FabSwingers.com forum: Social or straight to fucking

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love to fuck a stranger

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By *ymguy1966Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social and then fucking, but same evening.

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

"Social and then fucking, but same evening."

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Social , social, social.... then let’s get down to business

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Always a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to outdoor fucking at our dogging site in the forest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be a social first to get the connection going . Then hopefully something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight to outdoor fucking at our dogging site in the forest"
no hanging about here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social for sure then hopefully the icing on the cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social First to see how it goes then hopefully leading to more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Done social first fucking at a later date.

Done social first and fucking om same night

Done straight to it

Done social first and told to naff off

Any but the last for me

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

Depends. If I’m meeting someone from the Internet, always a social first.

But a couple of my best memories of fucking are with strangers I met at clubs but never even exchanged names

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

Never done the platonic social only. I would like to meet knowing that if we really hit it off, we can hook up and not have to wait x

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Social first and then if all good arrange a time to fuck. I like the build up between the two dates, adds to the excitement x

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"Done social first fucking at a later date.

Done social first and fucking om same night

Done straight to it

Done social first and told to naff off

Any but the last for me

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Right now even the last option sounds quite appealing.

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

Done both and both just as good as the other in their own way

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

2 socials......just to make sure he’s right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most on the forums will say social but id say its around 50/50 off the forums as alot of swinger skip socials and go straight for the fucking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always like a social, always build a bit of a spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first, and we'll be looking for just that once we're all allowed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least one social, possibly two.

The effort would hopefully be worth it, because he would be in it for the long term and wouldn't have to phaff any more on here

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Always a social 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think with the right amount of pre chat and photos/ cam etc you can know if you want to play.

Wouldn’t wan to waste a sex opportunity by just a social

Social and then to play on the same meet as a final check then fine

Just love a physical meet

Had a social a while ago and we ended up fucking in my car in the pub car park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meets are strictly on terms of a social. How soon fucking commences depends on how well the social went..

My first two meets, long ago and not through fab, went incredibly well...

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

Social meet then fun meet

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Social first...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Drinks, social.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

"Love to fuck a stranger"

Yes there is something about fucking somebody that you know nothing about !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to fuck a stranger"

social?!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"most on the forums will say social but id say its around 50/50 off the forums as alot of swinger skip socials and go straight for the fucking"

We certainly do

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We don't have a set rule but we've not ever had just a social. I guess we put out pretty easily

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

How about a social and let’s see where we can go?

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By *exnPaul17Couple
over a year ago

Poole

We always say social for a first meet with no expectations of anything more. That way no dissapointment.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Social see if we get on few drinks and food and hopefully a laugh and see were it go’s from there

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By *reakyandcheekyCouple
over a year ago

derby

Social first and then down to the fucking if we all get on.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Bit of Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's a stranger until they have a hand down your pants.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Straight to fucking

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

"Social first and then if all good arrange a time to fuck. I like the build up between the two dates, adds to the excitement x"

This for us.........most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Social first and then if all good arrange a time to fuck. I like the build up between the two dates, adds to the excitement x

This for us.........most of the time

straight to fucking.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Social over drink/coffee ,then all happy to the room for some mutual pleasurable fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social... if it leads to more than great! - By a social I don't mean one drink! I mean dinner,drinks, maybe a bar for a little while etc....

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Social and then fucking, but same evening.

Same for us , not that it’s a given or even always happens , but if we like a couple enough to meet then hopefully we’ll end up getting it on, social for the sake of it - no.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Done both just depend on the vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah wait I think I misunderstood this chat. I thought it was one of those option x,y or z to the profile above.

I see now it was a genuine general question.

Social with chemistry and option of fucking. After all we are all here for the carnal pleasures

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Both! sometimes it's good to have a sit down and get to know each other over a drink or two, but on the other hand I like things like being blindfolded and a few guys enter the room and do what they want with me and other similar scenarios where total strangers have me. I like variety what more can I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials are preferred if not meeting someone in a swingers club situation. You can chat for months online and think you may get on with someone yet it can be a complete different kettle of fish when you meet face to face!

There HAS to be a real attraction

To want to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to fucking, might have a coffee first xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do social only so every meet is with a view to fucking

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Agreed with the previous comment, I do like social but it’s always with a few to getting down and dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with previous comments ,)

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By *zza3Man
over a year ago

manchester

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Social and then fucking, but same evening."

This

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Social there has to be chemistry between us

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By *exyfuncouple74Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Same for us - social then fucking same evening (or daytime!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same for us - social then fucking same evening (or daytime!) "

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I was having this conversation with someone yesterday - he said he's never had a social meet, doesn't see the point in them, and can tell from messaging whether he wants to fuck someone.

I couldn't disagree more! I always have a social meet first, with clear no expectation of play on the same day (it does happen when the chemistry is right, but it shouldn't be assumed). I enjoy a social - getting to know someone, the chemistry, feeling that spark...I also trust my instincts so if anything feels off or in any way uncomfortable it's a hard pass from me.

I'm not here looking for mediocre sex with a stranger - I'm looking for regular meet ups with someone who makes my fanny flutter just looking at them...you can't test that chemistry in a PM

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Straight to fucking. Don't really have the time to socialize with friends etc never mind anyone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was having this conversation with someone yesterday - he said he's never had a social meet, doesn't see the point in them, and can tell from messaging whether he wants to fuck someone.

I'm not here looking for mediocre sex with a stranger - I'm looking for regular meet ups with someone who makes my fanny flutter just looking at them...you can't test that chemistry in a PM

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yes I agree

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

We play almost entirely in clubs because I love to fuck strangers and get a real thrill from anonymous sex. No social is necessary, sometimes we don't even exchange names, and once I didn't even see his face.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Social as we need to feel we get on with the person, plus we enjoy the flirting and the build up.

We do fuck on the first meet if everyone is happy, and horny.

However, if a random single lady in a club wished to play with us, we could be extremely tempted to skip the drink and just fuck.

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