FabSwingers.com forum: Travelling for meets

By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

I personally wouldn’t travel out of my region (north east) because I don’t drive. However, I frequently get messages from people in London, northern Ireland even Plymouth saying they’re willing to travel hundreds of miles for a meet.

What’s your thoughts?

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to travel from Cheshire to Northampton to meet a couple we’ll worth it.

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man
over a year ago

Solihull

If you like them. Travel as long as you like.

I remember going to gorgeous Inverness.

A holiday and fantastic company.

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I used to travel from Cheshire to Northampton to meet a couple we’ll worth it."

That’s quite a distance! As long as you had fun, just not sure a 6 hour round journey would be worth it for me

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

What’s your thoughts? "

I live in London and I had a pretty regular meet in Manchester, I’d definitely do it again she was worth it

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’ve travelled to Cyprus and the Canaries for a meet

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I’ve travelled to Cyprus and the Canaries for a meet

You win...end of thread

I'd be ok with a 400 mile round trip depending on the person and length of time of the meet. It's great to be able to make a weekend of things

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I’ve travelled to Cyprus and the Canaries for a meet

Wow, that’s a long way! I hope it was worth it haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No more than half an hours drive for me. Any further is a deal breaker for me.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

As I don't do hotels or overnights I won't drive more than 45 mins.

I get messages from guys all over the country which is ridiculous and just proves that they haven't read my profile!

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"As I don't do hotels or overnights I won't drive more than 45 mins.

I get messages from guys all over the country which is ridiculous and just proves that they haven't read my profile!"

Yeah I feel the same way, I say on my profile that I’m not comfortable with people travelling long distances/ paying for accommodation to meet me however few take note

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

We traveled to Sydney from brisbane

10 hour drive for a over night party

????????????

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"As I don't do hotels or overnights I won't drive more than 45 mins.

I get messages from guys all over the country which is ridiculous and just proves that they haven't read my profile!

Yeah I feel the same way, I say on my profile that I’m not comfortable with people travelling long distances/ paying for accommodation to meet me however few take note "

Frustrating isn't it, especially when they seem like your type.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Had few people travel 100 miles to us then combine it with weekend on the coast

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By *ionel888Man
over a year ago

London

I did few times was worth it

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?"

I routinely make trips of two to four hours each way for meets. I don't drive either.

My most successful thread on this forum was asking for suggestions for ways to kill time on interminable train journeys. Hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would travel about 1 hour for a meet,maybe 2 hours if hot

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

If someone's worth it, then they're worth it. The more distance that I travel, I would hope for a full night though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just laugh at those saying distance is not an issue. They back off very quickly when they look up the cost of the ferries and the timetable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

What’s your thoughts? "
it doesn't bother me to travel if i feel its a worthy journey, i love the social aspect of travelling

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

I routinely make trips of two to four hours each way for meets. I don't drive either.

My most successful thread on this forum was asking for suggestions for ways to kill time on interminable train journeys. Hah. "

Really? Do you travel after speaking to them for a while? Do you go hoping for sex or are you ok with just the social aspect? Just interested because I think guys think differently to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

I routinely make trips of two to four hours each way for meets. I don't drive either.

My most successful thread on this forum was asking for suggestions for ways to kill time on interminable train journeys. Hah.

Really? Do you travel after speaking to them for a while? Do you go hoping for sex or are you ok with just the social aspect? Just interested because I think guys think differently to women. "
i expect nothing no matter how far i travel

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I do social meets first so asking someone to travel hundreds of miles for a coffee would not be fair.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I do social meets first so asking someone to travel hundreds of miles for a coffee would not be fair. "

This^^^^ I prefer to meet socially first. If they are more than half an hour's drive away it's simply too far on both parts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been as far as Manchester. We met in the middle. One of those things that was just absolutely necessary!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Really? Do you travel after speaking to them for a while? Do you go hoping for sex or are you ok with just the social aspect? Just interested because I think guys think differently to women. "

Yes, really.

Yes, I travel after speaking to people for a while. Part of that conversation is setting reasonable expectations for the meet.

I have travelled as far as Manchester, Hull and Bristol for social meets.

I've travelled as far as London and Southend for sex.

Sometimes I question whether men think at all, to be honest.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I've had guys travelling miles to meet me , furthest I think was Gatwick to Doncaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lack time to travel to far so half hour drive maximum for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Really? Do you travel after speaking to them for a while? Do you go hoping for sex or are you ok with just the social aspect? Just interested because I think guys think differently to women.

Yes, really.

Yes, I travel after speaking to people for a while. Part of that conversation is setting reasonable expectations for the meet.

I have travelled as far as Manchester, Hull and Bristol for social meets.

I've travelled as far as London and Southend for sex.

Sometimes I question whether men think at all, to be honest.

I wouldn't want someone to travel too far to me especially for a social....or sex actually because I might get on with them on line but not face to face. So seems a bit of a risk for me

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not that it's happened yet, but I reckon I could cope with a couple of hours' travelling.

It helps that I like driving, but I do like to make progress so a two hour "easy" drive would be far preferable to 45 minutes crawling through a city centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We travel but only for club meets and most times book into a hotel local to the club or even the club itself if they have rooms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for private meets, i don't tend to venture very far.

however for those awesome club nights, i just can't help myself

1200 miles in 48 hours I think could be a record somewhere.

Oh so worth it for this greedy girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for private meets, i don't tend to venture very far.

however for those awesome club nights, i just can't help myself

1200 miles in 48 hours I think could be a record somewhere.

Oh so worth it for this greedy girl

That’s a long old drive!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often travel up and down the m6, m4 and m5 so travelling isnt an issue. You can go a long way in 4 hours...turns meets into adventures!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I wouldn't want someone to travel too far to me especially for a social....or sex actually because I might get on with them on line but not face to face. So seems a bit of a risk for me "

I think this thread is highlighting one of the many downsides of the toxic patriarchy we live in: Dick is abundant and low value. For me, it ultimately comes down to travelling to where the interest is or going without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around an hour is far enough i think

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

One thing I’ve noticed is that all of the men on this site seem to work in my city now? Haha

I usually politely decline if someone is too far away and 90% they’ll say ‘oh but I work in your area!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing I’ve noticed is that all of the men on this site seem to work in my city now? Haha

I usually politely decline if someone is too far away and 90% they’ll say ‘oh but I work in your area!’"

Funny how that happens!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I wouldn't want someone to travel too far to me especially for a social....or sex actually because I might get on with them on line but not face to face. So seems a bit of a risk for me

I'm pleased you feel like that and I'm not sure how my post made you think of 'toxic patriarchy'

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I've travelled to West Wales, it all depends on how well your getting on and such doesn't it

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I'm pleased you feel like that and I'm not sure how my post made you think of 'toxic patriarchy'

Please forgive me, but I can't read emojis. What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was a certain connection and she was gorgeous would travel the length of England

And treat her like a princess for the time you spend together. After all a lot of effort would of gone into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am travelling from home for a meet then I am happy to drive around 1 hour - plenty of sexy people within 1 hr ofDerby

But I am also lucky that I travel with my work so can also arrange meets when away which is a lovely use of time xx

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm pleased you feel like that and I'm not sure how my post made you think of 'toxic patriarchy'

Please forgive me, but I can't read emojis. What do you mean? "

It's a raised eyebrow, so I'm questioning what you said.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It's a raised eyebrow, so I'm questioning what you said."

Oh, okay. Thank you for clarifying. What aspect were you questioning?

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

No more than 45 mins. However I have travelled to a party as a couple over 100 miles but we knew everyone there so wasn’t going blind.

Also been to London for a social and will continue to do so.

If the place interests me in other ways it would not be a wasted journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I travelled all over london for meets but now I just travel local

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By *ilkyladyWoman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

I only met with someone about 2 hours drive away as I was visiting a friend for the day. An evening meet with a meal and more just was icing on the cake!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I’ve travelled to Cyprus and the Canaries for a meet

You win...end of thread

I'd be ok with a 400 mile round trip depending on the person and length of time of the meet. It's great to be able to make a weekend of things "

Ha ha thanks .... they did turn in to repeat visits and I always had my own hotel ... most enjoyable

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By *ustagentMan
over a year ago

wa14

most prob 80-100 miles max but if I know the couple maybe further! depends if all are happy poss meet half way!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I’ve travelled to Cyprus and the Canaries for a meet

Wow, that’s a long way! I hope it was worth it haha "

It was bloody wonderful ... return trips did occur

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It would deafly depend on how well we get along. But I would say max travel 2 hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled four and a half hours each way for very fun weekend before.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

30 mins as if it's amazing I wanna repeat the experience!!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

20 to 30 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Max one hour travel time is our record.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Probably about 45 mins to an hour tops. We do like weekends away though so if we were chatting to someone we thought was definitely worth meeting we would consider making it into a break away. That's more likely for a couple though than a single man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do social meets first so asking someone to travel hundreds of miles for a coffee would not be fair. "

I agree with this. I am always clear up front that I expect a no-expectations social meet before anything else. So even if a guy claimed to be willing, I would not be comfortable having someone travel hundreds of miles just to meet socially for an hour or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

What’s your thoughts? "

Newcastle

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Furthest we have traveled is to xtasias at West bromich

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By *rouble1998 OP Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’d definitely travel for clubs, a few friends of mine have talked about weekend trips to visit different clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we traveled half a day for a Gang Bang party with public transport from Leeds to London xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would travel no problem as it kinda makes it into more of an adventure..,

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town

"What’s a realistic distance you would travel for a meet?

What’s your thoughts? "

They are mad axe murderers.. don't give them your address!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I've done an approx 800 mile round trip for a weekend with someone, and it was more than worth it. I don't mind travelling if it's someone I have spoken to for a while, I get to see different parts of the country.

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

"We traveled to Sydney from brisbane

10 hour drive for a over night party

????????????"

You take the prize

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We would happily travel a few hundred miles round trip. Life is an adventure, why just stay local. You could be missing out on so much fun. Exploring new places and meeting new people is enjoyable.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We love a good road trip. We would travel anywhere for the right people.

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