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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering if it is something that I am finding or others find happens too.

As I have posted a meet, I get messages from a variety of guys, so I check their profile to see if potentially we could be compatable sexually in similar sexual intersts.

When I reply that we are not looking for the same things and we would not be likely to meet as I am looking for somethig specific from this meet they all say yes of course even if it is not listed on their intersts!!

This is not intened to be have a go at single guys, just happens that I get more replies from single guys.

Anyone else find others are willing to do almost anything, I am concerned about people putting themselves in positions they might not be enitrely comfortable with

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

ive been asked a couple of times why a certain "interest" is not on my list - but they are things I am happy with anyway - I don't view mine or others interest as a difinitive list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile isn't a definative, set in stone one, just a breif outline of me, not all interests are covered by tick boxes.

I'm sure there are plenty on here who would say yes to anything to get a meet and probably 50% wouldn't turn up.

i guess it's just one of the pitfalls of this environment.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

And some people dont list every interest so that others dont think that they have to do it on every single meet....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Poor blokes. If they list every interest they are thought of as desperate. If they don't they miss out on meets.

If I list a meet request and someone I like the look of replies but doesn't have what I am after on their profile, I would chat to them first. If they say 'ew no', then thats the time to discard them.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

if this thing you are looking for is horrifically specific then i would say they are just swinging the leadto get a shot, but if its just something thats reasonably normal, then why would guys not be happy to do something a little different?

if you like the look of the profile you are looking at, then why no, if they are happy to do what you want.

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

and, as an aside, there is nothing on your interests that says you are into anything that other guys arent into.

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