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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If yous are 1000% secure you do what ever your comfortable with and pleases you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'd be hugely popular with women and guys so take the opportunity to be greedy and select whoever you'd like.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Go for it.

But, discuss ALL parameters first.

Only do what you’ve agreed to do beforehand.

Have fun

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Do what you want, it's not all about your husband.

For me, I love Neil being there. I wouldn't want to meet alone, I've done it before, it's not for me

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."

I second this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me "

So you want to know if any couples want to meet you after lockdown of course. Not whether you should do it or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was something I didn’t think was for me.

I was pleasantly surprised and we both got a lot out of it.

He arranges everything and safety is always the primary concern as it should be. xx

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."

Good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a divorce and marry a real man

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By *thleticgirthMan
over a year ago

wirral

I used to ask my ex to do this. She only did it twice but I absolutely loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a sexy scenario!

Hope it happens for you. Be safe and make sure hubby is there, waiting to take you back home.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

Your husband would like you to have your own profile and meets.

So he came up with the idea.

Do what you want to do.

If you have to ask a bunch of strangers on Fab then you’re not sure obviously.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"get a divorce and marry a real man"

Ha! Oh the irony is just dripping off this stupid comment

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

Its something we have chatted about and considered with guys we already know possibly....as the reclaim is so exciting ...xx

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By *ubcuckMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Very hot thread

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham


"get a divorce and marry a real man

Ha! Oh the irony is just dripping off this stupid comment "

Male half writing that's a bot or a stupid comment , to be clear , I am all man when needs to be , but what I am is secure in our relationship and open enough to admit due to work commitments we are like shops in the night , as we have swung and do swing I dont have a problem with my wife having some fun when I'm not available , at parties she loves playing with couples and I leave her to it only difference here is I would drop her off and pick her up afterwards and then reclaim her when we get home same as we do after most play night we have , that fact that I'm open and honest is probably why we are still married after a long time and still going strong it has and always be her decision to play , be it with a guy a couple or at a party, all I have done is say if you fancy a play without ne that's cool too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is something you both like the idea of and have talked it over then why not.

Life is way to short to look back and wonder what might have been grab the bull by the horns so to speak .......... no pun intended

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"get a divorce and marry a real man

Ha! Oh the irony is just dripping off this stupid comment

Male half writing that's a bot or a stupid comment , to be clear , I am all man when needs to be , but what I am is secure in our relationship and open enough to admit due to work commitments we are like shops in the night , as we have swung and do swing I dont have a problem with my wife having some fun when I'm not available , at parties she loves playing with couples and I leave her to it only difference here is I would drop her off and pick her up afterwards and then reclaim her when we get home same as we do after most play night we have , that fact that I'm open and honest is probably why we are still married after a long time and still going strong it has and always be her decision to play , be it with a guy a couple or at a party, all I have done is say if you fancy a play without ne that's cool too "

Totally get it...sounds like you have a great relationship and trust ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let guys pick up Stacey from ours & take her to any local pub. If they hit it off she invites him back to ours so he can pleasure her in front of me.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Can I be one of those guys that picks u up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes things find their natural course.

As long as you feel safe and hubby is happy about your safety then why not explore.

I’ve quite often met a couple for a social first and then it is only the woman that meets afterwards - but hubby has met me so is comfortable and she is reassured by his approval.

Enjoyment is the important thing xx

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I did this some 25 years ago, and I'm still enjoying it immensely

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no.

I second this. "

Thirded.

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

I used to meet alone before all the Covid stuff but was always with my regular guy. Met him a loads with hubby before but then moved on to having the odd meet alone at his or a hotel while hubby was at home. It’s unreal how horny hubby was when I got home and showed him pics and told him what I got up to. Even went for a night at a club with him as a couple and had good fun but for me not sure I could meet a stranger alone

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."

Agreed

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

If suggest the fact that you are very much in love and have a close relationship that you sit down with your husband and discuss it through with him. Discuss all aspects, what excites you about it, what scares or worries you. Hear him out too so you understand his drivers, excitement and worries. If it seems you are coming to common ground discuss ground rules, how things would work in practice etc. Only then can you come to a decision but I'd also second what others on here say... Don't be pushed into anything you don't want. That said, I don't think you would be if you did the above.. Just my thoughts really, hope it helps x

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

We are also into this we have a couple profile and separate profiles main thing is staying safe meet in large public bars where there is plenty of space for hubby to sit out of the way and the other person doesn't have to know he is there if you both feel comfortable go from there

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no.

Agreed"

Definitely agree. It’s a recipe for disaster. Why ask a bunch of strangers for advice? Surely wifey should know if she wants it or not!?

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By *incoln coupleCouple
over a year ago

lincoln

You do what you want to do, we all have "turn ons" and its great that you and your wife are so open about these v things.

Don't see that anyone has the right to question your manliness

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It is a whole different dynamic when the lady meets a guy solo. Hubby at home drives himself wild thinking what is happening and what his wife is doing, that's the thrill for him compared to watching. It's electric, mind blowing, I have done it myself with a previous GF.

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham


"To be clear he is not telling me to do it he said he wouldnt mind if I had my own profile as we work shifts . And he knows if been to eurekas on my own while hes been at work , and if messaged him whole there he has said if your horny go have some fun as it was I bumped into someone we knew and instead of playing with him at eurekas I brought him home as hubby likes t8 catch me being naughty, and he loved it . And so did I, most of the time we only meet bi people but this would enable meet to meet who ever and to keep him involved he only wants to know when I'm meeting for safety reasons and to send hima puck or call him whime there , the hole thing is so naughty but it also is so hot , love to know if any couples would like me to join them and make hubby wait to collect me

So you want to know if any couples want to meet you after lockdown of course. Not whether you should do it or not? "

ys as a lot of couple look for single women but may not want to play with a married woman who can play on her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well......hello there

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We discussed this for each other, but only after years of swinging to make each other comfortable.

Solo requires trust and security. We would both prefer to meet either husbands or wives from a couple for that reason.

All about your own boundaries

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By *inkyduokentCouple
over a year ago

Swanley

Its my number 1 fantasy for Nicole and she is definitely warming up to the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good husband

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say go for it.... Enjoy yourself...

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By *icdarCouple
over a year ago

surrey

We’ve been meeting alone as well as a couple for years. It’s great fun. Give it a go. Nothing ventured and all that!

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By *ew swingers wxmCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

This is something that we have only just recently started to do.

We either meet as a couple with another male or couple, male half does not meet alone but female half does.

We will both search and decide upon the individual depending on Ann's mood at that particular time but she has the final say.

I either then drop her off and pick her up from the arranged meet or stay at home until she returns home telling me all the details in full.

Give it a go only if you are comfortable.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

From what I can deduce on various contributions toward this topic is encouragement from females.But let assumed this is a male on the same topic.Unsavoury comments from females will be loudest.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

brave move, if all are ok then go for it, your husband would be climbing the walls as you leave the house to go and have your solo meet, dressed and as sexy as hell, him at home and you in the arms of another guy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want to do?

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

My Mrs does this regularly.

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

i can see everyones point of view her , having a free pass from hubby is a big thing , its just taking that first step into the un known , been thinking about it all night , i do think for my first play on my own it should be with a girl or a single guy altho there is a couple who i chatted to who sound so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i can see everyones point of view her , having a free pass from hubby is a big thing , its just taking that first step into the un known , been thinking about it all night , i do think for my first play on my own it should be with a girl or a single guy altho there is a couple who i chatted to who sound so much fun "

Take your time and find who is right for you.

Maybe a social or two to feel relaxed and move on, don't rush it enjoy the build up and share every detail with your husband

Should be a win win for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J meets up alone with ladies that we know or have played with before but she would never meet a man on his own or an m/f couple.

Obviously everyone has their own perception of risk but not for us thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

Everything you have said was me and my hubby 5 years ago and it was the best thing we ever did for the both of us

He also drops me of and picks me back up after my meets

He says the feeling he has when am on a meet on my own is amazing and gets him very horny for when I get back

So everyone is a winner

Good luck on whatever you decide to do

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

We moved to solo meets a couple of years ago now and both of us love the pleasure it brings us. I get sexual fulfilment from awesome lovers and hubby gets awesome sex when I return. Safety is key but once comfortable, 1-1 with a lover is wonderful. You need to be open with each other and have a secure relationship though xx These meets get better the more time you spend with a lover away from the marital home xxx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP also you need to consider any possible jealousy factor which can happen.....

Good luck with what ‘you’ decide to do and stay safe x

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

the more i do the more it turns him on and then when he reclaims me theres nothing he wont do for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet a couple where he drops her off at hotel and he goes home. Horny as hell and they love it too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

Just chat to the person make sure all partys comfortable and safe and go from there

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"We are very much in love couple , we have a very good sexlife and we have done quite a few mmf and parties and mfmf plays , hubby likes cuck play and would like me to have my own profile and have my own meets .

Iv said maybe but unsure as when iv picked people to meet it's been a nightmare but when hubby pics we seem to have a great time he has offered to vet people I like the look of and drive and wait for me , looking for a bit of advice , not sure if to approach couples as like coxk and pussy , or women or guys . What do you think I should do , he wants to release th inner slut in me "

Would be nice to send a wife home after a filthy session

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I meet a couple where he drops her off at hotel and he goes home. Horny as hell and they love it too !"

This is the best

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I'm think you should do what *you* want and what !makes *you* most comfortable. If your husband is asking you to do something and you need to ask other people whether you should do it or not I'd recommend you say no."

Absolutely this. You shouldn't need to ask people on a website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noting wrong with that! We tried it not even once and Mila used to play on her own many times. Very big scene to explore for sure! x

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By *om girlCouple (FF)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Well if i was you id have my own profile

But only meet who you was happt to meet after talking a lomg time

As weve noticed a lot of guhs dont even read our profile

Also once you found someone your happy with meet with your hubby till you feel ok..remember its his fantasy not yours...

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By *istressdandsubt OP   Couple
over a year ago

caterham

I'm taking my time to think , about what I want to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to help with this, nothing better than a hot wife being dropped off by her husband and left, then being collected later without a word of what's happened

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By *east88Couple
over a year ago

darlington

That’s something that we have talked about. It turns us on loads. I suspect it might be something we try but it would be just nice to meet up again with others haha

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Any future partner of mine has my blessing to do this, my ex made the most of it.

*Ex for unrelated reasons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re both OK with and understand any limits, go for it

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By *ature_Seeker90Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

Interested...

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