FabSwingers.com forum: Cruelest way someone ended a relationship with you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said she was seeing another girl....didnt even share the pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Via a facebook post announcing their new relationship a couple of weeks before xmas...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Via a facebook post announcing their new relationship a couple of weeks before xmas..."

Did you block her after?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Said she was seeing another girl....didnt even share the pics"

Did you guys remain friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Via a facebook post announcing their new relationship a couple of weeks before xmas...

Did you block her after?"

Nah we were back fucking each others brains out six months later...

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Valentines day - Was driving to Barnsley to meet the family and announce our engagement after a year. Got a text to say he was taking his new girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Many years ago a guy I was seeing came to see me on my birthday, gave me a gift and dumped me. Still can’t listen to Eurythmics without thinking of him! Also before he dumped me he sent his identical twin brother to take me on dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many years ago a guy I was seeing came to see me on my birthday, gave me a gift and dumped me. Still can’t listen to Eurythmics without thinking of him! Also before he dumped me he sent his identical twin brother to take me on dates

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?"

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was ghosted. The following year he told me he had had two other girlfriends. I had known about the random women, but not these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

That's awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18, he was a lot older. He was down my way with work Monday-Friday. After a 9 months of being together, he said that he was going to move permanently but needed to go back to sort his out etc.

The ‘etc’ was his wife I knew nothing about. Anyway, It’s been 10 years and I’m beginning to think he’s not coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him! "

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was seeing someone for a few months , Valentine’s Day , and I set up an indoor picnic in my front room , with flowers candles the lot , he turns up eats the food takes the gifts I got him , he went home sent me a text saying he was seeing someone else . The c@@t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revealed she was having an affair with a woman months after i took out loans to clear her £12k credit card debt.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Technically I ended it but I found out he had been cheating on me for 3 months with someone he met on Tinder (which I didn't know he had). This was after I agreed to a monogamous relationship a year prior because he couldn't hack the open relationship we originally entered into. He spent the next few months trying to convince me it was my fault he cheated, threatening me all sorts including suicide if I didn't take him back before I finally saw sense and cut all contact. He's still trying to contact me over 4 years later.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Just ghosted me, left loads of stuff at my house and just stopped speaking to me. He recently added me on facebook and asked me to meet up for a coffee, I kindly told him where to shove his coffee, he knows I don't even drink coffee.

We did have amazing sex though

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin! "

What were you doing then?!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

What were you doing then?!

Dating! Have you heard of that?! Nosey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

What were you doing then?!

Dating! Have you heard of that?! Nosey! "

Dating? Dating?! When was it the nineteen fifties? Was his name Richie Cunningham? Did he take you out to the hop for a malt and then to the drive in?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

What were you doing then?!

Dating! Have you heard of that?! Nosey!

Dating? Dating?! When was it the nineteen fifties? Was his name Richie Cunningham? Did he take you out to the hop for a malt and then to the drive in?!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

What were you doing then?!

Dating! Have you heard of that?! Nosey!

Dating? Dating?! When was it the nineteen fifties? Was his name Richie Cunningham? Did he take you out to the hop for a malt and then to the drive in?!

His name was Danny Zucco !! 1952 actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His twin brother! Could you tell them apart?

His brother seemed quieter but I didn’t know he wasn’t him!

Shouldve carried on shagging his twin. That would've turned the tables like

I wasn’t ‘shagging’ him...or his twin!

What were you doing then?!

Dating! Have you heard of that?! Nosey!

Dating? Dating?! When was it the nineteen fifties? Was his name Richie Cunningham? Did he take you out to the hop for a malt and then to the drive in?!

His name was Danny Zucco !! 1952 actually! "

Ha! I knew it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog...."

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street. "

No need for that is there. Jesus.

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

Kicked out of my own apartment and cheated on while I was away working for 48 hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street.

No need for that is there. Jesus."

I didn't have the strength to protect 3 children, so I had to divorce him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street.

No need for that is there. Jesus.

I didn't have the strength to protect 3 children, so I had to divorce him. "

That's fuckin rough mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Truely awful X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was very sly and kept saying to me 'please dont leave me'all the time.he told me he had been in bad relationships before.and in fact he was making plans to leave me. He had met this woman while i was with him. (she was with her then partner)when we had gone to see he's cousin. They was plenty flirting going on with them.he started meeting her and lying to me. When he left me he went to live with her. She had kicked out the guy who had been living with her that same day.my friends hated her and for a while she didnt dare come back with him to visit hes cousin.one thing i learned.being nice doesnt work in a relationship.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Kicked out of my own apartment "

What did you do in response?

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Some horror stories on here

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some horror stories on here

Yep it’s making me feel quite upset tonight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first serious girlfriend went on a date with another bloke to my brother's local a few days before my 21st birthday knowing he would see them there and that he would take great delight in telling me.

All seems a bit pointless, lookingvat some posts I've got off light

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Some horror stories on here

Yep it’s making me feel quite upset tonight....

I think that suicide one is the saddest.

I suppose if someone leaves you and they are an absolute #### about it,even though it hurts at the time,its better not having someone like that in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby came out black. She didn't need say anything else

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Baby came out black. She didn't need say anything else"

What did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Baby came out black. She didn't need say anything else

What did you do? "

Phoned Angelina joli and Brad Pitt. See if they wanted to adopt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeatedly by the same person. He's spun so many lies over the 2 years we have been seeing each other. Each time I went back. More fool me. Anyone know if amazon sell self respect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came home from work early one day to find my 8 month pregnant fiancée taking it doggy from my supposed best mate. The same one I’d been expressing my insecurities to because I felt something had changed in the relationship.

Had to wait for a DNA test. Luckily the child was mine. She’s 18 now and NOTHING like her mum.

Some people on here have had some rough stuff happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My first serious girlfriend went on a date with another bloke to my brother's local a few days before my 21st birthday knowing he would see them there and that he would take great delight in telling me.

All seems a bit pointless, lookingvat some posts I've got off light"

It caused pain at the time so it has its relevance in your life.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Wow so sorry

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Repeatedly by the same person. He's spun so many lies over the 2 years we have been seeing each other. Each time I went back. More fool me. Anyone know if amazon sell self respect? "

I've been there, one day you will realise you would be better off alone. It's hard but you'll get there.

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By *uses11Man
over a year ago

Derby

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By *uses11Man
over a year ago

Derby

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By *uses11Man
over a year ago

Derby

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

That is awful. I am so sorry to read this, sending best wishes and positive vibes. I cannot even imagine how you dealt with this.

I have lost friends to suicide and it is, imho, the hardest thing to get one's head around. I only hope you have found some way of dealing with it now

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By *eekibooMan
over a year ago

Northwest

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

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the ultimate selfish guy planned to try destroy you on his way out x

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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ghosted me..

Went out Saturday nite

.. Great nite for both of us. Went to his the Wednesday.. Film n chilled. Ghosted me. I still don't know.

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By *ikingCoolMan
over a year ago

carmarthen

While fucking her as she cum, she screamed out is name and said I can't wait to leave him and move in with you

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By *lackXealMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

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By *ock69erMan
over a year ago

Middle o’ Fife

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog....."

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Brilliant, in these dark days of coronavirus I love a story with a happy ending. You're a lucky man

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Someone I knew didn't how to end it and after a Saturday night at hers. Said he fancied a full English and she went out to get bacon and eggs from the shop. When she got back he was gone for good and he had left a message on her home phone saying it was over..

He is a twat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

the ultimate selfish guy planned to try destroy you on his way out x "

I don't see it like that.

I think he tried to save me by leaving me and trying to make me hate him, just didn't work obviously.

I phoned the police after he went really quiet after, I went with them when they kicked his door down and he was aleady dead.

Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street. "

Blimey hope all ok now x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Cowards aren’t worth the energy remembering if they don’t have the guts to tell you it’s over face to face.

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By *eekibooMan
over a year ago

Northwest

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

the ultimate selfish guy planned to try destroy you on his way out x

I don't see it like that.

I think he tried to save me by leaving me and trying to make me hate him, just didn't work obviously.

I phoned the police after he went really quiet after, I went with them when they kicked his door down and he was aleady dead.

Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy."
terrible situation to be in that was his choice but you will never forget it it must be very hard to move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think hitting me with her car sent a pretty clear message that she didn't like me anymore. It's a bit more complicated than that but that was when I knew it was over.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Thats awful and must have been so hard to deal with the different / conflicting emotions

I have a sad story but it’s nothing compared to that

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"I think hitting me with her car sent a pretty clear message that she didn't like me anymore. It's a bit more complicated than that but that was when I knew it was over."

Clear case of domestic bullying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him? "

Wow, you really can't see, he left saying hurtful things then kills himself ! He was clearly in pain and just lashing out. You make it sound as if he killed himself just to spite you. Is that really likely?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him? "

Ivy sorry you had a ridiculous thoughtless comment.

Sorry also you had such a difficult experience. Finding them after taking own life must have been difficult and upsetting

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him? "

I can’t imagine what that felt like. Please ignore anyone that’s trying to blame you xxx

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Ivy sorry you had a ridiculous thoughtless comment.

Sorry also you had such a difficult experience. Finding them after taking own life must have been difficult and upsetting "

Crazy situations make people do crazy shit, think fathers for justice ! I'm sure all the wives have sad stories they tell the new boyfriend and the other person is always the bad guy. I'm not casting aspersions towards ivy, none of us knows all the details, but someone doesn't kill them self just to spite someone else! And yes it's a very tragic situation but ivy has chosen to discuss it on an open forum.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely."

I'd suggest that you think very carefully about what you say to people, blaming someone for a suicide is awful.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely.

I'd suggest that you think very carefully about what you say to people, blaming someone for a suicide is awful. "

Totally agree. What a vile comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely."

People don't kill themselves because of something someone said. Don't be so ridiculous

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely.

I'd suggest that you think very carefully about what you say to people, blaming someone for a suicide is awful. "

No one is blaming ! I was trying to let her know he wasn't necessarily being hateful, that he was just hurt..... But I give up! Bring back the witches stool !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog....

What about how nasty people can be cos you ended the relationship?

I was a young mum of three, the youngest a baby in arms. He threatened that people would post petrol bombs through the letter box and beat me up in the street.

Blimey hope all ok now x"

He's 6ft down, all is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

Guess you hurt him bad!

Wow. What on earth makes you think it was me that hurt him?

Or is it a clear indication that there were deeper problems?

I'd suggest the later is more likely."

I would suggest you know fuck all about it!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok if things are too painful please don't share them on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My ex decided to move out when I was on a business trip.....

Came home to a empty apartment with just my clothes , PlayStation and couch.....

She took the bed all her belongings and the dog.....

The reason it was cruel was because she could have at least let me say goodbye to the dog...."

Left me raising a child on my own.. not sure if this qualifies lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok if things are too painful please don't share them on the forum"

I won't share how I broke my banjo then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Ex told me he had a serious cancerous Tumour in his back, but would never let me come support with him for “treatment” turns out “treatment” was another woman and family. I had no idea at all. Broke me, still a bit raw tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok if things are too painful please don't share them on the forum"

It was not too painful to share, I just should not be blamed/insulted for it on a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think hitting me with her car sent a pretty clear message that she didn't like me anymore. It's a bit more complicated than that but that was when I knew it was over.

Clear case of domestic bullying

She was crazy. Snapped one day and drove into me.

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

To date (and please Mrs do not take that as a hint), no one ever has!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came home one day from work to find my gf had left and took a lot of stuff with her that was mine including the satellite dish.

Ah well, " No Woman, No Sky " !

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Ok if things are too painful please don't share them on the forum

It was not too painful to share, I just should not be blamed/insulted for it on a thread

Were you aware of the state of his mental health at the time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

the ultimate selfish guy planned to try destroy you on his way out x

I don't see it like that.

I think he tried to save me by leaving me and trying to make me hate him, just didn't work obviously.

I phoned the police after he went really quiet after, I went with them when they kicked his door down and he was aleady dead.

Wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy."

I totally agree. He said those things to change your view point of him so not to hurt you as much. He would have already decided to take his own life and wanted to try and protect someone he most likely cared alot about.

I guess alot of people commenting havent been in the position of comtemplating suicide so do not understand it at all.

As for the person that said people do not kill themselves because of something someone says its completely incorrect. Any anti bullying charity will tell you there are alot of suicides due to bullying, mental abuse caused by things people say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Came home one day from work to find my gf had left and took a lot of stuff with her that was mine including the satellite dish.

Ah well, " No Woman, No Sky " ! "

I am so stealing that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He left me and said harsh things, then took his life days later.

He knew I would be the one to find him

I had an ex do something similar in my late 20s - it’s only now that I’m realising how much it impacted my life and changed my whole personality for all these years now. So many mixed emotions and such a horrible situation. If this was recently, I would definitely get counselling now if you haven’t already - it can absolutely eat you up. Wouldn’t wish it on anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a happier note - I broke up with someone once and his response was ‘ I didn’t realise we were actually ‘going out!’’

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Came home one day from work to find my gf had left and took a lot of stuff with her that was mine including the satellite dish.

Ah well, " No Woman, No Sky " ! "
fucking brilliant a nice way to change the mood this will make me grin all day thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Harshest break up I (Nat) had was just after I gave birth to my son, my husband said that he was in love with my best friend. Left me and my newborn, breaking up two marriages to be with her. He tried his very best to kick me out of my own home to move her in, when I wouldn't relent he took most of the furniture and left. Ended getting her knocked up as well.

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By *ogan42Man
over a year ago

Willington

Got a phone call to say it was over, paid for the hotel 5 star treatment and just stood at reception agog! Nice breakfast tho, another one was she turned up had a quick short to calm her nerves and say her ex was on the scene and we were done, fuck it, got d*unk and pulled a threesome with 2 women, not a bad ending thinking back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On a happier note - I broke up with someone once and his response was ‘ I didn’t realise we were actually ‘going out!’’

what a comeback but ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I begin? One went on holiday for a fortnight without me, let me take a day off work to drive to Manchester at an ungodly hour to pick her up from the airport, feigned jetlag when we got back to her place, then dumped me when I came back the following day, having arranged to cook a magnificent feast for her. On the up side, I dined like a king that night.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

Totally ghosted. We're to have a nice night in after 4 months of dating. Went had my hair done, nails sharpened, spent a few quid on honour and lovehoney. Wore a. New dress with hold ups and heels. Cooked a lovely meal and he never showed up

Sent texts, they were read but he didn't reply.

He seemed to have a great night out with his mates going by his snapchat timeline though

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By *ooBoo95Man
over a year ago

Leyland

Was in a 5-year relationship (longest relationship for me) living together for 2 of those years, saving up for a house together, loved her to bits.

Bit of info about me, if I am in a relationship with someone I am fully committed to that person, never cheated or bothered with other women.

One day I caught her messaging anther guy, she told him in great detail about a sex dream she had about him. One thing to have the dream, happens to everyone but to tell them when you are in a committed relationship, we slept in spare beds for a week after, weeks down the line we finally had saved up enough to afford a house together, came home from work she had packed my bags, kept the money sent me out the door, she shifted to another committed relationship in less than two weeks after splitting, bought a house with our money and she now has his child, they have been together just about 2 years now.

I feel I have recovered from this greatly not only mentally but in my own personal growth and I'm over it but it did fuck me up big time, I was in bits over this girl I thought I was going to marry, to be stabbed in the heart and back by someone you trust. Shit hurts, I had a hard time trusting anyone after that, not so bad now but I'm still cautious.

It made me who I am today though and is all part of lifes journey

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By *ooBoo95Man
over a year ago

Leyland

"My Ex told me he had a serious cancerous Tumour in his back, but would never let me come support with him for “treatment” turns out “treatment” was another woman and family. I had no idea at all. Broke me, still a bit raw tbh. "

Damn, bastard. I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was in a 5-year relationship (longest relationship for me) living together for 2 of those years, saving up for a house together, loved her to bits.

Bit of info about me, if I am in a relationship with someone I am fully committed to that person, never cheated or bothered with other women.

It made me who I am today though and is all part of lifes journey"

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