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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport

Which describes you?

What was your introduction to this lifestyle and are you looking to serve or be served

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By *elshyXOMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Switch all the way here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think more alpha male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch. Both of us.

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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Switch. Both of us."

What got you into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both love to switch

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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Both love to switch "

As do I. Why do you love to switch

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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Switch all the way here"

Why do you say that? Equally switch?

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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"Switch"

Whys that

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By *witchRich OP   Man
over a year ago

Southport


"I like to think more alpha male"

'Like to think' that doesn't sound very alpha male lol

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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Switch for both of us too.

Why? Lots of reasons. The main one is probably because we don’t like to do the same thing every time.

Do you eat the same thing from your favourite restaurant each time, or try different meals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always described myself as more an enabler than a Dom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub, sometimes switch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammit we hoped this was a new dance craze we’d missed...big fish little fish cardboard box...

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Sub to him only, Domme to others, but no way a switch.

Him, Dom to me only, Alpha male in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always described myself as more an enabler than a Dom."

I like that... You smooth bastard you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd always thought of myself as more of a switch. Turns out that I'm more a Dom. Ive always been into kink, even from a young age. Pre internet I remember seeing some pictures of Betty Page in an alternative comic when I was about thirteen. Found the idea of rope play fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which describes you?

What was your introduction to this lifestyle and are you looking to serve or be served"

Mr-Sub

Mrs-Switch (Dom with males/Sub with females)

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Switch but prob more of a sub at heart.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Master x

But Mistress when dressed in Pvc and heels x

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'm a bottom heavy, sadistic submissive with slave-like traits if you want to throw labels at it.

I'm quite good at being just one thing at a time though, but I can switch in the same scene if that's what's wanted. With the right person. In this respect I am pansexual.

My default setting is submissive. For me, it's about pleasing someone else. I'm not submissive to everyone though. I'm a very strong person and don't suffer fools.

I started out purely submissive but after a couple of years got into a relationship with a switch guy and being submissive, wanted to please him so, had a go at topping him (under his instruction that first time) and discovered that I'm actually quite good at hurting men (consensually) and giggling

I'm not looking to serve per se, but it would be good to find a dominant alpha male for adventuring and exploration into the deepest, darkest corners of Wonderland.

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Domme and sadist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

90% Dom, rarely play sub unless its about exceptional natural Domme. I enjoy subtle Domination, suggestive play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off "

A true Dom would see the wretch suffer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile says it all.multi layered but I'm owned sub at the end of day. C loves a good alpha male but is a switch. Usually we normal tho lol and busy gardening right now

D

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By *omo217Man
over a year ago

Sydney

Switch but LOVE giving forced orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Switch. Both of us.

What got you into it"

Because I can be a perfectly submissive little sex kitten to the right person... or I can be the sort of Domme that’ll leave begging. Just depends on my mood and the person I’m with.

Hubby is a switch with me, but would only ever be sub to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Master but very occasionally with an exceptional female I can switch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Femdom..

Tried the sub-way ;~)

He's still alive to tell the tale... just!

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

New to BDSM as a sub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can switch but much perfer sub

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By *etasubTV/TS
over a year ago

West of Newcastle-upon-Tyne

Definitely a sub

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Submissive by nature but very selective in who I give that submission to - and whilst I don't switch and definitely can't Dom I can happily play on an equal level in a mutually fulfilling "kink play" scenario.

To truly bring out my submissive side though I have to "feel" submissive to someone and that doesn't happen very often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines


"I'm a bottom heavy, sadistic submissive with slave-like traits if you want to throw labels at it.

"

If your going to label make it complete.

Sapiosexual Sadistically Sensual Top

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By *ratsweetkittensWoman
over a year ago

stalybridge

I'm a switch sub to men I trust but I can switch with women x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am definitely sub am looking for a new dominant female friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub, always fantasied about an older dominant women taking control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of the above"

Always one isn't there?

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

more sub when we play with another guy

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Totally sub but always in charge xx

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off

A true Dom would see the wretch suffer "

A true dom looks after his sub!

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood "

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me "

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

She’s a brat I’m a bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% sub x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off

A true Dom would see the wretch suffer

A true dom looks after his sub!"

(Whispers) I know, I was in character...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Assertive and switch.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode "

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’m a primal Dom. I like for a lady to be natural and relax and feel free. No need for make up or lingerie or to act all sexy for me or to shave her pussy to death. I like to give her pleasure and seeing her relaxed having fun gets me off

A true Dom would see the wretch suffer

A true dom looks after his sub!

(Whispers) I know, I was in character... "

Oops, I'll get my dom to punish me

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed"

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene "

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a switch, but it always depends on who I am playing with and my mood.

I may be completely sub to 1 person.

Completely Domme to another.

Or may be with a person who we switch roles with regularly.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot... "

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot... "

Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats

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By *rocMan
over a year ago

llandudno junction

Switch

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Switch, very dependant on the company I am in (mainly their age) !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats "

Agreed. But in the case of a naughty little brat that doesn't tow the line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub

Yummyyyyy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be "

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm sub to a naturally dominant man but with women I'm dom?! X

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady "

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission "

Dont push me, you may regret that...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that... "

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here "

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!... "

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience "

We'll see about that young lady. We'll see. You've obviously not been broken in properly...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience "

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats "

Not at all. A boot is often a treat x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence."

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% sub x "

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch "

Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them"

How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all...

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility


"

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Boots shouldn't be reserved just for brats

Not at all. A boot is often a treat x"

It kinda depends who is wearing it and what they're doing with it....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them"

Every right to test, consequence is a great balance.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

Every right to test, consequence is a great balance."

Hit the nail on the head, I fully know the consequences of my actions. And it's good at a sub to understand that rules are rules

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all... "

Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch

Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood? "

Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.

With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

Every right to test, consequence is a great balance.

Hit the nail on the head, I fully know the consequences of my actions. And it's good at a sub to understand that rules are rules"

And it is a stunning scene, You sound great fun and a good girl.... well sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all...

Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation "

And I'm sure when you're perfect you get spoilt rotten x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch

Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood?

Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.

With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx"

That's the important bit getting into your head. Thanks for answering I'm really nosey sorry

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Switch, having thought I was sub. I had a Mistress who rewarded me for a weekend of compliance by helping me find my dom side, which she knew was inside me.

I've been a switch ever since.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

Well that would make me smirk and I'm hard to move if I don't want to, engaging full on brat mode, and will become a full on nightmare and test a of any Dom's patience

Patience isn’t needed with presence.

I think both are required to be honest. I can act like a brat to see if the Dom can handle me and see if they deserve my submission even if I'm totally annoying them

How could anyone be annoyed with you? You're a lovely kitty aren't you... You just need to learn, that's all...

Oh I can be the perfect sub, just depends on the situation

And I'm sure when you're perfect you get spoilt rotten x "

Yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat "

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch

Do you see yourself as predominantly primal prey or does the kind of sub you are change depending on your mood?

Im primal prey if playing with a primal hunter. If he can control me through strength and getting in my head then I submit.

With a normal BDSM Dom im totally submissive provided hes incredibly experienced. I cant just submit to anyone who may have a bit of an in charge personality xx

That's the important bit getting into your head. Thanks for answering I'm really nosey sorry "

I love talking about BDSM and Dom/sub play. Ask me any questions you like xx

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch "

I think that’s true, most play a role not themselves. To me it’s more about being with someone who lets you be your true self , the agreements you have, when lived out for a while often determine the kind of sex you end up doing

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful"

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

"

Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power. "

And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.

Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.

Well done you.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Switchy, probably a bit more on the sub side. But depends on mood and the other person/people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.

And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.

Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.

Well done you."

Yes to all of this! If a Dom can take me from fighting back to soft and vulnerable it is easily the most peaceful I ever feel.

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By *ltcouple941Couple
over a year ago

Hell

Sub, it was something that always came naturallly to me in the bedroom

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!... "

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

"

That is me being stern. Ive no tolerance for brats who try it on...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

"

Yes you should, depends on the scene you are playing.

It’s a dynamic a verb not a noun.

Every one is different.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

"

Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"100% sub x

I'm actually Primal prey on another site. I thought more Doms would have come out of the wood work though. Most are switch

I think that’s true, most play a role not themselves. To me it’s more about being with someone who lets you be your true self , the agreements you have, when lived out for a while often determine the kind of sex you end up doing "

Yeh but there is a very strong element of roleplay involved isn't there? I mean you have to have the kinky streak to start with but you do get into character a bit when you're in the zone dont you?... Depends how much imagination you have and how good you are at improve I suppose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another. "

The little tarts, they love it...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another.

The little tarts, they love it... "

Busted

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By *tteve500Man
over a year ago

West Drayton

Dom and you will have lots of marks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

Haha "make me" said every brat on a mission

Dont push me, you may regret that...

There needs to be a sticking your tongue out emoji on here

(Grabs Bemorefrida by the collar and twists her arm behind her back) Get in that fucking corner! NOW!...

You should never treat you sub like that. Put her leash onto her collar and lead her to the corner ... you can be stern, even harsh, but never mean.

Depends on the agreed boundaries before a scene. What works for one sub won't work for another.

The little tarts, they love it...

Busted "

Your arse will be busted if you're not careful young lady...

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

Mistress and sub/slave.

Started very vanilla and got into swinging, since then we done master and slave and switching but have come to find this suits us best.

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Sub, though I Top from the Bottom. Not many see this side of me, though they may see my inner Goddess

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Submitting bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely switch! I love both pending on mood situation etc lol

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

Femdom. Male sub. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Switcherooni but always sub with men

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Sub

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady "

I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.

And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.

Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.

Well done you."

That's why I like good after care from my dom he pulls me into his side and holds me whilst I come back down to earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a sub looking to serve.

I can't really pinpoint what exactly brought me into this lifestyle. I have fantasised it for many years and I just plunged into it when I got a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you"

You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pleasantly surprised to find a BDSM topic on here!

I'm a switch. Anyone from London who wants to message me, please do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch. Variety is the spice of life

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you

You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century... "

My mouth is not just for verbally defying you

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over a year ago


"Sub as long as there is trust which is hard earned. Though I can go from perfectly behaved sub to absolute brat depending on my mood

Me too! If I trust and know someone well I know how bratty I can be and how they will try to control me

That's half the challenge isn't it? To see if they can when in full brat mode

Some can't handle it lol! One guy worried that he would hurt me if he grabbed my wrists which was sweet but not what I needed

Oh no, that is a shame and a bit anticlimactic if you were prepared for a scene

The only place a brat belongs is under the boot...

Perhaps that's exactly where the brat wants to be

Go and kneel in the corner and think about your behaviour young lady

I'll kneel but not in the corner with a defiant make me face before trying to distract you

You're welcome to try wench. But I must warn you, I schooled in the eighteenth century...

My mouth is not just for verbally defying you"

You cant verbally defy me whilst wearing the scolds bridle young lady

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over a year ago

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I’m a bratty sub too!!! Isn’t it fun to challenge a Dom to make you submit?

I love the feeling of losing the last of my control after being a little brat

Yes I love that feeling find it really peaceful

This is a simile.

Saw a wild life programme, were a lioness was obviously in the mood, she teased the male lion so much he got up and gave her a right working over.

The last scene was her getting up, with cuts and bite marks...

And a smile on her face.

And the Doms make the play.

Mmmmm

Guilty of exactly this, which is why some would say I'm not a very good sub. But sometimes I need that peace from giving a good fight and ultimately knowing I'm going to loose. And the rest and peacefulness that comes with that final relinquish of power.

And the down from sub space, when handled properly will take you there.

Nothing worse than the cognitive mind getting in the way of open, free, clean energy sex.

Well done you.

That's why I like good after care from my dom he pulls me into his side and holds me whilst I come back down to earth"

I like to create a mental “safe space” take her there when I’m with her, and solace when she is not.

Drop is an odd effect that hits both parties.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sub with both women and guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub, usually...

But can switch

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By *antasticMrFoxXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Switch

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Sub, usually...

But can switch "

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