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Am I a snob?

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By *ondonexplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

Ascot

Earlier today a couple winked me, but after a couple of messages I just had to block them because of their poor communication skills.

It wasn't broken English as if it were not their first language, but sloppy speech, and unfriendly too.

I can forgive the odd spelling mistake/typo, but we need to maintain our personal standards, right?

I may have passed up the best sex of my life, but I suspect I've dodged a bullet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kudos to you for sticking with your standards....

You’re not a snob at all..... You just know what works for you....

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Yes. I'll bet you won't even eat beans unless they're Heinz.

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

I don't think you're a snob, I think you've avoided someone that wasn't suitable for you. They will find one else on a similar level as will you!

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By *andaele50Couple
over a year ago

Fcuksville

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Get that, op. Recently experienced the same. Convo went chav and we had to leave it there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I totally agree, the odd spelling mistake I can accept , as spellcheck can change words without realising , but if you can't speak in a way I'm going to understand then there's no point holding conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Convo went chav”! Love it, I’m going to have to remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like attracts like. You're not a snob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

choice is just that a choice i personally wont meet guys who knock others spelling and grammar why ?? because it a choice

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

No!

Because you didn't ask "Is one a snob?"

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I'm with you on this one, OP, as I'd have done the same. I didn't go to university for nothing.

Therefore I am also a snob, and proud of it

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By *heel markMan
over a year ago

beside the sea


"Earlier today a couple winked me, but after a couple of messages I just had to block them because of their poor communication skills.

It wasn't broken English as if it were not their first language, but sloppy speech, and unfriendly too.

I can forgive the odd spelling mistake/typo, but we need to maintain our personal standards, right?

I may have passed up the best sex of my life, but I suspect I've dodged a bullet."

You could have given them an English lesson as you were fucking them , an opportunity missed op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest OP, I’ve blocked for a lot less, if that click isn’t there you can’t force it

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I feel you OP. I specifically ask on my profile for people to at least try and use good spelling and grammar if they want to message me.

I spoke to some people where I’ve literally had to sit and decipher every message and it really ruins any kind of attraction for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get put off by all sorts of things. If that makes me a snob then so be it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

you're not compatible. Neither of you dodged a bullet.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"Earlier today a couple winked me, but after a couple of messages I just had to block them because of their poor communication skills.

It wasn't broken English as if it were not their first language, but sloppy speech, and unfriendly too.

Spot on ! That is one of my pet hates too

I can forgive the odd spelling mistake/typo, but we need to maintain our personal standards, right?

I may have passed up the best sex of my life, but I suspect I've dodged a bullet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I keep my messages simple

“ WUU2 , Fancy a fuck “

Easy and straight to the point.....

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By *ondonexplorer OP   Man
over a year ago

Ascot

So I'm not a snob!!

Well that's a relief.

Any classy birds please get in touch and I'll finger you well good innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on an online site to make choices about who to meet isn’t easy - you have to use whatever signals you can.

It can be photos, profiles, references , or the words they use in chats

Until you meet it’s all you have x

Go with what you feel is best for you and who you are

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I regularly reach for the block button if people can't communicate properly. My pet hate is people saying "use" instead of "you"

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By *uicyfruit3Man
over a year ago

portsmouth

I don't really block people, but I stop communicating with couples and women who can only reply in monosyllabic text.

What's the point in trying to prolong a convo when the replies you get are along the lines of "lol yeah haha" Of course, people may respond differently when meeting in person, but it doesn't bode well if you can't maintain a simple conversation

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