FabSwingers.com forum: Couples profiles without photos of the male

By *exyfuncouple74 OP Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.

Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Omg i was thinking the same thing as i love to find a hot husband to share but there's hardly any photos of the man on most couple profile... Makes me sad

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We agree with you both which is why there's quite a few of me on our profile. There's also quite a few other guys too though

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Well as I (Mr M) don’t play with others, we don’t really feel the need to put pics of me on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of the mr on ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have some of me (mr) on ours an some in our friends only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as I (Mr M) don’t play with others, we don’t really feel the need to put pics of me on our profile."

And Mrs M is so stunning why bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the same when we joined, so I made sure to get the Mr to post some photos of himself as much as he hated it haha

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A few on ours but mr is the photographer so more of me

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

We make sure that there’s enough of the Mr on our page, because we play as a couple so there needs to be an attraction for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd love to see more couple's profiles which have photos of the male half as well as the beautiful ladies. There don't seem to be so many profiles with adequate photos of both partners for us to make an initial decision. On a site like this, the initial attraction has to be visual - it's just the nature of meeting people online.

Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?

We agree too. If it's a couple we need to see you both.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

theres a few of the male on ours if you can bare to look at his Adonis like figure ,,,, ,not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of Mickey on ours but we’ve ran out of ideas for him now

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By *ouge and blueCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We've one or two of Tom but good pic ideas are always welcome.

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By *eepminds67Couple
over a year ago

crewe

Good morning ,

There are some on our profile

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We have few but after lockdown end in some way,we would like to find photographer who will do pocture of us both in some better format than phone allow.

Of course we have more poc of Mr and Mrs in private pictures for friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always try to put pics of both as there is 2 of us after all x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?

It's also one of Anita's pet peeves, I'm personally not too fussed because I like looking at sexy women... but I understand her point.

I think that it's hard for men though, women learn from quite a young age how to make the best of themselves, how to dress to impress and do their makeup to accentuate their beauty. Where as men grow up learning how to get dressed in the dark and get on with what we're born with... so we're not confident in how we look and often we feel like nobody really wants photos of us.

Cal

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We'd prefer to see at least one Male body shot. But too many Male pics is off putting, as the Female form is generally more attractive to look at. Also when we swing, the focus is more on the Ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to think we have a good balance of each as we like a four way play so other couples can see the goods so to speak . I dare say if the female of a couple only plays & seeking singles then obviously more pictures of her will be displayed

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By *peak and SpellCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

There are a few of him on ours.

We always find it strange when male photos are omitted from a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a more or less fair split on ours. We come as a couple so wouldn’t have it any other way. Also, I love T’s body and get a kick out of him showing it off

L x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean you want to see his cock, chest, bum ?

All profile says " don't send cock pics"

Have you ever seen a profile which says " don't send pussy and ass pics ?"

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"There are a few of him on ours.

We always find it strange when male photos are omitted from a couples profile. "

You're one of the first couple profile that have a good number of sexy male photos to illustrate you're equal in statue where I feel usually it's the woman dominates the profile

#hothusband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few of hubby on ours but we are guilty of this as well..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to balance it but the Mrs is the hot one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We try to balance it but the Mrs is the hot one

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By *tter-quattroCouple
over a year ago

Taunton

We believe that Couples who are looking for couples need to see pictures of both the male and female.

It’s not blind date or a lucky dip.

We presume some couples only put the female on as sort of click bate but if both halves are going to play surely you need to see what both look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really thought about it weve got a mix on ours because tattoos and piercings are not everyone's thing. She likes looking at the males and I enjoy the ladies

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

"If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both."

Agree with this. When we’re looking for a couple to play with, we would expect to see pictures of both the lady and man. Not just a cock pic or a finger from the male, amidst full body shots of the lady from any angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have sone of mr going to put more on this week if I can get him to do them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both as we both like to share xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have sone of mr going to put more on this week if I can get him to do them x"

One pic is enough to get the idea .

Don't feel pressurised , you don't get meets because of your public pictures.

Most are club goers and they can see your Mr there anyway . This is another moan thread

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We have commented on a thread like this before, our pictures are mainly of Mrs but i have some on here as well, when we look at couples Mrs will say well you’ll be ok but what about me, we think it’s better to show both as it gives an idea if your going to fancy each other, although we don’t show face pics due to our profession and never ask for them either as we prefer a bit of mystery, Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are happy to share both !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few but we’ve 2 issues:

1/. Misha’s photography skills are non existent

2/. I’m covered in easily recognisable tattoos which expose us both to anybody who might spot them

Always happy to provide when asked though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have commented on a thread like this before, our pictures are mainly of Mrs but i have some on here as well, when we look at couples Mrs will say well you’ll be ok but what about me, we think it’s better to show both as it gives an idea if your going to fancy each other, although we don’t show face pics due to our profession and never ask for them either as we prefer a bit of mystery, Mr "

Not sharing face pics will only get you so far- we don’t have them on our profile but swap if we’re interested as neither of us have any interest in blind dates, what’s the point? We’re also professionals but surely most of us are? Just saying

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I like to think we have a good mix of photos, but no matter how much ladies complain about the lack of men's pics, it's only Anita who gets fabbed

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We are guilty of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GB here. Jessica is the only one meeting right now, that's why there are no pictures of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a mixture of both, I find it’s a bit trickier to get decent male shot for various reasons but if both intend to play, we think there should be a fair representation of all involved, which could be done with one or two pics

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We just don't contact those profiles. If it's only the woman who wants to be involved we aren't compatible. We used to meet couples who sent (reluctantly we realise now) photos of the guy after we asked to see them but it always turned out that he only wanted to watch his partner. Unless there are clear photos of both on a profile or in a first message we know its not going to work for us or them. I'm not saying it's wrong to have no photos of the man, that's their choice.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

We would also like to see more pic of the male half of a couple. We do have a mix of photos on our profile but are guilty of not having many of Jim because we do not want to scare the ladies away.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"but are guilty of not having many of Jim because we do not want to scare the ladies away.

I think that’s probably my issue too. A lack of body confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If there are no pictures of the male I just pass them by. Regardless of whether the male plays or not - it's a couple's profile so he's involved in some way. So I still want to see both."

This

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

MrD has alot of tattoo's and it is his choice not to show as many public pics as a result for fear of being recognised. I do show mt tatts but thats my choice.

We have plenty of him in private and we are very quick to share once we start chatting with a anyone.

MsD

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By *iscfun2012Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *iscfun2012Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have no pictures of the male on our profile as he does not play and we are looking for guys only.

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By *exyCouple999Couple
over a year ago

South Bucks

Just interested to know what other couple's views are on this?

One possible reason is that the f is more, shall we say, photogenic.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

We should have a few more of me , I admit, but at least there’s one. We like to see at least one of the M half, if we want to play as a couple, we want to see the couple to decide if there may be an attraction. It’s nothing to do with female pics getting more fabs, and it doesn’t matter if photo skills aren’t great, just needs a body shot to show whether he’s the right physical type

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By *aveing funCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If no picture of male normally fake just guy with loads of pics of his wife Gf etc so we try chat to both to stop timewasters

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This comes up weekly, and every week I give the same answer:

It's the couples profile and they can post whatever pictures they want, not what other people want. If the balance of photos don't suit you then it's your problem not theirs. Just move on to another profile which does suit you.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

near lincoln

Think we have plenty of picture of us both. People can get a very good idea of what we both look like from our photos. I find it very frustrating when I can’t see what the guy looks like . I do most of the browsing so if there’s no pics of the man I click on the next profile.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We don’t show our faces as our workplace involves coming face to face with hundreds of people on a daily basis, public and colleagues, it’s not for everyone but we do make it clear and our verifications may help put some at ease, like I said previous we don’t ask for face pics either so it’s not double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr has a good few on ours, but he hates being pictured hence most are of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr has a good few on ours, but he hates being pictured hence most are of me. "

So I see

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Guilty as charged. Mr D likes taking photos but not of him. We have a few of him in our private gallery which we send to potential meets. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non of hubby on here just one face pic in private pics, reason is he doesn't really play, he's very much into watching, his choice not mine.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

"Well as I (Mr M) don’t play with others, we don’t really feel the need to put pics of me on our profile."

Same for us...

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

Each to their own, we will continue to post photos of us both, as M’Lady loves taking photos and as we play together with other couples and/or lovely ladies, it’s only right that others get to see us both to then decide if there is an attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We include a few but don't want it to look as though we're to... male focused? If that makes sense?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"We include a few but don't want it to look as though we're to... male focused? If that makes sense?"
Yep! Great pics

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We ideally like to see photos of both, but we will message people even if there are only photos of the lady.

We have photos of both of us, but there are more of me. That is purely down to me having more time to faff around with the camera.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No need to with our set up, but we do attach one in a message to show who people are arranging with to meet Mrs N with hubby present.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

We're really guilty of this...

There are a few of the Mr, and more in our friends pics, but I post more pics (because I'm a bloody tart). It's a shame though, because he's hot as fuck.

I'll have to get on the case.

C (her) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More pics of M but try to have an appropriate number of pics of N too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such a sexy thread!

You lot are hot.

Go fab couples!

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to get a balance but it's easier getting new fresh pics of Mrs because she has a great range of lingerie.. us chaps only have a limited 'fab pic' wardrobe to choose from

Hope you like them anyway

S & D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples prefer to see more pics of the male couple in their pics but single guys prefer to see more pics of the female

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

You will find the majority of couples profiles on here only showcase the female , seems bizare to me but it seems to be the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, is a problem with quite a few profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try to take some of him where we can but we try not to include face pics unless we're on good talking terms etc.

He doesn't particularly like his photo taken either which makes it more awkward

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

This is one of my pet peeves when there are no pics of the guy. All well and good if the couple are looking for single guys to join them etc. Just frustrating as often these profiles lacking in male pics contact us first and you end up having to ask for them. Now we use it as more of a filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We agree with you both which is why there's quite a few of me on our profile. There's also quite a few other guys too though

Wow! You’ve got some smokin’ hot pics there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have plenty of the Male in ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a few of Mr A on ours.

Although for some reason he thinks no-one is interested in looking at his pics.

Does he need to put some more on?

Opinions would be welcome ladies...

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By *nnnikCouple
over a year ago

Walsall

If only pics of the female you can bet it's a sad little man collecting hand shakes.. Nik

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