FabSwingers.com forum: Why do most peoples age range end at 50

By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

Could be worse you could be 18

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By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

"Could be worse you could be 18

Nope you can get older i cant get younger

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Could be worse you could be 18

Nope you can get older i cant get younger

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thing is would you like to be 18 again me definitely not acne (cleared up now) sexual awkwardness grow old disgracefully my friend age is but a number

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By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

"Could be worse you could be 18

Nope you can get older i cant get younger

thing is would you like to be 18 again me definitely not acne (cleared up now) sexual awkwardness grow old disgracefully my friend age is but a number

Yes i would you have your whole life ahead of you go out and enjoy it

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Could be worse you could be 18

Nope you can get older i cant get younger

thing is would you like to be 18 again me definitely not acne (cleared up now) sexual awkwardness grow old disgracefully my friend age is but a number

Yes i would you have your whole life ahead of you go out and enjoy it"
The thing is op do you feel you’re age personally for me now I’m as fit and probably more active than I was in my 20s and definitely better at sex

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By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

"Could be worse you could be 18

Nope you can get older i cant get younger

thing is would you like to be 18 again me definitely not acne (cleared up now) sexual awkwardness grow old disgracefully my friend age is but a number

Yes i would you have your whole life ahead of you go out and enjoy it The thing is op do you feel you’re age personally for me now I’m as fit and probably more active than I was in my 20s and definitely better at sex

I would have to say im not as fit but with age comes experience to know its not just pounding away relentlesly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have no problem meeting men 50 + only request O makes is the blue pill or others isn't used...We know a few from clubs who use it...not sure if its nerves or what makes them use it or why as it makes them hard but almost impossible to make them cum which is off putting sometimes as O has a preference for men her age or older..

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

People can set their ages as they see fit, (and any other aspect of the site that they wish) and there’s not much you can do about it other than lie about how old you are. I’ll be 50 in six weeks, and that’ll take me over a lot of women’s limit, but I really don’t care. It is what it is. What about all the under 24 or over 70 year olds that you’ve chosen to exclude? Don’t they also deserve a chance with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go "

Because their sex life,and their sexual preferences isn't all about you.

Concentrate on people that are looking guys your age and forget about those that aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go

Because their sex life,and their sexual preferences isn't all about you.

Concentrate on people that are looking guys your age and forget about those that aren't."

Yes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do men over 50 think younger folk would want to have sex with them when there are loads of people their own age they have something in common with to choose from?

You might be comfortable having sex with a woman your daughter's age, they probably aren't comfortable having sex with someone their dad's age.

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By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

"Why do men over 50 think younger folk would want to have sex with them when there are loads of people their own age they have something in common with to choose from?

You might be comfortable having sex with a woman your daughter's age, they probably aren't comfortable having sex with someone their dad's age."

What the hell are you on about im talking about people my age wanting younger men

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What the hell are you on about im talking about people my age wanting younger men"

That isn’t how the op came across. I too thought you were talking about younger people setting a limit to 50.

I’m not sure what mine is actually set to but I know it’s not set in stone. If I like someone I will meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/05/20 07:32:38]

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just checked. Mind ends at 50. Made me lol did that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do men over 50 think younger folk would want to have sex with them when there are loads of people their own age they have something in common with to choose from?

You might be comfortable having sex with a woman your daughter's age, they probably aren't comfortable having sex with someone their dad's age.

What the hell are you on about im talking about people my age wanting younger men"

Women are in the minority on here, they get to pick and choose who they want. If they want a young, toned athletic man then they will get one. It's just another reason it sucks to be an old man.

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By *outhman15 OP Man
over a year ago

southampton

Sorry it came across that way

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By *bmarley77Man
over a year ago

Nr Derby

Why do most peoples age range end at 50.

Is it because most be on here can only count to 50?.......

..... Running for the trees..... lol.... Am kidding... Am kidding

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Why do most peoples age range end at 50.

Is it because most be on here can only count to 50?.......

..... Running for the trees..... lol.... Am kidding... Am kidding

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I’m knackered after I’ve ran out of fingers and toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still play but am more selective these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously everyone is each to their own but us personally we have no age limit. Long as the cock is hard is all that matters.

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By *bmarley77Man
over a year ago

Nr Derby

"Obviously everyone is each to their own but us personally we have no age limit. Long as the cock is hard is all that matters."

If is got a pulse right? lol

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

its a reflection of our society, youth is celebrated and age is relegated, you only need to watch a few adverts or reality shows.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Haven't noticed that. Always amazes me how many are wiling to fuck a 99yr old though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, that gave me a good laugh, I am 62, don't need the little blue pill, played baseball for years, my last game was when I was 58, last year was playing some softball, work 5 nights a week, now I do 3 12hr shifts due to the corvid nastiness, I love women, there are a few that have their age ranges higher than 50, sent a few messages as I am new on here that why I figure they haven't replied, that and they probobly have a lot of messages to go through. I like a younger woman, not about 40 would be young enough for me. Though if a younger one came along well that would be a no brainer. Perciverence, just like batting in baseball, sometimes your in a slump, then you have a hot streak. That's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haven't noticed that. Always amazes me how many are wiling to fuck a 99yr old though

More amazed if there was a 99 year old on fab

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Ours is set at 49 lol

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Haven't noticed that. Always amazes me how many are wiling to fuck a 99yr old though

I often wonder about the 99 age limit

We only put age range on ours so we don’t get so many random messages, single women’s mailbox’s that have it set at 99 must be a nightmare to deal with, bet they need a pa lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Cuz we are over the hill and nothing to give, once over that dreadful number 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the number that most pick on the assumption that over 50's will be less desirable..

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

A 50 filter does seem to be arbitrarily common. I turned 51 recently and had my first filter block, replying to a thread last night.

My stated age range is an indication of where I'm aiming. I don't block anyone outside of that because you never know.

Everyone does as they please, and flexes if they want to. It's personal choice. If you're cut out of filters, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These swingers and their preferences ........

They should just have sex with anyone who messages them...

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By *ostonJoeMan
over a year ago

Boston

People stop having sex at 50. Urgh. Why would anyone want to? That's such a disgusting thought. Wrinkled, leathery old bone shakers, balding with pacemakers, tits sagging down to their belly buttons and balls swinging between their knees. Oh god. I think I just did a little puke in my mouth. Just stop thinking a sex life is for you old kogers. This is why viagra and hrt is a bad idea. Get yourself separate beds or bedrooms, some nice comfy slippers and pop on Pebble Mill. Relax. Take it easy. The end is coming...... Not you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go "
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I’m 65 and still ready to give my bit ??Need more ladies to want to experience the more mature man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why should anybody "give me a go" just because I'm 63? On threads where men say they like older women I often say I prefer not to be admired just because of my age, I also would rather people didn't feel obliged to meet me because of it.

Since both of us are over 60 the number of people interested in meeting us even socially, has much reduced. That's OK by us when we were younger the over 60s held no attraction for us we understand and respect people's preferences and don't feel entitled to sex.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Many people dismiss us out of hand as we're over 50 - unless we meet at a club or party, when they don't realise we're over 50.

Gets a bit frustrating sometimes though when people moan that certain profiles state, white only/black only/no Asians etc. As it is clearly acceptable to filter out people by age, but not by race. Oh well, each to their own.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go "

Think ladies are more likely not to want anyone over 50 but luckily we are still ok for the men

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go "

I find a lot of women’s cut off is 45, and I’m 46.

Ah well, we’ve all aged a bit during lockdown haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Many people dismiss us out of hand as we're over 50 - unless we meet at a club or party, when they don't realise we're over 50.

It is acceptable to filter by age, people do and most of us accept it. The same with the other filters you mention.

Nobody has to consider having sex with anybody else if they don't want to and certainly not just because that person thinks they should.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go

I find a lot of women’s cut off is 45, and I’m 46.

Ah well, we’ve all aged a bit during lockdown haha"

40s is my preferred age tbh. I think of people under 50s as less likely to have back issues so can lock me for longer, and to have shorter recovery times so can cum again and again. I might be very wrong, this is based on my own prejudices and (limited) experiences!

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

*lick aha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Im 53 and still have some life left in me lol give the over 50's a go

I find a lot of women’s cut off is 45, and I’m 46.

Ah well, we’ve all aged a bit during lockdown haha

We all have reasons for our preferred age range, this is supposed to be a fun experience

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

My cut off is 55 on looking for I did have 60 but the quality of messages I recieved reduced , men aged over can still message me for forum purposes or when I play my status riddle games

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

Age issue kind of not a thing at parties and clubs, you wouldn’t walk around these with a checklist - you can be over 50 and look/act younger, then I’ve seen people much younger and thought “dear god”.

But hey - their loss I say! Plenty more sunbeams in the swinging world lol.

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By *idewillyMan
over a year ago

southampton

Age is a stigma....thats all it is i know people in the 60s 70s that have more get up and go than some 20 30 year olds Its all horses for courses its that thing in society were you are believed to be old and past it at 50 i know some stunning mature people that you can have an absolute blast with and i know younger people that you can too ..you are as hold as you feel i still feel 21 but then ive no kids and lived a wild fun active life and refuse to grow up....its like the insurance companies are you over 50 then get your free parker pen and carriage clock or Worthington originals or the deluxe reclining awful reclining chair its a stigma that once you get to 50 you are past it ...times have changed we are being told 1970s values but this is 2020 do what you want and have your own rules i just meet fun bubbly people age is irrelevant its the people im more interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking for myself, I'm 30 and I prefer to meet people who are a) closer to my age than 50, and b) who aren't old enough to be my parent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s everyone’s personal choice to set what age limits they want.

There are still plenty of people who have no set ages in mind and you have to appeal to those and make them want to know you - once you know each other it is all about attraction and not any age limit

Have fun and keep going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have no problem meeting men 50 + only request O makes is the blue pill or others isn't used...We know a few from clubs who use it...not sure if its nerves or what makes them use it or why as it makes them hard but almost impossible to make them cum which is off putting sometimes as O has a preference for men her age or older.."

Never had a problem cuming with having had a pill the guys have probably cum once all ready that’s why they take so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is simply a number.... but I must say without a doubt that all of my best experiences have been with men over 50. They have a maturity and sensitivity that many (but not all) of the younger ones lack.... and none of them have required any pharmalogical intervention!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Speaking for myself, I'm 30 and I prefer to meet people who are a) closer to my age than 50, and b) who aren't old enough to be my parent."

And that's your prerogative. When I was 30 I wouldn't have looked twice at a guy of 50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speaking for myself, I'm 30 and I prefer to meet people who are a) closer to my age than 50, and b) who aren't old enough to be my parent.

And that's your prerogative. When I was 30 I wouldn't have looked twice at a guy of 50. "

Ha ha! Neither would I, but I wasn’t doing this when I was 30!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine dont!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Shit , just over 3 years to go then

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By *oojCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Over 50, that's us out the picture good and proper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve just turned 50 and the amount of messages I can send has reduced by about 50%... maybe old but still feel young and experienced x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be grateful.

I'm so old I'm looking for threads on assisted dying

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Why do some end at 60...?

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have age range on here as guidance only, we have played with older and younger, but not too much younger, I don't get many older woman contacting me, shame as if they are as sexy as Helen miren I'd love it, wife has played with a few guys 15 years younger but it depends how mature they are and how horny she is when we are out for fun

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

Some of the best plays I have had, are with older guys!

I find the younger ones are in a hurry...

older guys have experience and really do get me going!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am not going to settle for an experience with someone who’s “still got some life left”, lol...

Made me think of those used shoe/trainers adverts: “Used but plenty of life left im them...”

I only see men who are my age or younger.

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

When clubs are reopened and socials back, give preference to those as on my experience age ranges tend to be much more flexible.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The thing is though - why worry about the preferences of those that don't want to meet you or how others choose to run their profiles?

I've found it much better to focus on how I run mine and those that potentially *do* want to meet me, than waste time on worrying about those who don't

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't, I love a man in his 50's so long as he's still got 'it'

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

"The thing is though - why worry about the preferences of those that don't want to meet you or how others choose to run their profiles?

I've found it much better to focus on how I run mine and those that potentially *do* want to meet me, than waste time on worrying about those who don't "

This!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have my limit at 50, now it fluctuates between 40 and 45.

Just a few reasons:

- There are a few exceptions, but I generally don't find those 50+ attractive.

- Most older women who message me are boring or make little effort to converse.

- If we do hit it on, I'm constantly asked if I find them attractive. This either reeks lack of self confidence or they're looking for someone to boost their ego. I find this boring.

Not making a generalisation. This is just based of those who have messaged me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all relative, isn't it.

My son loves older women and gets lots of attention from them on nights out - but has set his absolute upper age limit at 23yrs old. He's 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

Not everyone is attracted to people over the age of 50 regardless of how much life you have left in you.

People are allowed their preferences.

The older people get the smaller the amount of people who fancy you gets, that’s just life.

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