FabSwingers.com forum: Define a cougar

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve just received a message saying that I am not a cougar I’m a woman in my prime. Now I always thought a cougar was a woman that went with men younger than herself. He said if your going with 18 year olds yes but 20’s and 30’s is just normal. What are other perception of what a cougar is?

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By *c4funMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I would say there needs to be a bit of a gap so yeh if you are with a 25 year old I would say cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve just received a message saying that I am not a cougar I’m a woman in my prime. Now I always thought a cougar was a woman that went with men younger than herself. He said if your going with 18 year olds yes but 20’s and 30’s is just normal. What are other perception of what a cougar is? "
You are a sexy cougar,tell him to shut the fuck up or you will just hunt him down and ride him.lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would say there needs to be a bit of a gap so yeh if you are with a 25 year old I would say cougar "

So if I went with some over 25 but under 30 that’s just normal? How much of a gap?

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By *c4funMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"I would say there needs to be a bit of a gap so yeh if you are with a 25 year old I would say cougar

So if I went with some over 25 but under 30 that’s just normal? How much of a gap? "

I don’t think there’s a specific number I just said that. If you went with me I’d think I was fucking a very hot cougar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered at what point do I change from a milf to a cougar.... Or are you just both at certain point? Like what does the age gap need to be to be a cougar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man"

So in your eyes I’m not quite there as a cougar yet?

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You are what you want to be, his definition is irrelevant!

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By *ames44XXXMan
over a year ago

newport

"Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always wondered at what point do I change from a milf to a cougar.... Or are you just both at certain point? Like what does the age gap need to be to be a cougar.

Isn’t a Milf a mother not an age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are what you want to be, his definition is irrelevant!

Most definitely!! I declare myself very much a cougar I was just curious as to others thoughts

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By *ong_John2333Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man

So in your eyes I’m not quite there as a cougar yet?"

Well you can hunt me first then see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man

So in your eyes I’m not quite there as a cougar yet?"

In my eyes no not there yet, very very attractive woman but not quite a cougar yet. My opinion and I could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You are what you want to be, his definition is irrelevant!

Most definitely!! I declare myself very much a cougar I was just curious as to others thoughts "

I'm the same because it's a description that turns me on. From my point of view it's about how I feel..sexy, confident and proactive about my sensual/sexual needs developed through experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You are what you want to be, his definition is irrelevant!

Most definitely!! I declare myself very much a cougar I was just curious as to others thoughts

I'm the same because it's a description that turns me on. From my point of view it's about how I feel..sexy, confident and proactive about my sensual/sexual needs developed through experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them "

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x"

Do you have a cut off age that you won’t go below?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wondered at what point do I change from a milf to a cougar.... Or are you just both at certain point? Like what does the age gap need to be to be a cougar.

Isn’t a Milf a mother not an age? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x

Do you have a cut off age that you won’t go below? "

I've not been with under 25 but would prob go lower depending on the level of maturity and hotness!

you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x

Do you have a cut off age that you won’t go below?

I've not been with under 25 but would prob go lower depending on the level of maturity and hotness!

you? "

I’m the same, 25 is my shut of age but I am open, like you say a younger extremely fit and mature for his age I would consider it

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By *enuine Welsh GentMan
over a year ago

Newport

I don't think age should matter as long as you're both happy and in love. I guess some women won't date younger men as they think they're immature. I see you as an attractive woman with a great body

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Fluffy thing that you wouldn't want to p.ss off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fluffy thing that you wouldn't want to p.ss off "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think age should matter as long as you're both happy and in love. I guess some women won't date younger men as they think they're immature. I see you as an attractive woman with a great body"

I don’t think love has to come into it. Attraction definitely but not love

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By *enuine Welsh GentMan
over a year ago

Newport

"I don't think age should matter as long as you're both happy and in love. I guess some women won't date younger men as they think they're immature. I see you as an attractive woman with a great body

I don’t think love has to come

into it. Attraction definitely but not love"

Do you see it more short term than say a long term relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think age should matter as long as you're both happy and in love. I guess some women won't date younger men as they think they're immature. I see you as an attractive woman with a great body

I don’t think love has to come

into it. Attraction definitely but not love

Do you see it more short term than say a long term relationship?"

I’m looking at it as having sex with not likely to develop into a relationship but you never know and if it did then love would come into it eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carol Vorderman

Nothing else to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Carol Vorderman

Nothing else to say "

What makes Carol Vorderman a cougar tho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x

Do you have a cut off age that you won’t go below?

I've not been with under 25 but would prob go lower depending on the level of maturity and hotness!

you?

I’m the same, 25 is my shut of age but I am open, like you say a younger extremely fit and mature for his age I would consider it

Yeah I've had cam fun with under 25 but not met any ..... yet !

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By *enuine Welsh GentMan
over a year ago

Newport

"I don't think age should matter as long as you're both happy and in love. I guess some women won't date younger men as they think they're immature. I see you as an attractive woman with a great body

I don’t think love has to come

into it. Attraction definitely but not love

Do you see it more short term than say a long term relationship?

I’m looking at it as having sex with not likely to develop into a relationship but you never know and if it did then love would come into it eventually "

Win win situation then lol. I say do what turns you on the most and makes you feel sexy and enjoy the experiences

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By *aulupforitMan
over a year ago

Corbridge

One that is in the jungle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like younger guys (and girls) but not sure I see myself as a cougar or not. I just like what I like .... in their 20's or 30's

My friends have always called me a cougar as I always go for younger. A lot of my friends wouldn’t entertain someone more than a couple of years younger than them

Most of my friends don't know I go for some as young as I do

I think that makes it even hotter though

lol x

Do you have a cut off age that you won’t go below?

I've not been with under 25 but would prob go lower depending on the level of maturity and hotness!

you?

I’m the same, 25 is my shut of age but I am open, like you say a younger extremely fit and mature for his age I would consider it

Definitely a cougar in my eyes. As someone mentioned previously, I feel it has to do with age but it’s also a mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What turns you on about men younger than yourselves ladies?

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

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a more mature lady with a very high appetite for a younger guy with lots of sexual stamina, and willing to fuck her brains out and send her home full of his thick hot semen, and she will dress like a young slut to attract these younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to the global label association a cougar is only a cougar under the following conditions;

-The female is 40 years old or older

-The age gap between male and female is at least 20 years

-The female is the person to pursue and instigate sexual contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"According to the global label association a cougar is only a cougar under the following conditions;

-The female is 40 years old or older

-The age gap between male and female is at least 20 years

-The female is the person to pursue and instigate sexual contact

Exactly as I thought

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

It’s me !!!! Ha ha I have big age gaps ... mainly because I’m bloody ancient !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, what makes a cougar;

A mature women that is self confident, dresses well and goes after younger men or women for there pleasure and there pleasure alone.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve got five years to wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, what makes a cougar;

A mature women that is self confident, dresses well and goes after younger men or women for there pleasure and there pleasure alone. "

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always wondered at what point do I change from a milf to a cougar.... Or are you just both at certain point? Like what does the age gap need to be to be a cougar.

Isn’t a Milf a mother not an age? "

Mmmmm true... I am a mother.... So I suppose at what age do I become both lol

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm married to a cougar.

For me it's a lady in her late 40s

who prefers sex with guys around early 20s to late 20s.

She loves the fact she can still attract these men and cannot get enough of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to the global label association a cougar is only a cougar under the following conditions;

-The female is 40 years old or older

-The age gap between male and female is at least 20 years

-The female is the person to pursue and instigate sexual contact

Exactly as I thought

Guess I got 4 years to go then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confused too

I’m not a Milf so have no idea where I might fall as a female in her prime and looking her best.

Love this thread xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've always wondered at what point do I change from a milf to a cougar.... Or are you just both at certain point? Like what does the age gap need to be to be a cougar.

Isn’t a Milf a mother not an age?

Mmmmm true... I am a mother.... So I suppose at what age do I become both lol

To me a cougar is an older lady who goes for much younger than herself

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

"I’ve got five years to wait. "

don't wait start to practice a lot

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Think i am too old to be a cougar and now classed as a jaguar

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I would say, what a load of BS.

I don't want your shit labels.

I'm not defined by my age, who I'm attracted to or who I meet.

I want people to like me because of who I am not how old I am.

I'm not a MILF or a cougar or any other ridiculous name. I'm a 43 year old woman who is attracted to people of all ages.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

"Think i am too old to be a cougar and now classed as a jaguar"
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maybe a shaguar

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By *ritishAsianMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You deffo are a cougar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly can not beat a cougar! I’ve always been interested in older women! But I would say a cougar is someone who goes with someone at least 5/10 years younger than herself! Hope this helps x

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

As long as there’s a 15/20 year gap - I’d say a cougar, you are sexy and hot, you must have rejected him and he’s pissed off with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you are the definition of a cougar in my eyes! And I mean that in a great way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You deffo are a cougar!

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As long as there’s a 15/20 year gap - I’d say a cougar, you are sexy and hot, you must have rejected him and he’s pissed off with you

Awe thank you

no actually it was his first opening message lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP you are the definition of a cougar in my eyes! And I mean that in a great way!

Thank you

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

As long as there’s a 15/20 year gap - I’d say a cougar, you are sexy and hot, you must have rejected him and he’s pissed off with you

Awe thank you

no actually it was his first opening message lol "

He may have thought he was paying you a compliment then, by saying you look younger than your age... who knows what goes through men’s minds?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think i am too old to be a cougar and now classed as a jaguar"

I think if you lowered the age range you were looking for to erm, lets say, 30 it may change your mind

I also think you’re very hot and that it’s a shame you’re so far away!

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By *ature_Seeker90Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon tyne

I done some googling on this a while a go and apparently a woman is classed as a cougar if she is dating/sleeping with a man or woman 10 years or more younger than themselves, what does it matter age is just a number and we all enjoy being naughty

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Cougar to me is an older woman most likely late 40's and 50's wanting a late teen or early 20 man"

Exactly right.My mrs adores young cubs and youngest guy has been 30 years younger than herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the topic of cougars they do seem have gone extinct on here!

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