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By *exyfuncouple74 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

As well as meeting couples, we love the hotwife thing. Watching Steph enjoy another guy is such a thrill but I can't explain why. I'd have been so jealous when younger, but now it feels like a carnal desire that we can't tame. And we both love it.

The meet, the small talk, followed by the inevitable kissing which ultimately leads to full on fucking whilst I listen and observe through a crack in the door. Simply mind-blowing - almost like a drug.

The sex between us from the minute he leaves is amazing for the next week!

What are other couple's views on this?

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By *eefdoddusCouple
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Understand completely what you're saying. It's a huge turn on for both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So great to see couples so open and comfortable with it! It has been something I've wanted to do for a while, however the gf isn't into it (which I respect!) but it's great to see couples do it and still have such a spark there! X

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

We discovered how much we loved this at parties and have since enjoyed watching each other on many occasions. Even better with couples where you can take turns. After all someone has to pour the wine...

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Interesting take on the hotwifing...

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By *exyfuncouple74 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"We discovered how much we loved this at parties and have since enjoyed watching each other on many occasions. Even better with couples where you can take turns. After all someone has to pour the wine..."

THIS.... Only the people who have done it would know!

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)


"We discovered how much we loved this at parties and have since enjoyed watching each other on many occasions. Even better with couples where you can take turns. After all someone has to pour the wine...

THIS.... Only the people who have done it would know! "

Exactly! Nothing quite like enjoying a glass of red, fully Clothed, whilst watching your partner.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"We discovered how much we loved this at parties and have since enjoyed watching each other on many occasions. Even better with couples where you can take turns. After all someone has to pour the wine...

THIS.... Only the people who have done it would know! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pure look of pleasure on a guys face when she works her magic on his cock. Makes me proud and also makes me giggle lol

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By *tickler2000Man
over a year ago

St Agnes

I feel being invited to help a couple fullfil their fantasy is a privilege.

I do try to make sure the lady has fun and that her partner can see what we are doing.

It is for both of their enjoyment after all.

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have met a few singles guys from fab and love watching Sara being fucked by another guy.

I love the look on the guys face when he takes her bra off and looks at her boobs. I love the look on Sara’s face when she slides his cock into her pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you, when younger I also used to be very jealous which is not healthy.

Now a bit more mature in mind and unfortunately body I throughly enjoy sharing my wife with another appreciative guy.

It so horny and ignites the carnal lust listening at the door as your loved one is being fucked by her lover, knowing full well you are going to enjoy her satisfied and filled pussy soon after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching the wife with other guys it's just fantastic. Another thing I really enjoy is I drop her off at a young guys house that we know and wait outside for her. It's such a turn on watching her walk back the car with a dirty smile on her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better in our opinion, had a few single men from fab, the sounds coming from the bedroom are amazing. Still looking for the 1 who will be a regular fwb. getting video clips sent whilst she is playing solo is a massive turn on also. Love my hotwife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing better in our opinion, had a few single men from fab, the sounds coming from the bedroom are amazing. Still looking for the 1 who will be a regular fwb. getting video clips sent whilst she is playing solo is a massive turn on also. Love my hotwife "
lve dropped Leanne off with 2 bi guys we no and they've sent me videos it's so horny lol. We always end up fucking in a field near the house on the way home

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By *ornyj37Man
over a year ago

Devon

I have had the privelige of being invited to join a few couples and it is amazing... Cant wait to meet after this is over! X

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By *ros and PsycheCouple
over a year ago

London

Yes, this is always fun. For me it’s the look of naughty excitement on her pretty face as she is kissed and undressed, and then seeing that expression change to horny intensity when the fucking starts in earnest...

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By *aloo42Couple
over a year ago

preston

Seems normal to watch R flirt with other guys. Catching a glimpse of a 'strangers' hand on her thigh whilst sat by a bar. Listening to the suggestive comments and questions. Watching someone undress her, to hearing her sigh as someone enters her for the first time. Some may say weird, for me (& R of course) such a turn on.

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By *andybigboiMan
over a year ago

Mount Pleasant


"Like you, when younger I also used to be very jealous which is not healthy.

Now a bit more mature in mind and unfortunately body I throughly enjoy sharing my wife with another appreciative guy.

It so horny and ignites the carnal lust listening at the door as your loved one is being fucked by her lover, knowing full well you are going to enjoy her satisfied and filled pussy soon after."

Jealousy in proportion is healthy.

Though I used to get overly jealous in my youth. Now totally laid back about it.

The look on Mrs face when she unzips the guy and whips out the cock is great, also when the guy enters her pussy and stretches her out, when takes that breath and the look on her face.

This is from seeing and also hearing from my Mrs about the meets she has.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Seems normal to watch R flirt with other guys. Catching a glimpse of a 'strangers' hand on her thigh whilst sat by a bar. Listening to the suggestive comments and questions. Watching someone undress her, to hearing her sigh as someone enters her for the first time. Some may say weird, for me (& R of course) such a turn on."

As single guy, love flirting with a lady in. Bar while her partner watches...is huge mental turn on

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

It big thrill I get but best part wood be the 1st time she sucks a new guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GB here. My view is exactly that same as ours OP. I'm no longer jealous, insecure, or possessive. I get such a thrill from her being with other men! Gets me hard just thinking about it. And then sloppy seconds is amazing and our sex life after also takes a positive hit.

I'm pleased others have similar views and experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy who loves meeting couples. It's a real privilege to be invited to experiance another guys wife.

I have been lucky enough to have met a few couples from here and i'm addicted to the look on her face when she uncovers and plays with her new cock.

Looking forward to when lockdown is over and we can start meeting again.

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Huge turn on for us!

I love seeing Nicki enjoying herself with no restrictions or hang ups and as the OP said the sex afterwards is at another level!

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the look of supprise and exitment on her face when she unzips and pulls out another mans cock

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Finding men attracted to Sue and watching all the fun is magic.....then on to watching girl girl is off the scale .... such a turn on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching another guy pleasure your wife is such an amazing experience. For me the real kick is when the guy cums

Mr

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By *edditchCouple8077Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

We love this experience too,nothing better than look in to your Mrs eyes while she is pleasured by other.see that spark in her eyes.

We always do same room fun to see Each other falling in pleasure

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By *ortherner26Man
over a year ago

North East

Certainly close looking through your pics lol. Very hot.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

We enjoyed this when we lived in Bucks we used to have a party in different houses once a month

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By *inks_n_GigglesMan
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Its like watching the best porn movie with the sexiest porn star.

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By *E_13Couple
over a year ago

Burton on trent

Agreed

We love this too, it's so hot seeing her enjoy herself with another guy. Very hard to get your head around at first but it is a huge turn on

We have really missed our naughtiness since lockdown...

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By *own and countryCouple
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As well as meeting couples, we love the hotwife thing. Watching Steph enjoy another guy is such a thrill but I can't explain why. I'd have been so jealous when younger, but now it feels like a carnal desire that we can't tame. And we both love it.

The meet, the small talk, followed by the inevitable kissing which ultimately leads to full on fucking whilst I listen and observe through a crack in the door. Simply mind-blowing - almost like a drug.

The sex between us from the minute he leaves is amazing for the next week!

What are other couple's views on this? "
From the planning stages, right through to seeing and hearing the wife have full sex is one huge turn on. Watching as a guy kisses, touches and slowly undresses her is an amazing build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to play online for now pm me if interested xx

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

That moment when she shows she wants him

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We've only done mfm where hubby gets involved too but I like the idea of him just watching. I'm not sure if he would be able to not be involved though

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By *lackxroseCouple
over a year ago

Toddington/Chalton

We have spoke about this a few times. Can’t wait to try it out.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Agree with the earlier posts. From the planning on all the way through is just so hot.

It's such a turn on, but since both of us get so much fun out of it. It's a win win situation for us.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

Yes agree from the first contact right through to the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh what a great thread. You are in your mid 40s and both in the prime of your lives OP. Hopefully we will all get to enjoy this again sometime but in the meantime I have lots of happy memories running around in my head.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I just love watching her fuck a guy but I'm not sure that I know which is the best bit. I love all of the bits.

I love kissing her while she is being fucked, and another highlight is seeing his cock slide in for the first thrust.

I can also relate to the going for a glass of wine thing as someone mentioned earlier. Sometimes when I know she is ok I will just leave them to it then pop back later to watch again.

Quite a few times in a club I will leave her fucking one guy and return to find her fucking another.

I wish this virus would fuck off I'm really missing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. Loved watching another cock in her pussy and she loved watching me fuck another lady.

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By *layawaydaysMan
over a year ago

sheffield

From the build up planning the meet, the first look, the first kiss then seeing the glint in her eye when the clothes come off and how hard he is for her, all mind blowing, and then the sex afterwards, all amazing feelings

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By *ugardadcleanerMan
over a year ago

cirencester

Great thread. Works both way for us. I love watching guys hit on her. Social chat a peck on cheek the hidden touching. Her humiliation as she explains her need and my participation

The capture. The drive home with them in back. Him fucking her almost secondary but I adore sloppy and cleaning. Hope lockdown over soon.

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By *xploring GentlyMan
over a year ago

bath

I've asked the guy to be gentle easing in to her. I position myself in front of her. Our eyes are locked in to each other. The look on her face, her bright blue eyes sparkling as his cock slides in to her. I kiss her firmly and tell her i love her. As he picks up his pace a little she Crawls her self down my body in order to spitroast herself. Watching her trying to focus on sucking me, panting and moaning is so hot.

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By *icknBrainCouple
over a year ago

Hyde

We love playing like this.....everyone gets to be fully satisfied

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Love it spunky punk

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over a year ago

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By *xploring GentlyMan
over a year ago

bath

And yes our lovemaking for days after has a shot in the arm. Mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be the one in a wife ??

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I've asked the guy to be gentle easing in to her. I position myself in front of her. Our eyes are locked in to each other. The look on her face, her bright blue eyes sparkling as his cock slides in to her. I kiss her firmly and tell her i love her. As he picks up his pace a little she Crawls her self down my body in order to spitroast herself. Watching her trying to focus on sucking me, panting and moaning is so hot."

Well piut - one of the things i realise when playing with couples is that the lady often likes to put on a performance for her partner...looking at her husband when she is sucking me off - or when we are fucking...one lady i know tells me she gets to be a pornstar for her husband...

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By *eekandHippyChickCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

For us it's the build up as well. Waiting for that knock on the door. Greeting them, sitting down chatting over a few glasses of wine. Letting the anticipation build.

Then giving her the nod, as that's what my lady has requested from me. Her then joining him on the other sofa. Watching her flirt. Heart pounding in my chest and so turned on. That first kiss...

Watching it all developing infront of me.

I love showing her off and it's done amazing things for her self confidence.

We just love all of it.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Its so nice to share

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

The look on her face as another guy is going in her and the fact she looks as though there's only him and her there as she enjoys it so much

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By *icknBrainCouple
over a year ago

Hyde

The last time we went to a club it was very quiet so we went down to a private room and we had a bit of a play. I then decided I wanted a drink. I left Lizzie in the room and I went upstairs. Lizzie didn't know but I had had arranged for a guy we knew (and spoke about in our fantasy plays) to be there. I told him Lizzie was downstairs and he should go and join her. I left them for about 10 minutes and then I crept down the stairs and was watching them through the door that was slightly ajar. It was horny watching Lizzie get fucked. I watched for about 20 minutes then I joined them. It was one of the horniest plays we've had.! It will be repeated !

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh


"As well as meeting couples, we love the hotwife thing. Watching Steph enjoy another guy is such a thrill but I can't explain why. I'd have been so jealous when younger, but now it feels like a carnal desire that we can't tame. And we both love it.

The meet, the small talk, followed by the inevitable kissing which ultimately leads to full on fucking whilst I listen and observe through a crack in the door. Simply mind-blowing - almost like a drug.

The sex between us from the minute he leaves is amazing for the next week!

What are other couple's views on this? "
We have the exact same thoughts as you and the same activities. Its mind blowing.

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

Love watching the mrs take next cock I know how they feel !!!amazing love the look on her face !!! Cum dripping down her face yes yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a female parner not legal wife..basically it felt good that she was able to express her sexuality and feel comfortable knowing I wouldnt be jealous or our relationship undermined . Having a threesone and her enjoying two cocks felt extremely loving.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'm going to give two responses to this because it fascinates me. The first one is for the anoraks (and I say that self-deprecatingly, in the full knowledge that I am one) and the second one is more like the ones already posted, how I actually feel when sharing.

If you've read up on sperm competition then it's not worth reading any further, but if you haven't, you may find it interesting.

But the basic idea is that men are programmed to become extremely aroused, far more so than normally, if they witness another guy fucking their partner, or even if they just think it might be happening. This stems from the fact that we are all on earth to pass on our genes.

You may think that a more logical response would be to feel jealous, for that to turn into anger, so that you go and beat the crap out of the guy shagging your missus.

But there are two flaws with that plan: if he has already done the deed, then even if you kill him, your missus may end up carrying his child, thereby preventing your genes being propagated for the foreseeable future; unless you are built like a brick sh*t-house and have the fighting skills of Tyson Fury, it may be you who ends up on the wrong side of a hiding, thereby bringing a sudden end to your blood-line.

Mother Nature has evolved us over the ~ 3 million years we've been on earth to do something different, given that back then, there were no laws concerning consensual sex. So, if you were Joe Average caveman then you would very often lose out to bigger, stronger, fitter males. For that reason, men are programmed to get their biggest boners and to produce their biggest loads of spunk and their most powerful ejaculations if they believe that Mrs Caveman is getting it elsewhere. That's what sperm competition is, you're literally going in for sloppy seconds in the hope that your super-charged sperm will beat his in the race to impregnate your wife. The orgasms for this reason are far more intense and the feelings of sexual desire are heightened all in a bid to achieve this aim. It's one of natures cruelest ironies, that men will feel really jealous but also really aroused, if they think or know that their partner is having sex with someone else, and that combination gives a sexual high like no other. Check out a video called "Hotwifing - Information for couples" on a well known porn site that starts with x and ends with the name of a cute rodent for more on this.

Another little adaptation (apparently) is the knob. By evolutionary design, we have knobs because they make our cocks work a bit like sink plungers (there's a nice analogy for any ladies reading this ) so they literally suck the other guy's spunk out as we thrust away. That, followed by the really powerful ejaculation, is supposed to mean that even though we've gone in second, our sperm stand a fighting chance of competing with his.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Now for the less scientific response

I love the cocktail of feelings I get, a mixture of jealousy and heart-pounding arousal.

I love seeing the lust in the other guy's face, and the desire in Mrs H, but also the look that says 'I feel like such a slut doing this, but I can't help myself, I want his cock so bad )

I love all the build up, the preparation, seeing her excitement building, choosing her clothes to arouse and titillate, trimming her pussy to look its best.

I love watching her snogging the other guy, his hands wandering all over her body, up her dress, the look of delight on his face when he encounters stocking tops, or skimpy panties, or even better, no panties and a very wet and aroused pussy.

I love it when she teases me, looks me in the eye and says things: "ooooohhh, he's got a lovely big bulge in his trousers, I must investigate this" or sometimes she'll ask me questions "Do you like watching his big thick cock thrusting in and out of my wet cunt?"

I love seeing her having big cums because the whole scenario is so horny for her, and enjoying her sexual pleasure.

I love the sheer naughtiness it bring out in her, she'll beckon me over so that she can suck both cocks, or she'll ask me to come and fuck her straight after the other guy has cum.

I love holding her hand, or snogging her, or kissing her tits, as the other guy fucks her hard ... it's the contrast between a tender, loving act and a good lusty pounding, I think.

I love reliving it all afterwards, talking about it, reclaim sex, using it to make our own sex life better.

I always used to think that having a couple of women at the same time would be the ultimate thrill, don't get me wrong, it is enjoyable. But for its ability to arouse, sharing with another guy is simply the best!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I'm going to give two responses to this because it fascinates me. The first one is for the anoraks (and I say that self-deprecatingly, in the full knowledge that I am one) and the second one is more like the ones already posted, how I actually feel when sharing.

If you've read up on sperm competition then it's not worth reading any further, but if you haven't, you may find it interesting.

But the basic idea is that men are programmed to become extremely aroused, far more so than normally, if they witness another guy fucking their partner, or even if they just think it might be happening. This stems from the fact that we are all on earth to pass on our genes.

You may think that a more logical response would be to feel jealous, for that to turn into anger, so that you go and beat the crap out of the guy shagging your missus.

But there are two flaws with that plan: if he has already done the deed, then even if you kill him, your missus may end up carrying his child, thereby preventing your genes being propagated for the foreseeable future; unless you are built like a brick sh*t-house and have the fighting skills of Tyson Fury, it may be you who ends up on the wrong side of a hiding, thereby bringing a sudden end to your blood-line.

Mother Nature has evolved us over the ~ 3 million years we've been on earth to do something different, given that back then, there were no laws concerning consensual sex. So, if you were Joe Average caveman then you would very often lose out to bigger, stronger, fitter males. For that reason, men are programmed to get their biggest boners and to produce their biggest loads of spunk and their most powerful ejaculations if they believe that Mrs Caveman is getting it elsewhere. That's what sperm competition is, you're literally going in for sloppy seconds in the hope that your super-charged sperm will beat his in the race to impregnate your wife. The orgasms for this reason are far more intense and the feelings of sexual desire are heightened all in a bid to achieve this aim. It's one of natures cruelest ironies, that men will feel really jealous but also really aroused, if they think or know that their partner is having sex with someone else, and that combination gives a sexual high like no other. Check out a video called "Hotwifing - Information for couples" on a well known porn site that starts with x and ends with the name of a cute rodent for more on this.

Another little adaptation (apparently) is the knob. By evolutionary design, we have knobs because they make our cocks work a bit like sink plungers (there's a nice analogy for any ladies reading this ) so they literally suck the other guy's spunk out as we thrust away. That, followed by the really powerful ejaculation, is supposed to mean that even though we've gone in second, our sperm stand a fighting chance of competing with his.

"

Thats really interesting....i knew about “sperm competition” - and hence why husbands get extra horny when other man are fucking their wives...but didnt realise that men’s cock was designed to scoop out the others guys come....thats a new one to me

Though I am single, and joining a couple - after playing with the wife, i enjoy watching hubby fuck his lady....and find it an immense turn on and want to have a second go when he has finished..as you said it’s all evolutionary...

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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife

What do you like best about watching your wife?

...

...

I especially like watching the miserable fucker she's married to now

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Now for the less scientific response

I love the cocktail of feelings I get, a mixture of jealousy and heart-pounding arousal.

I love seeing the lust in the other guy's face, and the desire in Mrs H, but also the look that says 'I feel like such a slut doing this, but I can't help myself, I want his cock so bad )

I love all the build up, the preparation, seeing her excitement building, choosing her clothes to arouse and titillate, trimming her pussy to look its best.

I love watching her snogging the other guy, his hands wandering all over her body, up her dress, the look of delight on his face when he encounters stocking tops, or skimpy panties, or even better, no panties and a very wet and aroused pussy.

I love it when she teases me, looks me in the eye and says things: "ooooohhh, he's got a lovely big bulge in his trousers, I must investigate this" or sometimes she'll ask me questions "Do you like watching his big thick cock thrusting in and out of my wet cunt?"

I love seeing her having big cums because the whole scenario is so horny for her, and enjoying her sexual pleasure.

I love the sheer naughtiness it bring out in her, she'll beckon me over so that she can suck both cocks, or she'll ask me to come and fuck her straight after the other guy has cum.

I love holding her hand, or snogging her, or kissing her tits, as the other guy fucks her hard ... it's the contrast between a tender, loving act and a good lusty pounding, I think.

I love reliving it all afterwards, talking about it, reclaim sex, using it to make our own sex life better.

I always used to think that having a couple of women at the same time would be the ultimate thrill, don't get me wrong, it is enjoyable. But for its ability to arouse, sharing with another guy is simply the best! "

Love teh way you describe this - also love teh verbal play of your wife...that is very, every erotic...

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I'm going to give two responses to this because it fascinates me. The first one is for the anoraks (and I say that self-deprecatingly, in the full knowledge that I am one) and the second one is more like the ones already posted, how I actually feel when sharing.

If you've read up on sperm competition then it's not worth reading any further, but if you haven't, you may find it interesting.

But the basic idea is that men are programmed to become extremely aroused, far more so than normally, if they witness another guy fucking their partner, or even if they just think it might be happening. This stems from the fact that we are all on earth to pass on our genes.

You may think that a more logical response would be to feel jealous, for that to turn into anger, so that you go and beat the crap out of the guy shagging your missus.

But there are two flaws with that plan: if he has already done the deed, then even if you kill him, your missus may end up carrying his child, thereby preventing your genes being propagated for the foreseeable future; unless you are built like a brick sh*t-house and have the fighting skills of Tyson Fury, it may be you who ends up on the wrong side of a hiding, thereby bringing a sudden end to your blood-line.

Mother Nature has evolved us over the ~ 3 million years we've been on earth to do something different, given that back then, there were no laws concerning consensual sex. So, if you were Joe Average caveman then you would very often lose out to bigger, stronger, fitter males. For that reason, men are programmed to get their biggest boners and to produce their biggest loads of spunk and their most powerful ejaculations if they believe that Mrs Caveman is getting it elsewhere. That's what sperm competition is, you're literally going in for sloppy seconds in the hope that your super-charged sperm will beat his in the race to impregnate your wife. The orgasms for this reason are far more intense and the feelings of sexual desire are heightened all in a bid to achieve this aim. It's one of natures cruelest ironies, that men will feel really jealous but also really aroused, if they think or know that their partner is having sex with someone else, and that combination gives a sexual high like no other. Check out a video called "Hotwifing - Information for couples" on a well known porn site that starts with x and ends with the name of a cute rodent for more on this.

Another little adaptation (apparently) is the knob. By evolutionary design, we have knobs because they make our cocks work a bit like sink plungers (there's a nice analogy for any ladies reading this ) so they literally suck the other guy's spunk out as we thrust away. That, followed by the really powerful ejaculation, is supposed to mean that even though we've gone in second, our sperm stand a fighting chance of competing with his.

Thats really interesting....i knew about “sperm competition” - and hence why husbands get extra horny when other man are fucking their wives...but didnt realise that men’s cock was designed to scoop out the others guys come....thats a new one to me

Though I am single, and joining a couple - after playing with the wife, i enjoy watching hubby fuck his lady....and find it an immense turn on and want to have a second go when he has finished..as you said it’s all evolutionary..."

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Sperm wars is a fascinating subject I agree. Both me and my husband understand the theory and one of the reasons I play alone is in order to arouse him way way in excess of a normal response. He loves getting me back used and off course I get double pleasure. 1-1 with a lover and an ever grateful horny husband afterwards seeking to prove his manhood. Win Win xx

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I'm going to give two responses to this because it fascinates me. The first one is for the anoraks (and I say that self-deprecatingly, in the full knowledge that I am one) and the second one is more like the ones already posted, how I actually feel when sharing.

If you've read up on sperm competition then it's not worth reading any further, but if you haven't, you may find it interesting.

But the basic idea is that men are programmed to become extremely aroused, far more so than normally, if they witness another guy fucking their partner, or even if they just think it might be happening. This stems from the fact that we are all on earth to pass on our genes.

You may think that a more logical response would be to feel jealous, for that to turn into anger, so that you go and beat the crap out of the guy shagging your missus.

But there are two flaws with that plan: if he has already done the deed, then even if you kill him, your missus may end up carrying his child, thereby preventing your genes being propagated for the foreseeable future; unless you are built like a brick sh*t-house and have the fighting skills of Tyson Fury, it may be you who ends up on the wrong side of a hiding, thereby bringing a sudden end to your blood-line.

Mother Nature has evolved us over the ~ 3 million years we've been on earth to do something different, given that back then, there were no laws concerning consensual sex. So, if you were Joe Average caveman then you would very often lose out to bigger, stronger, fitter males. For that reason, men are programmed to get their biggest boners and to produce their biggest loads of spunk and their most powerful ejaculations if they believe that Mrs Caveman is getting it elsewhere. That's what sperm competition is, you're literally going in for sloppy seconds in the hope that your super-charged sperm will beat his in the race to impregnate your wife. The orgasms for this reason are far more intense and the feelings of sexual desire are heightened all in a bid to achieve this aim. It's one of natures cruelest ironies, that men will feel really jealous but also really aroused, if they think or know that their partner is having sex with someone else, and that combination gives a sexual high like no other. Check out a video called "Hotwifing - Information for couples" on a well known porn site that starts with x and ends with the name of a cute rodent for more on this.

Another little adaptation (apparently) is the knob. By evolutionary design, we have knobs because they make our cocks work a bit like sink plungers (there's a nice analogy for any ladies reading this ) so they literally suck the other guy's spunk out as we thrust away. That, followed by the really powerful ejaculation, is supposed to mean that even though we've gone in second, our sperm stand a fighting chance of competing with his.

Thats really interesting....i knew about “sperm competition” - and hence why husbands get extra horny when other man are fucking their wives...but didnt realise that men’s cock was designed to scoop out the others guys come....thats a new one to me

Though I am single, and joining a couple - after playing with the wife, i enjoy watching hubby fuck his lady....and find it an immense turn on and want to have a second go when he has finished..as you said it’s all evolutionary...

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Sperm wars is a fascinating subject I agree. Both me and my husband understand the theory and one of the reasons I play alone is in order to arouse him way way in excess of a normal response. He loves getting me back used and off course I get double pleasure. 1-1 with a lover and an ever grateful horny husband afterwards seeking to prove his manhood. Win Win xx

"

Glad your husband gets extra horny after you play with a lover...in a way, thats the reason I get extra kink by playing with a married lady. theoretically, there should be no difference between sex with a single lady and that with a married wife.

But the erotic buzz from the later is immense - related no doubt to that “sperm competition”- the idea that i am playing with a married lady gets me extra horny - Again, the caveman brain kicking in

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over a year ago

This is our scene completely. Hubby loves to watch me with another guy and join in too.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

What I'd love to also hear about on this thread is the women's point of view. How does it feel to be shared? I'm hoping you do it for your own pleasure as much as for hubby's, but it would be great to hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only i had one, and one that is into swinging

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By *bbott24Couple
over a year ago

Devizes

The build up from getting ready to going to the meet handing her to the guy or guys and finally watching the action, also watching her go from nervous to totally relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much to Misha’s surprise she isn’t as opposed to this as she’d previously thought and it’s been really hot whenever she’s gone solo. We like the solo social where she has free reign to do whatever she wants if she likes the guy or girl but in a limited timeframe so we can still enjoy each other when she gets home. So hot!

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh


"What I'd love to also hear about on this thread is the women's point of view. How does it feel to be shared? I'm hoping you do it for your own pleasure as much as for hubby's, but it would be great to hear."
Female here I totally enjoy it. The last time I had a meet I had to change my underwear before going in as I was absolutely soaking. The sex with hubby afterwards is always amazing.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"What I'd love to also hear about on this thread is the women's point of view. How does it feel to be shared? I'm hoping you do it for your own pleasure as much as for hubby's, but it would be great to hear. Female here I totally enjoy it. The last time I had a meet I had to change my underwear before going in as I was absolutely soaking. The sex with hubby afterwards is always amazing. "

That's what I hoped I'd be hearing, it's great to hear how aroused it makes you feel, that's been my experience too. But I've spoken to guys who have said their wives get angry, or sad, that hubby has mooted the idea of sharing. I suspect it's easy to misinterpret it as hubby doesn't care, when it's really not that at all xx

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

Yes its something which arouses both of us and which we throughly enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are fairly new to it and we have not made it to him being in the room with me yet but I’ve played alone and then shared all the details or films with him. He often waits outside to drive me home and needs to know all the details - best foreplay ever !

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By *r--Mrs-SmithCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Not something we initially signed up for but both love it now (pre covid of course)

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By *andc1972Couple
over a year ago

Northants

Love the cum filled pussy she's left with afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this is a great thread.. wish I was pleasuring a wife for her hubby.. any takers?

I once gave a man a bj in toilet he recorded me and showed his Mrs in the pub when we came out.. that was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex used to love me to fuck other guys. He said it was almost like the men were honoured to fuck me. But it made the sex amazing and I found myself putting extra effort into fucking the guys because it really turned him on

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"What I'd love to also hear about on this thread is the women's point of view. How does it feel to be shared? I'm hoping you do it for your own pleasure as much as for hubby's, but it would be great to hear."

For me it's the excitement of having sex with a complete stranger and someone I'm unlikely to see again. I enjoy the build up.....putting on some sexy underwear and a casual outfit that reveals a little flesh and a dash of make up. We always meet guys at a local pub and I never forget the nervous energy which eases as I have a glass of wine and we start getting to know each other.

As we chat, I will get sidetracked and fantasise about the 3 of us in bed and me being fucked by a man I've just met. I start to feel aroused and become a bit flirty and discretely undo a button on my shirt showing my bra.

When we get home, Paul will take a backseat so and my new friend and I can get aqaited. Slow kisses and letting him undress me before we all go to bed for sex. I generally have more intense orgasms when we have threesomes as I enjoy the stranger scenario. As others have said, Paul will fuck me last which is the best sex we have.

This went on slightly longer than expected but wanted to share my thought process when we meet guys.

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By *raleebiMan
over a year ago

tralee


"What I'd love to also hear about on this thread is the women's point of view. How does it feel to be shared? I'm hoping you do it for your own pleasure as much as for hubby's, but it would be great to hear.

For me it's the excitement of having sex with a complete stranger and someone I'm unlikely to see again. I enjoy the build up.....putting on some sexy underwear and a casual outfit that reveals a little flesh and a dash of make up. We always meet guys at a local pub and I never forget the nervous energy which eases as I have a glass of wine and we start getting to know each other.

As we chat, I will get sidetracked and fantasise about the 3 of us in bed and me being fucked by a man I've just met. I start to feel aroused and become a bit flirty and discretely undo a button on my shirt showing my bra.

When we get home, Paul will take a backseat so and my new friend and I can get aqaited. Slow kisses and letting him undress me before we all go to bed for sex. I generally have more intense orgasms when we have threesomes as I enjoy the stranger scenario. As others have said, Paul will fuck me last which is the best sex we have.

This went on slightly longer than expected but wanted to share my thought process when we meet guys. "

Love your feelings towards its very hot to hear and love the hubby is the last shows yer love sound like a fab couple

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Now for the less scientific response

I love the cocktail of feelings I get, a mixture of jealousy and heart-pounding arousal.

I love seeing the lust in the other guy's face, and the desire in Mrs H, but also the look that says 'I feel like such a slut doing this, but I can't help myself, I want his cock so bad )

I love all the build up, the preparation, seeing her excitement building, choosing her clothes to arouse and titillate, trimming her pussy to look its best.

I love watching her snogging the other guy, his hands wandering all over her body, up her dress, the look of delight on his face when he encounters stocking tops, or skimpy panties, or even better, no panties and a very wet and aroused pussy.

I love it when she teases me, looks me in the eye and says things: "ooooohhh, he's got a lovely big bulge in his trousers, I must investigate this" or sometimes she'll ask me questions "Do you like watching his big thick cock thrusting in and out of my wet cunt?"

I love seeing her having big cums because the whole scenario is so horny for her, and enjoying her sexual pleasure.

I love the sheer naughtiness it bring out in her, she'll beckon me over so that she can suck both cocks, or she'll ask me to come and fuck her straight after the other guy has cum.

I love holding her hand, or snogging her, or kissing her tits, as the other guy fucks her hard ... it's the contrast between a tender, loving act and a good lusty pounding, I think.

I love reliving it all afterwards, talking about it, reclaim sex, using it to make our own sex life better.

I always used to think that having a couple of women at the same time would be the ultimate thrill, don't get me wrong, it is enjoyable. But for its ability to arouse, sharing with another guy is simply the best! "

Perfect.

My feelings exactly.

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

It's the looks of Nervousness, excitement and pleasure in both our faces from the first message to the first meet and then the sex. We both love watching each other and seen the cheeky grin, the horny eyes , the wink of approval, the moans of pleasure and then the amazing sex we have afterwards.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

The lust and enjoyment in her eyes and hearing her groaning as she takes his full length of penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As well as meeting couples, we love the hotwife thing. Watching Steph enjoy another guy is such a thrill but I can't explain why. I'd have been so jealous when younger, but now it feels like a carnal desire that we can't tame. And we both love it.

The meet, the small talk, followed by the inevitable kissing which ultimately leads to full on fucking whilst I listen and observe through a crack in the door. Simply mind-blowing - almost like a drug.

The sex between us from the minute he leaves is amazing for the next week!

What are other couple's views on this? "

Our fav thing to do! Such a turn on for both of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also love this the whole stagnvixen hotwife is a huge turn in for us both and have now found hothusbanding equally a turn on x

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By *ullman1Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I find it such a turn on to play with wives as their husbands watch and/or join in. It is important for me that they both enjoy it.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

We love hotwife meets. We prefer for myself to meet in hotels. I then send regular updates to my husband in the way of pictures and videos and maybe calling him so he can hear us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love the stag-vixen lifestyle O the flirting and teasing and attracting the attention of men (and occasionally women) and as the writer said previously the orgasms are so more intense immediately after and for a period of time after seeing her with another man...its a total mixture of emotions from competitive lust probably from the so worded sperms wars, jealousy, pride and so much more. Its hard to put into words. Just can't keep away from the scene, a case of once bitten definitely not twice shy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree love the stagnvixen hotwife lifestyle the build up to the meet the texts during the call after and then the mind blowing sex and lustful filthy cravings for a few weeks after..

Definitely addictive xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We discovered how much we loved this at parties and have since enjoyed watching each other on many occasions. Even better with couples where you can take turns. After all someone has to pour the wine..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s us , our fav kink x

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By *cac9186Couple
over a year ago

london

Love watching the mrs fucking and sucking other man I know what they getting something very special !!

Just turns me on love when a man controls her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this is my favourite kink love watching Leanne enjoying herself and have took videos at many meets in the past and they still give me an instant stiffy when I need a wank lol. Just the thought of her getting off to other guys messages drives me mad such a turn on when I've got home and she tells me shes cammed another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love this

Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"love this

Px "

Hot right??

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By *reestylingWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I'm going to give two responses to this because it fascinates me. The first one is for the anoraks (and I say that self-deprecatingly, in the full knowledge that I am one) and the second one is more like the ones already posted, how I actually feel when sharing.

If you've read up on sperm competition then it's not worth reading any further, but if you haven't, you may find it interesting.

But the basic idea is that men are programmed to become extremely aroused, far more so than normally, if they witness another guy fucking their partner, or even if they just think it might be happening. This stems from the fact that we are all on earth to pass on our genes.

You may think that a more logical response would be to feel jealous, for that to turn into anger, so that you go and beat the crap out of the guy shagging your missus.

But there are two flaws with that plan: if he has already done the deed, then even if you kill him, your missus may end up carrying his child, thereby preventing your genes being propagated for the foreseeable future; unless you are built like a brick sh*t-house and have the fighting skills of Tyson Fury, it may be you who ends up on the wrong side of a hiding, thereby bringing a sudden end to your blood-line.

Mother Nature has evolved us over the ~ 3 million years we've been on earth to do something different, given that back then, there were no laws concerning consensual sex. So, if you were Joe Average caveman then you would very often lose out to bigger, stronger, fitter males. For that reason, men are programmed to get their biggest boners and to produce their biggest loads of spunk and their most powerful ejaculations if they believe that Mrs Caveman is getting it elsewhere. That's what sperm competition is, you're literally going in for sloppy seconds in the hope that your super-charged sperm will beat his in the race to impregnate your wife. The orgasms for this reason are far more intense and the feelings of sexual desire are heightened all in a bid to achieve this aim. It's one of natures cruelest ironies, that men will feel really jealous but also really aroused, if they think or know that their partner is having sex with someone else, and that combination gives a sexual high like no other. Check out a video called "Hotwifing - Information for couples" on a well known porn site that starts with x and ends with the name of a cute rodent for more on this.

Another little adaptation (apparently) is the knob. By evolutionary design, we have knobs because they make our cocks work a bit like sink plungers (there's a nice analogy for any ladies reading this ) so they literally suck the other guy's spunk out as we thrust away. That, followed by the really powerful ejaculation, is supposed to mean that even though we've gone in second, our sperm stand a fighting chance of competing with his.

Thats really interesting....i knew about “sperm competition” - and hence why husbands get extra horny when other man are fucking their wives...but didnt realise that men’s cock was designed to scoop out the others guys come....thats a new one to me

Though I am single, and joining a couple - after playing with the wife, i enjoy watching hubby fuck his lady....and find it an immense turn on and want to have a second go when he has finished..as you said it’s all evolutionary...

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Sperm wars is a fascinating subject I agree. Both me and my husband understand the theory and one of the reasons I play alone is in order to arouse him way way in excess of a normal response. He loves getting me back used and off course I get double pleasure. 1-1 with a lover and an ever grateful horny husband afterwards seeking to prove his manhood. Win Win xx

Glad your husband gets extra horny after you play with a lover...in a way, thats the reason I get extra kink by playing with a married lady. theoretically, there should be no difference between sex with a single lady and that with a married wife.

But the erotic buzz from the later is immense - related no doubt to that “sperm competition”- the idea that i am playing with a married lady gets me extra horny - Again, the caveman brain kicking in"

Highly arousing for all three parties mmm

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