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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK so my mrs likes me to clean her out after I cum in her, she says the feeling of it and the fact I am eating cum turns her on

In past passing remarks she has suggested that I am bi even though I've never been with a guy and we both laugh it off

She has said that after lockdown we will start meeting people as a couple but for me to make the arrangements for both of us

Do you think she wants the cuckold scenario ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

as in me being cuckold to her

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Why don't you ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to talk about it be totopen and honest with eachother, it's the only way it will work for you guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you ask her?"

Plan on doing so next time I clean her up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You need to talk about it be totopen and honest with eachother, it's the only way it will work for you guys "

Thanks guys

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sounds like she likes the idea of a meeting that you’ve setup, that way she knows you’re comfortable with what’s going on.

Looking at your profile though, and assuming this is your first meet, I would suggest you do it together, or even better go to a club/ social event when they finally open up and it’s safe. The reality of a meet is a lot different to the fantasy of it, and if neither of you are sure what you want it’s not really the place to find out and it’s not fair to use somebody else as an experiment.

A meet can put a lot of pressure to play or go further than you necessarily want to, until you have some experience with this a bit of a softer approach may be better, even a social only drink with a couple just to flirt a bit and see how you get on would probably be the right first move.

Always better to regret not going further than to regret doing something one of you wasn’t comfortable with.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like she likes the idea of a meeting that you’ve setup, that way she knows you’re comfortable with what’s going on.

Looking at your profile though, and assuming this is your first meet, I would suggest you do it together, or even better go to a club/ social event when they finally open up and it’s safe. The reality of a meet is a lot different to the fantasy of it, and if neither of you are sure what you want it’s not really the place to find out and it’s not fair to use somebody else as an experiment.

A meet can put a lot of pressure to play or go further than you necessarily want to, until you have some experience with this a bit of a softer approach may be better, even a social only drink with a couple just to flirt a bit and see how you get on would probably be the right first move.

Always better to regret not going further than to regret doing something one of you wasn’t comfortable with.

Good luck "

Thanks

Both of us have chatted at length about swinging and the possible downfalls and the first few meets would be social meets then a chat between ourselves later over the meet in general and how we felt

Neither of are the type to push the other into something before talking, setting boundaries and agreeing with each other which includes when one or both of us do not want to do things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK so my mrs likes me to clean her out after I cum in her, she says the feeling of it and the fact I am eating cum turns her on

In past passing remarks she has suggested that I am bi even though I've never been with a guy and we both laugh it off

She has said that after lockdown we will start meeting people as a couple but for me to make the arrangements for both of us

Do you think she wants the cuckold scenario ?"
no....... categorically no...... hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK so my mrs likes me to clean her out after I cum in her, she says the feeling of it and the fact I am eating cum turns her on

In past passing remarks she has suggested that I am bi even though I've never been with a guy and we both laugh it off

She has said that after lockdown we will start meeting people as a couple but for me to make the arrangements for both of us

Do you think she wants the cuckold scenario ?no....... categorically no...... hope this helps "

Thanks but as others have said I'm at least gonna have to chat with her about it

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