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Ever gone completely unprotected?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So with your significant other and having kids with your partner clearly doesn't count.

Have you ever had sex without a condom or birth control with a playmate, casual partner, stranger, or short term BF/GF? Did you/she take the morning after pill or just risk it?

We never have (only with each other), just curious if anyone has done, or does go, fully unprotected or if it's happened by accident in the heat of the moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with long term fwb, agreed monogamy whilst we were meeting. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have with a regular FB, she got really turned on by me cumming inside her as her ex didn't like doing it so hadn't experienced it.... Needless to say, I made sure to fill her up at every opportunity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever with long term partners. Never on a meet. I worry about Oral without protection too.

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By *ooster82Man
over a year ago

Dundee

I don't like the feeling of condoms when I'm wearing one, but if I'm with someone and they want me to wear one I will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once or twice in my youth and was was lucky not to get caught out as I probably never asked if they were on the pill. Since then only with a long term partners or my ex wives, and never with any swinging meet I’ve had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all have in our youth or when pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would imagine most have sometime in their lifes , but always been on birth control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever with long term partners. Never on a meet. I worry about Oral without protection too."

I would never give a blowie while guy using condom , would rather not do it at all

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No never I've always being on birth control even in long term relationships. I never wanted to get pregnant so never took the any chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im sensible. If its a ongoing partner both tested yes i would but casual... no fking way! Dont fancy becoming a walking std.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my partners latex intolerant so i got a vasectomy, since then ive been with 1 other unprotected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never,no glove no love,it's really that simple for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever with a long term FWB - need to establish trust. Otherwise always play safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with each other, J is sometimes

Naughty and is punished. We have both had the snip

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I've done unprotected with a few married housewives... They knew I'd had the snip..and one also had the lady version... naughty but they all wanted to be filled...all had one thing in common...kids at school, hubby at work, bored and needed the day filling in

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By *oyandJulieMan
over a year ago

blackburn

I'm a single male now, following the loss of my FB a couple of years ago. I've kept the profile going, so that i can keep in touch with the friends we made. However, my profile does say Im now a single guy

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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Yes, my partners latex intolerant so i got a vasectomy, since then ive been with 1 other unprotected "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Always birth control

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

On a handful of occasions, yes...

Only once with the full knowledge beforehand that the wife I was playing with was completely unprotected...

....but a few other times with different wives, when comments were made during and after which let the cat out of the bag...

....like the husband stammering "but, but, you're not on the pill!" to his wife as she urged me to cum inside her - to which she casually replied that she'd get the 'morning after' pill...

....which was what another wife said to me, when she told me "not to bother" when I reached for a condom - her husband wasn't there to object (or not)...

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Yes many times in my early life when I first started to have a good sex life

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Yes many years ago I rode my motorcycle totally naked was very liberating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.

It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

back in the day I used to never caught anything or got anyone pregnant though luckily. not sure I would do now days though.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

I met a lovely couple a few years back near Leeds. They invited me over for an evening of entertainment and play!

I mentioned in passing to the hubby that I prefer to play safe, but I'm case. He told me to keep that to myself as he wife loved the pregnancy risk thrill!

I had a very long and sweaty evening... and kept my quiet!

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

1st ever meet on here ,.. , heat of the moment, everything just went so quickly , not again

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No. Always play safe. Even with a new partner its taken months before playing without protection.

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By *tp1664Man
over a year ago

b64

Bareback is best i hate condoms.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.

It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!! "

How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?

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By *arriedallbiCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham-ish

Always on the pill as I've always loved being filled, love bareback x

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Only with the two women in in committed relationships with. My personal view is that its too risky otherwise. If someone is willing to have unprotected sec with me a a casual fuck, who else are they also doing so with?

I consider that in protecting the two partners I do have unprotected sex with, plus everyone else they have sex with and so on.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"On a handful of occasions, yes...

Only once with the full knowledge beforehand that the wife I was playing with was completely unprotected...

....but a few other times with different wives, when comments were made during and after which let the cat out of the bag...

....like the husband stammering "but, but, you're not on the pill!" to his wife as she urged me to cum inside her - to which she casually replied that she'd get the 'morning after' pill...

....which was what another wife said to me, when she told me "not to bother" when I reached for a condom - her husband wasn't there to object (or not)..."

An update on my previous (above) post...

....arrangements are currently being discussed for at least one meet - possibly two, maybe even three - with a couple where the wife will potentially be in an unprotected fertile state...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Hope you are ok paying child support...

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I did in my youth, thankfully never caught anything.

I will now but it's a regular person exclusive deal & I expect the same in return (sorry guys someone's got that privilege)

As for pregnancy protection well I solved that one permanently over 9 years ago!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a condom split open on me once. Does that count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did, well Mrs did with a fb she had. Was seeing each other for months Started safe an we all agreed to get ourselves tested and then went from there. Just over a year we were in a poly relationship.

Altho meets are always safe sex.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Only with long term fb, but no way with any lady who is new.

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By *ooneyCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.

It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!

How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"

Now that's a good question

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's unlikely that you will get honest responses here..

The truth is probably quite a few people have had unprotected sex with others outside a relationship, but likely to get slated and blocked if they admit it on here.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I would never do that.

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yeah we had a threesome and was spontaneous and went unprotected

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By *reakfastCouple
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.

It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!

How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"

Glad you asked, I was going to ask the same question.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I had a long ongoing relationship with a married woman who’s hubby had the snip , she was on the pill because she wanted to feel my cum in her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a nightmare scare several years ago. I was seeing a sub for 6 months in total. Condoms initially but over time we trusted each other and went bareback. She was married, which I knew (my bad). Then I went to hers one day and she showed me a positive pregnancy test. She did 2 more and both were positive. I said I'd go to Drs with her to book an abortion. She said she couldnt and that we would need to go private.

It transpired the reason she didnt want to go to NHS was that the fucker had been having IVF treatment with her husband for several months!!!

How did she know the baby was yours and not her husband's ?"

She said she hadn't slept with him since February. We started seeing each other in the May & that incident happened August. That said though she'd been lying to him as she cheated with me so I guess nothing she said could be trusted. But if she had any suspicions it was his I'd have thought she'd have wanted to keep it. Who knows though.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have once or twice on here, but it was a trust thing, plus I had birth control, now safe sex only as I don't have any bc plus we all need to stay safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once the trust is there why not

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Yeah we had a threesome and was spontaneous and went unprotected "

It was a mff btw on holiday xx

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

In late teens eary 20s a few times on here only once our very first meet we still prefer bare but had ovaries removed now so no pregnancy risk

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I had a long ongoing relationship with a married woman who’s hubby had the snip , she was on the pill because she wanted to feel my cum in her "

So i have two wives... The one not recognised by the state also has a live in husband. He's had the snip, and I don't use condoms with our wife. But she is using other birth control so there's almost no risk of pregnancy. If she did become pregnant or would almost certainly be mine. And it's a situation we've all discussed in our poly family.

Years ago when I was in a triad I was fucking our girlfriend while my wife was holding her hand beside her ave the condom broke. Nobody realised until I came. She was Alston birth control and took advice from her GP the following day.

Bareback is lovely but none of us wants children or finds the risks exciting. But it's up to every person/couple/polycule what decisions they make.

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By *ows the time 300Man
over a year ago

Rickmansworth

I only go in bare, so much better

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only ever play bareback but I've had the snip and janine has a coil. I have slept with women b4 her ni BC was in place

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