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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, I had a guy once who messaged me, describing himself as that, in the photo attached he was the spitting image of Leonard Nimoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am!

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Lol, I had a guy once who messaged me, describing himself as that, in the photo attached he was the spitting image of Leonard Nimoy"

Lol! Spock..... Really!

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields


"Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact. "

Seen it many times....we just think 'your way to vain, too much time spent thinking about yourselves rather than others...Nope, we aren't even going to bother even if you do otherwise meet all criteria'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose it beats declaring that I am an ugly, decrepit, ancient and suffer from body odour. I wouldn't put that either.

Seriously these sites could be improved if only everybody would be rather more honest and exhibit some humility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that puts me off, if they have a face pic you can see for yourself, why do they feel the need to tell you they are attractive. funny thing is, a lot of men who say that just arent. or they are too big headed for my liking. sometimes i send them back a message saying that i think they are far too attractive for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am! "

I get that off blokes too! I don't believe them but hey a shag's a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose theres nothing wrong i being self confident lol...but...yes it's better to say, U've been told ur attractive I'd say

*I'm fuckin stunning..my mirror told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never put it on a profile. Always strikes me as arrogant. I know I'm not ugly but also know I am far from everyones taste so quite happy for others to decide. Their opinion is undeniably more valid for a meet anyway.

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am!

I get that off blokes too! I don't believe them but hey a shag's a shag. "

Honesty at its best. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am!

I get that off blokes too! I don't believe them but hey a shag's a shag. "

Exactly.

Although usually when they are rebuffed they get it closer to reality.

When I'm told you skinny c*nt ... go eat a hamburger your body looks like it's craving one .....they are right, a Maccy D's is often the better option to their 'man-meat'

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Invariably said attractive people then come on the forums bemoaning the fact the site is full of time wasters and fakes because no one wants to meet them. Why not, they have no idea as they're so gawjus!

Forumites are always happy to critique their profiles for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Invariably said attractive people then come on the forums bemoaning the fact the site is full of time wasters and fakes because no one wants to meet them. Why not, they have no idea as they're so gawjus!

Forumites are always happy to critique their profiles for them! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOL, I had a guy claim to be the hottest man on Fab and to dump any other meets I had planned and to meet him.

There is being confident and then there is being a prized twat. Not attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but i am very attractive, well to Mr B at least but then i have been telling him to get his arse to specsavers for the last 25 years

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By *acreadCouple
over a year ago

central scotland

Would rather have average lookers than the look at me brigade.

We once met a cpl where the guy just couldnt stop telling us how many grand he earned a week "who gives a F**k"

to us that kind of stuff could kill any attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact.

Seen it many times....we just think 'your way to vain, too much time spent thinking about yourselves rather than others...Nope, we aren't even going to bother even if you do otherwise meet all criteria'"

+1 - you got that one right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest."
here..here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest."

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion?"

Yes it is subjective normally, but not one person has told me I am ugly yet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion?"
If you look attractive..you feel attactive..and others think your attractive..why not put attractive on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion? If you look attractive..you feel attactive..and others think your attractive..why not put attractive on your profile."

Absolutely, couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I had a guy once who messaged me, describing himself as that, in the photo attached he was the spitting image of Leonard Nimoy"

fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few men who will not send pics but say "I know you won't be disappointed' - not had one who was right yet!!!! beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question of being attractive is an odd one because we automatically seem to dislike people who say they are attractive. It's silly. A beautiful woman/man is to be admired. I suppose it's the suspicion of arrogance and no one likes an arrogant person. That is not attractive.

Of course beauty does not equal wonderful in bed. Sex is so damn complicated. It's definitely the mind that needs stimulating before the body. There has to be an attraction but they both have to come together.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest."

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"The question of being attractive is an odd one because we automatically seem to dislike people who say they are attractive. It's silly. A beautiful woman/man is to be admired. I suppose it's the suspicion of arrogance and no one likes an arrogant person. That is not attractive.

Of course beauty does not equal wonderful in bed. Sex is so damn complicated. It's definitely the mind that needs stimulating before the body. There has to be an attraction but they both have to come together."

Attraction doesn't equate to attractive either.

I've met some stunning men I've not felt sexually attracted to and aroused by more average looking men.

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am! "

You are attractive, stop being modest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question of being attractive is an odd one because we automatically seem to dislike people who say they are attractive. It's silly. A beautiful woman/man is to be admired. I suppose it's the suspicion of arrogance and no one likes an arrogant person. That is not attractive.

Of course beauty does not equal wonderful in bed. Sex is so damn complicated. It's definitely the mind that needs stimulating before the body. There has to be an attraction but they both have to come together.

Attraction doesn't equate to attractive either.

I've met some stunning men I've not felt sexually attracted to and aroused by more average looking men. "

Me too, its the feel of their skin, the smell of them, the clothes they wear, and their personality types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction doesn't equate to attractive either.

I've met some stunning men I've not felt sexually attracted to and aroused by more average looking men.

Me too, its the feel of their skin, the smell of them, the clothes they wear, and their personality types."

totally agree there it's all about the touch, voice, eyes and how there are in their skin, much more attractive than someone who would eat themselves given the chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift."

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol"

Why not ?

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By *cruluceTV/TS
over a year ago

Worthing

I've got a face only a mother could love,my body is ok but I think I hit every branch when I fell out of the ugly tree!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion?

Yes it is subjective normally, but not one person has told me I am ugly yet lol "

And yet you only have one published verification and your profile states you will not send pictures out floating into hyperspace

I'm fecking gorgeous mesel' - I know it cos the wee green people at the bottom of the yard told me again today.....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol"

You miss the point as usual.

There are things on profiles that I am but do not need to highlight. Being attractive and a professional are examples. I hope that's clear enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest."

There is a difference between honesty and arrogance. And without pics who can say....apart from yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's because their mothers told them all their lifes how handsome they are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every guy that wants to get into my pants says I am attractive ergo I am!

You are attractive, stop being modest. "

You're in!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Well apparently I've just made AnytimeAde cum, so I must be the most attractive person ever seeing as I only posted in his GOONCHANGEALETTERPART978 thread.....what can hwone say.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well apparently I've just made AnytimeAde cum, so I must be the most attractive person ever seeing as I only posted in his GOONCHANGEALETTERPART978 thread.....what can hwone say..... "

you attractive beast you!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Well apparently I've just made AnytimeAde cum, so I must be the most attractive person ever seeing as I only posted in his GOONCHANGEALETTERPART978 thread.....what can hwone say.....

you attractive beast you! "

I know, but I'm modest with it....

**slinks off to plaster "Can make men cum with a forum post" 47 times within my 7.5 word profile**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact. "

There is such a thing as "blonde" guys, guess it's for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never put it on a profile. Always strikes me as arrogant. I know I'm not ugly but also know I am far from everyones taste so quite happy for others to decide. Their opinion is undeniably more valid for a meet anyway.

"

any chance of a lick to try?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I don't see anything wrong in calling oneself attractive at all. It is up to other people on whether or not they agree,but it wouldn't stop me from putting on my profile if I felt the urge to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact. "

I was under the impression each individual has the right to put what they like on their profile as long as it doesn't break the rules. The whole idea of a profile is to promote yourself in the best light with a _iew to get a meet or it is for most people. If someone states and feels they are attractive then that's how they feel about themselves, others may disagree or agree its all in how you see someone.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Am I heckers like!! I don't mean me!

I just read it and it made me wonder why anyone would put that. On a good day in the right light and with a good headwind I think I look ok enough to not make small children cry.... but I'd never put that on my profile.

Everyone finds different people attractive. Just seems a bit odd to state it as a fact. "

It depends on how it is written and comes across.

If a profile has something like.....We are drop dead gorgeous with toned perfect bodies etc. Then yes, we would probably assume they were a bit arrogant and not for us.

Where if it said something like.....Been told we are an attractive couple who like to look after our bodies then we wouldn't think nothing of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Do you not think that attractive is very much a subjective opinion?

Yes it is subjective normally, but not one person has told me I am ugly yet lol

And yet you only have one published verification and your profile states you will not send pictures out floating into hyperspace

I'm fecking gorgeous mesel' - I know it cos the wee green people at the bottom of the yard told me again today..... "

How does just having one verification on my profile make me unattractive? And I don't give out photos because ultimately once they are on the internet they can never be removed - doesn't appeal to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact - I am fugly

Would that have got the same reaction ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm... I don't see anything wrong really in saying 'good looking' on a profile. You will either read it and agree, or think 'meh'

One of my friends ia super vane, she makes me giggle cos she is so unaware of her comments at times, but she is an absolute sweety and I wouldn't change ger for the world. I love her confidence cos I know she didn't always have it - so good for her!

False modesty can seem worse at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i message people on fab i always put im just me nothing more nothing less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i message people on fab i always put im just me nothing more nothing less

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By *tensonSwingersCouple
over a year ago

Stenson Fields


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest."

Its in the eye of the beholder, I guess. I'd tell people with a face like a bulldog licking piss of a thistle, they were attractive if I was that desperate for a shag!

"Look at me, Im gorgeous"...we have found in 99% of the people who make these vain statements, that they are shallow, self-centered, egotistical and downright boring....hence we dont meet them! We prefer the inner person, the character, the personality, the fact they can be themselves without forever thinking what they look like.

Still, each to their own. And we just love, profiles of people professing to be attractive who have no pictures to allow judgement and only a black, faceless head as an avatar!...Genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Its in the eye of the beholder, I guess. I'd tell people with a face like a bulldog licking piss of a thistle, they were attractive if I was that desperate for a shag!

"Look at me, Im gorgeous"...we have found in 99% of the people who make these vain statements, that they are shallow, self-centered, egotistical and downright boring....hence we dont meet them! We prefer the inner person, the character, the personality, the fact they can be themselves without forever thinking what they look like.

Still, each to their own. And we just love, profiles of people professing to be attractive who have no pictures to allow judgement and only a black, faceless head as an avatar!...Genius! "

I KNOW that I am attractive, in fact VERY attractive. I also don't give a monkey's toss if people don't like the fact I don't have a pic - I don't lie and I also am very very fussy who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Its in the eye of the beholder, I guess. I'd tell people with a face like a bulldog licking piss of a thistle, they were attractive if I was that desperate for a shag!

"Look at me, Im gorgeous"...we have found in 99% of the people who make these vain statements, that they are shallow, self-centered, egotistical and downright boring....hence we dont meet them! We prefer the inner person, the character, the personality, the fact they can be themselves without forever thinking what they look like.

Still, each to their own. And we just love, profiles of people professing to be attractive who have no pictures to allow judgement and only a black, faceless head as an avatar!...Genius! "

some people forget to take their pic away from a heavy sunlit window though!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The question of being attractive is an odd one because we automatically seem to dislike people who say they are attractive. It's silly. A beautiful woman/man is to be admired. I suppose it's the suspicion of arrogance and no one likes an arrogant person. That is not attractive.

Of course beauty does not equal wonderful in bed. Sex is so damn complicated. It's definitely the mind that needs stimulating before the body. There has to be an attraction but they both have to come together.

Attraction doesn't equate to attractive either.

I've met some stunning men I've not felt sexually attracted to and aroused by more average looking men.

Me too, its the feel of their skin, the smell of them, the clothes they wear, and their personality types."

Well said, couldn't agrrpee more. Not wanting to generalise because I've met a fair few pretty people that are totally the opposite of this but a large percentage of people who think they are attractive are, in my experience, usually totally shallow to the extent that they are bordering on being as thick as pig shit or so far up their own arses that even though they may look attractive, their company is downright ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock is called spock live long and prosper lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I'd tell people with a face like a bulldog licking piss of a thistle, they were attractive if I was that desperate for a shag! "


" "Look at me, Im gorgeous"...we have found in 99% of the people who make these vain statements, that they are shallow, self-centered, egotistical and downright boring....hence we dont meet them! We prefer the inner person, the character, the personality, the fact they can be themselves without forever thinking what they look like.

Still, each to their own. And we just love, profiles of people professing to be attractive who have no pictures to allow judgement and only a black, faceless head as an avatar!...Genius! "

Exactly!! Makes me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

half thoe girls from the only way is essex ( i mean the characters as i know nothing about the actresses) would get it.However...if they came out with half the pish that they do, I'd lose interest rather quickly..ball gags anyone?

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I find that it's the single women who are mostly on the big side, less attractive non professional people that have a problem with these statements and use every opportunity to tell you how off putting it is. The thing is most people in Britain lack self confidence and cannot understand how someone can be so sure of themselves. I would never say I HAVE BEEN TOLD I'm attractive... Why do I need verification from anybody?! pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a fat, ugly, single minger with a crap job. I just need to look in a mirror to see it. I would never say it or put up my verifications to prove it. Plenty of desperate single men out there that will see it when they meet me.

Luckily I've never had a problem, I always get a shag as single blokes will shag anything. They always tell me I'm gorgeous. Well I think they do, can't really hear much over them retching/ putting a bag over my head.

I love this site as there's quite a few desperate ugly people. Ugly on the inside..... Think Shallow Hal.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol

Why not ?"

Yes why not, I'm a professional and I would most certainly be judge by my service users if they knew I were on this site so like people to know we need discretion. it would make my job a nightmare! Plus it's nice to read so we know we aren't chatting with Wayne and waynetta slob that haven't done a days work in their life!

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


" I'm a fat, ugly, single minger with a crap job. I just need to look in a mirror to see it. I would never say it or put up my verifications to prove it. Plenty of desperate single men out there that will see it when they meet me.

Luckily I've never had a problem, I always get a shag as single blokes will shag anything. They always tell me I'm gorgeous. Well I think they do, can't really hear much over them retching/ putting a bag over my head.

I love this site as there's quite a few desperate ugly people. Ugly on the inside..... Think Shallow Hal....."
You said it luv! Don't know why anyone would say these things about themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to put whatever he/she likes in his/her profile.

If I do not like what I read, I would walk away. Simple as that, and I certainly would not let it wind me up. What is the point when I don't care about someone I don't know or want to know?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol

Why not ?

Yes why not, I'm a professional and I would most certainly be judge by my service users if they knew I were on this site so like people to know we need discretion. it would make my job a nightmare! Plus it's nice to read so we know we aren't chatting with Wayne and waynetta slob that haven't done a days work in their life! "

Ooh heck I think you might work for the same trust as me lol

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Everyone is entitled to put whatever he/she likes in his/her profile.

If I do not like what I read, I would walk away. Simple as that, and I certainly would not let it wind me up. What is the point when I don't care about someone I don't know or want to know?!

"
My very point! I never scrutinise profiles that i'm not interested in. I guess some people like to find something to moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol

Why not ?

Yes why not, I'm a professional and I would most certainly be judge by my service users if they knew I were on this site so like people to know we need discretion. it would make my job a nightmare! Plus it's nice to read so we know we aren't chatting with Wayne and waynetta slob that haven't done a days work in their life!

Ooh heck I think you might work for the same trust as me lol"

I thought this thread was about being attractive, got nothing to do with how professional or not people are tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's wrong with being honest? I have that written on my profile because I know I am attractive and get told very, very often. It is only perceived as being vain by others, with me I am just being honest.

Personally I find it off putting, along with professional.

Don't get me wrong, what people put on their profile is 100% their business. I too think I'm attractive and as a lawyer I'm a professional...you won't see mention of either on my profile...I don't feel the need but accept others do and I'm grateful for that...it helps in my sift.

Your job has absolutely nothing to do with this thread lol

Why not ?

Yes why not, I'm a professional and I would most certainly be judge by my service users if they knew I were on this site so like people to know we need discretion. it would make my job a nightmare! Plus it's nice to read so we know we aren't chatting with Wayne and waynetta slob that haven't done a days work in their life!

Ooh heck I think you might work for the same trust as me lol

I thought this thread was about being attractive, got nothing to do with how professional or not people are tut"

no such thing as a professional minger it appears

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Don't see anything wrong with it... if you look in the mirror, like what you see & are confident.... say what you want about yourself, anywhere you like.

If people meet up with you and their jaws drop and they utter the words.... 'What the fuck',... they may not share your thoughts.

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By *estless in batterseaMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

It's people on here not having confidence in themselves. Whenever we meet a couple I usually ask what they think the others bad trait is and almost always the woman is said to lack self confidence about look etc, so not surprised that there are some that find appreciating yourself off putting.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don't see anything wrong with it... if you look in the mirror, like what you see & are confident.... say what you want about yourself, anywhere you like.

If people meet up with you and their jaws drop and they utter the words.... 'What the fuck',... they may not share your thoughts."

*Giggles*...hello you. Nice to see you posting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol, I had a guy once who messaged me, describing himself as that, in the photo attached he was the spitting image of Leonard Nimoy"
Phwoar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah the ones that say I'm attractive and I expect the same. Well in my lifetime, some people have fancied me and said I'm good looking and others haven't found me attractive, it's all an individuals taste to what they find attractive so a bit of a pointless statement on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that it's the single women who are mostly on the big side, less attractive non professional people that have a problem with these statements and use every opportunity to tell you how off putting it is. The thing is most people in Britain lack self confidence and cannot understand how someone can be so sure of themselves. I would never say I HAVE BEEN TOLD I'm attractive... Why do I need verification from anybody?! pathetic."

I think its lovely when I receive a nice complement

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