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To kiss or not to kiss...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kissing can be a huge turn on. Wonder if those who plump for swapping with no mouth kisses can still have a horny time?

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

We are not sure if it would feel right without some kisses! Xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, we can.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

I like kissing myself but just be given oral or have sex is just as good without .... every wank I’ve ever had never involved kissing

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By *randMrsCambridgeCouple
over a year ago

Stansted (Herts/Essex)

Not for us...did it once and it was a mood killer...only top class kissers for us please! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet in the past where we didn't kiss, it didn't feel right. So now kisses are obligatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

urgh I would feel like a prostitute if we didn't kiss.. and kissing is important to me, and gets the juices flowing...

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Kissing can be a huge turn on. Wonder if those who plump for swapping with no mouth kisses can still have a horny time?"
Yes, very horny times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a food slow sensual snog x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good* slow sensual snog x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing. Such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not sure if it would feel right without some kisses! Xxx"
kisses are very important arent they buttercup. Can tell a lot from a kiss. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must - we ain’t fucking if there’s no tongues involved either

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Kissing is a must for me ! such a turn on !

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By *lipsCouple
over a year ago

LEICESTER

No find it quite pathetic when your willing to have sex and be the most intimate with another person but refuse to kiss them.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's an important part of sex for me so not sure if I would want to go without x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

This question is often asked.

It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.

One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Love kissing, but now in these Covid times I think I want to try non kissing meets when I finally meet again x

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Kissing is a massive part for us we find it a turn on but everyone to there own

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Completely all for kissing and I mean a full on snog with the tongues. Absolutely love it as it sets the tone for what’s to come next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing. I don’t thing we’d want to meet people who didn’t want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing, think it might be a deal breaker for me if she didn't want to kiss

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

I thought that kissing wasn't optional, it's definitely a deal breaker not being able to snog properly.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Deff has to be kissing

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I understand why some couples dont kiss others but to me its a must. Love a kiss, a good one can make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing and I always get told that I am a very good kisser and I also got voted best kisser in my school days

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Kissing is a neccessity. We can't comprehend having sexual fun without kissing. It's a huge turn on.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"This question is often asked.

It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.

One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms."

Exactly.

As a woman I love kissing other women, and I'm happy to see my partner kiss women too, but personally I don't want to kiss other men - to me it is just too romantic, and I'm after great sex not romance. None of the people we have played with have ever complained and most come back for more, so perhaps the claim that kissing is essential isn't as prevalent as these threads suggest.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Love kissing

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If I fancy them I kiss them xx

Mrs N x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This question is often asked.

It usually goes the same way. The majority of people say (with varying politeness) that they love kissing and couldn't have sex without it and one or two of us say we enjoy really erotic and sensual sexual activity without it.

One thing is usually the same though, the none kissers rarely talk about the kissers in derogatory terms.

Exactly.

As a woman I love kissing other women, and I'm happy to see my partner kiss women too, but personally I don't want to kiss other men - to me it is just too romantic, and I'm after great sex not romance. None of the people we have played with have ever complained and most come back for more, so perhaps the claim that kissing is essential isn't as prevalent as these threads suggest."

I think it's essential to some people. I just don't know why it's so difficult to accept that some of us don't want to do it. I also don't know why there's always at least one reference to feeling like a prostitute in every kissing thread, I'm pretty sure there's much more to it than not kissing

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.

I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself.

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

100% a must for me, kissing is an essential part of play with a lover; before, during and importantly after as we catch our breath recounting the passion we have just had.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"We are not sure if it would feel right without some kisses! Xxx"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.

I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself."

That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Smooching can lovely with the right people ..xx

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.

I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself.

That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do. "

Great point, everyone needs to feel comfortable and not pressured. Also, everyone has a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing. It also shows how the rest of the sex is likely to be; if the kissing is amazing, usually the sex is. If the kissing is meh, then the sex ain't gonna be all that! And it's not that I'm amazing and they're rubbish, it's the compatibility, the chemistry that matters.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's not the same, I love to kissing, it's so errotic and turns a great sexual experience into an amazing one.

I have played with couples were kissing wasn't allowed and, whilst I had a lot of fun, I felt restricted and couldn't really be myself.

That's why we mention it on our profile. We wouldn't want anyone to feel they couldn't be themselves. The same goes for us though, we don't want to feel pressured into doing something we don't want to do.

Great point, everyone needs to feel comfortable and not pressured. Also, everyone has a choice."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing . It gives a real head start for the fun

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By *ornyboy189Man
over a year ago

cheshire

I love kissing. Massive turn on for me

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By *ayman2002Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

It's a must for me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"100% a must for me, kissing is an essential part of play with a lover; before, during and importantly after as we catch our breath recounting the passion we have just had. "

I’m with you all the way here

I’ve only had one meet where the female didn’t kiss, and it was the only one I’ll ever do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The topic is a very interesting one; respect to those couples and individuals who opt not to kiss as choice is obviously key.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I wouldnt meet if no kissing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To mention it in a profile is logical

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By *olyester123Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

So true x

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It might be because we're very soft swap only but we don't kiss the opposite sex when we're playing. Steph likes a smooch with other women but not other guys. And Rob likes to watch

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No kissing then no sex. Sex is not the same without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm easy whatever she wants, often when your the single invited by a couple it's not your call.

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By *olyester123Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We met a fantastic couple and I really really fancied the lady and all 4 of us had a great time unfortunately I struggled to get hard and was very embarrassed the lady said I was a great kisser and so was she and that made me feel so much better so yes we love kissing

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By *ymruambythCouple
over a year ago

grantham

Kissing a huge thing for us, but in a group setting as we don’t swap

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Definitely need kissing

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

If kissing is not an option then a meet ain’t gonna happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need kisses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us

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By *adylover1000Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Where is the fun of no kissing is involved...think I’d pass personally if kissing was a no go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No good without kissing unfortunately.. Kissing is everything in my book.. Massive turn on with a sexy kisser

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By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

I could survive on kisses alone

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By *exyguy76Man
over a year ago

lancashire

I agree kissing is always a must a massive turn on & sexual depending on the others person. Using tongues to Mmmm. Just have 2 b careful that kissing & oral can have other effects which I'm sure we are all aware of.

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

I love to kiss I think it is all part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God, kissing all the way

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Kissing can be a huge turn on. Wonder if those who plump for swapping with no mouth kisses can still have a horny time?"

I love kissing too much. I couldn't imagine a meet without kissing.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Sex without kissing?

Couldn’t think of anything worse ..

Uncomfortable and robotic..

Definitely not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me!

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By *asual80sMan
over a year ago

Poulton-le-Fylde

Kissing is a big part of four play for me u can read so much of your partners needsfrom kissing

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By *eedsnoiseMan
over a year ago

York/Leeds/Harrogate

I honestly rate passionate kissing above sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kisses are the tell of chemistry for me. Without it the whole experience would feel empty. X

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We need to kiss feels wrong if we dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We save kissing on lips for us that’s our rule

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Kiss defooo

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By *amfabMan
over a year ago

Luton

Yes defo

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

no kiss is simply a deal breaker for me Primal part of feeling the affection x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm kiss "

Lots of kisses xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kisses are vital for me. Also a complete deal breaker if they are bad

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Kisses are a vital part of the experience for me...

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Definitely couldn't meet without kisses! It's number one top of my list of what must definitely happen on a meet! But we've usually had a snog before the meet proper to set the sexual tension and leave ourselves wanting more! It's certainly the case you can tell alot about how the sex will be from those first snoggs...

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Kissing can be a huge turn on. Wonder if those who plump for swapping with no mouth kisses can still have a horny time?"

Personally prefer to kiss. Find it a little odd not to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man wont or worse cant kiss then nothing else is going to happen....kissings a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation.In a gang bamg scenario then not necessary but one to one it is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can not imagine having sex without kissing

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

You have to have kissing , it's part of the passion

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By *lipsCouple
over a year ago

LEICESTER

Massive turn off.We once had a meet and the first thing they said is no kissing talk about pouring cold water on the evening.

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By *ay.WiltsMan
over a year ago

traveling

Got to have kissing, it's sensual and exciting to kiss someone x

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Cant imagine having sex with someone and not kissing

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Got to have kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"urgh I would feel like a prostitute if we didn't kiss.. and kissing is important to me, and gets the juices flowing..."

I agree, it would feel very "transactional" if I wasn't allowed to kiss. And it is very important to me - gets the blood pumping in the right direction

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"urgh I would feel like a prostitute if we didn't kiss.. and kissing is important to me, and gets the juices flowing...

I agree, it would feel very "transactional" if I wasn't allowed to kiss. And it is very important to me - gets the blood pumping in the right direction"

How would it feel transactional? No transaction woudl be taking place.

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