FabSwingers.com forum: Taboo

By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

nope not the drink hehe !!

i got to thinking.... was sex a taboo subject in your house growing up,or were your parents pretty open about the subject? do you think that this contributed to your interest and venture in to swinging ?

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Ohhhh noooooo temps been thinking...........

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no doubt in my case. My Mum could have been cloned from Mary Whitehouse's DNA!!

The more you try to suppress something, the more it will leap up when you take away the thing holding it down....

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes

nope, never spoken about.. not sex, not even loving each other

wow - never said that before!

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ohhhh noooooo temps been thinking...........

lol"

the devil makes work as they say my hunni lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very much open in our house x

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Absolutely no doubt in my case. My Mum could have been cloned from Mary Whitehouse's DNA!!

The more you try to suppress something, the more it will leap up when you take away the thing holding it down...."

yep i was thinking along those lines or maybe if that taboo was there were those ppl be more likely to be sexually open and exsperiment ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex was definitely a taboo subject in my house whilst growing up. I wasn't even allowed to only wear a nightdress, had to have a long dressing gown covering it.

Growing up I never had many sexual relationships, could count them on one hand before I started swinging.

Have always had an interest in the seedier side of life though and exhibitionism but I have been brought up in a rather prim and proper fashion so sometimes I struggle with conflict. I enjoying swinging and going to clubs but part of me feels its taboo and wrong, and I feel so decadent whilst indulging in it.

I am uncomfortable with nudity and always like to keep items of lingerie on. I feel too exposed completely naked and I'm not comfortable with strangers seeing me that exposed.

That said though the pictures I have taken of me completely naked have been extremely liberating and I can cope with those as they are stills, I couldn't walk around a club naked or go to a naturist beach etc.

Soi yes my upbringing does have an impact on my swinging. In real life I am not an overly sexual person, when swinging I'm a diva and an exhibitionist.

I like the contrast of my secret life and that is how I view swinging

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"nope, never spoken about.. not sex, not even loving each other

wow - never said that before!"

thank you for being so open ! x

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Sex was definitely a taboo subject in my house whilst growing up. I wasn't even allowed to only wear a nightdress, had to have a long dressing gown covering it.

Growing up I never had many sexual relationships, could count them on one hand before I started swinging.

I am uncomfortable with nudity and always like to keep items of lingerie on. I feel too exposed completely naked and I'm not comfortable with strangers seeing me that exposed.

Soi yes my upbringing does have an impact on my swinging. In real life I am not an overly sexual person, when swinging I'm a diva and an exhibitionist.

I like the contrast of my secret life and that is how I view swinging

oh yes totally get what you mean about contrast ! like swinging gives you the oppertunity and permission to be liberated and exspress your real self . x

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'm still waiting to have "the talk" off my parents and I'm **coughs** 39.... also hadn't had any sort of "women's problems" talk prior to commencement of said "women's problems" and was convinced I was dying!!!!! Thank god I was at my Grandma's when it happened, she gave my mam a right telling off after producing an ancient belt and a pack of the Dr White's looped towels

(is that a canoe in your knickers or are you just pleased to see me????)

If anyone would like to explain this "sex" malarkey to me, I'm a willing student

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still waiting to have "the talk" off my parents and I'm **coughs** 39.... also hadn't had any sort of "women's problems" talk prior to commencement of said "women's problems" and was convinced I was dying!!!!! Thank god I was at my Grandma's when it happened, she gave my mam a right telling off after producing an ancient belt and a pack of the Dr White's looped towels

(is that a canoe in your knickers or are you just pleased to see me????)

If anyone would like to explain this "sex" malarkey to me, I'm a willing student

Wow that amazes me ! this day and age....sex and stuff was all very much open to discussion

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

(is that a canoe in your knickers or are you just pleased to see me????)

If anyone would like to explain this "sex" malarkey to me, I'm a willing student

Wow that amazes me ! this day and age....sex and stuff was all very much open to discussion

Well depending on whether it's Chelsea or Chris posting.....Chels, you're a whole diff generation to me and Chris is more or less same age......but basically very repressed family mine....didn't stop me losing my virginity before it was legal and shagging Arthur (that's arthur my town lol) and basically always being a sexual person - was it anything to do with my upbringing? Dunno - prob just that I'm a right horny bugger and allus have been

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

only time we new about sex was reading about it , penthouse / fiesta ( no not the car ) hehe

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Preferred taboos sister drink Mirage, not so sickly.

As for sex, never was and still is never discussed with my parents. Could well be part of the fascination for all things sexual....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(is that a canoe in your knickers or are you just pleased to see me????)

If anyone would like to explain this "sex" malarkey to me, I'm a willing student

Wow that amazes me ! this day and age....sex and stuff was all very much open to discussion

Tiz me chelsea xxx altho chris most open person I ever met xxx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had any talk with my parents about anything sexual but an older guy in my street who was a friend when i was about 8ish started doing stuff with me while playing a dare game so found out a bit about guys then. but when i was 12 i met a girl same age who soon showed me what was what. dont think she was a virgin. and thats where i got interested in sex.

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

My parents were fine with the subject, guess its kinda typical that despite understanding sex I didn't get any hands on experience until I was nearly 18.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we werent allowed to talk about sex in our house but i had an older sister who used to buy magazines like cosmopolitan, it was in the seventies and i had older brothers who used to have porn magazines, so i found out things from looking at those.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The one and only sex conversation I had with my parents was in light of a school friend falling pregnant. It went like this:

You know I don't agree with that sort of thing (sex outside marriage) but if you are going to do anything, don't get caught!!!

The sum total of all my sex talks with the parents!

Oh, and I was 19 at the time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here. I often wondered did finding out about my mothers affair lead me to being a cuckold. Another thing to thank her for

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

Looking at this as purely a generational question it may have some validity for some to explain away why we do what we do, I think that we forget that 'swinging' has been around for ever as has pornography! I mean any one here watched Sky1's Sparticus?

At the end of the day it's peoples access and curiosity to sex that means we are more open to exploration.

I just wonder where we'd be now if the Greeks, Romans had had the Internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nan used to ground me if I asked questions no wonder I went sex nuts when I moved with my mum again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats sex ???????? is that something i should know about ??? i never heard that word before lol hehehehhehee - i think that somes up my up bringing in a nut shell; but was i got to puberty that all changed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TV off or turned over if they showed a tit on screen.It is changing slowly. interesting topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely no doubt in my case. My Mum could have been cloned from Mary Whitehouse's DNA!!

The more you try to suppress something, the more it will leap up when you take away the thing holding it down....

yep i was thinking along those lines or maybe if that taboo was there were those ppl be more likely to be sexually open and exsperiment .. "

The other thing is, I now realise what a miserable sex life my Dad must have had. Poor sod. See it as my duty to make up for it.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents were in there 40's when they had me. I know they had sex once. We never spoke of it..or love.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

lived with too many diffrent people growing up so never realy trusted anyone enough to talk about sex,i read a lot though so picked up what i needed to know,and learned the rest.

so determined my kids wouldnt have the same problems i was very open and honest about sex,but guess what they didnt want to talk about it,although they did come to me for advice on contraception,so i must have done something right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lived with too many diffrent people growing up so never realy trusted anyone enough to talk about sex,i read a lot though so picked up what i needed to know,and learned the rest.

Believe you did. You opened the door for it to be spoken of. Well done!

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