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By *dquest OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We don't. We don't feel it's safe at all. We know lots of other folks meet apart. What steps do you take to avoid mishaps?

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

It's a rare occurrence for me to meet up with anyone new.

I always tell someone who I'm meeting, where, send location and check in with them. I then message when I leave, so they know I'm safe.

I won't agree to meet someone if I have even a vague hint of not feeling safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would only consider that if we had met the person before and hubby has the best character judgement.

We always use life360 to track location, regular messaging while on the meet etc.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I only meet ladies alone and always have a social in a public place first.

Hubby always knows where I will be and who I am with.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"We don't. We don't feel it's safe at all. We know lots of other folks meet apart. What steps do you take to avoid mishaps?"

Spend time getting to know somebody before a meet.

Both have a social meet with anybody you are thinking of meeting alone.

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By *ed just RedWoman
over a year ago

Dublin City

I have a safe call for all meets, coffees and fucks. I message before and after, telephone no’s, photos and location.

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

I meet in my own

I let my husband know out of respect, I message when I’ve arrived/leaving and we both have safe words.

Touch wood I’ve never had a problem

Love to you all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started this through practical reasons to start with, But it turned into more over time.

Also allowed us to explore different things we both like the idea of separately.

Always make sure Stefe is safe by meeting up with her to start with until we are both happy and relaxed about her meeting alone, not so much of a problem from Marty's side just normally a quick text to say i am fine.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"We don't. We don't feel it's safe at all. We know lots of other folks meet apart. What steps do you take to avoid mishaps?"

New meets in cheap hotels with thin walls.

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By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

Verified, meet together first for a coffee, know the location and room number if a hotel. If a first time, set time windows where she will text home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a married woman I used to meet and she said if she never took risks she wouldn't meet anyone and if attacked she would say nothing as hubby would find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social only first. Leave face picture and the exact address with husband. Come up with a specific message to be sent in case of danger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do it in a safe manner know all the numbers address ect ect.. is perfectly fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you do realise that even meeting together is a risk right? Swinging has risks, full stop. We meet singly on occasion, but only with people who have excellent verifications from various sources, people we have met previously for a social, and/or are longstanding partners. Neither of us would ever not do a social first and just show up. You never know what sort of a mess you are going to get into that way - and that goes for meeting as a couple or as a single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only ever do it with people we have met and find trustworthy. Even then, it’s most likely that Gaston would drive MissJ to the meeting.

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By *martin1001Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

The whole thing scares me. I'm always worried that the first time a woman sees me naked, she'll scream and run out of the park!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GB here. Jessica gives me the address of where she is going, and texts me when there, when settled, and at various points while there. She'll also only meet well verified users at their location. Otherwise she'll meet in public socially first or they'll have to come here.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have never been scared to meet alone. Always tell my friend who and where i am meeting. I do socials first and these are always in a bar with other people around.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Is it any different to anyone meeting someone from a vanilla online dating site for the first time? Fortunately most people are not psychopathic serial killers. Nothing in life is 100% risk free. I think you just have to take precautions at the level you are comfortable with.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is it any different to anyone meeting someone from a vanilla online dating site for the first time? Fortunately most people are not psychopathic serial killers. Nothing in life is 100% risk free. I think you just have to take precautions at the level you are comfortable with. "

Exactly this. I’ve had weird safety issues from other ‘dating’ sites including a stalker once!

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By *r genuine oneMan
over a year ago

walsall

Meet in a public place and get to know people first

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

What kind of mishaps are you worried about ?

We tend to not to be concerned, never had any issues, I guess it’s all in the pre meet. If unsure don’t meet them, or take a friend , or meet in a safe place for a social and get to know them , or just keep chatting. Use common sense and instincts, it’s doesn't have to be risky unless you make it.

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By *eatSeekersCouple
over a year ago

Caterham

Mrs H has and will meet ladies alone after a social in a public place....

Whilst I can and would like to meet females / couple alone......it yet to happen!......

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

My wife does come to social meets first with me so she is comfortable with who ever I meet.

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