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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunatly for you , you belong to a large pool of single men, far more than any other group. give it time and go to some socials is all i can say really, those that put the effort in get results, your profile if good, funny, but some might see it as a bit up your self x

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers"

Love your waterfall pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers, any bits in particular? I'm not easily offended so fire away. Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers"

I would say there is absolutely nothing wrong with your profile. A mixture which is good in my book and not all dick pics

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By *inacoolWoman
over a year ago

Torfaen

Seems a perfectly good profile to me - enjoy your humour too & pics. I’ve found more suitable people for me via forum chats but then again, girls usually have to wade thru more fuckwits on main site. Just don’t give up - your veri cpl r a great asset too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunatly for you , you belong to a large pool of single men, far more than any other group. give it time and go to some socials is all i can say really, those that put the effort in get results, your profile if good, funny, but some might see it as a bit up your self x"

I can only agree with this comment - as a guy on this site we vastly outnumber couples and single women - they get a huge number of mails fired at them that must be impossible to manage

Just have to hit lucky or do what you are doing by joining the forums or chats

I’m an old guy and still have managed to get contacts, friends and meets from here and reckon it is a good site

In a word — perseverance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers

Love your waterfall pic"

Cheers, my poor man's Peter Andre impression lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find anything wrong with your profile, but some people may find it too long. Yes, it's tongue in cheek which definitely makes it stand out from other single male profiles on here.

Unfortunately for you, you joined at the wrong time. When we go back to a bit more normal, try to get yourself out there, socials and/or clubs. And good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers

I would say there is absolutely nothing wrong with your profile. A mixture which is good in my book and not all dick pics "

Thank you for feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems a perfectly good profile to me - enjoy your humour too & pics. I’ve found more suitable people for me via forum chats but then again, girls usually have to wade thru more fuckwits on main site. Just don’t give up - your veri cpl r a great asset too x "

Thanks, yeh trying to get on the forums more lately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"unfortunatly for you , you belong to a large pool of single men, far more than any other group. give it time and go to some socials is all i can say really, those that put the effort in get results, your profile if good, funny, but some might see it as a bit up your self x

I can only agree with this comment - as a guy on this site we vastly outnumber couples and single women - they get a huge number of mails fired at them that must be impossible to manage

Just have to hit lucky or do what you are doing by joining the forums or chats

I’m an old guy and still have managed to get contacts, friends and meets from here and reckon it is a good site

In a word — perseverance "

Perseverance, let's hope it pays off post lockdown. Thanks for feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers

Love your waterfall pic

Cheers, my poor man's Peter Andre impression lol"

thats it, instant block for wanting to be peter andre lol

there is no punishment to much for what he did to pop music

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't find anything wrong with your profile, but some people may find it too long. Yes, it's tongue in cheek which definitely makes it stand out from other single male profiles on here.

Unfortunately for you, you joined at the wrong time. When we go back to a bit more normal, try to get yourself out there, socials and/or clubs. And good luck. "

Cheers for the advice, any bits you would cut out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers

Love your waterfall pic

Cheers, my poor man's Peter Andre impression lol

thats it, instant block for wanting to be peter andre lol

there is no punishment to much for what he did to pop music"

Music is certainly a loose description ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your profile.

It’s a lot better than many on here.

Good luck on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find anything wrong with your profile, but some people may find it too long. Yes, it's tongue in cheek which definitely makes it stand out from other single male profiles on here.

Unfortunately for you, you joined at the wrong time. When we go back to a bit more normal, try to get yourself out there, socials and/or clubs. And good luck.

Cheers for the advice, any bits you would cut out?"

Hard to say, you seem to have the same problem as me when I write, just don't know when to stop.

I probably would get rid of the paragraph when you say you're not any particular type. Also, just have a read through it, does it read well?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't find anything wrong with your profile, but some people may find it too long. Yes, it's tongue in cheek which definitely makes it stand out from other single male profiles on here.

Unfortunately for you, you joined at the wrong time. When we go back to a bit more normal, try to get yourself out there, socials and/or clubs. And good luck.

Cheers for the advice, any bits you would cut out?

Hard to say, you seem to have the same problem as me when I write, just don't know when to stop.

I probably would get rid of the paragraph when you say you're not any particular type. Also, just have a read through it, does it read well? "

Got it, cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like your profile.

It’s a lot better than many on here.

Good luck on here "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel the same as a couple i know we aren’t most people’s cup of tea we don’t many messages or looks so don’t know what we are doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't find anything wrong with your profile, but some people may find it too long. Yes, it's tongue in cheek which definitely makes it stand out from other single male profiles on here.

Unfortunately for you, you joined at the wrong time. When we go back to a bit more normal, try to get yourself out there, socials and/or clubs. And good luck.

Cheers for the advice, any bits you would cut out?

Hard to say, you seem to have the same problem as me when I write, just don't know when to stop.

I probably would get rid of the paragraph when you say you're not any particular type. Also, just have a read through it, does it read well? "

I have had a read through and have learned something called punctuation lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We feel the same as a couple i know we aren’t most people’s cup of tea we don’t many messages or looks so don’t know what we are doing wrong "

Heya, with regards to views, mine jumped up when I changed it to having photos which show my interests not just sexy pics, also getting on forums helps a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really know what your expecting from the site right now OP. Very few people are looking to meet for obvious reasons so most arent interested in getting into conversations with people they dont know.

Your profile is fine, in fact I would say its good. You just need to accept people arent meeting right now so you arent going to get many mails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics are really good. Not super keen on your profile text, but it's at least original and has character. Some will like it. Some won't

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city

In my opinion as a single male socials are the only way forward to get to meet new people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont really know what your expecting from the site right now OP. Very few people are looking to meet for obvious reasons so most arent interested in getting into conversations with people they dont know.

Your profile is fine, in fact I would say its good. You just need to accept people arent meeting right now so you arent going to get many mails."

Yeh maybe your right, perhaps I'm under the illusion chat maybe higher due to lockdown as cannot do meets. Cheers for feedback.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your pics are really good. Not super keen on your profile text, but it's at least original and has character. Some will like it. Some won't "

Thanks. What puts you off personally? Good to get a range of feedback.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

It takes a while to suss it all out in here.

You've only been here a little while so just be patient and to be honest most of the time you've been here is during lockdown.

Just keep chatting on the forums and updating profile and photos as you see fit.

Don't be pushy and just have fun

Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It takes a while to suss it all out in here.

You've only been here a little while so just be patient and to be honest most of the time you've been here is during lockdown.

Just keep chatting on the forums and updating profile and photos as you see fit.

Don't be pushy and just have fun

Enjoy "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your pics are really good. Not super keen on your profile text, but it's at least original and has character. Some will like it. Some won't

Thanks. What puts you off personally? Good to get a range of feedback."

There's nothing wrong with it. It's just not something that appeals to me personally, but it is always nice to see Individuality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your pics are really good. Not super keen on your profile text, but it's at least original and has character. Some will like it. Some won't

Thanks. What puts you off personally? Good to get a range of feedback.

There's nothing wrong with it. It's just not something that appeals to me personally, but it is always nice to see Individuality"

Ok cheers

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By *aimtoplease69Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I can't see anything wrong with your profile.. You have some freatboica

In fact if I was closer and you had messaged me I would definitley reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't see anything wrong with your profile.. You have some freatboica

In fact if I was closer and you had messaged me I would definitley reply "

Aww thanks, what's freatboica, never heard that before?

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By *aimtoplease69Woman
over a year ago

Kent


"I can't see anything wrong with your profile.. You have some freatboica

In fact if I was closer and you had messaged me I would definitley reply

Aww thanks, what's freatboica, never heard that before?"

Ha ha.. I'm. Not sure what that was meant to be.. Think it was great pics.. Auto sodding correct

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I like ur profile. Well written and shows thought has gone into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't see anything wrong with your profile.. You have some freatboica

In fact if I was closer and you had messaged me I would definitley reply

Aww thanks, what's freatboica, never heard that before?

Ha ha.. I'm. Not sure what that was meant to be.. Think it was great pics.. Auto sodding correct "

Haha ok, cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like ur profile. Well written and shows thought has gone into it"

Thank you!

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Looks fine to me. Nice selection of photos and a decent written profile with some humour.

It all boils down to if you tick a person's boxes or not with distance etc and if they are attracted to you or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks fine to me. Nice selection of photos and a decent written profile with some humour.

It all boils down to if you tick a person's boxes or not with distance etc and if they are attracted to you or not. "

Thanks, nice legs btw.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Looks like a good profile to me. Personally I like your profile text, it gives a chance for your personality to come out a little and made me smile. Good pics too. Just hang in there I think OP, you'll connect with the right people soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like a good profile to me. Personally I like your profile text, it gives a chance for your personality to come out a little and made me smile. Good pics too. Just hang in there I think OP, you'll connect with the right people soon!"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think also with this virus no one is meeting so they are probably not looking at anyone to meet until everything is back to normal. But like others have said just hang on in their and you never know, but there are lots of other guys just like you.

A lot of couples and single ladies look for verifications too because their is so many time wasters here on fab. But all the best in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheers"
loved your profile its all about messaging for me that profile and pics you should be getting interest its maybe all down to the unfortunate timey you joined i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think also with this virus no one is meeting so they are probably not looking at anyone to meet until everything is back to normal. But like others have said just hang on in their and you never know, but there are lots of other guys just like you.

A lot of couples and single ladies look for verifications too because their is so many time wasters here on fab. But all the best in the future. "

Cheers for feedback. Yeh have struggled with veri's a bit, had previous and many were from fetlife but no meeting has curtailed those for now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey, I'd appreciate some feedback, especially from women. I get a decent amount of views a day and I get my messages read but then people view my profile and I hear nothing back. I'm wondering if there's something on my profile putting people off? I know I won't be for everyone but feel like there's a pattern emerging so curious? Cheersloved your profile its all about messaging for me that profile and pics you should be getting interest its maybe all down to the unfortunate timey you joined i think "

Thanks, yeh I put a bit of work into it to try and stand out while giving people info they want. Yeh let's hope it's a timing thing. Cheers

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