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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do couples post meets looking for 'M' and have in their profiles 'will meet bi guys' but then block all single mails.

I know that if 'you want us you will find us' but if you are looking to meet with a single male shouldn't we be able to offer ourselves up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do couples post meets looking for 'M' and have in their profiles 'will meet bi guys' but then block all single mails.

I know that if 'you want us you will find us' but if you are looking to meet with a single male shouldn't we be able to offer ourselves up?"

As a hardend "swinger" off another well know site and being Bi i symapthise with you; however try not take it to heart and undestand that some "couples" are just testing the water and are bombarded by men lke us for sex and other just plain fed up that men dont read profiles proparly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do couples post meets looking for 'M' and have in their profiles 'will meet bi guys' but then block all single mails.

I know that if 'you want us you will find us' but if you are looking to meet with a single male shouldn't we be able to offer ourselves up?

As a hardend "swinger" off another well know site and being Bi i symapthise with you; however try not take it to heart and undestand that some "couples" are just testing the water and are bombarded by men lke us for sex and other just plain fed up that men dont read profiles proparly"

Thanks, I just find it strange that they ask for something but don't let anyone reply. I understand they must get plenty of offers and most of them being from timewasters so fair enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they can

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Many of them are looking but prefer to make the first move.

The way the filters work, if you send a message to someone who you have filters set up against then they can mail you back, but they can't initiate contact.

So they may be looking for single males, but will contact those they are interested in and prefer that ones they have no interest in don't message them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"because they can"

Constructive comment. Thanks.

You've hit the nail on the head for me.

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By *idlifecrisis40Man
over a year ago

Manchester (North)

What temptingdevil said. But there are a few others who update their profile text but don't think to update their preferences because that's hidden away under another menu option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What temptingdevil said. But there are a few others who update their profile text but don't think to update their preferences because that's hidden away under another menu option."
Love your profile pics, very inventive, well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why whyyy whyyyyeeeee!

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

maybe they already have and dont want to be approached about it any longer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they can

Constructive comment. Thanks.

You've hit the nail on the head for me."
HERE HERE....i started off a similar thread earlier.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a,single male and been.on nearly a year know . It takes a while to.get trust etc from many people . I've built my profile up slowly and have a good range of friends . If people do not reply I.move.on.as I am not their type . I respect everyone and everyone should do the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"because they can

Constructive comment. Thanks.

You've hit the nail on the head for me."

isnt it up to them what they do, people on this site spend way to much time worrying about what others do.

if they want to meet single men and have them blocked then its their choice so let them get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why worry................. Be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we look for single males,

we would happily have one around here to fuck nik with me,we do look at profiles and chat with some we either have met or want to.

the problem is even though our profile says single men we will contact you,we still get messages when our mail box is open.

when you just delete the message with out reading we have had messages saying we are rude

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It can save a whole lot of wasted time on the guys behalf if the filters are used like that

With a 100 threads a week asking why don't people reply to messages it makes sense to use the tools to find just what you're lokoing for without having an inbox full of people that you don't want to meet

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