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By *4ck-in-the-box OP   Man
over a year ago

BURNLEY

Just out of curiosity... how have people who swing as couples, managed to get the other person on board with the idea? (If you met away from the swing world) I don't know how I'd approach the subject if I met someone relationship wise in the future.

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

Nik got me into swinging about a Yr ago.... Watching porn and I suppose I got turned on watching other ppl shagging... And I thought I could do that... And here we're both are...

Titch xx

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By *4ck-in-the-box OP   Man
over a year ago

BURNLEY


"Nik got me into swinging about a Yr ago.... Watching porn and I suppose I got turned on watching other ppl shagging... And I thought I could do that... And here we're both are...

Titch xx"

Where can I find one like you eh haha

Fair play, I've watched porn with partners before but never met someone keen to swing too sadly!

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall


"Nik got me into swinging about a Yr ago.... Watching porn and I suppose I got turned on watching other ppl shagging... And I thought I could do that... And here we're both are...

Titch xx

Where can I find one like you eh haha

Fair play, I've watched porn with partners before but never met someone keen to swing too sadly! "
You need to find the shorties theyre the naughtiest... Nik

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nik got me into swinging about a Yr ago.... Watching porn and I suppose I got turned on watching other ppl shagging... And I thought I could do that... And here we're both are...

Titch xx"

This is exactly what happened with us,

Watching porn on a d*unken night at a dirty weekend lol,

Got chatting then here we are

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By *4ck-in-the-box OP   Man
over a year ago

BURNLEY


"Nik got me into swinging about a Yr ago.... Watching porn and I suppose I got turned on watching other ppl shagging... And I thought I could do that... And here we're both are...

Titch xx

This is exactly what happened with us,

Watching porn on a d*unken night at a dirty weekend lol,

Got chatting then here we are "

Got it! Porn is key! Although my luck would be to meet someone who is repulsed by porn ha!

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

No porn involved here. Just turned a fantasy into reality. It wasn't easy at first as we needed to find each others boundaries. But we know now exactly where we want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a mixed bag when we’ve spoken with other couples about how they got involved,

Some have been similar to our story so been together for years, got a bit d*unk and maybe put on some porn and started from there.

Others have been comfortable just chatting about fantasies in normal conversation.

Some we know have got together on here and now have families.

There definitely isn’t any one way, there isn’t a key as such.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No porn involved here either. Mr N brought the subject up as it was a fantasy of his. We talked it through and here we are

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Different again , pups was having an affair I found out , couldn’t believe how turned on I was Difficult argument now here we are

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

No porn or alcohol involved here. A very honest conversation started by Mrs, and here we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d both swung before we met as singles. When we met we told each other and it went from there.

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

We'd both been in sexually unfulfilling relationships prior to getting together so were upfront and honest with each other about our sexual fantasies and desires. Being watched, voyeurism, multiple partners came up for both of us and also for me, a want to further explore my bi side. So logical next step was for us to try a swingers club to see if it was what we wanted. Obviously we loved it

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a single girl on here before met Hubbie

He struck gold when I suggested it. A few months into our relationship we had our first FFM

Mrs P

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Chat about fantasies, watch porn together and talk, talk talk. Be honest about what you want and take baby steps. Don't try and trick a partner into signing up for something they aren't into. Women know when they are being conned and believe me it will come back to haunt you. Listen to your ladies needs as much as your own wants or you will be single again.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Just out of curiosity... how have people who swing as couples, managed to get the other person on board with the idea? (If you met away from the swing world) I don't know how I'd approach the subject if I met someone relationship wise in the future. "

There shouldn't be any need for persuasion, if on of you feel coerced, it will create the wrong mindset.

We talked about fantasies and desires, and the swinging environment seemed to provide the opportunities to make these fantasies achievable. Communication and trust are the real key though, both of us needed to understand that we were doing this together and that if either of us were unhappy at any point... we would stop.

Cal

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By *andyandeddyCouple
over a year ago

b

I got into swinging as I wanted to have fun with a 2nd female told eddy what I wanted and we agreed to try it .

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We both got turned on talking about it during sex for a long time and one day I just said I would like to try it for real. Hubby luckily agreed, found Fab and away we went!xx

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Never really been into porn it was a hot day in cap d arge, going there for the naturist freedom not sex, inquisitive minds and a club called 2x2 the rest is history.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Mutual decision that was born out of adventurousness and being naughty in bed

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

We started discussing fantasies with each other and both wanted to be watched etc, So decided to try the Kestrels Hydro as a soft introduction - Mrs drank a bottle of wine on the way! We met a lovely couple there watched some fun too, which aroused us both- realised that it's real people and continued from there, and started playing and have never looked back. Now we go go to clubs with intention of wanting to try things etc... We find it better attending a club as there are more options and good facilities such as swings, shackles and some have glory holes too.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We met on here 8 yr ago... so we both knew what kinda filth we were letting ourselves in for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife was well up for it .Its great watching each other and we let each other play alone we know a couple of guys that we trust. It's so horny dropping her off and either waiting or going back later to pick her up.

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By *ymph and ManicCouple
over a year ago

North East

We met off here as singles. So easy next step. Lol. Enjoying to fullest extent.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Just out of curiosity... how have people who swing as couples, managed to get the other person on board with the idea? (If you met away from the swing world) I don't know how I'd approach the subject if I met someone relationship wise in the future. "

Over the years I've had four swinger partners. Two that were long term relationships (including Mrs H) and two short term FB's.

I always found honesty was the best way and always broached the subject early.

I didn't at any time "try to get any of them into it". I just told them what I had done in the past and let them mull it over.

With one the answer was that she had done it herself with her ex and would love to get back into it. Result LOL.

With Mrs H I told her about it early on and got the "I'd never do that" answer. Three years later, completely out of the blue, she asked me about swinger clubs then said she wanted to try one. Over 10 years on and she is probably more into it than me now.

The two FB's were from the swinger world anyway so don't really count.

Don't get me wrong, it doesn't work every time. I've had the "I'd never do that" answer quite a few times, and they stuck with it.

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

They key is to be open and honest in any conversations. We can talk about anything no matter what subject can only say yay or nay but always explore others minds.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"No porn involved here. Just turned a fantasy into reality. It wasn't easy at first as we needed to find each others boundaries. But we know now exactly where we want to be."

Just have to say, that's a great explanation we started out just flashing in car then public displays.

Basque then started to fancy more. We set our boundaries and great fun followed!

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