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By *helroy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skegness

why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rad110Man
over a year ago

rayliegh

U would think it would be easy so many men on here

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's difficult to find couples for meets too, but when you do find the right people, it's so worth it.

As for finding a single lady, it's incredibly difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "

This is a joke right?

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets

This is a joke right? "

Indeed ... Too fussy maybe ...

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By *udosMan
over a year ago

hull


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "

Surely you jest? Its difficult for single males to get a meet or be invited to join a couple!

If you'd like to chat on me......please !

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I agree.

For me, they don't put their faces as a profile pic, and I'm not going to look at every profile with a dick or a shadow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's near on impossible for a single guy to meet a couple from here

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By *helroy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skegness

most say single but they not have wife that we don't have sex or can not a accommodate as girlfriend with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain, OP

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By *helroy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skegness

we do too

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By *helroy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skegness

hubby just seen your profile i just picking his tong of the floor

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

I’ve also noticed this but more over the last 2 months. I’m thinking more bored guys frustrated at home and just looking about

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By *helroy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Skegness

yes we think that too lots joining last few weeks tlk then gone

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By *aptainhook1Man
over a year ago

london

I'm suprised its that diffocult. Loads of single males on fab. Maybe many aren't genuine when it comes to committing to a meet and let people down.

I'm reliable. Just sayin'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys appear to be 10 a penny around here OP, right up to the moment you say yes to a meet then most of them shit themselves and disappear.

Unattached (and hot, need to be hot! added by Swallow) guys are super rare, but if they are truly unattached they are chasing dreams in the dating world too so they tend to be less attentive. Its an odd quirk.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "

Mainly because they not single ??

They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room

Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ??????????

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

As a single woman, also have this issue. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.

I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"As a single woman, also have this issue. X"

Me too. I find it hard to get meets off fab so stuck to clubs before lockdown happened x

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By *aughty_builder87Man
over a year ago

Keston

Although I fall in the category of attached male, I used to chat to a number of people I met through here and there seems to be a number of genuine single males but alot get lost to the abyss of inboxes. Having a chat to a lady that used to be a member she would have 150 inbox messages from potential men after deleting the ones that didnt interest her. But the stigma around attached men mean alot will not mention it artificially inflating the number of single men. Obviously now in these times of social distancing meets are not going to happen until further notice. I would say keep trying and dont put all your eggs in 1 basket good luck op

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"As a single woman, also have this issue. X

Me too. I find it hard to get meets off fab so stuck to clubs before lockdown happened x"

I think that’s a good approach to have. And considering doing the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve found this too, most agree to meet then never show up, realy frustraiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy and available to meet but I guess I am in the older guy category so not that appealing.

I can even host and meet evening and daytime

Any offers ? — ladies or couples x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because too many ideots make it extremely difficult for the few of us that actually meet and offer something to a couple to make an impression in one opening message

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By *oel2643Man
over a year ago

Shirehampton


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets

Mainly because they not single ??

They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room

Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ?????????? "

Some of us are genuine single guys, not cheating and not just after a quick shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no way you should be struggling to meet single guys!

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets

Mainly because they not single ??

They won’t commit to a meet in a few days time as they wife or girl may need them to clean the garage or paint the longe room

Fab single guy = attached looking for a quick shag ??????????

Some of us are genuine single guys, not cheating and not just after a quick shag"

^^^^

This

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
might have something to do with lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I'm straight I am bi-curios. And I have thought about a 3 some. And for me personally I realized I could only be involved in a threesome if I felt as much mental and physical attraction for both the lady and gentlemen. There has to be love. You can't force it. Not being judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.

I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most "

10 ... Has any single guy ever got 10 messages a day ? I was lucky to get 1 a week and hardly ever had a message I sent read.

When your message isn't read and you don't even get a view it's not your self at fault , it's just the sheer number game.

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"There is no way you should be struggling to meet single guys!"

Too true . I don't even get a view never mind a message .

I've been on here as a couple in the past and know how many messages you get. As a couple (she was bi) we found single women where the worst group to contact .

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm a single male and I'm available for meets. Social or play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this thread needs to be titled "We find it hard to meet single males we find attractive".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular friend may be harder to find really than a one off...regardless of what the guys will write and say...once theyve had fun a couple of times...they will lose the thrill and tire, and attention will go elsewhere. That new contact that got them fired up as much as you did is now their new focus..im sure not all men are like that but, lets be honest...most

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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think this thread needs to be titled "We find it hard to meet single males we find attractive"."

Exactly ...and ..dare I say this , but the demands of perfection you get from some couples is driven by an inflated sense of their own attractiveness due to the high number of messages from guys.

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am looking for a regular female / couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "
maybe you're too fussy, maybe its your location, maybe its the way you message or your profile...... who knows

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

In general from what I can see, most guys are so quick to say they want to meet and are keen, but back out because they just want the female, not a true couple, and then half the guys profiles seem to think that its a sex site that you simply upload information onto and there are people flocking to meet you, which is not the case, location and age I've found plays a massive role, I find a lot of people that I've tried to message in the past are looking for someone older than me and block my age group, and my local area isn't the busiest to begin with! So maybe broaden search a little, I've given up searching for now anyway, seem to get no where fast! Forums for me haha!

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By *exybum169Couple
over a year ago

St helens

Maybe we're fussy, but we find it hard too. So many guys will message then go silent or vanish completely when it comes to meeting. Be great to find a single guy for some regular fun

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Single guys are easy to find

Single guys up to the job , not so easy

You will be surprised how many are condom shy

Have had a tough week at work

Can't hold a conversation

Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength

Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys are easy to find

Single guys up to the job , not so easy

You will be surprised how many are condom shy

Have had a tough week at work

Can't hold a conversation

Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength

Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us "

This happens to everyone though. It's not exclusive to couples. Everyone gets messaged by people who are interested only for then to disappear, or can't hold a conversation, or aren't as likeminded as yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "

Usually cus there wifes or girl friends wont let them out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.It really isn't a joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We wish we got 10 messages full stop !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.

I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most "
10 a day ! You're doing well.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Funnily we changed our profile from one with pics , vids , veris , detailed profile etc

To no pics and a one line profile ,

And still got the same messages

10 messages would be a dream come true !

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"It's bloody hard work for a guy on here as there is so much competition.

I bet a typical women gets at least 400 msg a day as a bloke may get 10 at the most

10 ... Has any single guy ever got 10 messages a day ? I was lucky to get 1 a week and hardly ever had a message I sent read.

When your message isn't read and you don't even get a view it's not your self at fault , it's just the sheer number game."

Put a dress on and you'll get that 10 a day easy and that's with male filters turned on....turn them off and you'll get loads more and even lots of unwanted dick pics

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Its very difficult to find someone who you have that connection with no matter how many people there is there's only a select few who you get along with unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And all the single males do is moan about not finding couples or women for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And all the single males do is moan about not finding couples or women for meets"

You'll find everyone moans

Every so often you'll get couples moaning that they can't find women, or women won't reply to their messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

v difficult to get a message back, let alone meet! Women must get inundated with absolute shite tho!

if i get a message its usually from men haha

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I feel your pain OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is it so hard to find single males for regular meets "

I've been asked many a times to join in a threesome in the real world and online. The issue for me is finding people I feel safe with and whom I can be attracted to physically and mentally and I would love to make love to, not just with the lady but with her partner too. Otherwise it just wouldn't work for me. The dimensions for the lady must be the same for the man too. Thus we are all equal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea the site is over flowing with them . Could be that vast majority are dreamers in unhappy relationships with no intention of meeting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a year ago was the last time we met a single fella, it's so much like hard work and frustrating on here at times, it's just easier to visit clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"U would think it would be easy so many men on here "
Yes I thought the same

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Totally understand, some "single men "give us decent blokes a bad name, I try to get it right while chatting an meeting couples and ladies,want to get a good reputation here not a bad one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t find Single Men? Should have gone to spec savers .......

Can understand the “single men” compared to single men aspect

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley


"Single guys are easy to find

Single guys up to the job , not so easy

You will be surprised how many are condom shy

Have had a tough week at work

Can't hold a conversation

Couples can be tricky , it's hard to find a couple truly on the same wavelength

Single girls , we've been lucky and had them contact us "

Hello!! Cheeky well you know that I'm up to the job!!

As a genuine single guy it's difficult to get through the inbox and stand out! So mostly clubs socials and parties as you are there already!

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I’m personally not really interested in single guys because they’re too readily available, if that makes sense?

I prefer to meet women and couples because it’s more exciting for me and I have to put in a bit of work

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I’m personally not really interested in single guys because they’re too readily available, if that makes sense?

I prefer to meet women and couples because it’s more exciting for me and I have to put in a bit of work "

I am so not available and I'm seriously hard work

I know what you mean though, it's the build up to things that makes it exciting rather than a quick fancy a fuck question.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

It sounds like women, couples and single guys all have fundamentally the same issue: The sheer number of single guys, most of whom are pretty shit.

I go to clubs and do okay. I'm distinctive, I'm realistic about what I can offer, and my expectations are reasonable.

On here, though? The odds aren't good. I've pretty much given up sending messages to people. No matter how much thought and effort I put into an introduction, the recipients have all got 400 to 700 other messages to get through first, and are unlikely to even read it. Not a great effort-to-reward ratio, sadly.

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By *amfabMan
over a year ago

Luton

There are probs 50 single blokes for every 1 single girl on here , maybe not them figures but its how it seems ....

And the girls are inundated with messages in guessing ..

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By *hom01Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Funnily we changed our profile from one with pics , vids , veris , detailed profile etc

To no pics and a one line profile ,

And still got the same messages

10 messages would be a dream come true !"
You'd definitely get 10 messages from single men a day but you've blocked them. You'll have to rely on meeting in the Bakers Vault !!

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