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My gf has done stuff with my best mate before getting together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lastnight we were talking, and she addmited that just before we got together a few years ago, she had been at a house party and bumped into my best mate there. Later that night she said she ended up giving him head in the bathroom upstairs, not evan sex but a bj, seems evan worse. She addmited he had a nig 1 too i wish i never asked,I thought i noticed tenstion in the air when ever its just the 3 of us and now i dont know how to feel about it,

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

its good to have things out in the open, can you now talk about having sex fun with other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history"

This seems a bit cruel.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history"

Unnecessary

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history"

Fucking hell, but brutal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lastnight we were talking, and she addmited that just before we got together a few years ago, she had been at a house party and bumped into my best mate there. Later that night she said she ended up giving him head in the bathroom upstairs, not evan sex but a bj, seems evan worse. She addmited he had a nig 1 too i wish i never asked,I thought i noticed tenstion in the air when ever its just the 3 of us and now i dont know how to feel about it,"

You do realise that she will have had sexual partners before you? It was before you met, not seeing the issue myself. Seems a bit weird to have asked about your mates cock though

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It's in the past, before you met her. Why let something from the past bother your future? Talk to your girlfriend, tell her how you're feeling, discuss it then forget and move forwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history

This seems a bit cruel. "

Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Not seeing an issue here OP, as it happened before she got together with you. There may, however, be an issue if you are on here without her knowledge at some point in the future.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I would stop being so insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was before you met then don’t see the problem, if you like your gf then you need to accept it and move on or it will end up destroying your relationship, don’t be so insecure she’s with you not your mate

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Stop asking questions to which you know you won’t like the answers if it bothers you.

You’ll just make yourself miserable and insecure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history

This seems a bit cruel.

Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel."

Just trying to weigh up what is worse. A girl giving your best mate head or you cheating on your girl by having gay sex with other males, wig or not.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Do you realise you just posted that on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does your girl friend know you fuck cross dressers and transvestites? According to your posting history

This seems a bit cruel.

Assuming this is true, why is it cruel or harsh to point out a fact. Perhaps it's unrealted, but it's not cruel.

Just trying to weigh up what is worse. A girl giving your best mate head or you cheating on your girl by having gay sex with other males, wig or not."

You assume it is cheating? For all we know his partner consents so not sure why the digs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One more thing it does seem a bit hypocritical that you have an issue with your gf as she gave your mate a bj before you met yet your cheating on her,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One more thing it does seem a bit hypocritical that you have an issue with your gf as she gave your mate a bj before you met yet your cheating on her, "

EXACTLY

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

There was probably alcohol involved. Your only 25 and you’ve been together a few years, I’m presuming then she was in her early 20’s when this happened. She chose to be with you not him.

I’m sure you’ve done things at parties as well and your on Fab. Talk to her about it and how you feel. I think there’s a trust issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if this sort of thing bothers you, then maybe this isn’t the place for you, you kind of have to be pretty open with each other for this to work, does she know about your sexual past? I don’t think it’s really fair to be off with her to be honest, she’s not cheated it’s before you, just my thoughts sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was before you got together then forget about it and move on

Unless your friend is trying it was n again in which case remind him that it's in the past and to knock it off

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield


"Maybe if this sort of thing bothers you, then maybe this isn’t the place for you, you kind of have to be pretty open with each other for this to work, does she know about your sexual past? I don’t think it’s really fair to be off with her to be honest, she’s not cheated it’s before you, just my thoughts sx "
we've all got history op,the past is just that,forget just move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were her id get out now. I've experienced a man like this, took exception to my having dated a friend of his... Over a year before we met!

It was the tip of the iceberg.

A complete narc and so controlling oh and he also was cheating on me.... Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your safety is not at risk, I’ve always been of the opinion that what happens before or after you is none of your business.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

I love my wife’s sexual past it’s exciting when she tells me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a mfm might be on the cards...

Or a mmf if you feel adventurous!

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Invite him over again and have a 3sum. That'll break the tension for sure

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