about categories, like a television, technically it may emit red blue and green but what you see is a whole myriad of colours and we all have a favourite colour or maybe shade. People love the variety of colours on their Television so why not in their sexuality. Let’s keep the boxes for the one that we goggle. "

Great analogy, and I would add that those favourite 'shades' can also fluctuate a fair amount over time and experiences

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By *osieburnsTV/TS
over a year ago

DIDCOT


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?"

Is that same as straight couples contacting me ?

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Is that same as straight couples contacting me ?"

Yes why are they having problems displaying their true sexuality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, leaving aside the labeling for moment, A guy who is not attracted to other guys in the sense that on the beach he will be eyeing up the women but not the men, he is repulsed by the though of kissing another man or having anal sex with him, but he finds a hard cock attractive and wants to play with it or even suck it, that surely is a sexual fetish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens on a well known gay site. Straight men Looking for TVs

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"So, leaving aside the labeling for moment, A guy who is not attracted to other guys in the sense that on the beach he will be eyeing up the women but not the men, he is repulsed by the though of kissing another man or having anal sex with him, but he finds a hard cock attractive and wants to play with it or even suck it, that surely is a sexual fetish? "

Hes bi sexual

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"It happens on a well known gay site. Straight men Looking for TVs "

What evidence do you have that makes you believe any of these straight guys contacting tv's on this gay site are actually straight?

Their own self description?

It seems their actions are conclusive evidence that they are most definitely not.

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"It happens on a well known gay site. Straight men Looking for TVs "

Thats the biggest contradictory in terms i have heard for a long while pmsl

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

The one thing I have learned from fab is that the least reliable evidence of a guys sexuality is his own description.

If walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

Like many other TV's/Tgirls on here, I receive many messages from straight guys who often tell me they are in fact bi, they just want to be 'discreet'.

They have their reasons, that's fine but I won't meet them.

I don't want to be anyone's grubby little secret & if I'm honest, I've had too many disappointing fuck & go's where they guy has made zero effort to pleasure me.

As a couple we've now embarked on another path so we are only going to meet with people who are openly bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who meets a TV is generally attracted to their feminity, not their cock. TVS identify as female so the guy can be straight. No problem

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By *reatformeat OP   Woman
over a year ago

my own bubble


"Someone who meets a TV is generally attracted to their feminity, not their cock. TVS identify as female so the guy can be straight. No problem "

Lol ok

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By *ull2getherMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Someone who meets a TV is generally attracted to their feminity, not their cock. TVS identify as female so the guy can be straight. No problem "

An interesting post. So, to clarify, your meets with straight guys do not involve any reference to, or contact with your male penis?

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Someone who meets a TV is generally attracted to their feminity, not their cock. TVS identify as female so the guy can be straight. No problem "

This just simply doesn't stack for me.

If the guy is attracted to the feminity, as you claim, then he would be meeting an actual real woman instead.

The cock is not something the guy just pretends not to notice. How can he?? Lol

No it is in fact an undeniable part of the attraction and it's just silly to then try to claim he is anything else but bi.

Lets just try and bring a little common sense to this here issue.

Nobody cares what 2 guys (or tvs) get up but let's recognise a little bit more honesty and self awareness is a good thing.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Someone who meets a TV is generally attracted to their feminity, not their cock. TVS identify as female so the guy can be straight. No problem

An interesting post. So, to clarify, your meets with straight guys do not involve any reference to, or contact with your male penis? "

We do love to pick people to pieces in these fora don't we?

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Maybe its not a struggle with their sexuality but an attraction, curiosity or desire to sample something different. Maybe we are all at least bi-curious? It's all the fault of those damn Tv's confusing those poor straight men and women "
. By using the word curiosity you have probably described my situation back 2016 - 2017.I was receiving quite a few messages from tv / ts as well as gay and bi guys that I started to ask what is it about me that they all find so appealing I found myself looking more and more at tv / ts profile that the idea of a blow job from a convincing tv / ts seemed like a good idea.Towards the end of 2017 I decided to do something about it.I had plenty of offers but the best piece of advice I received was to go to a club where I would be in a safer environment.I went to a club that had a dark room as well as private cubicles I had difficulty as in my mind / head it was still a man in a dress and wig so I didn’t go through with it I thought it was just nerves I went 3 times to this club and each time I had the same difficulty / mindset.I went to another club that had open play area what I saw there just totally put me off the whole idea of going with a tv / ts. As a straight guy I guess it’s a journey I had to go on to see if I was bi curious or gay and attracted to tv / ts having ended that journey middle of 2018.I still think some tv / ts are stunning but it’s not for me.

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By *ull2getherMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"We do love to pick people to pieces in these fora don't we? "

It's a forum - a place of open discussion and argument.

I wanted the poster to explain what they said a little further, as I couldn't grasp the point they were making...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The annoyance I have on threads like these, is the labelling of other people.

I can label anyone on here who has a ‘preference’ not to meet bi guys as they’re homophobic, if I do that then I’m wrong !

I can also label them as gullible or ignorant, if they think by meeting a guy who claims he’s straight that unless they know his full sexual history, won’t know if they slept with a bi guy or not. I will still be wrong labelling them, I don’t have that right as I don’t know them.

If a man sucks a dildo is he bi or bi curious?

If a woman then straps that dildo on to her body and pegs the guy, is he now bi or bi curious ?

If he has a wank in front of another guy and occasionally glances at the guys cock, is he bi ?

If he watches gay porn, is he bi ?

If ......how many more examples would you want ?

It’s a difficult subject human sexuality kissing a man can be seen as a gay act, but the Italians do it all the time on the cheeks.

You may have experimented with another person of the same sex when you were younger, when does the statue of limitations pass that you’re fully heterosexual now, or are you bi forever in the eyes of others ?

Yes there are acts you can try and do if they’re with the same sex, it means you had a homosexual experience, doesn’t mean you want to start dating guys or women.

Stop telling people what they are, they decide that not you. If you want to stick a label on another expect it to be reciprocated and maybe you won’t like the label attached to you.

This from a guy who is a Transvestite and is now classing myself as Pansexual but profile states is Bisexual (as there’s no pansexual label currently) my label created by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The annoyance I have on threads like these, is the labelling of other people.

I can label anyone on here who has a ‘preference’ not to meet bi guys as they’re homophobic, if I do that then I’m wrong !

I can also label them as gullible or ignorant, if they think by meeting a guy who claims he’s straight that unless they know his full sexual history, won’t know if they slept with a bi guy or not. I will still be wrong labelling them, I don’t have that right as I don’t know them.

If a man sucks a dildo is he bi or bi curious?

If a woman then straps that dildo on to her body and pegs the guy, is he now bi or bi curious ?

If he has a wank in front of another guy and occasionally glances at the guys cock, is he bi ?

If he watches gay porn, is he bi ?

If ......how many more examples would you want ?

It’s a difficult subject human sexuality kissing a man can be seen as a gay act, but the Italians do it all the time on the cheeks.

You may have experimented with another person of the same sex when you were younger, when does the statue of limitations pass that you’re fully heterosexual now, or are you bi forever in the eyes of others ?

Yes there are acts you can try and do if they’re with the same sex, it means you had a homosexual experience, doesn’t mean you want to start dating guys or women.

Stop telling people what they are, they decide that not you. If you want to stick a label on another expect it to be reciprocated and maybe you won’t like the label attached to you.

This from a guy who is a Transvestite and is now classing myself as Pansexual but profile states is Bisexual (as there’s no pansexual label currently) my label created by me "

Exactly this. Why be bothered by the labelling of others? Someone can call themselves straight and like TV/TS and it's their business if they want to see it as anything beyond straight. The more you try to label people the more labels you need. If a straight man wants to suck a cock and still be seen as straight then let him lol. No one should have to justify their sexuality or we'll just be going backwards.

Just to make it clear I'm also Pansexual so I just see people and it's a yes or no regardless of gender or genitals

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

This again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Form my experience with needing to deal with 100 messages a day from straight guys

Hears a list off what I been hit with

1.wife dose not know I on hear

2.its in case friends find my profile

3. The big scary one woman on fab don’t really meet bi guys to I am keeping my profile as straight and keeping my verification hiden so I can still meet single woman

4. I never been with one before but watched some porn and think I like them

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By *unandlaughter69Couple
over a year ago

Boston


"Form my experience with needing to deal with 100 messages a day from straight guys

Hears a list off what I been hit with

1.wife dose not know I on hear

2.its in case friends find my profile

3. The big scary one woman on fab don’t really meet bi guys to I am keeping my profile as straight and keeping my verification hiden so I can still meet single woman

4. I never been with one before but watched some porn and think I like them "

Sums it up nicely, to many conMEN on fab sadly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get so many mesagges from guys who confess to being straight yet have a host of tvs on their veris how come they dont accept they are bi sexual ?? Also notice a few tvs get page 1 most fabbed (good for them not an issue) but with so many straight men on here who is fabbihg them?? Why do men struggle with their sexuality?

Maybe its not a struggle with their sexuality but an attraction, curiosity or desire to sample something different. Maybe we are all at least bi-curious? It's all the fault of those damn Tv's confusing those poor straight men and women . By using the word curiosity you have probably described my situation back 2016 - 2017.I was receiving quite a few messages from tv / ts as well as gay and bi guys that I started to ask what is it about me that they all find so appealing I found myself looking more and more at tv / ts profile that the idea of a blow job from a convincing tv / ts seemed like a good idea.Towards the end of 2017 I decided to do something about it.I had plenty of offers but the best piece of advice I received was to go to a club where I would be in a safer environment.I went to a club that had a dark room as well as private cubicles I had difficulty as in my mind / head it was still a man in a dress and wig so I didn’t go through with it I thought it was just nerves I went 3 times to this club and each time I had the same difficulty / mindset.I went to another club that had open play area what I saw there just totally put me off the whole idea of going with a tv / ts. As a straight guy I guess it’s a journey I had to go on to see if I was bi curious or gay and attracted to tv / ts having ended that journey middle of 2018.I still think some tv / ts are stunning but it’s not for me."

And this is 1000% the reason I don’t meet first timer so meny horrible story’s off straight guys wanting to try and turn violent when reality sets in it’s just a man in a wig dress and makeup

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