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Squirting, does it happen naturally or do women push out?

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

So I know there’s absolutely loads of posts regarding squirting but I have a question. When a women squirts do you push for it to happen or is like an orgasm that builds up and naturally happens?

Of some that I’ve seen squirt they seem to be pushing and others don’t?

Thanks

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Anyone

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By *izzie and VictorCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

For me I find it’s not so much push it out... but stop keeping it in.

It’s a weird sensation, that I used to hold in, but once relaxed and stop holing it in then I go!

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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

Same as above just builds up and naturally happens.

Was really embarrassed first few times but guys take it as a compliment now.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

It happens naturally here.. when his fingers hit the right spot it’s like a river!

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Sexycplswing looks like a proper squirt in pic 5 !!!! ??????

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"For me I find it’s not so much push it out... but stop keeping it in.

It’s a weird sensation, that I used to hold in, but once relaxed and stop holing it in then I go!"

I find it a real turn on as most men do. I always wonder though that sometimes when I’m with a girl they stop at the point before it happens

and clench there legs. They get soaking wet and open up where more than one finger can go inside.

I start playing with two middle fingers also pressing with the palm of my hand on the outside of them running the front and clit loving up and down quicker. Then suddenly they clench there legs and stop saying they need a week

Just wondering if it’s gonna happen naturally like Male ejaculation or they have to push but from you say it should happen?

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"It happens naturally here.. when his fingers hit the right spot it’s like a river! "

Tanks for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt . "

And it just cums out naturally then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

And it just cums out naturally then?"

I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

And it just cums out naturally then?

I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter. "

What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point?

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By *carlett AngelWoman
over a year ago

NI


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

And it just cums out naturally then?

I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.

What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point? "

I’ve never “pushed down”. To me that sounds like urinating during sex. Personally it gets to a point where I have no control over it. Except stopping completely. After the shock of the first couple of times I’ve no desire to stop anymore. I enjoy the sensation of the build and the release with someone I’m relaxed and comfortable with.

Having said that there’s nothing turns me off more than someone obviously trying to make me squirt like it’s the ultimate goal. It’s just one part and I still need to orgasm. Squirt doesn’t equal finished. (For me)

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By *azzle36Woman
over a year ago

Lancaster

For me its defo natural and the amount u squirt depends on how turned on I am and if the guy is hitting the spot..I can hold it a little and stop myself squirting but guys have noticed and told me to let go and go with it so I have..I dont always squirt tho..depends on the moment but its defo not a pushing it out kinda feeling...it just happens if the moments right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

And it just cums out naturally then?

I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.

What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point? "

For me, it comes as my body tenses and arches with the orgasm, and then relaxes. It doesn't happen every single time, for example I don't squirt when I just use a toy on my clit. But most of the time with fingers or cock.

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax


"It happens naturally here.. when his fingers hit the right spot it’s like a river! "

Agreed

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Sexycplswing looks like a proper squirt in pic 5 !!!! ??????"

Er?

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester

Thankyou

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By *msurreyCouple
over a year ago

Twickenham

If my gspot gets rubbed and then my clit I simply can’t hold back I just squirt until I am drained....

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By *anzcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lanzarote

We’ve a couple of squirt vids.

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"If my gspot gets rubbed and then my clit I simply can’t hold back I just squirt until I am drained...."

Thanks. So seems that it will just happen naturally and it’s not forced then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once someone opens that door for the first time, you can't control it, hold back slightly maybe but no pushing needed

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By *AC52Man
over a year ago

brackely

Another question lol

So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Another question lol

So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know "

I believe it’s different to an orgasm mate

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By *edrickWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"Another question lol

So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know

I believe it’s different to an orgasm mate"

Its completely different to a clitoral orgasm but just as fulfilling. I can squirt/orgasm multiple times with g spit stimulation but 1 clitoral orgasm leaves me way too sensitive to more play!

It is a release but doesnt feel like having a wee, completely involuntary and once I start I cant control it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another question lol

So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know "

It feels amazing, but definitely different to a clitoral orgasm. And no need to push at all, if the guy knows how to do it, it will just happen!

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"Another question lol

So what does it actually feel like when you squirt? Is it almost like an orgasmic feeling or a feeling of release? I’ve always wanted to know

It feels amazing, but definitely different to a clitoral orgasm. And no need to push at all, if the guy knows how to do it, it will just happen!"

Thankyou

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I sometimes do try to hold it in, but my partner knows very well how to get it going. He gets disappointed if I don't squirt .

And it just cums out naturally then?

I'm not sure what you mean by it coming out naturally? Squirting is part of my sexuality, it's not something I have a great deal of control over. But it certainly helps if the person I'm with accepts that I'm a squirter.

What I meant was you don’t have to push down for it to come out just happens when you reach a certain point?

I’ve never “pushed down”. To me that sounds like urinating during sex. Personally it gets to a point where I have no control over it. Except stopping completely. After the shock of the first couple of times I’ve no desire to stop anymore. I enjoy the sensation of the build and the release with someone I’m relaxed and comfortable with.

Having said that there’s nothing turns me off more than someone obviously trying to make me squirt like it’s the ultimate goal. It’s just one part and I still need to orgasm. Squirt doesn’t equal finished. (For me) "

Word of warning!

I knew a lady who squirted. She was seeing someone. He got fixated by it and went to greater lengths to get her to do it more and more.

It got to the stage where she made excuses for having sex at all with him. It really created a divide between them. She had to sit him down and have a conversation with him.

I don’t think their relationship really recovered from it.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

I have to be v v relaxed. It does nothing for me tho and really can't see the obsession that some build it up into. Give me an orgasm over squirting anyday. Too much porn!

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By *017chesterlad OP   Man
over a year ago

chester


"I have to be v v relaxed. It does nothing for me tho and really can't see the obsession that some build it up into. Give me an orgasm over squirting anyday. Too much porn!"

To much porn indeed. For me It just really appeals to me as do a lot of other things

Love it when a lady totally relaxes though and lets herself go

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