FabSwingers.com forum: Getting pregnant on the scene?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

So a question for those that either play bareback generally, or go BB with trusted couples, FBs, FWBs, etc. and where there is a woman under 45 involved - does the risk of falling pregnant/getting her pregnant concern you? Have you discussed the eventuality with your spouse/significant other? Do you know what you'd do if it happened?

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what i'd do, but prospectively the idea is somewhat of a turn on.

But thats likely another subject matter.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We know what we would want to do but that is only part of the equation, it would also depend on what the young lady wanted to do.

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By *irtyhornMan
over a year ago

Kirkby

As a single man I find it a massive turn on to unload bare inside a girl from here or on the scene. As long as it’s consensual with the couple and they are aware of the risks it can fulfil its purpose and satisfy a kink! Nothing better than unloading in a warm wet pussy unprotected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure what i'd do, but prospectively the idea is somewhat of a turn on.

But thats likely another subject matter.

You’re a sick puppy...

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

An old school friend of mine wanted to get pregnant and asked my wife if she minded me doing the deed - which I didn’t but wifey said no. We shagged but I was careful not to get her preggers which pissed her off a bit. Next time I saw her she had a 2-yr old. I asked her if she was mine but no, she had succeeded in bedding an old bf of hers who also hadn’t wanted to get her preggers but did!

Moral of the story: everyone won! She got her baby in the end and he and I each had some brilliant unprotected sex with her. I came inside her mouth, he came inside her pussy - he pays the bills not me! She’s amazing at giving bjs so I probably got just as good a deal as he did! But once she’s past giving birth I expect I’ll give her the full works! And I know I’ll love it and so will she! And as long as I don’t get her preggers my wife will be happy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an old silverback who likes to play bareback I come with a vasectomy so no pregnancy dangers at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure what i'd do, but prospectively the idea is somewhat of a turn on.

But thats likely another subject matter.

You’re a sick puppy..."

Fantasies only!

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By *hris NYMan
over a year ago

York

It’s a huge turn on going bare, can’t beat the feeling. But not sure on the pregnancy risk if they aren’t protected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here ?? no swimmers

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I just don’t get it?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm on the pill, so if there's an accident, no pregnancy fears here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The consequences of playing dangerous games. Sums up the sadder side of swinging really. A woman in the predicament to potentially terminate a pregnancy because of unprotected sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm on the pill, so if there's an accident, no pregnancy fears here. "

So is Jessica and it's worked flawlessly for her since she started having sex, so we're not really worried. But nothing is 100%.

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By *uper SaiyanMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I enjoy BB sex, no better feeling than your load just filling a woman up, but dont like the thought of getting someone preggers. Would have to be sure BCs are used to avoid that scenario. The fantasy of the woman wanting to get pregnant is most likely best left as a fantasy

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By *any32Man
over a year ago

norwich

I'd commit financially and would love to help raise if everyone agreed

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I only go bareback with my other half, we're careful with her cycle as far as getting preggo. Aside from the health risks I couldn't risk it with anyone else for my own peace of mind let alone anything else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The purpose of this thread was less focused on intentional pregnancy, and more the question of what if.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"The purpose of this thread was less focused on intentional pregnancy, and more the question of what if."

If it happened what would you tell the child when they were old enough to understand or would you lie?

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I play with a couple regularly bb we have all talked about this and if it dos happen we have sed we would move in together and bring up the child we get on very well not just sexually but personally

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"The purpose of this thread was less focused on intentional pregnancy, and more the question of what if.

If it happened what would you tell the child when they were old enough to understand or would you lie?"

Oh and it won't happen to us. Definitely DON'T bareback.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If a condom broke and my coil failed, I'd terminate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The purpose of this thread was less focused on intentional pregnancy, and more the question of what if.

If it happened what would you tell the child when they were old enough to understand or would you lie?"

We'd terminate. But on the off chance we and the father decided to keep it then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An old school friend of mine wanted to get pregnant and asked my wife if she minded me doing the deed - which I didn’t but wifey said no. We shagged but I was careful not to get her preggers which pissed her off a bit. Next time I saw her she had a 2-yr old. I asked her if she was mine but no, she had succeeded in bedding an old bf of hers who also hadn’t wanted to get her preggers but did!

Jackanory

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play with a couple regularly bb we have all talked about this and if it dos happen we have sed we would move in together and bring up the child we get on very well not just sexually but personally "

Jackanory

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By *aughtyloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

If I got someone pregnant off here I would be horrified... had the snip

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a real pity that what should have been quite an interesting discussion has been hijacked by the fantasist brigade and the "I love filling a pussy with my hot load" crew.

I suspect these people are seriously lacking in social skills.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It's a real pity that what should have been quite an interesting discussion has been hijacked by the fantasist brigade and the "I love filling a pussy with my hot load" crew.

I suspect these people are seriously lacking in social skills."

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry I can't let this go.

Are you suggesting that a couple who you play with have agreed that if she gets pregnant then they want a 57 year old man to move in with them to be a 3rd parent.

Is that really what you are saying?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a real pity that what should have been quite an interesting discussion has been hijacked by the fantasist brigade and the "I love filling a pussy with my hot load" crew.

I suspect these people are seriously lacking in social skills.

Totally agree! "

Yeah this thread hasn't gone the way I wanted.

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

We had a false alarm scare in a very early meet but for health reasons wife has had ovaries removed and hubby had vasectomy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypothetically speaking if husband and I found someone 100% exclusive (they and us wouldn't meet anyone else) who we'd be happy to go bb with - pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the pill and I always use a condom, always. I also keep track of when my fertile times would be if I did have a period - I'm on the mini pill where you take it every day. That also can have a side effect of stopping ovulation and therefore periods completely which is what I get - and I don't have sex at all at those times. I think any sperm that could get through all that would be super sperm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation."

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks"

We have discussed the "what if" ourselves and came to the conclusion that we knew the potential risks before we started as do most adults who play.

For us we would accept the consequences.

Once a child is loved who cares where he/she came from.

I'm sure lots of guys in the vanilla world are raising another mans child without knowing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen."

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We don’t want children full stop. Play safe with others and am also on the injection. If it did happen we would terminate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t want children full stop. Play safe with others and am also on the injection. If it did happen we would terminate."

Really, why terminate when you can gain a child and a 57 year old transvestite au pair

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus"

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?"

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"We don’t want children full stop. Play safe with others and am also on the injection. If it did happen we would terminate.

Really, why terminate when you can gain a child and a 57 year old transvestite au pair"

Spat my tea out with this comment!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification"

If you don't want children, it solves a potential problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification

If you don't want children, it solves a potential problem."

That's fine but I'd hate to think sterilisation is being offered as a solution to having BB sex without the risk of pregnancy.

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks

We have discussed the "what if" ourselves and came to the conclusion that we knew the potential risks before we started as do most adults who play.

For us we would accept the consequences.

Once a child is loved who cares where he/she came from.

I'm sure lots of guys in the vanilla world are raising another mans child without knowing anyway"

So crazy it had to be posted twice.

Here's a couple where the male is seemingly at ease with the prospect of another man getting his wife pregnant....and then him raising it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if?

Well I’d slip quietly away into the night never to be heard if again, if we’re being honest. When I have a child it will be planned for, not the result of a fab bunk up.

That’s why I’m always bagging up.

Imagine the conversation......

‘How did you and mummy meet, daddy?’

‘Well Tarquin, your mum loved getting banged bareback by multiple blokes in the cinema room at the Attic, turns out mine was the one that got through.’

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification

If you don't want children, it solves a potential problem.

That's fine but I'd hate to think sterilisation is being offered as a solution to having BB sex without the risk of pregnancy."

Given the gamut I've run with trying to get enduring contraception (and solutions to gynaecological problems) I'm sure they had other reasons they presented to their doctor(s).

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

This thread is amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread is amazing!

And you kicked the nonsense off Joe so well done to you.

Btw I hope that sunburn has settled down a bit.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"What if?

Well I’d slip quietly away into the night never to be heard if again, if we’re being honest. When I have a child it will be planned for, not the result of a fab bunk up.

That’s why I’m always bagging up.

Imagine the conversation......

‘How did you and mummy meet, daddy?’

‘Well Tarquin, your mum loved getting banged bareback by multiple blokes in the cinema room at the Attic, turns out mine was the one that got through.’"

I’m sure those conversations have taken place in some households!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks

We have discussed the "what if" ourselves and came to the conclusion that we knew the potential risks before we started as do most adults who play.

For us we would accept the consequences.

Once a child is loved who cares where he/she came from.

I'm sure lots of guys in the vanilla world are raising another mans child without knowing anyway

So crazy it had to be posted twice.

Here's a couple where the male is seemingly at ease with the prospect of another man getting his wife pregnant....and then him raising it"

Mrs has the mirena coil, so very little chance of getting pregnant esp considering we rarely meet others.

That said we wouldn't feel comfortable terminating a foetus if the unimaginable happened.as stated were all adults here and understand that risks and potential outcomes.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"This thread is amazing!

And you kicked the nonsense off Joe so well done to you.

Btw I hope that sunburn has settled down a bit."

Ha! Bugger - I’d completely forgotten! Why the f did I put those stupid pics up! Must’ve had worse than sunburn! Snd no, I didn’t start anything!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Out of curiosity, the women in this thread that do play bare, are you on any form of contraception?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a accidental pregnancy years ago with single girl, condom and the pill used but we overcame the odds, there’s no 100% safe. Personally if it happened with a couple I would feel mortified, how do you explain that to friends and family and future child, I would want the couple to terminate and never tell me but would understand there personally decision if they didn’t , would be a can of worms if I’m honest.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My concern would be for any child born out of this situation. It’s all good & well raising another man’s child until that child has some kind of hereditary illness & neither of you can explain & you need the full medical history of the biological father. I have seen this happen. Also the child is a spitting image of the biological father’s sister.

Also, IMO, abortion should not be used as a method of birth control. I’m pro-choice so would hope the morning after pill would be used or BB not done around mid-cycle

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I couldn't have the heart to terminate. So the implant for me and the Mr has 'had the snip'. Not that we'd ever BB with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this topic .. makes the blood flow and my dick pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love this topic .. makes the blood flow and my dick pulse

I bet you've stuck pins in a condom before, haven't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Out of curiosity, the women in this thread that do play bare, are you on any form of contraception?"

Yes, pill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love this topic .. makes the blood flow and my dick pulse

I bet you've stuck pins in a condom before, haven't you"

Nah I just don’t use them kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pill 99% so one in a hundred times odds are will happen. But probally a discussion happen between all parties b4 and sex takes place.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"We don’t want children full stop. Play safe with others and am also on the injection. If it did happen we would terminate.

Really, why terminate when you can gain a child and a 57 year old transvestite au pair"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pill 99% so one in a hundred times odds are will happen. But probally a discussion happen between all parties b4 and sex takes place. "

Depends on the pill 94-99%, but that women that'll get pregnant in a year while having regular unprotected sex. Not 1 out of 100 fucks will end in pregnancy.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I feel sorry for the innocent child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very hot thread

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Do people also feel this way about children conceived via sperm donors. If I understand correctly the original question was about the responses from people if it happened not if they wanted it to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks"

What would you do OP ‘if’ you were caught out and Jess got pregnant or GB caused someone elses partner got pregnant?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Do people also feel this way about children conceived via sperm donors. If I understand correctly the original question was about the responses from people if it happened not if they wanted it to happen"

Personally, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks

What would you do OP ‘if’ you were caught out and Jess got pregnant or GB caused someone elses partner got pregnant? "

We've discussed and would terminate in all likelihood.

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By *cotsHwCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Yes, implant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively erotic turn on for me but not Mrs! We have talked about what we would do in the situation but she always brushes it off

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Pill 99% so one in a hundred times odds are will happen. But probally a discussion happen between all parties b4 and sex takes place. "

Maybe get them to sign a legal document? Very sexy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nickey has the coil and Brad had the snip so we are both protected from Potential accidents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex.

Have fathered 6 kids

Had a vasectomy and been tested

From a pregnancy risk I am a “ no risk”

From a naughty guy - high risk

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Can’t believe all these vasectomy posts. Making me feel ill! Why, just why!!! Grief!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification"

As you don't know the reasons I got sterilised for - keep your opinion for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I play with a couple regularly bb we have all talked about this and if it dos happen we have sed we would move in together and bring up the child we get on very well not just sexually but personally

I'm sorry I can't let this go.

Are you suggesting that a couple who you play with have agreed that if she gets pregnant then they want a 57 year old man to move in with them to be a 3rd parent.

Is that really what you are saying?

I'm glad you questioned this too. What utter bollocks! There's a Stories and Fantasy thread where things like this can be posted to, SMH.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

You raise a good point that's valid.

Knowing the risk, we all make judgement calls, and it is this weighing up that leads us, even in the heat of passion to make choices.

Many of us have had sterilisations - its just on fabs, the stronger minded folks have their own agenda.

Its all about choices

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Can’t believe all these vasectomy posts. Making me feel ill! Why, just why!!! Grief!!!!"

Because they think they are special but they are not. Safe sex for me with a new partner even if they have had a vasectomy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the bareback play but are very careful on both issues. I have had a vasectomy wife has a coil fitted to no risk of pregnancy and to minimise the risk of std we have regular guy for play and another playing we both get tested after to make sure

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

"Massively erotic turn on for me but not Mrs! We have talked about what we would do in the situation but she always brushes it off"

Not sure brushing it off would prevent an unintentional pregnancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a few bb from fab and not, guess heat of the moment end up bb, more luck than judgement.

I know a fem outside of fab and found she was on fab too and she got pregnant via a meet, he wanted nothing to do with the baby, but she has brought him up herself and just said to non fab peeps it was a one night stand, which is kind of was.

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over a year ago

For me personally (Mrs) it's my worst nightmare.

Husband has had the snip, to prevent this scenario

The thought is enough for me to stop swinging

Please wear 3 condoms & hit your balls hard with a hammer before meeting us, seems the only sensible thing to do

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

"For me personally (Mrs) it's my worst nightmare.

Husband has had the snip, to prevent this scenario

The thought is enough for me to stop swinging

Please wear 3 condoms & hit your balls hard with a hammer before meeting us, seems the only sensible thing to do

I think your solution is the natural one for stable folks who don't wish to have any further children. Most guys are perfectly happy to have the snip to prevent any such unexpected events, but obviously outside in the wider fabs world, not event condoms are fully reliable. I've had numerous experiences as a over enthusiastic chap, allowing the lady to become "dry" and the next thing to occur is the condom to split. Not sure if the hammer is right solution, brings tears to my eyes just thinking about it, but probably perfectly normal in certain parts of Kemp Town in Brighton

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By *lwayshorny79Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

"This might be a controversial topic so only chime in if you're comfortable discussing.

Clearly we've discussed this between ourselves, I expect many others have too so thought I'd ask. Also interested to hear from singles (male or female) on what their view is.

This question is potentially still valid for those that only play safe, broken condom?

Thanks"

I only play BB with my hubby because he has had the snip, but we have discussed the possibility of an accidental pregnancy while on the scene. As a couple we would be fine with it and get on with life. Biggest issue is explaining to the rest of the family how it happened.

As for knowingly having bb with someone else, I find it such a huge turn on. I have only ever considered it with one other bloke and he would never agree to it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" pregnancy wouldn't be a concern as I had a sterilisation.

Well that brief input is completely irrelevant then isn't it

Are you the "relevance" police?

It is relevant as it suggests a solution so "what if" doesn't happen.

So your solution is getting sterilised? Jesus

It is their solution. It's one among many. What's wrong with it?

It seems a little extreme for a bit of sexual gratification

If you don't want children, it solves a potential problem.

That's fine but I'd hate to think sterilisation is being offered as a solution to having BB sex without the risk of pregnancy."
Surely that is the only point to having a vasectomy ? Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a condom broke and it was easy to tell then it would be the morning after pill. If it was a couple of months later that we realised then we would keep the baby.

I am pro life so wouldnt ever get a termination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I went bb I would like to think lady on pill or if it’s like a risk sex meet well it would be what ever happens

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Menopause .... wonderful thing ... past all that now !!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If I went bb I would like to think lady on pill or if it’s like a risk sex meet well it would be what ever happens"

So you would take no responsibility to practice safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something that we discussed years ago. We decided that we should take the precautions we could to prevent it.

However, we also felt that if it were to happen we would have to discuss with the other person and collectively come to a decision at the time. We didn’t feel we could have a cast iron plan beforehand.

Thankfully it is no longer a possibility.

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