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How did you bring up the topic of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couples, or ex-couples, how did the swinging start? Was there mutual interest at the start? Was it randomly brought up one day?

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By *izzie and VictorCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

From what I recall, the topic started for us by talking about clubs and making use of their facilities to tick off some of our wish list.

Sex in a pool for an example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That makes a tonne of sense, how was the first time you actually swang? *if swang is a word? Idk*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We seen an American documentary about swingers club so thought we would go to one for a giggle, 18 year late we're still here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That first swap must have been a weird experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bedroom talk, we had done webcam fun etc and wanted to take it to the next level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you guys were already custom to people watching and stuff, takes a tonne of trust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you guys were already custom to people watching and stuff, takes a tonne of trust! "

I think you need trust to swing. We started off small, with webcam then went on to soft swinging and have covered lots of kinky scenarios.

You have to have a fantastic relationship to talk openly about your turn ons and be on the same wave length.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, i 100% agree! Im really new to the scene and always wondered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, i 100% agree! Im really new to the scene and always wondered "

Go to a few clubs (once normality is back) and see if its for you. It's a very difficult scene for single guys if they have high expectations of getting fucked straight away.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Yeah, i 100% agree! Im really new to the scene and always wondered "

I'm a bit confused, how are you really new but "have been here before"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Luckily theres a few clubs in blackpool where im from, will definatly try one, ive seen a few that dont take single guys.

Im not too interested in the sex, more the social side x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, i 100% agree! Im really new to the scene and always wondered

I'm a bit confused, how are you really new but "have been here before"?"

I was on the site for about 2 months, then deleted, now back

Ive still had 0 meets and new

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

Mr enjoyed the company of brasses. During this time he became acquainted with a gb group also, which was fairly enjoyable and reliable.

About a few months after getting with missus, having knocked all extracurricular activities on the head, Mr admitted that he had used brasses and enjoyed the gb groups......

Fortunately Mrs was intrigued with it all. Went to a gb meet that was a disaster. Then went to watch a few others. Eventually we enjoyed mmf & mmmmf and we haven't looked back since. We actually find the group & mmf meets better than mfmf meets. Next step is to organise our own local gbs.

Guess it's a lesson that honestly does pay off. From Mr point of view, his family knows of his past so he didn't want that hanging over him via snide comments over the dinner table, hence saying out right fairly early on in the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I bet your glad he told you!

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

One too hot to be outside day in cap d arge

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Always had an element of kinky in our relationship from day one bdsm. Over the years the kink got more advanced. We started going to specialised events. At those events in a particular bdsm sex in the open was allowed but it wasn't a swingers club. That led to her masterbating him as punishment. A friend on that scene we got close talked fantasies... Turns out one of his fantasies was a kind of cuckold senerio. We talked about it for maybe 18 months the fantasy grew and grew for us both like acting it out in the bedroom between us both and it got more intense. Then one day I went out and fucked another bloke... Ta da now he's a cuck and I'm hotwife..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That first swap must have been a weird experience"
Wouldn't describe as weird. Surreal ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The arc we were on in the bedroom led inevitably to this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us it was a d*unken dirty weekend, a little bit of porn and pillow talk that set the wheels in motion.

Spiralled from there and was definitely a two way conversation.

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