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"Not blocked all single males (yet) but messages similar to yours Hi Hello How are you? Wanna fuck? What you upto? What's happening? How you doing? Or just a cock pic And I get all sorts of friends requests from people I've never chatted to since I moved all my pics to friends only, because I'm fed up guys profiles with no pics or 3 friends only 1s you know are just cock pics viewing my profile 20 times a day without sending a message But I'm still here and a thanks but no thanks then block so they dont repeat the same message every couple of days helps" I'm just impressed that they used question marks. More effort then I've seen in a while. | |||
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"The sheer volume of messages that I didn't want to respond to finally made me block single males. I barely manage to keep on top of my life admin. Didn't need to add Fab admin ontop of that " Understandable. Admin takes the fun out of sexscapades. Out of curiosity, how many messages do couples or single women get? [Anyone feel free to answer] | |||
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"Being Bi, I get lots of straight men asking ‘how are you mate’ I just ignore them " I definitely hear you. | |||
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"“Wank/suck fun?” probably made me chuckle the most, and the guy who offered me cash to let him wank me off left me lost for words " Lost for words eh...did he do it that well? | |||
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"“Wank/suck fun?” probably made me chuckle the most, and the guy who offered me cash to let him wank me off left me lost for words Lost for words eh...did he do it that well?" He certainly wanted to | |||
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"The sheer volume of messages that I didn't want to respond to finally made me block single males. I barely manage to keep on top of my life admin. Didn't need to add Fab admin ontop of that Understandable. Admin takes the fun out of sexscapades. Out of curiosity, how many messages do couples or single women get? [Anyone feel free to answer] " Over 150 a day from single males if filters are off. And if I added a new pic then over 300. Just horrendous really. Don't get the opportunity to search what you're looking for if all the time you're just wading through mass spam mail. The odd gem gets completely lost within it. So I find if I message first works best for me | |||
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"It's the single male profiles that have no pictures that message you 'you got Kik. Let me come fuck you' Like seriously, not even a hello? that and the at least 10 messages a day offering money is making me want to pop my profile on hidden!" I hope you report those profiles offering you money and something is done about them ? | |||
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"To be fair to guys, some ladies are not so eloquent in their replies either - "lol", "yeah babes" "kik?". And that's after a lengthy, well thought out and tailored message. They don't get a further reply " I do this on purpose to "hi/how are you" ones. Shit messages get a shit reply. | |||
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"We blocked one today for asking if we would have sex with his dog " his DOG....? | |||
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"We blocked one today for asking if we would have sex with his dog his DOG....? " Yep | |||
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"The sheer volume of messages that I didn't want to respond to finally made me block single males. I barely manage to keep on top of my life admin. Didn't need to add Fab admin ontop of that Understandable. Admin takes the fun out of sexscapades. Out of curiosity, how many messages do couples or single women get? [Anyone feel free to answer] Over 150 a day from single males if filters are off. And if I added a new pic then over 300. Just horrendous really. Don't get the opportunity to search what you're looking for if all the time you're just wading through mass spam mail. The odd gem gets completely lost within it. So I find if I message first works best for me " I had no idea that you get so many...Kind of enlightening. Sounds like you could use a Fab PA to clear out your inbox and only keep the one's you'd have a soft spot for. | |||
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"Out of curiosity, how many messages do couples or single women get? " Depends on various things. If we don't pop into Fab for a few days then we might only get one or two per day. If we pop in but don't do much then we might get 10-20 over the next 24hrs. If we post a photo, we could get 100 messages over the following day or two. If we visit a big city it gets mad....a couple of nights in York and I think we got over 200 per day. Bry (and Charlotte) | |||
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"The sheer volume of messages that I didn't want to respond to finally made me block single males. I barely manage to keep on top of my life admin. Didn't need to add Fab admin ontop of that Understandable. Admin takes the fun out of sexscapades. Out of curiosity, how many messages do couples or single women get? [Anyone feel free to answer] Over 150 a day from single males if filters are off. And if I added a new pic then over 300. Just horrendous really. Don't get the opportunity to search what you're looking for if all the time you're just wading through mass spam mail. The odd gem gets completely lost within it. So I find if I message first works best for me " And they all expect to remember them etc. | |||
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"Been offered money, impregnation and to suck on my used tampons. And if I’d shit on someone " Yeah i get weird prostitution messages, ok to crap, pee, wank over myself/photos But last time I mentioned what people said to me on forums. I was banned. So i see you guys on the other side if it happens tonight | |||
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"To be fair to guys, some ladies are not so eloquent in their replies either - "lol", "yeah babes" "kik?". And that's after a lengthy, well thought out and tailored message. They don't get a further reply I do this on purpose to "hi/how are you" ones. Shit messages get a shit reply. " Do you say hi back if you like their profile/pics? | |||
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"Just to balance things, we get equally poor messages from couples as well and very occasionally women. When I (V) had a solo profile, I was surprised at how persistent some couples could be. Have to say it was a real eye opener and unfortunately led to the block button being used numerous times." That's fair - I'm guessing there are a lot of people (not only single men) that send lazy messages. It's a shame that a couple would be overly persistent. You'd think that they'd know what it's like to be on the receiving end of single men (~sounds a bit naughty ~) and would avoid doing it to others. | |||
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"We blocked one today for asking if we would have sex with his dog his DOG....? Yep " Well he did have dogging in his interests | |||
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"I hear what you are saying I get the same all the time And I get the iv met loads of straight guys on fab when I say no thanks I'm not interested Some are very apologetic Others get really arsey with me " ok | |||
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"To be fair to guys, some ladies are not so eloquent in their replies either - "lol", "yeah babes" "kik?". And that's after a lengthy, well thought out and tailored message. They don't get a further reply " This! It's not just the single guys or lazy couples that put a complete lack of effort in! Many a time I've had this very same thing, and that's where our chat ends | |||
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"To be fair to guys, some ladies are not so eloquent in their replies either - "lol", "yeah babes" "kik?". And that's after a lengthy, well thought out and tailored message. They don't get a further reply I do this on purpose to "hi/how are you" ones. Shit messages get a shit reply. Do you say hi back if you like their profile/pics?" Do you mean do I still send a shit message back if I like their profile but they send a "hey how are you"? Absolutely. I'm not going to engage and potentially sleep with anyone who doesn't think I'm worth at least a little bit of effort. | |||
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"Not blocked all single males (yet) but messages similar to yours Hi Hello How are you? Wanna fuck? What you upto? What's happening? How you doing? Or just a cock pic And I get all sorts of friends requests from people I've never chatted to since I moved all my pics to friends only, because I'm fed up guys profiles with no pics or 3 friends only 1s you know are just cock pics viewing my profile 20 times a day without sending a message But I'm still here and a thanks but no thanks then block so they dont repeat the same message every couple of days helps" You're lucky if they all spell YOU with three letters. So many don't when they're messaging me. | |||
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"I've had my fair share of messages from single guys. Sometimes they eloquently ask 'hows you' [that was the whole message] or politely request me to 'show ur cock' [that was also the whole message]. Ignoring the fact that I'm not looking to meet single men, most of the time, I think the messages are funny, and at worst the lack of effort is a bit annoying. What were the most tiring, infuriating or funniest messages that made you want to or finally block single males?" Fully agree same things as myself. Removed my cock photos off my Profile, that has made the silly 2 word Nice Cock messages disappear and also took the looking for "men" out, so those who want to send me something to start my juices flowing will require more..... | |||
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"The ones that really piss me off are the ones who randomly message asking (or outright stating!) that they want to get me pregnant. I am unable to have children, so I find these messages deeply upsetting on a personal level. Aside from that, the ones who offer money are gross. Also not a fan of the ones I get frequently asking if I'm interested in a cuckold!" I've had someone ask to get me pregnant (on another site) before and it really upset me as I'd just had a miscarriage. We also had a message from a lorry driver who was 'parked up in a layby near you, fancy some fun'. The ones who want to meet up NOW usually get deleted | |||
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"The ones that really piss me off are the ones who randomly message asking (or outright stating!) that they want to get me pregnant. I am unable to have children, so I find these messages deeply upsetting on a personal level. Aside from that, the ones who offer money are gross. Also not a fan of the ones I get frequently asking if I'm interested in a cuckold! I've had someone ask to get me pregnant (on another site) before and it really upset me as I'd just had a miscarriage. We also had a message from a lorry driver who was 'parked up in a layby near you, fancy some fun'. The ones who want to meet up NOW usually get deleted " I'm sorry that that happened. I'm 90% convinced that these type of graphic one-liners are just a product of laziness and lack of imagination. Still, 10% of me wonders if the occasional horny punter says "you had me at layby!" And they end up getting a quickie off of the M4. | |||
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"Wuu2.... That was the full message " I don't understand...is that a typo? | |||
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"laziest messages we had said "WUU2" I had to ask what it meant Apparently it means What you up to?"" Good Lord! The text resembles a starter course on a Russian menu? Did you respond? | |||
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