FabSwingers.com forum: Who mentioned playing with others first?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With us we had booked a weekend in Amsterdam and Mrs announced she would like a threesome with another woman while we were there. Thats where it started for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both had dabbled previously so honestly can’t remember but probably Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me... I wanted to play with another female

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Me... I wanted to play with another female

Same for me.......

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

For us, we had often talked about it as a fantasy. It was me (Mrs) who suggested actually doing it and luckily Mr jumped at the chance!

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

"With us we had booked a weekend in Amsterdam and Mrs announced she would like a threesome with another woman while we were there. Thats where it started for us x"

Very similar to us!

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

was me mr i want to see wife with other men

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By *orkizCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Was me we had fantasized about another guy joining us then one day she said it's a girl that she wanted more that's how it started for us

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By *indy777Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Can’t remember, Think alcohol might have been involved!??

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We startes off fantasising in bed. Then we moved to webcam years ago in the days of yahoo chat. I (Mrs N) liked to show off boobs while hubby watched the guys reactions. Now we enjoy cuckold play x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Mr.

Always wanted to see us having sex live from the third person but that's impossible so watching her play is as good as it gets. Just love watching her and notice things she does like her toes curling which I could never, ever see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met each other at a swinging party so we just continued 20 yrs on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty as charged - Priya xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested it once to my Mrs, she threatened me with divorce, so now I'm here alone! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t remember, Think alcohol might have been involved!??"

Or maybe because you have an amazing body that should be enjoyed by everyone ??

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Both of us really, I told him I wanted to be with another women and he said we should try it and join here! X

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By *r and Mrs minionCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Mr M has done it before in a previous relationship. I've been with another female recently but not yet another male

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I did! I’m a naughty naughty girl

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I suggested we joined. Mr knew I was bi fron the moment he met me so this was a way we could both enjoy sex with another lady. Progressed to more than just mff nowadays, and loving it.

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Female half had threesomes various times in her life ,was on a beach she had few drinks and said she would like us to try swinging

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'd done it in a previous relationship, so the suggestion came from me.

She tried it a couple of times, but wasn't for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing Eve,right after she had Adam eat the apple

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

It was trying here or playing separate ,we both didnt fancy that ,we play and work well together ..

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We were in a club by complete accident , not swingers ourselves just drinking and got chatting to a few people at the bar. We both got quite hammered and then I suggested we approach a particular hot girl together and invite her to a private room upstairs , the rest is history !

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Both of us had an open book night after 10+ years of marriage (stone cold sober). Both had similar fantasies that we'd never really explored. And here we are!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had mentioned swinging to my ex over many years but he was against it. When we split i took myself off to a swingers club and have never looked back

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

It was me, I said to hubby I had some fun with a work colleague (female) whilst on a works conference so he was straight in the internet searching for single gems lol

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Joint decision, arrived at by our adventurousness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr, with some persuading!!!! to visit a club (VA).

After being there 10mins Mrs turned to me and said "I absolutely love this place"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O as she knew ide been swinging before as we had discussed previous relationships we both had. She asked if i enjoyed it. Then wanted to see it for herself and discover what clubs where like..the rest is history now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Mr (me) mentioned it first. The Mrs Didn’t take much convincing, to be honest;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good lady wanted to go to a club for the experience and to see what it was like, I wasn’t so keen to go.

But we went to HU9 and that’s where our journey began, just starting our journey together an along comes lockdown, can’t wait for restrictions to be lifted so we can get back out there.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Mrs took me to a camping site with a swingers club utopia near Scarborough, sadly closed down a few years ago. Didn't look back since then

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Way back in the swinging sixties it was keys in the fruit bowl parties. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him - always wanted an open relationship with group fun.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

It was my hubby's idea I kept saying no till I said yes!

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"We were in a club by complete accident"

OK, I have to ask. How do you end up in a club by accident?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my hands up, it was I, Rick !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was my hubby's idea I kept saying no till I said yes!

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Similar to us

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Wife wanted to have sex with another woman once that was done it went from there form discussion to meeting took around 8 months

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Not too sure. P is bi and was with another girl for a year when we met, so one Christmas I asked if she missed being with a girl. Fast forward to Easter and the truth came out that 'we' had a verified profile on here. Oh, and none of the veris were from women.

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By *bbott24Man
over a year ago

Devizes

My idea but she didn't need much persuading. Now it's her driving the action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubbys idea. It took him 2 years to convince me. He doesn't want to meet but he likes me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr, took along time with lots of gentle persuasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) honestly can't remember who suggested it first, we both had a colourful past and have always been very open to share our fantasies and past experiences.

I could say it was him but he would possibly say it was me as I had the contact with the first person to join us

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By *ady and DjCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Dj had a few before we got together, I played with females in the past. When I listened to his stories. They turned me on, then we had party with a few friends and it started from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby first mentioned that he would love to watch the wife with another man and wife first mentioned that she'd like to play with another fem.

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By *aynLexiCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater, Somerset

Met at the home of a female fuck buddy for both of us.

That we had met separately on fab

so was just s continuation

Lexi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many great stories & similar starts too! A lot of adventurous people out there

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Adam and Eve and next person to arrive most likely....

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By *atex and KinkCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I'm guessing Eve,right after she had Adam eat the apple"
Snap!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"We were in a club by complete accident

OK, I have to ask. How do you end up in a club by accident?!"

So we just needed somewhere to drink and fuck each other as the kids were in. Googled & ended up at PM, had never heard of Fab or swinging before, thought it was something only our parents generation did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi but never told the wife. One day I just told her and she said she wanted to watch lol. That lasted about 60 seconds before she stripped and jumped on us both

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

He did, but I couldn't get my head round it for years.

Then something clicked, gained more confidence and decided to give it a try

Its certainly spiced things back up and I do feel so much more sexy these days

Jo x

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By *anda92Couple
over a year ago

Stoke d'abernon

We have never been jealous so one evening of a strip poker card game and the rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both bi and J suggested we attend a bi night at a club rather than poring over ads on swinging sites for suitable singles for individual play.

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By *andybigboiMan
over a year ago

Mount Pleasant

Both have played either way before we got together.

As we talked of fantasies and how to make them a reality. We got talking of we had done with previous sexual partners and how we can build on those experiences together.

She wanted to see me with another guy, and I wanted to see her with another lady, so she insisted I go first, which I did, rest is history now.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Mrs initiated our first ever threesome, away from here, many years ago with a male friend of ours.

Years later, Mr joined fab to re-explore but it's always a mutual decision as to when we play

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