FabSwingers.com forum: cuckold/hotwife 3-way relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What we are looking for too!

Yes really hard to find the right person in so many ways x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested in this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this "

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

Will find it after all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x"

Wooooah hold on haha. 1) didnt say I was interested in you just the idea of this sort of arrangement. 2) pretty unfair to say because I'm young (I'm not that young) I am not wanting more than to just fuck someone...jeez

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x

Nothing to do with us)) Just in general it's not for young guys that's all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x

Nothing to do with us)) Just in general it's not for young guys that's all xxx"

Dont think you can just claim this lifestyle off limits for people because of age lol, could you be more ignorant?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Theyre not wrong. Swinging isn't a young person thing.

Hense why younger people don't tend to do so well.

Its simple facts

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

Will find it after all x"

Ha ha, just need to find someone who’s head keeps working when he becomes erect.

Holistic is the word for this type of play me thinks.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’ve been in such a relationship for over two years

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

Do they have to put some shelves up too?

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

"Theyre not wrong. Swinging isn't a young person thing.

Hense why younger people don't tend to do so well.

Its simple facts "

Wow, give him a break everyone.. He merely expressed his interest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

It's hard to find for both sides

I am ideally looking for a regular couple who "both" want long term friend they can build and explore with.

Half the enjoyment comes from finding out what everyone wants, needs from the situation. Turning it from fantasy to real life. Takes times and understanding as well as trust.

So don't think it's just your side that finds it difficult

Wish you luck

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’m interested..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit the nail right on the head.... Looking, but finding the right and lets be honest, genuine person, is the challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we are looking for too!

Yes really hard to find the right person in so many ways x"

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I was a cuckcake for a while. Was good

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Gee y wasn’t I closer to u guys

well I’m not saying I’d be yr ideal fella, but would of been nice to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theyre not wrong. Swinging isn't a young person thing.

Hense why younger people don't tend to do so well.

Its simple facts "
I don't do so bad in the swinging world met lots of amazing couples and singles in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, what is it that is required, I have no desire for this, I don’t think, but I genuinely don’t understand and would like to learn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So, what is it that is required, I have no desire for this, I don’t think, but I genuinely don’t understand and would like to learn. "

MOST IMPORTANT THING THE GUY MUST BE LOCAL DISTANCE NEVER WORKS TRUST US X

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"So, what is it that is required, I have no desire for this, I don’t think, but I genuinely don’t understand and would like to learn.

MOST IMPORTANT THING THE GUY MUST BE LOCAL DISTANCE NEVER WORKS TRUST US X"

I forgot to write about the distance when I said I was interested.. but I’m interested in a relationship like this .... sounds fun with little pressures and a great way to form friendships

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a clue for guys what its means 3 way relationship. Imagine you have to treat someone else wife as your partner or girlfriend...

The rest you have to figure out ))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, what is it that is required, I have no desire for this, I don’t think, but I genuinely don’t understand and would like to learn.

MOST IMPORTANT THING THE GUY MUST BE LOCAL DISTANCE NEVER WORKS TRUST US X"

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"So, what is it that is required, I have no desire for this, I don’t think, but I genuinely don’t understand and would like to learn.

MOST IMPORTANT THING THE GUY MUST BE LOCAL DISTANCE NEVER WORKS TRUST US X

Depends on what you call local, plus the value of what you have got I guess.

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Love the three way dynamic involved in a cuckold relationship, can’t beat the social side too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy this scenario. There is something really exciting about dating another man's wife. The thrill of picking her up and going for a drink, flirting and teasing. Watching her send messages to her hubby about how the date is going. Then on to a hotel room and pics and videos for her husband as we play or back to their place so he can watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

Wow I guess that is a hard and special thing to find - without the jealousy that could happen and to become involved enough with a Bull that has no other distractions ( family, work issues or other women etc). And also to all be interested enough in each other to make it special over a long time.

I love my mmf relationships but would never want something that intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoyed this with a local guy for 6 mo the. Took me out on dates etc. Was treated like I had an extra husband haha

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"We enjoyed this with a local guy for 6 mo the. Took me out on dates etc. Was treated like I had an extra husband haha"

Sounds good. We'd like something similar.

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By *witchRichMan
over a year ago

Southport

Hard to find the right couple too!

Had a great relationship with a couple for 3 yrs till they emigrated. Would be great to find another couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was the only form of being a bull, swinging and cuckolding in general that I knew before moving to England. Craved for it badly at the beginning, but people are not looking for that here. I am now used to and happy with clubs, parties and casual meets. I literally lived with a couple in my late 20s, early 30s. Had my fair share of that aspect of the lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This was the only form of being a bull, swinging and cuckolding in general that I knew before moving to England. Craved for it badly at the beginning, but people are not looking for that here. I am now used to and happy with clubs, parties and casual meets. I literally lived with a couple in my late 20s, early 30s. Had my fair share of that aspect of the lifestyle "

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not necessarily looking for this, but some people we have played with have become firm friends.

If it happens it happens, would probably prefer it to one offs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not necessarily looking for this, but some people we have played with have become firm friends.

If it happens it happens, would probably prefer it to one offs. "

Yes totally agree now with you guys. Just as you said if it's happens its happens x

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Op are you thinking of this as a stage towards polyamory?

Biggest challenge seems to be getting the mindset right when a lot of the language just doesnt match. Bull, Cuck, taking the wife etc when often it is a lot more equal and sharing that people actually want. (ok that can vary so much as to be BS but you get the point)

I do sometimes wonder what is in it for the third...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we are looking for too!

Yes really hard to find the right person in so many ways x"

Well I’d love to apply for the position x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What we are looking for too!

Yes really hard to find the right person in so many ways x

Well I’d love to apply for the position x"

READ PREVIOUS POSTS!Distance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What rules do couples have for the bull?

Is he allowed to date other women and play with other couples ?

Are you available to see him during the holidays?

Can he request to see the wife when he wants too?

Please ask these questions to any potential long term bull.....

I’ve been in these relationships in the past , and they didn’t work out because... it felt a little one sided....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What rules do couples have for the bull?

Is he allowed to date other women and play with other couples ?

Are you available to see him during the holidays?

Can he request to see the wife when he wants too

Please ask these questions to any potential long term bull.....

I’ve been in these relationships in the past , and they didn’t work out because... it felt a little one sided...."

With a regular bull we like to fuck bareback so tend to stay away from players.We tend to look for a married guy.

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By *xtra4funMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Really interesting thread and something that for me is a real turn on.

Being the extra guy being watched really plays on my exhibitionist desires but only if the lady is really into it. There would have to be a genuine connection with her to create the passion to make the dynamic really work and long lasting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What rules do couples have for the bull?

Is he allowed to date other women and play with other couples ?

Are you available to see him during the holidays?

Can he request to see the wife when he wants too

Please ask these questions to any potential long term bull.....

I’ve been in these relationships in the past , and they didn’t work out because... it felt a little one sided....

With a regular bull we like to fuck bareback so tend to stay away from players.We tend to look for a married guy."

Smart , married guys tend to be less clingy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd sexual friend relationship fine ... 3rd person relationship not so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole idea of a 3 way relationship sounds great, but tend to find they usually looking for some hung stud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What rules do couples have for the bull?

Is he allowed to date other women and play with other couples ?

Are you available to see him during the holidays?

Can he request to see the wife when he wants too?

Please ask these questions to any potential long term bull.....

I’ve been in these relationships in the past , and they didn’t work out because... it felt a little one sided...."

all cuckold couples are different ... we are just sexual ... everything else in our life is normal I see a few regular guys they give me the sex I need as and when we want I have no desire to date or any kind of poly relationship im not looking for love just sex and a friend to us both but as said some take a different route and that's there choice cuckolding is a very simple thing very basic in its original form

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We have a regular male that join us, he's also a good friend.

We don't think we could with anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This scenario has always intrigued me and I’d love to part of one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very much in to it with couples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a real woman to be honest and make this work

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By *otwifeforyou1978Couple
over a year ago

Telford

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

(Huhum) Still looking for My couple to play with

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

"I'm interested in this "

Nah mate. I don’t think they he is up to it. You are way to good.

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

"We have a regular male that join us, he's also a good friend.

We don't think we could with anyone else"

I had this until recently. A very fulfilling relationship all round

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

We have someone we meet (in normal times), hes married, we all get on in and out of the bedroom, I do meet him on my own, sometimes to just take the dogs for a walk, sometimes for a drink or food, or for sex. It works for us, I'm not into 1 offs, they do nothing for me.

Jo x

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I had a relationship like this before for about 3 years. It worked really well. Unfortunately the husband got a job abroad and they both moved away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Your profile says you are looking for MF cpls but the description says the opposite.

You may want to select the Right option for MEN

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By *eatwaveMan
over a year ago

Barnet

I would be intrested, anyone local to me please pm xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been looking for a bull for a long long time and eventually found our ideal bull just before lockdown happened !!! Can’t wait for lockdown to be lifted so we can take that final step of meeting him. Looking for our bull to sleep with us when ever he can and cuck will be asleep In the other room and if he’s a good boy will be allowed to clean up.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Your profile says you are looking for MF cpls but the description says the opposite.

You may want to select the Right option for MEN "

Thanks for that, had no idea.

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x

Nothing to do with us)) Just in general it's not for young guys that's all xxx

Dont think you can just claim this lifestyle off limits for people because of age lol, could you be more ignorant?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What rules do couples have for the bull?

Is he allowed to date other women and play with other couples ?

Are you available to see him during the holidays?

Can he request to see the wife when he wants too?

Please ask these questions to any potential long term bull.....

I’ve been in these relationships in the past , and they didn’t work out because... it felt a little one sided...."

It does seem interesting in theory but your points are things I've personally wondered about. And some couples do make it seem like it's all about them benefiting and not an actual 3 way relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theyre not wrong. Swinging isn't a young person thing.

Hense why younger people don't tend to do so well.

Its simple facts

Wow, give him a break everyone.. He merely expressed his interest..."
Totally agree. Too many critics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a clue for guys what its means 3 way relationship. Imagine you have to treat someone else wife as your partner or girlfriend...

The rest you have to figure out ))"
What ? You mean argue over the bills etc

(Sorry, only joking)

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

It's difficult to find the right third. The levels of dynamic have to be so perfect. It's hard enough finding 1 person you get on with that well, so 3 is a task!

But when it is right it can lead to years, not weeks.. years, of fulfilment for all 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was a cuckcake for a while. Was good

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mmmmm cake!!

what is a cuckcake? Never heard of that before x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I was a cuckcake for a while. Was good

mmmmm cake!!

what is a cuckcake? Never heard of that before x"

Urban Dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really interesting thread!

In the ideal world I'd be a hotwife and have a boyfriend but can't imagine it being easy merging the relationships!

Btw, I can't even find man no 1 so am way off, do enjoy learning more about it all though

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is such a psychological play in satisfying a cuck, it is control play, like D/s, not something that comes across in porn.

Sexual humiliation stays in the scene.

Respect is paramount.

When it works, like D/s, it is stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I want to do as well!!!

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

we had a relationship like this years ago lasted 7 months it was best part of our naughty times I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I’d like to do

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By *astmidlandscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

Same here! xx

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

Cotswolds

"There is such a psychological play in satisfying a cuck, it is control play, like D/s, not something that comes across in porn.

Sexual humiliation stays in the scene.

Respect is paramount.

When it works, like D/s, it is stunning."

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

It’s a great experience when you have that dynamic. But it is different for everyone.

In my experience, communication is key and as long as couples and the bull both communicate their specific wants and needs from the onset, then it’s a great start.

Also, you can’t build a relationship with someone if you do just one thing and that’s have sex for a few hours every couple of days or so. As people, we need to do different things to connect and so long as eveyine is open, mature and respectful of the boundaries, I don’t see why it should be complicated.

Gotta admit the idea of having a polyamorous arrangement sounds more natural to me than the conventional relationships that we currently have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm interested in this

Too young sorry! We think you just want a good fuck with older lady! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person!

Same here! xx"

I would love to try this - I m from Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This idea sounds very interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I enjoy this scenario. There is something really exciting about dating another man's wife. The thrill of picking her up and going for a drink, flirting and teasing. Watching her send messages to her hubby about how the date is going. Then on to a hotel room and pics and videos for her husband as we play or back to their place so he can watch."

VERY GOOD THINKING MATE x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We enjoyed this with a local guy for 6 mo the. Took me out on dates etc. Was treated like I had an extra husband haha"

EXACTLY GUYS SPOT ON!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The whole idea of a 3 way relationship sounds great, but tend to find they usually looking for some hung stud

Well so called hung studs usually think too high about themselfs and normal looks guys better in such a relationship x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Pretty much what we are actually looking for!

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By *layfulAussieMan
over a year ago

Sydney

Sweet and classy, sounds very ideal!

I know there's been some discussion around younger men further up but what's your limit down there? Would a 32yr old toy boy(friend) be of interest?

Love this idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this kind of relationship and being single it’s great for me, I tend to fit in around the couple and have met for everything from a quickie, overnighter, night out and sex, all sorts. Always hard to find someone close by that wants this kind of relationship to make it work, always well worth it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience it’s fun short term, doesn’t really work as a long term thing

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By *ullman1Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Cuckold couples are my favorite. I find it such a turn on to play with wives as their husbands watch and/or join in. It is important for me that they both enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Pretty much what we are actually looking for!"

We totally agree x

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I have been seeking this for a number of

Months now

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By *x69coupleCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

I think we are all looking for the same thing two men passionate for the same woman.

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By *aughty Fallen AngelCouple
over a year ago

Hampton Court

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Interested in how you manage the emotional feelings (love?) that I imagine could potentially develop..? How do you ensure it doesn't start to destabilise your marital relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think we are all looking for the same thing two men passionate for the same woman."

Very well said! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Interested in how you manage the emotional feelings (love?) that I imagine could potentially develop..? How do you ensure it doesn't start to destabilise your marital relationship?"

We thought about it as well but we think if you trust each other 100% nothing gonna happened to your marriage xx

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By *3xycuckcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We'd love to find someone locally that we all click with. Learning about each other and having the time to really understand what makes each of us tick. The trust, confidence and excitement building on each meet. Tricky thing to find to satisfy everyone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We'd love to find someone locally that we all click with. Learning about each other and having the time to really understand what makes each of us tick. The trust, confidence and excitement building on each meet. Tricky thing to find to satisfy everyone..."

We like that guys xx

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Watch Triangulation to see how it may all work...that's two women and one man though. Great series though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds interesting;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adding a nice sexy third person to overnights weekends and holidays increases the sexual tension and energy in a relationship and we all enjoy more. Xx

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Me has always pushed it. I feel it will make life too complicated!! X

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

Yes..its much, much harder then one would think. As a single guy, its hard enough to find a couple to have regular fun, its triply hard to find a couple were you can “date” teh wife...often logistics make it impossible to have have a proper friendship with the couple. Years ago, before I even knew I dated a married lady....met on normal vanilla website...she was happily married but was looking for boyfriends. She and her husband werent swingers..but she liked dating other men. We dated for couple of years (she had other lovers)...We had similar interests and lived in London, so we could see each other regularly. She would stay at mine and then go back home. I was too young to realise how lucky I was!

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By *astmidlandscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I love this kind of relationship and being single it’s great for me, I tend to fit in around the couple and have met for everything from a quickie, overnighter, night out and sex, all sorts. Always hard to find someone close by that wants this kind of relationship to make it work, always well worth it though "

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

The hardest bit of this is finding someone who lives local enough to make it regular with minimal travel.

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By *ionel888Man
over a year ago

London

Some couples have to be realistic and flexible otherwise they might have to wait for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Some couples have to be realistic and flexible otherwise they might have to wait for ages"

I’ve noticed there are two types of couples when trying to have a long term relationship with a cuckold/hotwife dynamic...

The first type of couple always give you as much notice as possible to arrange a meeting.. This ensures you can move your schedule around and not disrupt your personal life..They don’t need communication daily or want it.... They usually play sporadically ensuring things never get boring...

The second type of couple needs constant communication... Sex talk , pics , videos... they will text and call 24/7 with “ She is horny , can you come over now “ expecting you to drop whatever you are doing for them....

As a single male entering into a couples life... you have to master what type of couple you’re dealing with and figure out if it’s for you or not....

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By *ionel888Man
over a year ago

London

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By *ionel888Man
over a year ago

London

I do agree , I have been there....

I meant some couples who's live in small town who's expecting to find someone local or about accommodation thing have to be flexible ...

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By *r B.Man
over a year ago

Durham

I'd love to entertain a hot couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Adding a nice sexy third person to overnights weekends and holidays increases the sexual tension and energy in a relationship and we all enjoy more. Xx"

Nice one guys!

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

"Adding a nice sexy third person to overnights weekends and holidays increases the sexual tension and energy in a relationship and we all enjoy more. Xx

Nice one guys!"

Mmmmmm when you just sometimes wish you lived in Leeds

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By *j123456Couple
over a year ago

cradley heath

This thread is sooo true for us

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By *69meMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I'd live to be in this situation with a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

I've been in several 3 way relationships over the past seven years. I'd holiday with one couple too. The more you get to discover about each other the better it becomes.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

In it, mainly for the sex and friendship don't have time for the dating and other bits where the husband should be doing.

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By *3xycuckcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Holidaying with a Bull sounds a lot of fun. Not worrying about bumping into anyone you know...Everyone relaxing by the pool or the beach, cocktails, sun, sand and plenty more!!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

I did it with a friend for several years and was always great fun.

They stopped due to them wanting to start a family.

I am still good friends with them now.

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Pretty much what we are actually looking for!"

Just the sort of thing I've been looking for for myself and my partner for quite some time x

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Interesting thread

I have been involved in this lifestyle for many years and played with couples and with partners. Most recently with me being the submissive or cuck.

In the time I have been in and around the scene I think attitudes have changed. I was always inclusive of the woman’s partner and took the time to speak with and indeed spend time with them as a couple. Most recently I have found the prospective Bull or Dom, simply isn’t interested in me. They chat with the female regularly however seemingly not interested in any dialogue with me. This I think is where time has changed the understanding the Bulls have. When I was meeting couples my main stipulation was ‘no sneaking around’ as such when the woman wanted to meet with me, her husband was the first person I messaged to ensure he was ok with everything and knew, as in they had discussed it together before. To see what if anything he wanted from the liaison. My most recent experience as a cuck was one of, him saying to her, I want you to do tasks for me but keep them from him, I want them to remain secret lol

In my humble opinion in order for these things to work the prospective gentleman needs to understand he is being invited to add to the couples relationship, and from that mutual trust, friendship and great sex can then develop out of that dynamic.

Only my humble opinion and not saying this applies to everyone so please don’t take any offence at my observations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the third person in a 3 way relationship over a 4 year period, a little while ago, we played say once every 6 weeks, but in all honesty it was really all about the social side. We got on well, and I became good friends with the male half in particular. Why?, because women enjoy conversation purely for its own sake they meet for coffee catch-ups etc, and they like it very much, whereas, men tend not to, its more about shared hobbies and interests, and the women involved in this lifestyle, tend not to like seeing their partners left out. It was this inclusive approach we all had towards one - another that made it work, and realising, it was just an excuse to act out a fantasy and nothing more within a really nice rock solid relationship, that I was lucky to be invited into.

Thanks for reading Fit-n-friendly.

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By *ammy lynWoman
over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"Interesting thread

I have been involved in this lifestyle for many years and played with couples and with partners. Most recently with me being the submissive or cuck.

Only my humble opinion and not saying this applies to everyone so please don’t take any offence at my observations! "

I think your humble opinion is a very good insight into what quite a few couples may be looking for. xx

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I was the third person in a 3 way relationship over a 4 year period, a little while ago, we played say once every 6 weeks, but in all honesty it was really all about the social side. We got on well, and I became good friends with the male half in particular. Why?, because women enjoy conversation purely for its own sake they meet for coffee catch-ups etc, and they like it very much, whereas, men tend not to, its more about shared hobbies and interests, and the women involved in this lifestyle, tend not to like seeing their partners left out. It was this inclusive approach we all had towards one - another that made it work, and realising, it was just an excuse to act out a fantasy and nothing more within a really nice rock solid relationship, that I was lucky to be invited into.

Thanks for reading Fit-n-friendly."

Interesting dynamic, I get it though

I hope you find it again if it is what you are looking for

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we are all looking for the same thing two men passionate for the same woman."

I'd absolutely love this!!!

Am single so say hi if not too far away and looking

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By *rthangMan
over a year ago

Hebden bridge

I was in a 3 way cuckold relationship for several years. Unfortunately the guy died

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

This is a great scenario and we would love to try it and see how it would work for us.

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

Bookmark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right couple on the same wavelength it can be incredible. My longest and best relationship lasted 6 years

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

We would love to find an exclusive "boyfriend" to suit our needs

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By *ightasiandelightCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We would love this x

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By *DistinguishedGentMan
over a year ago

Tenerife

I had a great dynamic with a couple once. Lasted for quite a while. Such a mental and physical turn on all the things that we got up to. We still chat, but are in different countries now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Holidaying with a Bull sounds a lot of fun. Not worrying about bumping into anyone you know...Everyone relaxing by the pool or the beach, cocktails, sun, sand and plenty more!! "

Yes best thing to do xx

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By *airyChestedDaveMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We would love this x"

Over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the holy grail..well maybe four way..or a commune..but three a fine start lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has always been a fantasy of mine but has to be with the right couple. What are you couples out there looking for in a third person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We actually prefer this to meeting numerous men at one time, we just stick to the one guy and build a connection with him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This can work very well if the dynamic is right.

Jo x

Just perfect combination x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe you should be looking at a poly relationship instead of on here, plenty of ways to meet others for poly relationships. fb, Okc is good for poly too, feeld also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appeals to few I find - like for me it works as I travel with work all the time. So, downtime is nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holidaying with a Bull sounds a lot of fun. Not worrying about bumping into anyone you know...Everyone relaxing by the pool or the beach, cocktails, sun, sand and plenty more!! "

This honestly is the dream

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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago

Princess Risborough

I have joined quite a few couples and for me it's about pleasing them both. Also the social side is fun. But essentially for me it's about pleasing the lady, any gentleman knows that the lady always cums first, and second ??????.

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By *orthernCouple88Couple
over a year ago

Braintree (visiting)

We like this too. X

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

"99.9% of guys think the only thing they have to do is to come over once a week have sex and go home until next time!!!

Always so surprised when you trying to explain its not just a good fuck! x

Do they have to put some shelves up too? "

Haha! And change light bulbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's will be perfect life for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love cuckold couples and meets of that nature, always make for very sexy meets indeed

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By *aughtyboytmMan
over a year ago

Burgess Hill

Hi good morning beautiful people

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

Been trying to find a mature couple for friendship as well as sex for a long time but it seems impossible to find a couple that want the same thing , the friendship is so important

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By *r blue eyes123Man
over a year ago

Norfolk Coast

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By *hy52Man
over a year ago

Kinross

We playedwith two different friends for years , great fun

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By *wodoswingCouple
over a year ago

swindon

We have looked for this for years, to find someone who is committed to more than just a meet. Reliability becomes the problem and that kind of kills the relationship value.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are interested in meeting a guy every week or two for a variety of things, as the mood takes us. So threesomes, cuckolding, maybe Gaston away on business and perhaps just dinner.

We definitely want to meet somebody that we can build the social aspect of a relationship with too.

We are probably asking too much of one person there.

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By *tewart39Man
over a year ago

Chester

Love this relationship and 3 way the sex gets better as trust and wants are discovered x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this relationship and 3 way the sex gets better as trust and wants are discovered x

Oh completely true. It can get very hot and steamy working through a few scenarios.

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

"We have looked for this for years, to find someone who is committed to more than just a meet. Reliability becomes the problem and that kind of kills the relationship value. "

Hi,

You are fairly close to me....a d that's exactly what I am looking for.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really do enjoy these, had some fun recently and it was pretty horny for all.

All cpls are different in what they want or perceive in the meets etc. Getting to know people and likes etc and the some social aspect always helps and makes the fun a lot hotter otherwise it can be very cold.

Would be interested in meeting a nice cpl again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are interested in meeting a guy every week or two for a variety of things, as the mood takes us. So threesomes, cuckolding, maybe Gaston away on business and perhaps just dinner.

We definitely want to meet somebody that we can build the social aspect of a relationship with too.

We are probably asking too much of one person there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love this relationship and 3 way the sex gets better as trust and wants are discovered x

This is so true, the connection adds so much more to it x

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Oh yes. It is challenging to found a couple looking for a 3-way.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"What we are looking for too!

Yes really hard to find the right person in so many ways x

Indeed, it is not easy to found the right couple either. Ed

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Before Sheila lost her sex drive we had a 'regular' friend join us for 3sums, sometimes they would play without involving me or go out somewhere by themselves.

I found it a huge turn on, loved the mixed emotions, even the SLIGHT jealousy I felt mixed in too

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

Not actively looking for for this but more fwb type scenario, we have all the love and emotional support we need from each other.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Not actively looking for for this but more fwb type scenario, we have all the love and emotional support we need from each other."

what types of scenarios you were thinking about, Ed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time, I had a friend of mine who asked me to have fun with his wife and for him to clean up the mess - straight off the tap too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still longing for a bull for C but has to be just the right type.. She is very fussy.. We are also poly at heart too so anything possible

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By *onkey_boy87Man
over a year ago

derby

"Theyre not wrong. Swinging isn't a young person thing.

Hense why younger people don't tend to do so well.

Its simple facts "

I've had plenty of joy in this scene with older and younger couples and women. Never not had sex at a club.

Quite ignorant to say this scene isn't for younger people. If everyone thought like you this would be a shit site

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By *unnyone32Man
over a year ago

london

I would be interested but sadly too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding the right person who’s good for you is what it is all about and how good you are for them, plus having that all round chemistry and respect is a must x

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

Think I might have found them.....

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

Bulls may be motivated to become involved with couples in cuckold relationships for fun In a typical encounter, the woman has sex with another man while her husband watches. The husband is, of course, aware and willing.

This lack of participation, this feeling of being left out, is what many cuckhold fetishists enjoy

The pleasure comes from giving up that power of sexually pleasing your partner over to someone else.

As the bull, you’re the third party that gets chosen to come into the relationship. The main draw here is getting to have no-strings-attached sex with someone who is eager and willing.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Any couples who really tried 3 way relationship with a bull or so called family friend?? Really up for it for years but so hard to find the right person! "

I would be interested in maintaining such a relationship

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

DVT is incredibly arousing.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

"DVT is incredibly arousing. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting thread. I do agree that it should be more then just sex. I mean don’t get me wrong the sex can be so great. But it’s more....the connection, trust, laughs and just how laid back the couple feel with you. I always believe starting off chatting and getting to know likes, dislikes, flirting etc is always a must.

Plus it’s always good to be on the same wavelength as the husband I mean after all it’s his wife that he is offering lol.

Anyway happy hunting to all the couples on this thread looking and I hope you find what your looking for.......x

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"DVT is incredibly arousing. "

Err??? Deep Vein Thrombosis?

Doesn't that kill people on long haul flights?

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By *elsh.couple1Couple
over a year ago

Swansea/neath

We both would love to find another woman to join our relationship. Been talking about it for a while.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We both would love to find another woman to join our relationship. Been talking about it for a while.

No easy to find your sexy unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else involve poly feelings with cuckoldry?

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