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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I used to do a lot of swinging with my wife ie clubs etc she was bi but would only soft swing if we met a single woman I could join in but not have full sex with the other lady I always had a full hard on (used to take a pill lol )never a problem I always wanted to move on to full swap but she never would so I never pushed her loved seeing her with a guy but she would not let him penetrate her anyway sadly we split up.6 years ago and I am now with a gorgeous lady who loves swinging enjoys full swap and single guys and it's great the only thing is even.with a pill I carnt get a hard on at a meet bloody frustrating and I wondered if it had happened to anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That doesn’t sound much fun - very frustrating I would think.

I take it you are ok on a 1:1 with your partner? If so it isn’t anything medical - more emotional maybe?

Never happened to me - I get very hard very easily at a meet so can’t share the experience

Hope you get it sorted and get on with having fun

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Thanks Mate yeah fine with just 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d agree that it may be something mental or emotional; you’ve finally found what you were looking for, could it be that you’re subconsciously either putting pressure on yourself to perform so that you don’t ‘miss your chance’ or making a link to your previous relationship in a negative way?

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

lot of men up for it in gangbangs suffer this when it comes to it,i always advise them to take things easy,clear ur mind of anyone watching and concentrate on what ur doing.ur mind switches very easy and distracts from what ur about todo,also taking pills can have this effect as ur then paranoid and hoping the pill works over thinking.

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

I think that could be so true I hate condoms as well

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Go to the drs could be diabetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you get hard when its just you two together, if so its probably an emotional thing? do you really want to full swap deep down?

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Good point yes I can get hard with just Karen I think we will try a soft swap meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point yes I can get hard with just Karen I think we will try a soft swap meet "

and dont let it knock your confedance if you can help it, that will just make things worse, i think all man have had trouble at one time or another, stage fright can be a horrible thing

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lot of men up for it in gangbangs suffer this when it comes to it,i always advise them to take things easy,clear ur mind of anyone watching and concentrate on what ur doing.ur mind switches very easy and distracts from what ur about todo,also taking pills can have this effect as ur then paranoid and hoping the pill works over thinking."

The idea of others watching is ta huge turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that could be so true I hate condoms as well "

Have you thought about separate rooms, takes a lot of the pressure off, much more relaxed and natural. Get to concentrate on who you are with rather than being distracted by a wayward arm or leg.

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Yes that's an idea thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a few meets where this has happened. I think guys feel pressured to perform and there isn’t a natural build up to the act. I find a drink in the pub and lots of kissing and teasing normally sorts em out. Failing that a full frontal assault with my mouth and their cock usually does the trick. As a last resort it has been know for me to suck a guy hard then stick a finger up his ass and find his prostate. Never failed me yet

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

When are you free x????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

??

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By *olyester123 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Joking x

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