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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, we have been on the site for a while but have no swinging experience as such,but it is something that intrigues us both.

Our main concern is the effect it will have on our relationship, will we look at each other differently?.

Has anyone had a negative impact or know any one who has x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, we have been on the site for a while but have no swinging experience as such,but it is something that intrigues us both.

Our main concern is the effect it will have on our relationship, will we look at each other differently?.

Has anyone had a negative impact or know any one who has x"
If you have any doubts or concerns, don't go through with anything. It can't be undone.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

You could try a neutral setting like a club, but beforehand make sure you both agree on boundaries and any safe words, but take it slow - initially at least.

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

You could always try a soft swing before you jump in to far ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can watch your other half full on kiss someone in front of you then you'll have the potential to go further, but start with soft play and keep to those boundaries. If it's not for you both then don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve heard of couples taking the first step when they are on overseas holiday.

That way if they have any doubts/issues they can park it as a holiday fling and not home life

Just what I have been told

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