FabSwingers.com forum: Being young

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve always fantasised about being with an older women and it’s the thing I want to do the most.. but I’m struggling to find any that want to sleep with a younger man... am I just impatient or is my chat not good enough when I find the right women? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve always fantasised about being with an older women and it’s the thing I want to do the most.. but I’m struggling to find any that want to sleep with a younger man... am I just impatient or is my chat not good enough when I find the right women? X"

I can't speak for your chat, but I can say you need to be here longer than a week for anything to happen. It takes patience to find someone you connect with here, and quite possibly the ladies here are getting bombarded with likeminded individuals who would otherwise be at work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point! Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Writing being discrete is key on profile won't go down well with many women as they may assume your cheating. Women must get 100s of blokes playing away contact them each day and they will see straight through any cover stories just from experience I imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have a picture of your back put more pics up and make sure you send a face pic with your face.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You've been here 7days, at a time when most of the country is still in a lock down scenario, a little patience will go a bloody long way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I will make sure I upload some more tonight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Writing being discrete is key on profile won't go down well with many women as they may assume your cheating. Women must get 100s of blokes playing away contact them each day and they will see straight through any cover stories just from experience I imagine. "
ahh I see! Thanks for the advise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

older means not stupid, in most cases, what have you got to offer them? you profile comes across as all about you, any way good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat fab as a snack or maybe a treat.

IRL you are young and no doubt out and about having fun so hang in here and enjoy the hunt for your older cunt as I’m sure it will come with effort respect and indeed time.

Have fun good luck and be safe.

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By *ames44XXXMan
over a year ago

newport

Not many older women like young men our age lol

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By *omixMan
over a year ago

London

when I was 19-25 I slept with many older womens best sex expierence in my life so you can find if you are looking

use this site for social and parties events after we comeback to normal life....

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

To add to the above: many of us ‘older’ women have children around or above your age, and some feel awkward meeting people around those ages. However, there are some that do look for chaps around your age group. So approach those who are and be patient.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Wait until the plague is over and try a club. I, and a lot of other women, are happy to play with younger guys as long as they're clean polite and respectful. Just don't tell any woman you want to fuck her because she's old. Sexy, beautiful, attractive is fine but definitely not old

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

As no one here is aware of how good your chat is it would be impossible to answer your question.

But if you are questioning why you are not finding what you are looking for there are a few basic things to be aware of. Firstly, you will need to accept some facts. Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc.

Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet. If it says they are looking for a bi guy, or a chubby guy, that's not you so don't waste your time or theirs.

Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. Quite frankly your profile couldn't sell a Big Mac to a starving man, so it's not going to sell you to prospective meets. Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you.

Put on some pics. What do you think your current picture says about you, and why do you think it will generate interest in you? Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile. Anything in between is great.

However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too. Then get off the site and meet people socially or try a club when the time comes.

Good luck.

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