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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

.... Bi men? My hubby is a manly man, with a manly job, he doesn’t fancy men or have unbound desires to kiss and cuddle other men. He enjoys pegging and has a desire to experience another mans cock .... we all have deep desires ... I mean isn’t that why half of us are here?

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

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PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".... Bi men? My hubby is a manly man, with a manly job, he doesn’t fancy men or have unbound desires to kiss and cuddle other men. He enjoys pegging and has a desire to experience another mans cock .... we all have deep desires ... I mean isn’t that why half of us are here?

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

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PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

Not everyone

. My fwb is bi, and we have plans post lockdown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May I say OP looking at your only pic if hubby is getting pegged by you he is one lucky fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP , you said our words.

We believe the women bi thing is very artificial which later got adapted and seen as a must play before the guys join them.

When it comes to bi men, some just turn prude all of a sudden as if their husbands will catch the gay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

Fair play ... that would put me off . Cheers for the insight .... we were starting to feel like leper’s lol ..

guessing people tend to tar all bi men with the same brush?

Mrs P xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"May I say OP looking at your only pic if hubby is getting pegged by you he is one lucky fella

Than you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not scared of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience most anti Bi reaction comes from women rather than men.

Most men who don’t want to play with other men are quite happy with the boundaries , as are Bi men in return and most would never assume to go sucking things they shouldn’t lol.

Unfortunately for such a liberated space Fabs can be a very judgemental place for a lot of people

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I love bi men .... nothing better than a threesome with two bi men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP , you said our words.

We believe the women bi thing is very artificial which later got adapted and seen as a must play before the guys join them.

When it comes to bi men, some just turn prude all of a sudden as if their husbands will catch the gay.

Lol ... gay is SO contagious don’t you know lol.

Like your point

Mrs P xx

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

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Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

He doesn’t fancy men... has a desire to experience another man’s cock...

These two statements are somewhat contradictory

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love bi men .... nothing better than a threesome with two bi men

Lol we keep trying ....

Mrs P xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my experience most anti Bi reaction comes from women rather than men.

Most men who don’t want to play with other men are quite happy with the boundaries , as are Bi men in return and most would never assume to go sucking things they shouldn’t lol.

Unfortunately for such a liberated space Fabs can be a very judgemental place for a lot of people "

Oh I hear you loud and clear ...we’ve had particularly snide comments from some ladies

MrsP xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

Well said"

Thank you .... it was a post slightly born of frustration

MrsP xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"I love bi men .... nothing better than a threesome with two bi men

Lol we keep trying ....

Mrs P xx

Your time will come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

He doesn’t fancy men... has a desire to experience another man’s cock...

These two statements are somewhat contradictory

The dersire to experience a feeeling or situation doesnt mean he is physically attracted to me i.e Fancies them but the idea of maybe seeing how a real cock feels sliding in and out his ass compares to the wifes strapon. So not that contradictory

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

He doesn’t fancy men... has a desire to experience another man’s cock...

These two statements are somewhat contradictory

Ya think? I don’t fancy women but I love playing with them ... I mean I don’t walk around eyeing up every woman I see .. but there are ladies that I’m like fwar .... I’ve heard men say the same ... it’s hard to explain lol

Mrs P xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not scared of them

Me neither ..

I bloody love them lol

Mrs P xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"In my experience most anti Bi reaction comes from women rather than men.

Most men who don’t want to play with other men are quite happy with the boundaries , as are Bi men in return and most would never assume to go sucking things they shouldn’t lol.

Unfortunately for such a liberated space Fabs can be a very judgemental place for a lot of people

Oh I hear you loud and clear ...we’ve had particularly snide comments from some ladies

MrsP xx

Ignore and carry on ..... some of the views held on here are unbelievable !!!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Personally I find meets were everyone is bi alot more fun, I especially like the dynamics of a full bi mfmfm meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

Fair play ... that would put me off . Cheers for the insight .... we were starting to feel like leper’s lol ..

guessing people tend to tar all bi men with the same brush?

Mrs P xx

Why do you feel like lepers? Some people love bi men, just meet them. There will always be people who don't find us attractive, don't take it personally.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

So will a women we have seen women slap or grab a lady’s tit or arse with asking to

Yet a female bisex is controlled more by the men wishing or pushing there women towards it for there own sexual gratification. It seems

We have been to many bi nights and seen it with our own eyes

We say each to there own and most of the fab straight guys are the worst offenders ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

So will a women we have seen women slap or grab a lady’s tit or arse with asking to

Yet a female bisex is controlled more by the men wishing or pushing there women towards it for there own sexual gratification. It seems

We have been to many bi nights and seen it with our own eyes

We say each to there own and most of the fab straight guys are the worst offenders ?? "

Yup agree totally

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

So will a women we have seen women slap or grab a lady’s tit or arse with asking to

Yet a female bisex is controlled more by the men wishing or pushing there women towards it for there own sexual gratification. It seems

We have been to many bi nights and seen it with our own eyes

We say each to there own and most of the fab straight guys are the worst offenders ?? "

Well said. But same women try to justify their bicuriousness on Fab sometimes .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"OP , you said our words.

We believe the women bi thing is very artificial which later got adapted and seen as a must play before the guys join them.

When it comes to bi men, some just turn prude all of a sudden as if their husbands will catch the gay.

Odd I suspect L is sexually oriented to ladies, personally I prefer to lick dog shit than play with a male.

So perhaps we are not the norm.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

If this is the case, then it’s a shame that the behaviour of the minority spoils it for the majority.

Also, isn’t this what boundaries are for?

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

Maybe the homopobes are the ones who are scared they might enjoy to much ????????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd I suspect L is sexually oriented to ladies, personally I prefer to lick dog shit than play with a male.

So perhaps we are not the norm."

That's precisely what I feel it when it comes to play with another woman.

And that's definitely not the norm .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Maybe the homopobes are the ones who are scared they might enjoy to much ????????????"

Or they are not bi.

Doesn’t make them phobics, unless there is project.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

"Maybe the homopobes are the ones who are scared they might enjoy to much ????????????

Or they are not bi.

Doesn’t make them phobics, unless there is project."

Maybe they not bi or willing to open there mind to it its no reason for people who are are treated like 2nd class citizens or something shit they stepped in on there way to the club either now is it

Just my observation on the whole scene

And my option with which we all entitled to to unless it’s now illegal to give that in a forum ffs ????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

If this is the case, then it’s a shame that the behaviour of the minority spoils it for the majority.

Also, isn’t this what boundaries are for?

Agree wholeheartedly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're not scared of them, they just don't want to meet them. Some bi men will touch or suck a cock without asking. It's not worth the risk.

So will a women we have seen women slap or grab a lady’s tit or arse with asking to

Yet a female bisex is controlled more by the men wishing or pushing there women towards it for there own sexual gratification. It seems

We have been to many bi nights and seen it with our own eyes

We say each to there own and most of the fab straight guys are the worst offenders ?? "

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The classic is the single male who assumes because my hubby is bi he’d good to provide a blow job whilst allowing him to fuck me lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not scared of them, but many can be effeminate, which can be a turn off for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The classic is the single male who assumes because my hubby is bi he’d good to provide a blow job whilst allowing him to fuck me lol xx"

Just tell them the men will play and fuck first while you just watch. That scares off the straight men pretending.

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By *inkyfilthymindMan
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks

I have met a few bi-cuck/hotwife couples in the past and I have found the experiences very friendly and engaging. There was never a pressure to play. straight or guy, its probably who clicks / connects.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of them, but many can be effeminate, which can be a turn off for some. "

You must attract them, as we've not come across any effeminate ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not scared of bi men just as I’m straight have no interest at all in meeting a bi guy. Wife wouldn’t be interested in seeing me touch or be touched by a man either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of bi men just as I’m straight have no interest at all in meeting a bi guy. Wife wouldn’t be interested in seeing me touch or be touched by a man either. "

Bi men do play straight so he won't touch you if the boundaries are set prior to meet.

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By *arvest 84Man
over a year ago

SCAWBY, NEAR , BRIGG.

i agree with you,

i am a happily maried man, with a manly job ( plant op ) have been maried for 36 years and i am oraly bi, and would happily be a bottom for a male. , but , as i have got bi on my profile, you wouldnt beleive the amount of ( STREIGHT ) men that look at my profile and like my pics, , yes my wife does know i swing, we used to swing as a couple, sue gave it up, but is happy for me to play. , but i feel sorry for all the so called streight men that still feel that they have to hide in the closet

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Maybe the homopobes are the ones who are scared they might enjoy to much ????????????

Or they are not bi.

Doesn’t make them phobics, unless there is project.

Maybe they not bi or willing to open there mind to it its no reason for people who are are treated like 2nd class citizens or something shit they stepped in on there way to the club either now is it

Just my observation on the whole scene

And my option with which we all entitled to to unless it’s now illegal to give that in a forum ffs ????????"

I’m not bi.

So I haven’t an open mind.

Don’t think it is about being open minded.

It more aa out my sexuality.

However, you tell me what I am.

It’s a forum ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of bi men just as I’m straight have no interest at all in meeting a bi guy. Wife wouldn’t be interested in seeing me touch or be touched by a man either.

Bi men do play straight so he won't touch you if the boundaries are set prior to meet. "

Correction

Bi men DO NOT play with straight guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

He doesn’t fancy men... has a desire to experience another man’s cock...

These two statements are somewhat contradictory

No they are not, they are 2 totally different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know. I can be pretty scary when I feel like it...

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I don't find bi men scary, the same as straight men, some I will fancy and some I won't. But omg if someone encouraged or expected me to be bi then that would be it, stopped, over, done and dusted, I'm straight and people should respect that, the same as bi people deserve the same respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of bi men just as I’m straight have no interest at all in meeting a bi guy. Wife wouldn’t be interested in seeing me touch or be touched by a man either.

Bi men do play straight so he won't touch you if the boundaries are set prior to meet.

Correction

Bi men DO NOT play with straight guys .

If that’s the case why are they getting upset when a straight couple not interested in meeting them then.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Ive met couples where the gent is bi ..I'm not ...but they have always asked and been totally respectful...I'm not scared of them... part of lifes rich tapestry..

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

" When it comes to bi men, some just turn prude all of a sudden as if their husbands will catch the gay.

It's like a poo stick in the playground.. touch it and your GAY...!!!

It is hilarious... but so true...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

I think you've just described me to a tee. I think though there is a stigma out there of looseness and debauchery in some Peoples eyes. Wrong but that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men, even on fab, are genuinely straight and don't want to play with another man's cock. It doesn't make them homophobic or scared. Give us a break you lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just a preference for many of us.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

The wife just says it means she gets less cock if I was Bi

Bi people of either sex, more than welcome to tap us up xx

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Love bi men especially in pairs .. hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both bi couldn't imagine a straight meet now lol to boring

and its amazing how many straight guys get in touch and say you can suck me but I wont suck you pmsfl Anything for the shag ha ha all there morels out the window...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

Just because that how you guy's roll it's not for evryone we not here say your wrong so let other do as they wish..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This used to be an issue when I started swinging, there is one simple answer. Only meet bi couples and enjoy the fun.

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Interesting thread. I've both both rejected and very well received as a bi man. There is someone for everyone on here... just a case of finding them Xx

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By *oubleA123Couple
over a year ago

berwick

"I love bi men .... nothing better than a threesome with two bi men

Lol we keep trying ....

Mrs P xx

We do as well, but few and far between!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

Women are accepted as bi but men are not. Hope that answers your question OP

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx"

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi???????. Who by?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of them, but many can be effeminate, which can be a turn off for some. "

The idea of two men together just isn't attractive to some women. If they know a man's been intimate with another man, they'll find it a turn off. Doesn't mean these women are 'scared' or 'phobic', just not attracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi ....

Is this just our experience? .... Is it just a reflection of the vast numbers of Male run profiles and porn derived desires?

Discuss .....

PS wasn’t meant to be a rant ...

Love

Mrs P xx

Women are encouraged and expected to be bi???????. Who by?"

Men usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some aren't into it, let them self filter as its only them missing out so try not to let it bug you op block and move on.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Hmm.

We’re both bi but it doesn’t define us.

Becky is not expected to play with any girl and will only play when she’s feeling it.

I am considered ‘manly’, have a manly job, do manly things and present as ‘straight’ to nearly all.

I don’t walk around ‘fancying’ guys or feel like I would ever want a relationship with a guy.

However, I like sex and with the right people I’m bi and like playing with cock, in all ways.

Boundaries are discussed beforehand with people we’re meeting and are observed. It’s quite easy.

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By *xtra4funMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"Personally I find meets were everyone is bi alot more fun, I especially like the dynamics of a full bi mfmfm meet"

Totally agree with this. Can’t wait for lockdown to be over and find and party like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm.

We’re both bi but it doesn’t define us.

Becky is not expected to play with any girl and will only play when she’s feeling it.

I am considered ‘manly’, have a manly job, do manly things and present as ‘straight’ to nearly all.

I don’t walk around ‘fancying’ guys or feel like I would ever want a relationship with a guy.

However, I like sex and with the right people I’m bi and like playing with cock, in all ways.

Boundaries are discussed beforehand with people we’re meeting and are observed. It’s quite easy.

Put that perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm.

We’re both bi but it doesn’t define us.

Becky is not expected to play with any girl and will only play when she’s feeling it.

I am considered ‘manly’, have a manly job, do manly things and present as ‘straight’ to nearly all.

I don’t walk around ‘fancying’ guys or feel like I would ever want a relationship with a guy.

However, I like sex and with the right people I’m bi and like playing with cock, in all ways.

Boundaries are discussed beforehand with people we’re meeting and are observed. It’s quite easy.

Good point well made! I don’t ‘fancy’ men, but am bi, go figure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s too busy with labels nowadays that they forget to just have fun.

You can all just discuss your boundaries and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not scared of them, but many can be effeminate, which can be a turn off for some.

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some aren't into it, let them self filter as its only them missing out so try not to let it bug you op block and move on.

You can’t miss out on what you’re not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some aren't into it, let them self filter as its only them missing out so try not to let it bug you op block and move on.

You can’t miss out on what you’re not interested in.

Very true I didn't articulate it very well

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