FabSwingers.com forum: I think my fella is bisexual but he hasn't confirmed

By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Bit of advise guys and girls I'm sure my partner is bisexual he likes pegging , he likes me to tell him story's about guys , and iv found some bisexual porn on the laptop , now i don't think it really bothers me , the idea of him and a guy kinda turns me on but only of hes bottom and not top , I'm quite open minded , but the thing I don't like or feel comfortable is the not knowing for sure what should I do ,should I confont him or just leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him you fancy meeting a bi guy and you want to watch him suck a guy off, and see what he says

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By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

He just says it's a fantasy all the time tried that before lol

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

We'd love to help guys figure this out

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By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Hey how are you lovley profile X

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Fantasy isn't always reality we fantasise about lots of things which we wouldn't necessarily carry out. He may just fantasise without the need to express those fantasies.

He may be worried about acting them out due to where they might end up, lots of people get confused about their sexuality and which box they fit into. Our sexuality is usually fluid if we let it roam but conditionings from society and our culture usually restricts what we would or would not do.

Enjoy what you have for now support him to feel comfortable with his likes or dislikes and don't push him let him find his own way on his journey of sexual awareness.

I started that journey a few years ago now and have realised that I love a mf bi couple interaction but wouldn't want to engage in a mm connection at all so I'm bi but only in certain circumstances with certain people.

I hope that helps OP.

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By *lippery when wet69Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Well according to your profile he is Bisexual never mind Bi Curious so I guess he is more than happy to suck cock for you to enjoy watching

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Guy posting

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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago

village life, closest main town inverness

"Confront" may be the wrong word as it may well just be fantasy for him

and then he might see it as you just not listening to him.

Just encourage him in the fantasy and dirty talk and just see where it leads lol

It's a huge fantasy of ours too but not acted on it here either,

should the opportunity arise on one of our club visits though lol....

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"Well according to your profile he is Bisexual never mind Bi Curious so I guess he is more than happy to suck cock for you to enjoy watching"

Yea, bit of an odd question to ask when your profile states he’s Bi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite a bi-guy round for a threesome and shove his head towards the guys cock,he might just want a bit of a push.I find it really horny when a woman wants some bi-guy fun..he may just be curious and need your consent

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By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

It shouldn't have is never even notice that lol

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By *lippery when wet69Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

"It shouldn't have is never even notice that lol "

You should have left it and asked him why he put that as his preference and tell him that your cool with it and it turns you on

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By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Lol I'm defo gonna ask him now lol

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

And you've posted uour question on here instead of talking to him. Really?

Sure he will be over the moon when he reads this.

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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago

N Peterborough.

We've had similar discussions about bi oral. Biggest hurdles are actually finding guys and the fear or suspicion that the meet will descend into a cuckold scenario.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Won't he see this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just get him to suck a cock and have done with it

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By *ifes2short!!Man
over a year ago

newtownabbey

Wish i could tell my wife i was bi.

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By *arentsgonebad OP Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

No he doesn't use this account has his own which he usually organises out meets on X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantasy isn't always reality we fantasise about lots of things which we wouldn't necessarily carry out. He may just fantasise without the need to express those fantasies.

Enjoy what you have for now support him to feel comfortable with his likes or dislikes and don't push him let him find his own way on his journey of sexual awareness.

I hope that helps OP.

Definitely. I think a big part of the bi fantasy is knowing that you'll still be loved and accepted. I have this fantasy too, but I'm really fussy about the personalities of who I'm meeting.

If you think about the way people overcome phobias, they need to learn to move towards what they fear while also feeling like they are still in control - which is why you need to be encouraged and not pushed. On the other hand, the feeling that you had no choice can give you an excuse to step outside your comfort zone without threatening your sense of identity. Maybe role playing, or losing a bet in a game, or something like that, can give you the best of both worlds?

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

I been bisexual all my life .just ask him .make out your fine with it but you must talk about it as it be bothering him alot more than you may think .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No he doesn't use this account has his own which he usually organises out meets on X "

Just ask him or start playing with his bum . Lead him if he needs it

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By *isshorny247Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Ask him straight out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well according to your profile he is Bisexual never mind Bi Curious so I guess he is more than happy to suck cock for you to enjoy watching

Yea, bit of an odd question to ask when your profile states he’s Bi? "

Well I think this is all the conformation the OP needs.

Looks like he's gone back to straight now though

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

next time you are pegging him, tell him you'd find it a big turn on to spitroast him with a guy, stop dithering.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

Try a fantasy game and say your fantasy is instead of you pegging him you want to see a man fuck him before that same man fucks you. See his reaction and play by ear. Good luck

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Won't be read this?

I don't think there's any need for confrontation just ask him.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op, you say you're not 100% sure of your comfort with it and he probably realises this, so could remain even more hesitant.

You've probably both to talk more about it and get more insight as well as ascertain interest, comfort and trust. Perhaps watch more bi porn together. When possible, you could socialise with more bi people too as ideas sharing could help develop your own. But that could wait, as his pegging interests aren't mm and he may just be curious.

If he was my partner and interested, I'd probably get a guy around to join me with dominating him, really letting him feel well fucked.

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northallerton

Go for it. Mr P is bi kinky loves playing with different cocks, but he isn't bi or gay, he doesn't fancy a guy or want a relationship with a guy.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"Go for it. Mr P is bi kinky loves playing with different cocks, but he isn't bi or gay, he doesn't fancy a guy or want a relationship with a guy. "

Just this the same here

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Next time you meet organize a curious guy and when you down on him invite your partner to help you first time I went with a guy we were all just getting started and he went down on me unexpectedly then came up and put his cock at my face so I returned the favour and have done it every meet since

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No he doesn't use this account has his own "

But he can access the forums from his other account and read this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guy posting"

I thought that too

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

"Guy posting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ur are playing with a guys manhood encourage your partner to have a play as well, that’s what Stacey did with me, think she knew I craved cock, we have never looked back. She didn’t want me playing with women but doesn’t mind me sucking cock or cleaning up spunk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hard subject but just talk to him. I put down on here I'm bi but don't feel like it defines me... I only play with other men when with another woman. I couldn't ever seeing myself go to meet another man alone. I also don't kiss other men I don't find other men attractive it's just sex at the end of the day. I'm also hugely dominate in my life and my personality, but I bottom in the MFM scenario some call it topping from the bottom.

Just speak to him and don't cast any judgement that's the worse for me when being judged.

Hope this helps

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

"Guy posting

Maybe not he might have had a sex change in between

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

"Bit of advise guys and girls I'm sure my partner is bisexual he likes pegging , he likes me to tell him story's about guys , and iv found some bisexual porn on the laptop , now i don't think it really bothers me , the idea of him and a guy kinda turns me on but only of hes bottom and not top , I'm quite open minded , but the thing I don't like or feel comfortable is the not knowing for sure what should I do ,should I confont him or just leave it "
he has a nice cock I’d suck him off

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