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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Many a time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"
Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never think like that.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Not necessarily out off my league.. more dont think I would stand a chance.. but nice pics to drool over

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By *borofucktoyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

I still try regardless, if I get shot down I get shot down.

You miss 100,% of the shots you dont take and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this league that they go on about anyway? Ive never understood it...

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit like the conference playing premier league lol

Suppose nothing ventured nothing gained

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs

Everyone on here is out of my league so I gave up looking a long time ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no leagues.

It's about connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol. "

That bad eh?! Hahaha made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are no leagues.

It's about connection"

This

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"There are no leagues.

It's about connection"

Yes there are and most people don’t even want to find any sort of connection

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not terribly complimentary to people you feel are in your league

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I don't tend to contact women I feel wouldn't be interested me in the first place, sane as I wouldn't chat to one in a bar for the same reason.

With the best will in the world a 9 or 10 woman isn't going to be interested in a 6 or 7 man, either here or in real life

As for connections, my approach must be wrong because I can't seem to get any going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember a funny comment that Allen Made from the US comedy series Two & Half Men . Allen noticing Walden’s new girl friend & Allen said “ I couldn’t pull a girl like that even if my sperm cured cancer “

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think you never know!! And sometimes at a club they just say yes...oh happy memories

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I just think you never know!! And sometimes at a club they just say yes...oh happy memories"

Ah, the old "I may not be the best looking guy in here, but I'm the only one talking to you" routine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me , there is nothing to be intimidated about.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always out of our league

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I've been playing out of my league for years.Talented or lucky? You tell me?

I consider myself entertaining so I suppose that helps.

Or perhaps I get the sympathy vote?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."

Mine are not filtered but i do need to crop as the dog is usually by my side. Always wondered what i would like if my phone allowed me to change myself a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have the odd decent FA cup run. Go for it, worst they can say is no?

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We both look at the Top 10 and feel they’re out of our league or they don’t float our boat. We do feel there needs to be a physical attraction for us to want to play as a couple but we have to be realistic with the people that would be interested in us also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because some times you just know it but hay ho the joys off fab

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."

You can vouch for that. Why, are you really ugly in real life? (Joke... Only kidding x)

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By *rattylilfucktoyWoman
over a year ago

London

Deffo sent a few messages to people out my league!

From the few that have replied, they never meet my expectations lol.

Hot bod but ugly face or hot bod and poor personality.

If you cant string a sentence together and handle my humour, I probably wont find you hot anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bugger being the best looking person wherever I go. People are so intimidated by my good looks they don't have the confidence to approach me.

C on the other hand has no problems pulling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of us don't dress like our photos 24-7

No one is any better than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing, worst they can do say is no. Just message them

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

there are many we think are out of our league, so we don,t message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

I thought J was taking the piss for the first 6 weeks of us chatting. I was waiting for the punch line. But sometimes you can trick them into fancying you. Just as long as it doesn’t wear off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."

Bingo! That is why I don't go by pics. Many other things come before that and pics are actually the last thing if revealed/visible. Most of the time won't even get as far as that. Some people know how to seriously use all levels of technology.

Having said that I don't have interest in hot pics generally or doing the whole 'fab'd' I get can be fun, but just not appealed to me.

There have been times when I have come across profiles/pics and think hidden gems should be all over hot pics, most liked/fab'd, but my understanding is those that enjoy getting on page 1... like really want/need to, find ways to make it happen... figured out methods/ways to increase exposure... so other Fabbers never make it.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Bit like the conference playing premier league lol

Suppose nothing ventured nothing gained "

There's always a giant killing in round 3 of the fa cup!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met guys that have been top of men’s hot pics and me have met me and I’ve also been top of hotpics. I’m not out of reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve met guys that have been top of men’s hot pics and me have met me and I’ve also been top of hotpics. I’m not out of reach. "

Yeh you're only down the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only because my sparking personality doesn’t come through in pictures or text

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

You are for me …. I am too old, too far away and you are too bloody hot to be interested in folks like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if your pics aren't fabbable, are you the lowest of leagues

I only have 2 fabs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope... But most aren't really my type anyway... Does that make me out of theirs?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got a lot of people messaging us saying they were unsure we'd be interested but hope we don't mind them messaging.

We'd rather people just sent us a decent, confident message as it comes across as awkward otherwise.

We're not here to have our egos stroked and wouldn't do it to others. Just be normal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.. L I’ll yeah us too. We arranged a meet with a couple. Waited in the pub we all agreed on and when they walked in it was omfg no way are they the couple we’ve came to meet. They seen us and came over. ...thank god we just arranged a drink ... they messaged us asking for a play meet. Not a fucking chance in hell. Maybes when Santa orders a toboggan and uses it to slide to chip shop and gets served by elvis ...amazed some people actually verified them too. Lol. "

Video call is compulsory surely? Before meeting anyone.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Yep. And to be honest, if I send people a face pic, I'm deleted

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well didn’t expect that many responses

Great input

And for the guys loving the football references lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is a defeatist attitude.

Never think like that.

Most women don't from our experience.

Similar interests, good communication, a spark.

These things matter.

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"Deffo sent a few messages to people out my league!

From the few that have replied, they never meet my expectations lol.

Hot bod but ugly face or hot bod and poor personality.

If you cant string a sentence together and handle my humour, I probably wont find you hot anymore. "

I'd have no chance with someone like you, so I'd never put myself in that position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab "leagues" are completely unaligned with reality though, let's be honest about that.

I mean I'm no Brad Pitt but sometimes I wonder if I'm the elephant man on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that."
Never really thought about they might be filtered, until now, nieve side strikes again

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

Give it a go you just never know, don't live with the regret of not knowing whether you stood a chance or not, let the other person decide that not you.

I never approached a girl I thought was out of my league, she died and her best friend told me she always liked me but thought I wasn't interested.

Never made that mistake again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats a load of bollocks . I look like Bob Hoskins and I'm literally swimming in clunge on here. You lads need to up your game a bit to be frank...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol

Give it a go you just never know, don't live with the regret of not knowing whether you stood a chance or not, let the other person decide that not you.

I never approached a girl I thought was out of my league, she died and her best friend told me she always liked me but thought I wasn't interested.

Never made that mistake again."

Did you shag her mate instead?

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

It's actually a bit dull to see the same old names & faces in there constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.

Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's actually a bit dull to see the same old names & faces in there constantly. "

All it really means is that they're very popular amongst wankers...

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull


"It's actually a bit dull to see the same old names & faces in there constantly.

All it really means is that they're very popular amongst wankers... "

Good call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.

Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less. "

You've got a more select group of admirers. That's the way to see it...

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Stevenage

Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial

Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league

"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think this all the time.. Why the hell would they even want to meet us.. We are definitely a "batting above our average" kinda couple

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial

Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league

"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor )"

So the people you contact are Sunday league?

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London


"I’ve met guys that have been top of men’s hot pics and me have met me and I’ve also been top of hotpics. I’m not out of reach. "

You are to some if us older ones

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I don't like to think in terms of leagues, I just look at photos and see if they appeal. The same with a profile - does it indicate humour and high intelligence amongst other things.

Re myself, I keep getting demoted to lower leagues, by myself. I think as I'm getting older I feel I appeal less. "

I don't see why - you've got a lovely smile and can string a sentence together, which puts you head and shoulders above a lot on here

Although the face mask pic was a bit of a surprise

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By *Wman15Man
over a year ago

Stevenage


"Keeping the football analogy going....you just need to keep putting yourself forward for a trial

Just about everyone who wants to play will eventually get a game, albeit it might be Sunday league rather than Premier league

"A man's got to know his limitations" (famous US actor )

So the people you contact are Sunday league? "

I wasn't referring to my activity

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't think like that. She who dares wins

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We always just go off is there attraction and do we get along.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never feel anyone’s out if our league as everyone as different tastes and don’t look at hot pics very often as when we have we really wished we hadn’t lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol Do you realise alot of the photos are filtered? Some of the Women don't look the same in real life, we can vouch for that.

Mine are not filtered but i do need to crop as the dog is usually by my side. Always wondered what i would like if my phone allowed me to change myself a bit."

Believe me, yours don't need changing!! You look amazing!!

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

I all ways feel like I'm out of eveones league

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

It's all about connection....you have some stuck up couples on here.. Think they're better than you but they're here for the same reasons that we're both here for one reason....

Titch xx

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

All the time, there is many a time I see a hot lady or couple and just wish,

Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It's all about connection....you have some stuck up couples on here.. Think they're better than you but they're here for the same reasons that we're both here for one reason....

Titch xx"

But this thread is about people thinking others are better than them.

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

I still think every woman or couple is out of my league. My face is a huge impact as is the rest of my body. So if it's a nice face and/or attraction, then I ain't going to be getting a trial anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

Don’t ever think that as confidence (without being too cocky) is a quality women look for. If i thought like that I wouldn’t be married to such a stunner. Don’t let her see this haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say it’s all about connection but they never give people a proper chance on here lol messaging is nothing like the real person behind them

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

Remember when viewing the Top 10, some repeated lovely ladies and gents are there with a main purpose of taking hot photos. We try to reply to as many messages as we can and we are nothing special, so the likelihood is that people on the Top 10 must have hundreds and thousands of messages a day and can’t possibly reply to them all...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"People say it’s all about connection but they never give people a proper chance on here lol messaging is nothing like the real person behind them "

It's all about looks for most people, there wouldn't be threads about leagues if not.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Never. Only distance is an issue

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

every time I do a search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a recent regular on "page 1" I think it's fair to say a lot of my pics have been edited slightly, but they're still me. I just blur out the background mostly so you can't identify my home or belongings - I'm paranoid! However, you should definitely always check a person's videos as these can't be changed. I only ever "pose" in flattering angles for photos, whereas in videos it's harder to hide any wobbles lol. Everyone has wobbles and imperfections!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a recent regular on "page 1" I think it's fair to say a lot of my pics have been edited slightly, but they're still me. I just blur out the background mostly so you can't identify my home or belongings - I'm paranoid! However, you should definitely always check a person's videos as these can't be changed. I only ever "pose" in flattering angles for photos, whereas in videos it's harder to hide any wobbles lol. Everyone has wobbles and imperfections

With the technology today videos can be changed if you have the right software and know how, but I think that would be over kill for a 30 sec fan video haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still try regardless, if I get shot down I get shot down.

You miss 100,% of the shots you dont take and all that "

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

Out of my league?

Nope... i believe im not out of anyones league...

It does however allow me the opportunity to hone my crash and burn skills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can’t stand the filters why would u change how ya look. Because as many of you have said in reality they look a lot different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol"

Yeah I think to myself I wouldn't stand a chance and I'm always right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When ya look at the hot photos and think ...... I wouldn’t stand a chance but but oh I wish lol

Yeah I think to myself I wouldn't stand a chance and I'm always right lol"

I know that feeling all too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t you switch it round and ask if you are out of their league?

L x

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

I think its sad to see this or hear this!

What makes you think you don't stand a chance!!

Believe it or not yes you get very attractive women that could have any man they wanted! A very high majority of the women that (know they can have any man) play on this and become very stuck up and think they deserve the world and no one is good enough! ( aimed at nobody) just my personelle opinion!

Having said that,

Trust me there are women out there that could have anyone they wanted and are stunning and most men wouldn't dream of engaging Convo, but are interested in a man for them not what they have! So looks don't matter as such!

I'm not the best looking guy in the world but if iv learnt anything over the years its that, there is not a women that would make me think that I wasn't good enough for her or I'm out of her league!

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By *arkb73Man
over a year ago

Cheshire/Staffs


"It's all about connection....you have some stuck up couples on here.. Think they're better than you but they're here for the same reasons that we're both here for one reason....

Titch xx

But this thread is about people thinking others are better than them. "

I don’t think they’re better than me - they just hold all the cards on here. I used to get rattled by it, now I just don’t try any more.

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