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"Why shouldn’t there be , you’re no different to any other fab member " Im not buying it until some of the lovely ladies of Fab join in, but appreciate the gesture | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? " Well thats what I assumed until joining this site where peoples racial preferences are explicitly stated  Not to judge, everybody has their "taste" | |||
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"Love your curries. Also Indian men have such luscious thick voluminous hair. " Ahah cuisine and hair, thats a win | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? Well thats what I assumed until joining this site where peoples racial preferences are explicitly stated Not to judge, everybody has their "taste" "If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in the few months I’ve been here is not to take some things so literally. You’ve not been on here long so once we’re out of lockdown I’d suggest attending a party or club to meet people in real life where you can let your personality shine. People tend to be more willing to converse in person. There’s definitely someone interested in you out of the 1000s of profiles on here | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? Well thats what I assumed until joining this site where peoples racial preferences are explicitly stated Not to judge, everybody has their "taste"
If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in the few months I’ve been here is not to take some things so literally. You’ve not been on here long so once we’re out of lockdown I’d suggest attending a party or club to meet people in real life where you can let your personality shine. People tend to be more willing to converse in person.
There’s definitely someone interested in you out of the 1000s of profiles on here "1/1000...I like those odds! | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? Well thats what I assumed until joining this site where peoples racial preferences are explicitly stated Not to judge, everybody has their "taste"
If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in the few months I’ve been here is not to take some things so literally. You’ve not been on here long so once we’re out of lockdown I’d suggest attending a party or club to meet people in real life where you can let your personality shine. People tend to be more willing to converse in person.
There’s definitely someone interested in you out of the 1000s of profiles on here "Appreciate the advice mate, thank you | |||
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"To sum up what will soon happen. A lot of ppl (usually white) will tell you to get a grip. They will tell you that complaining won't work and blablabla well you get what they will say. According to them you don't even have the right to explain how you feel because you have the feeking to be rejected on the basis of your ethnicity. So ignore the dude they don't deserve you to waste your time " I actually love the cut and thrust of a decent debate, I relish the opportunity to ruin somebody over a healthy arguement but I get what you are saying, thanks | |||
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Legend, not all heroes wear capes "But I will if you want me to  | |||
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But I will if you want me to "I'll send out my bat signal for you shortly x | |||
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"I get you are reasonably new to fab but this area of debate gets recycled from time to time on here. The guy above speaketh the truth. People will protest that they are either entitled to their preference or that they have no preference with regards to skin colour and you gotta man up and adopt a positive attitude blah blah. We just gotta deal with it. It may happen, it may not. Chances are it won't haha. But there are others also in the same boat, all of different colours. " I actually wasnt trying to stir up any fuss lol, but if thats the way people decide to take it ao be it | |||
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"Anyone who bases their preferences on race or colour isn't worth knowing anyway. In most instances people like that are very closed minded and shallow." Agreed | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss..." It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account" Due to the time wasters, i amended my account name so people know i am asian beforehand | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account Due to the time wasters, i amended my account name so people know i am asian beforehand" I was thinking of putting uberdriver007 in mine but I thought against it | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account Due to the time wasters, i amended my account name so people know i am asian beforehand I was thinking of putting uberdriver007 in mine but I thought against it " I've been trying to show my appreciation of Asian women, but when I did a search I found 140 plus Asian males but only 5 fems and most of those hadn't been on site for months, oh dear. | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account Due to the time wasters, i amended my account name so people know i am asian beforehand I was thinking of putting uberdriver007 in mine but I thought against it I've been trying to show my appreciation of Asian women, but when I did a search I found 140 plus Asian males but only 5 fems and most of those hadn't been on site for months, oh dear. " Thats a fair point cant argue with the stats | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op "Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage. | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage. "This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions! | |||
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"Must be annoying with all the women looking for bbc on the site if they tell you that yours is the wrong shade...i can see that being annoying "As a black man I’d like to say I absolutely hate that term with a passion. I’m not here to be fetishised do tend to pass those profiles by. | |||
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"I've met asian guys and I would do so again. Its a matter of attraction and getting along not skin colour though." Couldnt agree more | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage.
This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions!"I can totslly understand how past experiences can cause a person to generate bias, thats just human nature i guess. "Hate men of all colour" bahahahah | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage.
This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions!
I can totslly understand how past experiences can cause a person to generate bias, thats just human nature i guess. "Hate men of all colour" bahahahah "I actually can't. A white man, even amongst a group of white men, is still considered as an individual with his own way of thinking. When they see an Asian or a black male, and they attribute attitude/behaviour to him the behaviour that they've seen on other person of his 'group'... It is as pathetic as it is despicable. | |||
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"To sum up what will soon happen. A lot of ppl (usually white) will tell you to get a grip. They will tell you that complaining won't work and blablabla well you get what they will say. According to them you don't even have the right to explain how you feel because you have the feeking to be rejected on the basis of your ethnicity. So ignore the dude they don't deserve you to waste your time " That's great advice and a great post. | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage.
This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions!
I can totslly understand how past experiences can cause a person to generate bias, thats just human nature i guess. "Hate men of all colour" bahahahah
I actually can't.
A white man, even amongst a group of white men, is still considered as an individual with his own way of thinking.
When they see an Asian or a black male, and they attribute attitude/behaviour to him the behaviour that they've seen on other person of his 'group'... It is as pathetic as it is despicable. "So true! | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage.
This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions!
I can totslly understand how past experiences can cause a person to generate bias, thats just human nature i guess. "Hate men of all colour" bahahahah
I actually can't.
A white man, even amongst a group of white men, is still considered as an individual with his own way of thinking.
When they see an Asian or a black male, and they attribute attitude/behaviour to him the behaviour that they've seen on other person of his 'group'... It is as pathetic as it is despicable.
So true!"I hope I havent stepped on anybodys toes by starting this, cockblocked myself even more aha | |||
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"I've met and chatted to quite a few Asian men and all say they have difficulty on here regarding meets so good luck op
Everybody has the preference granted. I do find it interesting (from a mindset perspective) that somebody would just blanket say no to somebody based off skin tone of heritage.
This thread has been done before, no one mention skin colour or heritage as a reason..... Last guy did same, blamed his colour lol beards tend to be a no, hairy isn't normally good, poor English, I'm not throwing aspersions, club experiences, lack of Asian gems for just straight swapping.... An attitude that jumps straight to the conclusion its skin colour.... But I could easily argue I find it interesting and the stats show it, that Asian women hate men of all colours so much they won't even come on the site lol see it's easy to draw conclusions!
I can totslly understand how past experiences can cause a person to generate bias, thats just human nature i guess. "Hate men of all colour" bahahahah
I actually can't.
A white man, even amongst a group of white men, is still considered as an individual with his own way of thinking.
When they see an Asian or a black male, and they attribute attitude/behaviour to him the behaviour that they've seen on other person of his 'group'... It is as pathetic as it is despicable.
So true!
I hope I havent stepped on anybodys toes by starting this, cockblocked myself even more aha "Haha not at all. Like I said you have the right to state how you feel about it as they have the right to state their racial sexual 'preferences'. | |||
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"Hey, Personally I get more results in clubs and parties. I found on here people don't know you and are quick to assume that you aren't their cup of tea. This I find is with individuals who are narrow minded and state a racial preference. I tend to skip these sort of profiles as it shows that race is an issue. Why would you want to meet them? Most fed through stereotypes without first engaging with the person. Also, I find when they have had some bad experience, they rule out the whole race. (Not very smart) Also there is a fetish interest for some individuals and are only looking for BBC ( as they put it) purely for a fantasy they might want to try. But deep down I feel it may also be fear of the unknown/ threat (mostly from the male in the couple) that his other half is sexually active with a man of a different race. You are who you are. Don't let this race issue upset you. "I'm fairly new to the site so only getting an initial taste of this element but your points are valid mate. I'm not upset at all by it if anything im intrigued by it! | |||
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"If you start a post with any appreciation for Indian men? I would suggest the op has raised the race issue on purpose! Unless he expects everyone just to say, yeah they are great lol "Interestingly threads regarding Indian girls, black girl appreciation or for men BBC, will start off in a similar vain to this, but will not go down the route of talking about racist sexual preferences.Rather those sorts of threads will be filled 'fuck yh xyz ethnicity is so sxy' But this is how the conversation evolved for this thread. So ask yourself why that is? | |||
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"Sorry but why we always playing the race card on forums? Especially indian? You're the 4th post titled indian in the last week. I never see anyone asking for a Polish, Russian, Chinese, Italian etc Just don't get why we need to keep mentioning race when there's 195 countries in the world and we live in a multi cultural society. "Yhhhhhhhh but is society really as open and liberal as it pretends to be or do we all harbour biases? By the way think your confusing ethnicity and race, you just mentioned 3 types of caucasian, not that im picky. | |||
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"Sorry but why we always playing the race card on forums? Especially indian? You're the 4th post titled indian in the last week. I never see anyone asking for a Polish, Russian, Chinese, Italian etc Just don't get why we need to keep mentioning race when there's 195 countries in the world and we live in a multi cultural society. "Probably all the indian/brown ("south asian") guys feel hard done by and prejudiced against, as sooooo many profiles dictate preference for "white only" or "BBC" especially around my home area in London...sadly, the second 'B' isn't Brown. but for the OP- pleeeenty of folk here don't give two fuks about color/race and rather just appreciate a decent guy at the end of that dick. | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does" Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you please | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you please" i just want to make this clear I have not private messaged the op | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you pleasei just want to make this clear I have not private messaged the op " Nobody in this thread has private messaged me to confirm lol! | |||
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"Sorry but why we always playing the race card on forums? Especially indian? You're the 4th post titled indian in the last week. I never see anyone asking for a Polish, Russian, Chinese, Italian etc Just don't get why we need to keep mentioning race when there's 195 countries in the world and we live in a multi cultural society.
Yhhhhhhhh but is society really as open and liberal as it pretends to be or do we all harbour biases? By the way think your confusing ethnicity and race, you just mentioned 3 types of caucasian, not that im picky. "Ok just for argument sake noone else goes around asking for south American, Moroccan, Thai or black south African.. Does that make my argument more compelling? | |||
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"Sorry but why we always playing the race card on forums? Especially indian? You're the 4th post titled indian in the last week. I never see anyone asking for a Polish, Russian, Chinese, Italian etc Just don't get why we need to keep mentioning race when there's 195 countries in the world and we live in a multi cultural society.
Yhhhhhhhh but is society really as open and liberal as it pretends to be or do we all harbour biases? By the way think your confusing ethnicity and race, you just mentioned 3 types of caucasian, not that im picky.
Ok just for argument sake noone else goes around asking for south American, Moroccan, Thai or black south African.. Does that make my argument more compelling? "As much as I would love to get involved further on talking about the human psyche. The men and couples in my inbox asking to meet up for a fight are putting me off lol. BUT yes it does make your arguement more compelling | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you please" That's disgusting and I hope you reported that abuse. As far as I am concerned it matters not your nationality, background or colour of your skin, what matters to me is how you portray yourself, your attributes and attitude... Just be you OP, no more and no less... If people want to judge you for the colour of your skin then those are not the people you want to be meeting. Bad attitudes can be found anywhere in any race. | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you please That's disgusting and I hope you reported that abuse. As far as I am concerned it matters not your nationality, background or colour of your skin, what matters to me is how you portray yourself, your attributes and attitude... Just be you OP, no more and no less... If people want to judge you for the colour of your skin then those are not the people you want to be meeting. Bad attitudes can be found anywhere in any race. " Cheers will report, have a nice evening | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account" I must be in the minority here as Asian is my preference. We all have a type and indian men drive me wild! | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account I must be in the minority here as Asian is my preference. We all have a type and indian men drive me wild!" now thats interesting | |||
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"It took 6 hours and several posts, but he managed to get a nibble by the end "Like any good fisherman, patience is a virtue, reserved for the few | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account I must be in the minority here as Asian is my preference. We all have a type and indian men drive me wild!" | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? " aimee gotta love that off the shoulder dress   | |||
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"Why shouldn’t there be , you’re no different to any other fab member Im not buying it until some of the lovely ladies of Fab join in, but appreciate the gesture " My advice - do a forum search on Indian men. It will give you a better idea of the general thoughts on meeting one. | |||
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"Am I a psychic of what op ?!  "Why are people so angry lol?? They are going out of their way to message me dumb shit, then blocking me before I can respond I guess Im just so aggressive | |||
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"People have their physical preferences when all you have is photos by. It's more to with being turned off by people's attitudes towards a woman, how they come across arrogant, self centred, entitled, aggressive, seedy, pushy and persistent when you show clear signs you are just not interested. Just writing "hi" and other generic boring lines isn't going to win you brownie points for seduction. Nor is copy and paste messages about what you want all the time when you clearly have not read their profile or even care what they want. Ok rant over but if you're new to online chatting and meeting, please consider this or you just be wasting both of each other time and effort. " Thats fine, you didn't come across as ranting everybody is entitled to their opinion and you made your point in mature way, thanks | |||
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"Bro, don't worry about anyone liking you or not liking you! Do you really want to be with those biased, judgmental women? There are plenty of fish in the ocean! Don't worry about the one's on the shallow water. The better ones are always in the deep in the ocean and it will be worth the catch!" Ahhhh another connoisseur of fishing analogies, I salute you sir | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love "Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan! | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love "Flattery will get you everywhere | |||
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"Bro, don't worry about anyone liking you or not liking you! Do you really want to be with those biased, judgmental women? There are plenty of fish in the ocean! Don't worry about the one's on the shallow water. The better ones are always in the deep in the ocean and it will be worth the catch! Ahhhh another connoisseur of fishing analogies, I salute you sir " Salute back at you bro! On a serious note, never undermine yourself. You are worth lot more to others than a very few! | |||
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"This thread was posted 16 hours ago its been the 1st one in over a week. These type of threads always become racially oriented further as you go in to. The thread is to identify whether there's people whom appreciate the ethnic minority. Lol, wish I had an answer for that, but I dont You don't see other appreciation posts going that way. Eg BBC BWC ETC. So why is it always the Asian ones that go this way??? " | |||
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"Bro, don't worry about anyone liking you or not liking you! Do you really want to be with those biased, judgmental women? There are plenty of fish in the ocean! Don't worry about the one's on the shallow water. The better ones are always in the deep in the ocean and it will be worth the catch! Ahhhh another connoisseur of fishing analogies, I salute you sir Salute back at you bro! On a serious note, never undermine yourself. You are worth lot more to others than a very few!" Cheers mate | |||
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Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan! "No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan "I knew it!  | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan "Veganism is like communism. They both are fine, unless you like food! | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan
I knew it! "Not quite sure of the relevance to this post about Indian men? Or are you just looking for an excuse to troll vegans? So boring | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan
I knew it!
Not quite sure of the relevance to this post about Indian men? Or are you just looking for an excuse to troll vegans? So boring "Okay. It was a joke. I am not trolling. No more jokes from my side! | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan
I knew it!
Not quite sure of the relevance to this post about Indian men? Or are you just looking for an excuse to troll vegans? So boring
Okay. It was a joke. I am not trolling. No more jokes from my side! "Don't worry, I get your coat for ya... Just keep walking out that door | |||
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"Tall dark and handsome- what’s not to love
Sounds like a great piece of meat, unless you are a vegan!
No idea what you are on about here lol but yes I am vegan
I knew it!
Not quite sure of the relevance to this post about Indian men? Or are you just looking for an excuse to troll vegans? So boring
Okay. It was a joke. I am not trolling. No more jokes from my side!
Don't worry, I get your coat for ya... Just keep walking out that door "Didn't take this chap long either, smooth operator | |||
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"Interesting topic Like an open ended exam question, discuss... It is indeed difficult for Asian ‘men’ to hit off on this site. Yes a lot do say personality / looks matter but they then see that your Asian and bugger off. Best bet is to attend clubs as one has suggested above. Which i haven't done due to discretionary reasons hence why i have no verifications on this profile. Had a meet on the previous account Due to the time wasters, i amended my account name so people know i am asian beforehand I was thinking of putting uberdriver007 in mine but I thought against it I've been trying to show my appreciation of Asian women, but when I did a search I found 140 plus Asian males but only 5 fems and most of those hadn't been on site for months, oh dear. Thats a fair point cant argue with the stats " Can’t agree more !! | |||
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"Hey, Personally I get more results in clubs and parties. I found on here people don't know you and are quick to assume that you aren't their cup of tea. This I find is with individuals who are narrow minded and state a racial preference. I tend to skip these sort of profiles as it shows that race is an issue. Why would you want to meet them? Most fed through stereotypes without first engaging with the person. Also, I find when they have had some bad experience, they rule out the whole race. (Not very smart) Also there is a fetish interest for some individuals and are only looking for BBC ( as they put it) purely for a fantasy they might want to try. But deep down I feel it may also be fear of the unknown/ threat (mostly from the male in the couple) that his other half is sexually active with a man of a different race. You are who you are. Don't let this race issue upset you. "???? | |||
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"I'd neither like nor dislike you based on you being Indian, surely its about liking you.... End of? " | |||
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"I've seen lots of profiles on here that state no Asians ,I'm surprised the site allows it to continue but it does Ok getting personal insults in my inbox lol, I would like to leave this here. Feel free to get your kicks how you please That's disgusting and I hope you reported that abuse. As far as I am concerned it matters not your nationality, background or colour of your skin, what matters to me is how you portray yourself, your attributes and attitude... Just be you OP, no more and no less... If people want to judge you for the colour of your skin then those are not the people you want to be meeting. Bad attitudes can be found anywhere in any race. " That’s a response from a real genuine , educated and classy woman x ! | |||
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