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By *elshboy7uk OP   Couple
over a year ago

FAREHAM

Have you ever found your wife/partner was cheating and you loved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's to love about having your heart broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever found your wife/partner was cheating and you loved it"

No, in fact I (her) would go up the wall if he did. The deceit would hurt me too much. Our relationship is based on trust, being open, honest and sharing our thoughts, concerns, and fantasies.

Has this happened to you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but no not a turn on as it was deceitful and destroyed my life and life of my children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this happen finding out he was unfaithful on more than one occasion. It ripped me to pieces and I constantly questioned what was so bad about me that he felt he had to look elsewhere, so no, never would say it would be something that I liked

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Absolutely not, I now have to watch another guy spend more time with my Children than I do.

Due to access I also have to hold in my emotions and appear to be happy about their cheating, so no upset between us will affect our Children and me seeing them.

In my view there’s nothing sexy about cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and she was disgusted that I want to join and also watch so she left 15 years ago

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By *elshboy7uk OP   Couple
over a year ago

FAREHAM

I decided not let her know I knew and it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I found out he had cheated when he gave me an STI. I was not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, this has happened twice to me, and i secretly wank to it, trying to imagine what actually physically happened.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I decided not let her know I knew and it works for me."

Won't she now know that you know though, as you've posted it on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No? We’ve both got a pass anytime we need it so no need to be sneaking around doing the dirty

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By *elshboy7uk OP   Couple
over a year ago

FAREHAM

She prefers to let me make her arrangements for FAB other than her personnal ones that I do not Know but I do !!!

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By *elshboy7uk OP   Couple
over a year ago

FAREHAM

If it works for you why would you change it .

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"If it works for you why would you change it ."

Exactly

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Eh no. Lies and deceit in what is supposed to be a sacred thing!???

A million times over no

MsD

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Have you ever found your wife/partner was cheating and you loved it"

No.

I can appreciate the imagined scenario being hot. But I think it would actually destroy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is a huge turn off for me.

I won’t respond to any women that state they’re married and hubby doesn’t know about her being on Fab.

I won’t be party to destroying the life of a family or individual.

Instant block!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Cheating yes... Loving the fact he cheated definitely not. Deception and lost of trust in so called deep loving relationship... No thanks

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I block any man confessing to me hes on here cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if someone who is part of a couple that are swingers, and one cheats, its obviously not just sex. i would be heart broken

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I decided not let her know I knew and it works for me."

Where did the bit "they loved it" comes from? If they don't know that you're cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes a good fantasy, but a really destructive reality, we sometimes role play she is cheating with repairman, which happens to be me, very hot with no guilt afterwards lol

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester

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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"yes, this has happened twice to me, and i secretly wank to it, trying to imagine what actually physically happened."

Hi strangely the same thing happened to me. My way of dealing with it was by rein-acting what they did in her car, b) her telling me all the intimate details as i fuck her. But YES there are (lonely) occasions when it hurts!!

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By *elshboy7uk OP   Couple
over a year ago

FAREHAM

I HAVE THAT TEE SHIRT

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