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Going to a club as a single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What the experience like going to a club as a single male?

Ive not been to a club yet, planning to after lockdown*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it totally depends on what club you go to, what you are looking for and your expectations.

Do you have a club in mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Theres a few in blackpool where im from, i really dont know what to expect haha x

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By *ondon-manMan
over a year ago

london

Absfab is the only one I visited in Heathrow area

Maybe a little far for you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absfab is the only one I visited in Heathrow area

Maybe a little far for you OP "

Oh you mean kestrels, I like it there.

I'm just hoping that all the clubs survive.

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By *ondon-manMan
over a year ago

london

Good morning.

Yep that’s the one I went when I was part of a couple with a couple (if that makes sense) was a very good place everyone chilled lots of sex ppl

Had a great night

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"it totally depends on what club you go to, what you are looking for and your expectations.

Do you have a club in mind?"
exactly this. I’ll just add, don’t presume that just because you’ve paid to be there, that you’re entitled to anything whilst you’re there.

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton


"What the experience like going to a club as a single male?

Ive not been to a club yet, planning to after lockdown* "

I have been to kestrel and had some fun. As a single man you should go to a club with no expectations just see it as a time to relax use the facilities and if anything else happens its a bonus

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"What the experience like going to a club as a single male?

Ive not been to a club yet, planning to after lockdown* "

Clubs are great IF you are the sort of person who can wander around and strike up a conversation with anyone % everyone.

A confident guy who can hold down a proper conversation will always have a good time in a club, but if you expect people to approach you... you'll generally be disapointed.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the experience like going to a club as a single male?

Ive not been to a club yet, planning to after lockdown* "
it depends how you are as a person if you can talk to people you will fit in, clubs either make you feel comfortable or you them, suppose an element of luck as to who goes on that particular day/night

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By *tuYorksMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Helps if you're outgoing & chatty & have realistic expectations. Single men can have a poor reputation but in my experience the problem individuals are in the minority. My advice, for what it's worth, is to go & enjoy the environment, be chatty without being pushy & have no expectations other than meeting some new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Helps if you're outgoing & chatty & have realistic expectations. Single men can have a poor reputation but in my experience the problem individuals are in the minority. My advice, for what it's worth, is to go & enjoy the environment, be chatty without being pushy & have no expectations other than meeting some new people."

Exactly this, I went to a club in Bournemouth as a single lad. Was very slow to start, there were couples there but were very happy just to play with themselves. Just be chilled and obviously a bit of manners and respect go a hell of a long way. Ended up being asked to join another couple later in the evening. In all had some great chats, relaxed in the facilities and enjoyed some great sex with a few people to top the night off. But I was fully prepared for that not to happen

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Both Blackpool clubs are nice and I can recommend them but very different. Mainly as a single guy don't expect because you paid to get in you will get laid. Enjoy the place make the first move to talk to people, unless your obnoxious, which I'm sure you aren't, then most people are friendly.

Think of it as a social evening out with sexy people then you'll do ok. Enjoy

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