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When is it time to stop swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging?

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By *tag and HellcatCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Seriously hope not.

One couple on here are around 70 and still in the go. We’ve got a while to reach that. Hope we’d still be up for it when we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way, it keeps you young!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round .

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

I would say it's a "mind" cut off when you know it's just not for you anymore

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Will keep going as long as able. There’s an argument for a minimum age though?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

Surely it is when either you are not enjoying it any more, or nobody is interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only time to stop is when you cant do it any more.

There is no retirement age on sex.

Obviously as we get older the number of possible playmates diminishes, but it is unlikely ever to dry up completely.

Not until in our dotage anyway !

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Just the question we are now asking ourselves!

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

As long as your happy & enjoying keep at it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Yes - whatever age you are when you're no longer enjoying it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No age, whenever you feel the urge to stop.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging?

Surely it is when either you are not enjoying it any more, or nobody is interested?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "
51 thats it

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

The swinging scene has a great social to it, for some it’s an opportunity to get out and make new friends not just play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

I think people should keep doing whatever makes them happy for as long as they possibly can. Life is too short!

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I had a close vanilla friend I knew well.

He told me him and his wife got into the scene in the 1970's via the naturism scene.

Whilst he always worked hard to maintain that all over tan, he said he found himself on the outside of the swing scene when his wife passed on having lost her to breast cancer in 2002. It would seem their circle of friends were all couples of a given age.

Its just a shame to think when life deals you cards like this, the folks you've known and played with for many years then keep you at arms length because your nearest and dearest passes away. Difficult just doesn't describe it, so here's to living for here and now!

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging?

I think people should keep doing whatever makes them happy for as long as they possibly can. Life is too short!"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I had a close vanilla friend I knew well.

He told me him and his wife got into the scene in the 1970's via the naturism scene.

Whilst he always worked hard to maintain that all over tan, he said he found himself on the outside of the swing scene when his wife passed on having lost her to breast cancer in 2002. It would seem their circle of friends were all couples of a given age.

Its just a shame to think when life deals you cards like this, the folks you've known and played with for many years then keep you at arms length because your nearest and dearest passes away. Difficult just doesn't describe it, so here's to living for here and now!"

That happens in all walks of life to be fair

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round . "

Nicely put. Those damn birthdays eh.

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Hope not,

I'm hoping that meets will get easier to arrange later on in life due to the decrease in commitments that come with having a young family,

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I will stop when i widdle my knickers an can nolonger get my legs round a mans neck

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"No way, it keeps you young!"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do hope not, but let’s just say the opportunities get less the older you get and there does seem to be an unwritten rule that you are past it at 55

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do hope not, but let’s just say the opportunities get less the older you get and there does seem to be an unwritten rule that you are past it at 55"

Cheers for that

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

When your arse has fell out

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"I will stop when i widdle my knickers an can nolonger get my legs round a mans neck "

Feel free to use my neck as a resting place for your legs

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

I'd say it stops when it's not enjoyable, no longer gives the sense of anticipation and excitement.

We've decided to knock it on the head, lockdown has helped with that decision. Too much effort for so-so experiences imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your cock drops off

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

When the final nail goes in the coffin lid

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round . "

How would a young lass like you know?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

No the time to stop swinging is when you do not enjoy swinging.

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

We don't stop being young because we get old; we get old because we stop being young.

Enjoy what you enjoy for as long as you can, because when you can't you'll miss it.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Do hope not, but let’s just say the opportunities get less the older you get and there does seem to be an unwritten rule that you are past it at 55"

I hope not, got a lot of years to make up for.

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By *urocougarCouple
over a year ago

watton

Wife still says she will go way past 80 and still give blow jobs in a wheel chair she loves cock hahaha

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By *an SmithMan
over a year ago

Ipswich


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round . "

I can't imagine that swinging has give you up!

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

Sometimes wonder why we do. It is very enjoyable when we do, but so many fakes and time wasters on here now, it does make it difficult.

With the Covid night mare going on, wondering if this Natural break is going to help us make up our mind. We haven’t missed it, but didn’t live and die for it like some do anyway.

Oh and yes, of course we realise we are of the certain age now anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round .

I can't imagine that swinging has give you up! "

That's kind of you.

Let's just say our opportunities have narrowed .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round .

How would a young lass like you know? "

ah Bobby, if only eh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You'll find that there are fewer people interested in meeting you as you move up the age scale. Swinging sort of gradually gives you up rather than the other way round .

Nicely put. Those damn birthdays eh."

I have to say I'd rather keep having birthdays than the alternative

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

No age limit for us..just stop when its not fun anymore

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

When every time u send a face and get ghosted lol

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I’m just keeping going ... even though I have a bus pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the buzz,the excitement the expectation is no longer there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the buzz,the excitement the expectation is no longer there"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still playing when we can, not stopping anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still playing when we can, not stopping anytime soon."

.that answers a question that wasn't asked

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

stop when it stops being enjoyable, why should there be an age.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Now, cuz no one can meet

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Only when and if you do not enjoy it anymore or you don’t attract anyone anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you feel the urge you should continue to enjoy sex and swinging for as long as you want.

Try and keep in good shape because there are many sensual older people who still want fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you've got tinnitus thats a good time i think

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Hope not! My fella wants to carry on into his 80's.

Alass I've seen that profiles with much older men, over 60+ don't get much play. Although there are some that do. Before I get shot down. I've seen lots of single ladies and couples where the lady is 70+ still active and gaining veri's.

We don't have a sell by date on our swinging lifestyle.

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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

We are both 53 this year. Have great sex together. Clubs seem quite before all this and aware you attract less attention, apart from 65 Yr old males with pot belly creeping around her, she hates that.all aware youth and the fit body appeals, wish we were still in our late 20s or early 30s. Only did it for some fun, not a need and I think we are naturally drifting away more and more, guess it happens at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now........ this is a sign build a bunker in back garden

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

ilpseich

We’ve only just started at 50 so we’re hoping for a few good years.

When the buzz goes that’s time to stop l guess.Hoping we will have made some great friends by then to still socialise with if nothing else .

Annie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was contacted by a Threesome, 2 males and a female.

One guy was 65 the lady was 67 and the 3rd guy who contacted me on behalf of them all was 84 !!!!

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I was contacted by a Threesome, 2 males and a female.

One guy was 65 the lady was 67 and the 3rd guy who contacted me on behalf of them all was 84 !!!!"
Lucky lad ..us also ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some really interesting and thoughtful replies - thanks very much everyone

I'm noticing I attract less (welcome) attention these days which makes me question whether I can be bothered with it all lol

Trouble is, I do love sex

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I would say that the age is unimportant.

The time to stop for me would be when the enjoyment and fun stop.

Del

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’m early 70s met two different couple late February as long as you’re capable what’s age got to do with it,and yes everybody had a great time age is only a number.Enjoy all the oldies.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

when you kick the bucket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best tunes come from an old fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true.

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By *utchyjackMan
over a year ago

Newquay

I am 70 in a couple of weeks time, and yes I still get meets and have fun, i enjoy a good chase and sometimes reap the rewards. Age is just a number, and remember tomorrow is the first day of the rest of your life, make the most of it.

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "
no way keep going as long as you enjoy it age is just a number x

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london


"if you've got tinnitus thats a good time i think "

I had tinnitus five years, I’d woulda say the complete opposite.

Before lockdown the social side of this lifestyle was a release for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when your dick falls off if you haven't got one and some people haven't I'd say 50 at that point only settle for love

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton


"Do you think there's an age cut off on when someone should give up swinging? "

Keep on doing it until it stops being fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still active, though not as often as I used to be but still enjoy meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re happy with why not carry on.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

were at the age when we should give up but still enjoy clubs and parties even tho our chances of playing are limited(very) but the odd bit of excitement keeps you going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6.18pm

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"were at the age when we should give up but still enjoy clubs and parties even tho our chances of playing are limited(very) but the odd bit of excitement keeps you going"

What do you mean "of an age"????

We say if it feels good for both of us, we will keep having fun

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have only just started and reguardless of my age i do not intend to stop for a good few years as swinging keeps me young ans fits into my life well.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"I have only just started and reguardless of my age i do not intend to stop for a good few years as swinging keeps me young ans fits into my life well. "

...and we bet you get plenty of offers to extend your "hobby"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know when it's time to stop swinging, the guy comes round telling us the club's about to close.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"We know when it's time to stop swinging, the guy comes round telling us the club's about to close. "

xx

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