FabSwingers.com forum: Desire to be submissive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apologies in advance as I'm sure this has been done to death before, but....

Over the past couple of years I've been having an increasing urge to explore my submissive side. I suppose it's all been pretty vanilla for me so far but now I'd like to explore a little.

There's an endless list of things I'd like to try and to be honest I feel like I'm missing out.

I suppose the big question is should it be baby steps to begin with, or jump in feet first and go for it?

P.s if anyone would like to assist......

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Baby steps I'd say because it can be pretty intense.

Go for it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Baby steps I'd say because it can be pretty intense.

Go for it

Baby steps doesn't sound as much fun though.

By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Baby steps I'd say because it can be pretty intense.

Go for it

Baby steps doesn't sound as much fun though."

Do your research and I second the baby steps. I was guilty of being a bit let's get into this I've been missing out. Went into a scene, subspaced followed by sub drop without fully understanding what was going on. And in all honesty it was a bit scary. In hindsight I would have taken things a bit slower, hope that helps

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Baby steps I'd say because it can be pretty intense.

Go for it

Baby steps doesn't sound as much fun though."

It's your decision of course. Whatever you decide I hope it's everything you thought it would be

By *witchRichMan
over a year ago

Southport

Take baby steps and more importantly find someone you trust. In a Sub/Dom relationship trust has to be high on the list