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By *b1976 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

What do women think about men who pay to go to a massage parlour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

Nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperate"
I guess as the OP asked what people thought then you are entitled to your opinion. Though I don’t know anyone who goes out of desperation.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Good for them. It is their life and their money so their business how they choose to spend both. We only live once.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the responsibility lies, as always in the consent of both parties. Many sex workers are independent, enjoy their work etc. But we can’t pretend that some of these places are legit. The reality of trafficked women being used in this way means that people should be very aware of who is actually consenting.

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By *ornycoupleleedsCouple
over a year ago

LEEDS

Don't think they are desperate, I am independent escort my self never mix fab with what I am doing,and I met lots of nice guys while I am escorting,and never met desperate one ,every one got own life and some off them have no time for relationship this is why they meet escorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Desperate"

Why?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Nothing wrong with it.

Cheaper and less of a palaver than taking someone on a date.

Pay your money, have a fun time, grab a Chinese takeaway and back home to watch netflix

Think I may of just talked myself into giving it a try after lockdown

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Britain is so stuffy and behind with the times it is actually quite sad.

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By *b1976 OP Man
over a year ago

wigan

Some off the women are stunners

Not the typical street corner type

My neighbour works in a massage parlour very attractive divorced mum

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never given it any thought until I saw this.

As long as there's no coercion involved, I think the men are OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the responsibility lies, as always in the consent of both parties. Many sex workers are independent, enjoy their work etc. But we can’t pretend that some of these places are legit. The reality of trafficked women being used in this way means that people should be very aware of who is actually consenting. "

Independent escorts no problem but a parlour could easily be using a mix of legal and illegal workers.

Trafficked women have been rescued from living in squalor and forced labour many times up and down the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has the right to do what they want but not all of the employee's of all parlours are doing it because they want to.

Some are, some aren't but how would you know for sure that you hadn't just met with someone working out of force and not choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me.

We all have needs and if those needs are fulfilled by going to a parlour or visiting an escort to get what you want & not be “judged” then absolutely go for it & don’t worry about what others say.

If anything, keep it to yourself and stay safe health wise.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Interestingly; my last visit to a swingers club involved a taxi journey, and the driver asked what was at the address I had given him, as I looked like I was going to a party? I told him I was going to a swingers club, which he knew nothing about, but he confessed he visits escorts on a regular basis. I said I couldn’t imagine ever paying for sex, but he replied; “I don’t pay for the sex, I pay for their silence”........

Food for thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t see what issue is, women and men go out clubbing and can end up having sex all for free at least escorts here paid ... obviously I’m not for anyone doing against will but other than that what’s the problem

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

I visit a lady for a massage in her own house near where I live.

She is fully qualified and has sorted out a longstanding Neck problem Ive had.

However, there is another side. What she does to me on her table is a delight

She could make me cum at any time during the hour booking but she keeps me on the edge till she thinks I cant go any further and then allows me to pop.

Cant wait to see her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I visit a lady for a massage in her own house near where I live.

She is fully qualified and has sorted out a longstanding Neck problem Ive had.

However, there is another side. What she does to me on her table is a delight

She could make me cum at any time during the hour booking but she keeps me on the edge till she thinks I cant go any further and then allows me to pop.

Cant wait to see her again "

Hope she declares her home as a business and has the correct level of public liability insurance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think men who pay for services are desperate.

I think for many it makes a lot of sense. If they lack time for a relationship, if they don't want to waste time on dates, endless chat etc only to discover the sex isn't great for them.

Perhaps they just need something physical which they aren't getting at home but don't wish to embark on an affair.

Perhaps they actually find it thrilling on many levels.

Perhaps it's easier because the lack confidence or are insecure.

Maybe they are lonely and just want some company.

Plus so many more reasons.

Not all escorts are forced into it against their will. Some do it through choice.

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

"I visit a lady for a massage in her own house near where I live.

She is fully qualified and has sorted out a longstanding Neck problem Ive had.

However, there is another side. What she does to me on her table is a delight

She could make me cum at any time during the hour booking but she keeps me on the edge till she thinks I cant go any further and then allows me to pop.

Cant wait to see her again

Hope she declares her home as a business and has the correct level of public liability insurance?"

I really dont know...or care

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Is paid sex fully consensual? What I mean is what would happen if a new punter booked an escort but she felt repulsed by him when he showed up? There must be more pressure to go through with something you wouldn't normally do ... And I expect that would be even worse in a parlour, imagine the kick in the balls to a punter who couldn't get laid in a brothel

#anythoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it was my husband then I dont even think about it. Nothing to do with anybody else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is paid sex fully consensual? What I mean is what would happen if a new punter booked an escort but she felt repulsed by him when he showed up? There must be more pressure to go through with something you wouldn't normally do ... And I expect that would be even worse in a parlour, imagine the kick in the balls to a punter who couldn't get laid in a brothel

#anythoughts?"

Maybe they get off on the money, more than the man ..

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I visit a lady for a massage in her own house near where I live.

She is fully qualified and has sorted out a longstanding Neck problem Ive had.

However, there is another side. What she does to me on her table is a delight

She could make me cum at any time during the hour booking but she keeps me on the edge till she thinks I cant go any further and then allows me to pop.

Cant wait to see her again "

That sounds great!

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