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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve always been straight and had many mmf meets.

Not played differently but have thought about it and wouldn’t mind a bit of oral in the right circumstances.

Does this make me - straight, bi curious ??

Hard to put down on the fab choices as so many couples either play with bi guys or not ?

Any advice? - please don’t damn me - I’ve posted before and got slated

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm actually glad you've asked as most would claim to be 100% while sucking another guys dick.

I'd say you were bi curious as you're wondering about it, nothing more than that and certainly not anything you can be judged for

If you do get to find out then I hope you enjoy the experience OP

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By *S4UTWOCouple
over a year ago

Penkridge

My hubby enjoys sucking cock, but that’s all, so...

- if you’re attracted to guys and would enter into a relationship with a guy, then you’re definitely bi-sexual

- are you bi-curious... I don’t think so, unless you find certain guys attractive and are curious about a relationship one

- if you ponder about sucking cock in a sexual situation, I think you’re just kinky... which is very horny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more. "

Your bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yeah you suck a guy your bi own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi"

Nice assumption, but I've never done it.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi

Nice assumption, but I've never done it. "

You thought it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people always so quick to slap a label down and pigeon hole someone. I thought this site is all about sexual liberalism and exploring desires as and when the moment takes you. We are all far too quick to judge our fellow members of this glorious community of expressionism.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why are people always so quick to slap a label down and pigeon hole someone. I thought this site is all about sexual liberalism and exploring desires as and when the moment takes you. We are all far too quick to judge our fellow members of this glorious community of expressionism. "

I have labelled no one do what you have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi

Nice assumption, but I've never done it.

You thought it"

So I'm bi because I thought it? Ive always wished I could fly. it doesnt make me superman lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi

Nice assumption, but I've never done it.

You thought it"

Ha, thought Police now

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By *yeball91Man
over a year ago

southampton

Sexuality is fluid, stop putting labels on it All!

If you want to be in a relationship with a woman but suck dick every now and then, the so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being "Bi" has so many levels though, it's not just a simple black & white you're fully bi or fully straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another thread where people are deluding themselves over their sexuality. It's pretty simple, if you fantasise about engaging sexually with someone of the same sex then you're bi-curious. If you physically engage them you're either bi or you're gay.

Just own it FFS!

And all this shite about "why do we have to pigeon hole everything?". It's not pigeon holing, it's being honest and open. I know it's the 21st century and everything is so PC no-one is allowed to say anything but it's gone so far past the point of no-return now it's getting ridiculous.

And as for the quote "hubby enjoys sucking cock but he's straight".... yup that's something us straight guys love doing on a night out with our mates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not delusional to have an opinion on your own sexuality. We live in a world were people dont need a label any more. Labels make people feel uncomfortable and confused and that's the reason this thread was started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not delusional to have an opinion on your own sexuality. We live in a world were people dont need a label any more. Labels make people feel uncomfortable and confused and that's the reason this thread was started. "

But it's not labels. If I fuck an animal it's bestiality. I can argue it's not because I don't want to be labelled that way but who am I trying to kid?

Actually fuck it, if I can't beat 'em I'll join 'em. I don't like being labelled a man so I'm gonna identify as a Meerkat from now on cos they're funny and kinda cute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not delusional to have an opinion on your own sexuality. We live in a world were people dont need a label any more. Labels make people feel uncomfortable and confused and that's the reason this thread was started.

But it's not labels. If I fuck an animal it's bestiality. I can argue it's not because I don't want to be labelled that way but who am I trying to kid?

Actually fuck it, if I can't beat 'em I'll join 'em. I don't like being labelled a man so I'm gonna identify as a Meerkat from now on cos they're funny and kinda cute. "

Good for you mr meerkat. It's no longer beastiality if your an animal good luck with your fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo bi to even consider it.

If your straight the thought of it is sick.

Thats not a judgement just a true feeling in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A straight guy doesn't think about doing anything sexual with a guy - even if it's just an oral.

A fab straight however..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A straight guy doesn't think about doing anything sexual with a guy - even if it's just an oral.

A fab straight however.. "

Correct answer

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

In 2020 there shouldn't be room for labels. The human body is beautiful and it's OK to like different things at different times.

Most of the time I like to fuck men so am I str8?

Some of the times I enjoy a sexy woman in my bed so am I bi?

At rare times all I want is a woman and nothing else so am I lesbian?

Labels are useless. If you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, then you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, nothing more or less and no labels needed.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In 2020 there shouldn't be room for labels. The human body is beautiful and it's OK to like different things at different times.

Most of the time I like to fuck men so am I str8?

Some of the times I enjoy a sexy woman in my bed so am I bi?

At rare times all I want is a woman and nothing else so am I lesbian?

Labels are useless. If you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, then you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, nothing more or less and no labels needed.

X"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class myself as straight but if a huge cock somehow ended up in my mouth I probably wouldn’t object. (Any couples in the north easy?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me the definition of bi is if you actively seek bi people and curious is if you want to try on your terms. That is how I started and most people agreed with me. Don't worry, chances are you will love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bi , and I hate the way people say I hate labels when there profile is full of labels , we all use labels , if you like cock you are not straight , it’s not rocket science, I cannot be gay and sleep with women, but I could be bi and sleep with any sex , just be who you are no shame in sucking cocks mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only been in relationships with women and only been attracted to them.

I dont fancy guys or would want to kiss or hug one, but when i first joined fab years ago i did end up having 2 spur of the moment mutual wank/suck meets when single and not getting any luck with fem or cpls on fab .

Which i think quite a few guys on fab have done similar, id not count myself as true bi as dont find guys attractive.

Maybe fab bi i.e had fun when horny and no fem or cpl about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive only been in relationships with women and only been attracted to them.

I dont fancy guys or would want to kiss or hug one, but when i first joined fab years ago i did end up having 2 spur of the moment mutual wank/suck meets when single and not getting any luck with fem or cpls on fab .

Which i think quite a few guys on fab have done similar, id not count myself as true bi as dont find guys attractive.

Maybe fab bi i.e had fun when horny and no fem or cpl about?"

Any port in a storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re straight you’re not attracted to men whatsoever, no fantasies nothing.

If you’re having thoughts about it you’re bi curious, if you go ahead with it you’re bisexual.

There’s always talk of “labels” when it comes to sexuality but in life we label everything, from our sexual orientation to our gender etc. Nobody is forced to use labels if they don’t want to, but if you’re having fantasies about sexual relations with a man that’s not “straight”.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I’m listed as straight but I have let guys suck me while at mmf meets, I can also appreciate a decent looking cock and enjoy seeing a good cum shot vid once in a while. I don’t see that as making me bi or bi curious because I’m not actively looking for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually bi. Romantically straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m listed as straight but I have let guys suck me while at mmf meets, I can also appreciate a decent looking cock and enjoy seeing a good cum shot vid once in a while. I don’t see that as making me bi or bi curious because I’m not actively looking for men. "

But you’re having/have had sexual interactions with men. That isn’t “straight” it’s flexible, if you will, but to many that would make you bi.

A straight man isn’t attracted to men and doesn’t have sex with them.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I think a lot of bisexuality is situational

My mate works in an offenders institute and most of the inmates form sexual relationships

Obviously they're not all bi but it seems to work for them given the circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always thought there is what you do in the heat of the moment, and what you actively seek in your day to day life.

In the heat of the moment, I have happily taken part in all kinds of things! Would I go and search them out normally? No.

To me, during sex I am simply sexual. If it is all part of that erotic, sexual, wanton moment then (if the mood takes me) I will go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

let’s be honest we are purely talking sexually here. To be bi fully would allow for you to have gay relationships as well as straight. What makes you horny is purely that. Yes you can be straight and enjoy experiences. Same way you can be meat eater and love salad. Don’t let what other people think on this subject limit your experiences. Live your best life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re a kinky bastard - go and enjoy mate. Don’t worry about what others will think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One if my big turn ons is asking the guy to position and push my cock into his parther's pussy.. I think I'm bicurious and don't care what anybody else thinks!!

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why all this macho posturing?

"I'm straight as a die, but like to suck cock/fuck/be fucked" etc etc

This is 2020 not the 1950's embrace it, if you enjoy it say so, if it's not your cup of tea then fine, move on.

Yes, I am fully Bi, I enjoy sex with men and women.... even both together, TV/CD/Trans, I feel very content and happy to experience the variety that sex can bring....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am straight totally.its like looking at a plate of jelled eels.dont like the look of them.and dont want to try EVER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why all this macho posturing?

"I'm straight as a die, but like to suck cock/fuck/be fucked" etc etc

This is 2020 not the 1950's embrace it, if you enjoy it say so, if it's not your cup of tea then fine, move on.

Yes, I am fully Bi, I enjoy sex with men and women.... even both together, TV/CD/Trans, I feel very content and happy to experience the variety that sex can bring....

"
And enjoying yourself. That's what it's all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why all this macho posturing?

"I'm straight as a die, but like to suck cock/fuck/be fucked" etc etc

This is 2020 not the 1950's embrace it, if you enjoy it say so, if it's not your cup of tea then fine, move on.

Yes, I am fully Bi, I enjoy sex with men and women.... even both together, TV/CD/Trans, I feel very content and happy to experience the variety that sex can bring....

"

I agree.

Far too many are scared to be honest with themselves, and it shows.

Surely those who know what they are and aren’t ashamed of it are having the most fun, like you!

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is exactly how it happened for me a couple of years ago..

I've never had even a thought about it until one time in a club playing with a woman who asked us to suck each other while we fucked her

I did it cos i just thought why not..and really got off on the situation being so horny and it really took it over the top for her

I've never had even the slightest thought about this until that day but if the situation pops up while playing with other people and couples its just such a turn i just go with the flow and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" let’s be honest we are purely talking sexually here. To be bi fully would allow for you to have gay relationships as well as straight. What makes you horny is purely that. Yes you can be straight and enjoy experiences. Same way you can be meat eater and love salad. Don’t let what other people think on this subject limit your experiences. Live your best life "

The meat/salad thing is a ridiculous statement! Ok let's turn it round... is a vegetarian still ok to call themselves a vegetarian because they only have a sausage and bacon butty when they're hungover on a weekend?

And I don't think anyone on here has criticised anyone for their sexual preferences. For me I'd find it insulting I'd someone was engaging in a certain way sexually but describing it as something it's not for some unknown reason. Is it denial or is it cos it's Fab and loads of guys are at it?

The whole "Fab straight" thing is ridiculous and just makes no sense at all!

PS. I can appreciate it when a guy is a handsome bastard but at no point do I want his willy in my mouth or up my poop chute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the OP’ dilemma, if you’ve thought about it and wouldn’t mind trying it in the right circumstances, then I PERSONALLY would say your bi-curious, which is fine, it’s acceptable.

Why not try it and find out.

I would say I’m straight, I don’t think about doing anything with another bloke, don’t want to kiss one, don’t want to touch, suck or fuck a dick or a blokes arse. I’m not homophobic an I’m not judgemental, if it’s your cup of tea so to speak then fill your boots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say I’m straight, I don’t think about doing anything with another bloke, don’t want to kiss one, don’t want to touch, suck or fuck a dick or a blokes arse. I’m not homophobic an I’m not judgemental, if it’s your cup of tea so to speak then fill your boots.

"

And that’s the difference.

I don’t understand how someone can consider themselves fully straight if they enjoy having sexual relations with the same sex, whether it be occasional or regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally, curious is when you haven’t tried something, but you think about it and wouldn’t mind having a go.

So Bi-curious, haven’t tried it but wouldn’t say no!!

Bi-sexual, you’ve tried it, liked it and partake.

Bi-non-curious, you’ve tried & don’t like.

Straight, you only think about and want to engage with the OPPOSITE sex.

I was curious about how fast my bike would go, tried it and now I know. No longer curious.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"For me personally, curious is when you haven’t tried something, but you think about it and wouldn’t mind having a go.

So Bi-curious, haven’t tried it but wouldn’t say no!!

Bi-sexual, you’ve tried it, liked it and partake.

Bi-non-curious, you’ve tried & don’t like.

Straight, you only think about and want to engage with the OPPOSITE sex.

I was curious about how fast my bike would go, tried it and now I know. No longer curious. "

Nah, as I say you’ve left out Bi situational.

Which is to the left of Bi-C which is left of Bi-S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi

Nice assumption, but I've never done it.

You thought it

So I'm bi because I thought it? Ive always wished I could fly. it doesnt make me superman lovely. "

Yeah I'd say only bi if done it..

Thinking it doesn't mean you are...

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

If a cock accidentally brushed against my elbow I'd probably say 'that's cool, don't worry.' Would I be bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexually bi. Romantically straight. "

This sums it up perfectly. We both enjoy having same sex fun. But would never consider a same sex relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious "

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker...."

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker...."

Love this.

Absolutely agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says if something feels good you do it because you just wanna enjoy the feeling for me it doesn’t make you straight, gay, bi or anything, only in your head can you know what it’s about?

I will always only ever love 1 women and never feel attraction to a guy or the male form. But when feeling great in a good few mmf have loved sucking a cock, not about the cock or the guy it’s enjoying the turn on.

If you and your wife fuck another guy Together does that mean you must want or like a three way life together? Does it fuck, if all parties involved into do what feels good a suck that cock

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker...."

Does that make you a cock smoker ????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Does that make you a cock smoker ????????"

You lost me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that."

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Does that make you a cock smoker ????????

You lost me...."

If you smoke a guys cock are you still straight if you don’t swallow the spunk ????????

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual......."

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet

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By *idave241Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"My hubby enjoys sucking cock, but that’s all, so...

- if you’re attracted to guys and would enter into a relationship with a guy, then you’re definitely bi-sexual

- are you bi-curious... I don’t think so, unless you find certain guys attractive and are curious about a relationship one

- if you ponder about sucking cock in a sexual situation, I think you’re just kinky... which is very horny! "

100% . I absolutely love sucking cock, when horny but have never checked out a "fit guy" before. And agree with you analogy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet "

I hope you realize that I’m not homophobic in any way......

Whenever I have this debate with anyone.... I never learn anything....

“ When does a “act” create a label “

Ok I’m going to give you a example of an act that will create a label....

If you committed murder , you will always be labeled a murderer..... No matter what age you committed this act...

Now tell me something.... in the morning I put 2 pieces of bread in my toaster.... In 3 minutes I get 2 nice pieces of toast.....

Would you think I was crazy ? if I put 2 pieces of bread in the toaster and called the end results pancakes ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hubby enjoys sucking cock, but that’s all, so...

- if you’re attracted to guys and would enter into a relationship with a guy, then you’re definitely bi-sexual

- are you bi-curious... I don’t think so, unless you find certain guys attractive and are curious about a relationship one

- if you ponder about sucking cock in a sexual situation, I think you’re just kinky... which is very horny!

100% . I absolutely love sucking cock, when horny but have never checked out a "fit guy" before. And agree with you analogy "

But you’ve labelled yourself bisexual which would be correct and accurate.

There’s guys on here just like you who love sucking cock but list themselves as straight and in the next breath complain about labels.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet

I hope you realize that I’m not homophobic in any way......

Whenever I have this debate with anyone.... I never learn anything....

“ When does a “act” create a label “

Ok I’m going to give you a example of an act that will create a label....

If you committed murder , you will always be labeled a murderer..... No matter what age you committed this act...

Now tell me something.... in the morning I put 2 pieces of bread in my toaster.... In 3 minutes I get 2 nice pieces of toast.....

Would you think I was crazy ? if I put 2 pieces of bread in the toaster and called the end results pancakes ...

"

Now you’re comparing a gay act with murder Or toast

Yet again your examples are weak. Obviously you don’t learn anything because you can’t see past your ignorance.

I have no doubt you never learn anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet

I hope you realize that I’m not homophobic in any way......

Whenever I have this debate with anyone.... I never learn anything....

“ When does a “act” create a label “

Ok I’m going to give you a example of an act that will create a label....

If you committed murder , you will always be labeled a murderer..... No matter what age you committed this act...

Now tell me something.... in the morning I put 2 pieces of bread in my toaster.... In 3 minutes I get 2 nice pieces of toast.....

Would you think I was crazy ? if I put 2 pieces of bread in the toaster and called the end results pancakes ...

Now you’re comparing a gay act with murder Or toast

Yet again your examples are weak. Obviously you don’t learn anything because you can’t see past your ignorance.

I have no doubt you never learn anything

"

This is why I tend to refrain from these conversations about labels.....

Let’s agree to disagree......

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I don't find guys attractive whatsoever as I think of myself as a straight guy. However, I do find a nice cock attractive for some reason. Personally, I have only sucked 2/3 cocks out of a hell of a lot of our meets when "in the moment". Enjoyed it, and will do it again.

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By *xtra4funMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Another great thread with opposing views.

I have changed my profile from bi-curious to bisexual because whilst there are limits to how I would interact sexually with another man. I would seek out future group meets where I would happily interact with both women and men.

There are still lots of things I am curious about so we will have to wait and see what new groups I can fit into in the future too

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish


"My hubby enjoys sucking cock, but that’s all, so...

- if you’re attracted to guys and would enter into a relationship with a guy, then you’re definitely bi-sexual

- are you bi-curious... I don’t think so, unless you find certain guys attractive and are curious about a relationship one

- if you ponder about sucking cock in a sexual situation, I think you’re just kinky... which is very horny! "

This is the best definition I've seen yet!

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact


"My hubby enjoys sucking cock, but that’s all, so...

- if you’re attracted to guys and would enter into a relationship with a guy, then you’re definitely bi-sexual

- are you bi-curious... I don’t think so, unless you find certain guys attractive and are curious about a relationship one

- if you ponder about sucking cock in a sexual situation, I think you’re just kinky... which is very horny!

100% . I absolutely love sucking cock, when horny but have never checked out a "fit guy" before. And agree with you analogy

But you’ve labelled yourself bisexual which would be correct and accurate.

There’s guys on here just like you who love sucking cock but list themselves as straight and in the next breath complain about labels.

"
I feel this post deserves more credit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much utter bullshit on this post it's embarrassing.

I'm overweight, I really am, but I don't want to be labelled so as far as I'm concerned I'm a size 8 and fuck everyone that wants to label me as long as I'm happy with my own bullshit definition.

Now I'm gonna go sample one of my local gay glory holes because someone has just PM'd me asking for some "straight cock".

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"Sexually bi. Romantically straight. "

Good to know

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By *iscreteBiBuilderMan
over a year ago

Bury


"Another thread where people are deluding themselves over their sexuality. It's pretty simple, if you fantasise about engaging sexually with someone of the same sex then you're bi-curious. If you physically engage them you're either bi or you're gay.

Just own it FFS!

And all this shite about "why do we have to pigeon hole everything?". It's not pigeon holing, it's being honest and open. I know it's the 21st century and everything is so PC no-one is allowed to say anything but it's gone so far past the point of no-return now it's getting ridiculous.

And as for the quote "hubby enjoys sucking cock but he's straight".... yup that's something us straight guys love doing on a night out with our mates! "

Pal that was perfectly written and spot on, thank you for speaking out. Frustrates me as a bi guy all this delusion and self-denial on here. The men in question are not genuinely straight no matter which angle they try to put on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi is nothing to do with being in a relationship, if your a man and you do sexual acts with another man you can’t be straight, your bi , you can kid yourself your straight but your fooling no one , if you can a hard on and let a bloke suck you off , your not straight even if your going through a barren spell, if your in a 3 way with a woman and you suck the other mans cock , your not straight, your bi , you try others , but most of these “ men “ are too manly to admit what they are but still manly to suck a cock

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I think a lot of bisexuality is situational

My mate works in an offenders institute and most of the inmates form sexual relationships

Obviously they're not all bi but it seems to work for them given the circumstances "

I think this is an excellent point. Just in the same way education can be situational or incidental so can sexual encounters

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By *iscreteBiBuilderMan
over a year ago

Bury

Too many men on this site will put a lot of energy and argument into NOT being gay or on the bisexual spectrum while trying to shut down debate with the ‘no labels’ card. However they happily and quickly LABEL themselves straight....but they are not.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I would say you are bi curios OP.

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By *itofamouthfullMan
over a year ago

cotswolds/herefordshire


"I would say you are bi curios OP. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many men on this site will put a lot of energy and argument into NOT being gay or on the bisexual spectrum while trying to shut down debate with the ‘no labels’ card. However they happily and quickly LABEL themselves straight....but they are not. "

This 100% I’ve just looked at a profile on here says he’s straight yet all he’s reviews are from men saying he fucked them good etc , who is he kidding , I know lots of gays and TVs etc get off thinking the bloke is straight but if he is fucking you or letting you suck him off , NEWSFLASH he ain’t straight

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By *wakers14Man
over a year ago

burgess hill

Enjoyed a mmf, with both giving and receiving oral. I think it was more a case of being hedonistic and wanting to try everything and get maximun pleasure from what was on offer. Would l love to repeat. Never been sure if that makes me bi, bi curious or just greedy. But also think the name does not really matter, just enjoy and forget about a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on this site now because of my curiosity about group sex and bi-curios. And I've learnt a lot about myself in the past two weeks of being here. If I am to 'move forward' I need to address my bi side: what are my Criteria's for making love to a fellow man? I realized that I need to feel as much love and passion for the man as I do for a woman. The dimensions must be similar. It's a journey. It's very mental. Well this is my personal experience.

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Well, this was an interesting read. I disagree with those who say we don’t need to ‘label’ everything, stupid 21st Century non pc shite, it is what it is but at the same time if YOU personally don’t want to admit to it enough to ‘put a label on it’ that’s also fine, no one should be pushed into making those decisions by anyone else, you come out whenever you feel like it sugar!

In other news, as a female can I just say that I actually find two guys together super super hot, (think about how exited a guy gets with lesbians, that’s me with two guys!), so will never understand anyone being ashamed by something that turns me on a lot!

Stay safe bi people, straight people and everyone else inbetween without labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't find guys attractive whatsoever as I think of myself as a straight guy. However, I do find a nice cock attractive for some reason. Personally, I have only sucked 2/3 cocks out of a hell of a lot of our meets when "in the moment". Enjoyed it, and will do it again."

If you’re sucking cock and enjoying it, you’re not straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many men on this site will put a lot of energy and argument into NOT being gay or on the bisexual spectrum while trying to shut down debate with the ‘no labels’ card. However they happily and quickly LABEL themselves straight....but they are not. "

My thoughts exactly.

Many complain about labels but they’re absolutely fine with labelling themselves “straight”.

Labels aren’t the problem, it’s admitting they’re bisexual or bicurious that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight and not attracted to guys but if I played as a group I'd probably do oral but nothing more.

Your bi"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a man turned on by another's man's genitals or what you may like to do to them, then you're bi. There's nothing wrong with it in fact it's delicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your straight the thought of sucking or even wanking another man would get rid of your hard on .

The thought of it is disgusting.

Im not saying its wrong for others just my thoughts concerning me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go with the flow! Who cares what you touch, suck or fuck. If it’s between consenting adults and you enjoy it then have fun.

Labels are good for putting people in boxes, but not much else.

My thoughts anyway! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go with the flow! Who cares what you touch, suck or fuck. If it’s between consenting adults and you enjoy it then have fun.

Labels are good for putting people in boxes, but not much else.

My thoughts anyway! X"

But you have labels on your profile one bi sexual the other bi curious

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos


"Just go with the flow! Who cares what you touch, suck or fuck. If it’s between consenting adults and you enjoy it then have fun.

Labels are good for putting people in boxes, but not much else.

My thoughts anyway! X"

think you got this spot on Thats the way we think about it as well if it fells good at the time why not its just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet

I hope you realize that I’m not homophobic in any way......

Whenever I have this debate with anyone.... I never learn anything....

“ When does a “act” create a label “

Ok I’m going to give you a example of an act that will create a label....

If you committed murder , you will always be labeled a murderer..... No matter what age you committed this act...

Now tell me something.... in the morning I put 2 pieces of bread in my toaster.... In 3 minutes I get 2 nice pieces of toast.....

Would you think I was crazy ? if I put 2 pieces of bread in the toaster and called the end results pancakes ...

Now you’re comparing a gay act with murder Or toast

Yet again your examples are weak. Obviously you don’t learn anything because you can’t see past your ignorance.

I have no doubt you never learn anything

This is why I tend to refrain from these conversations about labels.....

Let’s agree to disagree...... "

what happens if you tried it and didn't like it ? are you still Bi ?

or what if its a tranny ?

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By *nsatiablegreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"In 2020 there shouldn't be room for labels. The human body is beautiful and it's OK to like different things at different times.

Most of the time I like to fuck men so am I str8?

Some of the times I enjoy a sexy woman in my bed so am I bi?

At rare times all I want is a woman and nothing else so am I lesbian?

Labels are useless. If you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, then you find a man (or parts of him) attractive, nothing more or less and no labels needed.

X"

Love this

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Why is it that (mainly) guys dislike saying that they are bi or bi curious? What is it they are worried about?

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Why is it that (mainly) guys dislike saying that they are bi or bi curious? What is it they are worried about?"

My thought is that the stigma attached to it in their worlds outside of Fab, would ruin their macho image.... It's a secret to them and they like to keep it that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just go with the flow! Who cares what you touch, suck or fuck. If it’s between consenting adults and you enjoy it then have fun.

Labels are good for putting people in boxes, but not much else.

My thoughts anyway! X

But you have labels on your profile one bi sexual the other bi curious "

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By *r B.Man
over a year ago

Durham

Nothing to be ashamed of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I changed mine to bi as I enjoyed suckind a cock especially if it was with his female partner, the only drawback is I've found a lot of couples dont want to know because they think you cant play straight, my advice is try it see if you like it and then worry about changing your profile

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Fluid situations, that how it happened to me, never bought about being bi before until in a group play at a club it happened, really enjoyed and havve expanded my experiences more, once you've tried it you'll know of you like it or not, even better if the lady finds it a massive turn on watching and joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To answer the OP, I thought this would be considered bi situational ?

On the spectrum that would be left of bi curious

I’ve had the sexual spectrum conversation with many people in my life and I still can’t figure it out....

But hopefully you or someone can explain this to me....

Let’s use the sexual spectrum theory with a smoker....

My stance is if you smoke cigarettes, you are smokers.....

Now going by the sexual spectrum theory we should have broad categories for smokers....

Occasionally smokes , smokes only when drinking, smokes one a day , vapes only , heavy smoker....

The reason I bring this up is because is not fun when you see non smoker on a profile and meet someone for a drink.... then they proceed to smoke and give you the excuse..... I only smoke when I drink , I’m not a smoker....

Well not exactly comparable, but could be someone is a “situational smoker”

If you need someone that never ever smokes, you need to search for an “anti smoker” rather than a “non smoker”. Anti smokers frequently include “ex smokers” of course, but then that can no longer be shown on a spectrum and you will need a Venn diagram for that.

You do realize there is no anti smoker catagory when setting up a profile....

You know why? because in life actions speak louder than words.....

If I drink alcohol, I’m a drinker

If I use drugs , I’m a drug user

If I’ve been to jail , I’m a criminal

If I tell you a lie, I am a liar

If I steal from you , I am a thief

Only on Fab , can 2 men do sexual things with each other and say they are still heterosexual.......

If I drank alcohol 15 years ago I’m not a drinker

If I took drugs (illegal) 15 years ago I’m not a drug user

If I’ve been to jail 15 years ago and now stayed on the straight and narrow I’m no longer a criminal

Everyone tells lies

If I stole a £1 note from my Mothers purse when I was 16 I’m not a thief ...who can actually claim they’ve never stolen anything.

When does an ‘act’ create a label ?

You decide your sexuality not some fucker on the internet

I hope you realize that I’m not homophobic in any way......

Whenever I have this debate with anyone.... I never learn anything....

“ When does a “act” create a label “

Ok I’m going to give you a example of an act that will create a label....

If you committed murder , you will always be labeled a murderer..... No matter what age you committed this act...

Now tell me something.... in the morning I put 2 pieces of bread in my toaster.... In 3 minutes I get 2 nice pieces of toast.....

Would you think I was crazy ? if I put 2 pieces of bread in the toaster and called the end results pancakes ...

Now you’re comparing a gay act with murder Or toast

Yet again your examples are weak. Obviously you don’t learn anything because you can’t see past your ignorance.

I have no doubt you never learn anything

This is why I tend to refrain from these conversations about labels.....

Let’s agree to disagree......

what happens if you tried it and didn't like it ? are you still Bi ?

or what if its a tranny ?

"

What if I robbed a bank and never did it again?

Am I still a bank robber?

What if I abused animals?

Am I not a abuser because animals are not human?

When I try to have a debate with students, they tend to devolve into them not giving me sound facts and accusing me of being ignorant....

So if labels and honesty are not important....

No one online is a smoker nor heavy drinker.....

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I call myself bi as its easier, I dont find men atractive, I dont want to snog men, i dont want a relationship with one, I do however like cocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not delusional to have an opinion on your own sexuality. We live in a world were people dont need a label any more. Labels make people feel uncomfortable and confused and that's the reason this thread was started. "

If in doubt then don't..your choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I call myself bi as its easier, I dont find men atractive, I dont want to snog men, i dont want a relationship with one, I do however like cocks!"

Exactly the same here

The thought of kissing a man or lots of body contact with a man I find repulsive to be honest but strictly oral sex with a nice smooth cock can be fantastic.

I personally see my like of cock simply as a kink and nothing more but if people need to label me as a full on bisexual then they can crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that (mainly) guys dislike saying that they are bi or bi curious? What is it they are worried about?"

I would say it is more socially acceptable for women to be openly bi than it is for men.

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By *oppolocosTV/TS
over a year ago

inverurie


"I’ve always been straight and had many mmf meets.

Not played differently but have thought about it and wouldn’t mind a bit of oral in the right circumstances.

Does this make me - straight, bi curious ??

Hard to put down on the fab choices as so many couples either play with bi guys or not ?

Any advice? - please don’t damn me - I’ve posted before and got slated "

If you suck a cock once and that's it then you were curious. If you really like it and want more you are bisexual. Either way it's all about having fun. Go on and try it.

xx

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I’m bi as I have been with women my husband is bi curious as he often thinks about sucking cock and would love to try it...I can’t understand why the confusion it’s really not rocket science...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would help if Fab added a filter for orally bi as you can then filter out same sex people who want more than just oral content in a meet.

It won't happen though, never does

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