FabSwingers.com forum: Too Young?

By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Am I too young for the majority of those on here?

Obviously, for the right reasons, people aren't meeting or even considering making future plans. However, even prior to lockdown, I felt it was a similar situation.

I seem to get plenty of attention and impress plenty of people, particularly when on cam, but when it comes to proposing some sort of arrangement it doesn't seem to progress far.

Do people think this is because, at only 23, I would be considered too young for most women and couples on here?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there's an optimum age range for men of between 35 and 45 as far as swinging is concerned. The further away you are from that range the fewer opportunities you'll have. One thing you have in your favour is that unlike the older men you can grow older

However don't fall into the trap of assuming that lack of interest is solely down to age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I too young for the majority of those on here?

Obviously, for the right reasons, people aren't meeting or even considering making future plans. However, even prior to lockdown, I felt it was a similar situation.

I seem to get plenty of attention and impress plenty of people, particularly when on cam, but when it comes to proposing some sort of arrangement it doesn't seem to progress far.

Do people think this is because, at only 23, I would be considered too young for most women and couples on here? "

The short answer is yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a few ladies that would eat you alive. Be prepared to get whipped into shape by dominant women, they like a new young toy to play with.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

I wouldn't get too caught up in it, you'll suit some people not others same as all the rest of us. On Fab patience is required

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think there's an optimum age range for men of between 35 and 45 as far as swinging is concerned. The further away you are from that range the fewer opportunities you'll have. One thing you have in your favour is that unlike the older men you can grow older

However don't fall into the trap of assuming that lack of interest is solely down to age.

Certainly accept it's not just down to age, people have preferences and that's fine. Was just interested to get an opinion or two, as ultimately the average age on here is a little older than mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Certainly accept it's not just down to age, people have preferences and that's fine. Was just interested to get an opinion or two, as ultimately the average age on here is a little older than mine "

Consider yourself lucky to have youth on your side and find people who are looking for your age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started about your age, and we have been told many times we are a hot couple, we can offer more - but we still didnt get a meet until around 6-8 months of fabbing

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

The absolute key is to have your searches with the I must be in their preferred range and not blocked single men

Instantly loads of profiles who won’t meet you will disappear and you’re chances will improve with the ones you do contact

Not a guarantee but helps your odds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from me but I'm sure theres many out there who would love you

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age"

Works for some and not for others I suppose

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes. "

Shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age

Works for some and not for others I suppose "

Don't see many that it works for.

Your profile photo doesn't help at all.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Username, age etc would definitely put me off, plus why would a 46 year old want to meet someone more than half her age?

I certainly wouldn't and even at 35 I am dubious lol, as why the hell would they be interested in me?

It's called a generation gap for a reason, we have nothing in common!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody, despite their age or any other characteristic is going to be for the majority of people on here... You will only be for a few, the same as everybody else. Alot of people have trouble with this concept, unfortunately

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Username, age etc would definitely put me off, plus why would a 46 year old want to meet someone more than half her age?

I certainly wouldn't and even at 35 I am dubious lol, as why the hell would they be interested in me?

It's called a generation gap for a reason, we have nothing in common! "

Personally, I enjoy meeting older women. Let's say they have more experience and know how to get what they want!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Username, age etc would definitely put me off, plus why would a 46 year old want to meet someone more than half her age?

I certainly wouldn't and even at 35 I am dubious lol, as why the hell would they be interested in me?

It's called a generation gap for a reason, we have nothing in common!

Personally, I enjoy meeting older women. Let's say they have more experience and know how to get what they want! "

That may be the case, but how would we socialise in the first place?

What would we speak about? What interests would we have in common? With more than a 20 year age gap, I think men have watched 'Mrs Robinson' a few too many times and taken it to heart!

And yes that film is above both mine and your references of film but it is an example, to have sex, you need to be able to engage, but that is my opinion as I don't just want sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah you’re alright

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Username, age etc would definitely put me off, plus why would a 46 year old want to meet someone more than half her age?

I certainly wouldn't and even at 35 I am dubious lol, as why the hell would they be interested in me?

It's called a generation gap for a reason, we have nothing in common!

Personally, I enjoy meeting older women. Let's say they have more experience and know how to get what they want!

That may be the case, but how would we socialise in the first place?

What would we speak about? What interests would we have in common? With more than a 20 year age gap, I think men have watched 'Mrs Robinson' a few too many times and taken it to heart!

And yes that film is above both mine and your references of film but it is an example, to have sex, you need to be able to engage, but that is my opinion as I don't just want sex! "

There would be plenty of common interests to talk about, whether that would be things as such as current affairs or sport, to those of a sexual nature. Understandably, life experiences would likely be different, but I would be quite interested in the discussing what I and them had seen and done. Guess we all have different perceptions though.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

My take on your question is that your profile, username and pic will put a lot of people off regardless of your age. If I hadn't read your posts on here I would consider you to be all muscle, cock and no conversation. Some people might want that, but if that isn't what you are offering or after then I would consider adjusting some or all of those things... Mrs H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Username, age etc would definitely put me off, plus why would a 46 year old want to meet someone more than half her age?

I certainly wouldn't and even at 35 I am dubious lol, as why the hell would they be interested in me?

It's called a generation gap for a reason, we have nothing in common!

Personally, I enjoy meeting older women. Let's say they have more experience and know how to get what they want!

That may be the case, but how would we socialise in the first place?

What would we speak about? What interests would we have in common? With more than a 20 year age gap, I think men have watched 'Mrs Robinson' a few too many times and taken it to heart!

And yes that film is above both mine and your references of film but it is an example, to have sex, you need to be able to engage, but that is my opinion as I don't just want sex!

It would be very hard for a couple like us to take someone seriously after looking at their choice of username and photos.

There is a perception that some young guys have when they come on here:

If I have a cock and show it, I will get sex.

Most people on here have seen plenty of cocks, believe us.

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"My take on your question is that your profile, username and pic will put a lot of people off regardless of your age. If I hadn't read your posts on here I would consider you to be all muscle, cock and no conversation. Some people might want that, but if that isn't what you are offering or after then I would consider adjusting some or all of those things... Mrs H"

Perhaps you're right, first impressions are crucial and to give the wrong perception from the off would no doubt prevent a lot of people from taking an interest. I'm glad I was able to change your impression though for the better though. Appreciate your input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I too young for the majority of those on here?

Obviously, for the right reasons, people aren't meeting or even considering making future plans. However, even prior to lockdown, I felt it was a similar situation.

I seem to get plenty of attention and impress plenty of people, particularly when on cam, but when it comes to proposing some sort of arrangement it doesn't seem to progress far.

Do people think this is because, at only 23, I would be considered too young for most women and couples on here? "

I started when I was slightly younger than you, and managed to have loads of fun.

You won't be for everyone, but there will be plenty that are looking for what you are offering. There's something out there for everyone... you'll do fine I'm sure.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Our granddaughters boyfriend is 22 so it would seem weird to us but each to their own.

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Dont think age has owt todo with it just be confident and not over cockie.the mrs like younger guys who knows what there doing and not all about your self

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Dont think age has owt todo with it just be confident and not over cockie.the mrs like younger guys who knows what there doing and not all about your self"

Maybe you should make yourself known

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 39 OP and I can tell you it's never gotten any easier to meet women online

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over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age"

Same here.

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Not too young for me x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Play in clubs, we are slightly older yet have had twenty two years old wanting to play.

No rules in sex me thinks.

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Play in clubs, we are slightly older yet have had twenty two years old wanting to play.

No rules in sex me thinks."

Might be a while until clubs reopen though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you OP. I'm 25 and too often get told 'I have children your age'. Makes it difficult when you have a preference for older women! Will remain hopeful lol. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes age can be an issue for men but it's a lot about how you act. Women won't want to fuck a young man who perceives themselves as young men they want men who show maturity who show they got what it takes to ride the rollercoaster. Some women may want to teach the boys how to do it but some want the men who show them what they have been missing. It's all about analysing what women you speak to and adjusting your approach

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"I know a few ladies that would eat you alive. Be prepared to get whipped into shape by dominant women, they like a new young toy to play with. "

Where are they?

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm with you OP. I'm 25 and too often get told 'I have children your age'. Makes it difficult when you have a preference for older women! Will remain hopeful lol. Good luck xx"

It's funny. Looking at your pic. People said no to you.. Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age

Same here. "

Definitely this. And selection of public pictures.

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By *attooBBWWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age

Same here.

Definitely this. And selection of public pictures."

Same. And I usually love younger guys.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

The username, the profile pic & public pics, and the fact you're the same age as my daughter's boyfriend, would mean it'd be a definite no from me. But I'm sure all of those things will appeal to others. It's just a case of being patient, putting some effort in, & trying to make sure that you stand out from the crowd in a positive way.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

23 isn't young. mind over matter. I met some very experienced 22 year olds in my time.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Your username in itself would make me pass

Never mind your age

Same here.

Definitely this. And selection of public pictures.

Same. And I usually love younger guys. "

especially their recovery time

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By *ovestrapMan
over a year ago

London

"23 isn't young. mind over matter. I met some very experienced 22 year olds in my time. "

So true I have met some young women who are exhausted after just 3 orgasms. And older can handle several orgasms all night long.

As has nothing to do with it.

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By *risTheHornyBikerMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I've had an similar experience, I'm 26 and so far I only get lucky at clubs.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

However don't fall into the trap of assuming that lack of interest is solely down to age.

Sadly true ....

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Never send a boy to do a mans job .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age wouldn't put me off, username would tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily fab has a diverse age range. I think single males in general need to try stand out due to the high influx.

However if you're genuine and just you, then i'm sure you will get noticed...or at least that's what i've been told lol

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By *eadyToFillYou96 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Think I was showing my youthfulness and certainly naivety when it came to choosing my username. Would hate for that to be the main reason people were 'walking away' so to speak. Might have to purchase the premium in order to change it.

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