FabSwingers.com forum: Single guys on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Curious as to how MF couples and single ladies perceive single guys on Fab?

I'm sure (and I'm told) there are too many idiots (led by their dangly bits) who are either too pushy, too aggressive or just downright rude and who spoil it for the genuine, respectful guys ...but how should a single guy go about striking up a rapport with a single lady or couple, where they don't run a mile or (as happens to me all the time) simply ignore the guy?

The obvious points that spring to mind are: always read the profile, don't send dick-pics and respect the 'looking for' criteria.

Aside from those no-no's, how can single guys get a fair chance of being noticed? Are single women and couples just so jaded/tired of single guys approaching them that they switch off? What's the best way to strike up a convo that might actually lead to a meet/fun/friendship?

What are the turn ons & turn offs for ladies and couples whose profiles say they're open to meeting guys?

Any insight or tips would be appreciated!

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

"Curious as to how MF couples and single ladies perceive single guys on Fab?

The obvious points that spring to mind are: always read the profile, don't send dick-pics and respect the 'looking for' criteria.

What are the turn ons & turn offs for ladies and couples whose profiles say they're open to meeting guys?

Any insight or tips would be appreciated!

Totally agree there. I'm not like all the guys, I'm very patient for one. Not pushy, aggressive, abusive. Care about the person if we have managed to get past the first few messages, but again, no one bothers with me so it's very hard just to connect with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well for us swinging is about sharing with your other half, so single anyone in our view isnt a swinger, just someone looking for sex

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Well for me i look for genuine profiles. I read their profile and suspect pics i reverse image. Then i dismiss 1s that are all over the internet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that as MMF seems to be a common combination couples need to find an extra M from somewhere — so we do have a role to play

Just a lot of Ms to choose from

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

For me a decent informative profile and meaningful initial chat in the DMs. Just saying "hi".. "lets fuck" from a stranger with no or afew photos and no bio doesn't get me intrigued. Why should it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples appear to want to play with women rather than men . And I do wonder if the ladies do like pussy themselves or been bullied into it by the men . And if the ladies would like more cock but being discouraged or afraid to tell hubbies.

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By *olyester123Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

That is very true we are looking for a single guy we could poss meet regular and get to no well as we think the fun will just get better with time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are tired of getting a normal first message with a decent introduction followed up with “I want to lick your pussy” after we’ve replied! Nowhere on our profile does it say Minnie is the only one chatting and we quite clearly state that we come as a couple and ask for a bit of respect

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

To avoid an inbox constantly full of pointless messages, we have our message filters set so that single men are blocked. If we see a profile that interests or intrigues us we add it to our hotlist & then when we are looking for someone to join us we can approach them.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

So many single men’s photos on here are just dick photos ,and to have that as your profile photo just shows such that maybe that’s what they are , mind you there are some great singles on here

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We have and do meet single guy's (not our main preference) but we have intentionally put on our profile that we are not on Fabs to look for single guy's. The reason is because as a swinging site fabs is full of flaky people and single guys, who are not swinger's, will never get it, they are only looking for a shag and some probably don't expect to get one, they're just getting off on perving pictures and trying to engage with benign messages like 'hows you' etc. Similarly they only address the female in a message.

It is a shame for the genuine guys out there but we use another site if we want to find a single guy as it's a paying site and we find this discourages the chancers and flakey people. Those experienced swingers will probably know and understand this.

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