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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway

I wanted to post a question which—thematically—is a bit of a continuation of the topic of the thread:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/989312

So, I would like to address myself to those of you bi MF couples who LOVE a bi MMF as much as you love a bi MMFF.

I am NOT addressing myself to the couples who prefer bi MF couples over bi men...(I am not being obnoxious or anything, it's just that I am interested to know the insights and thoughts of a group who are interested in my ‘demographic’ ....)

So, you are obviously disappointed when the male who has courted you online shows up and turns out to not be not quite as bisexual as you expected or when they don’t even show up at all.

But, what happens when you face repeated situations whereby you have met other bi MF couples and, say, the male or even the female of the other couple turns out to be not quite as bi as they were telling you online?

Or when one of them or even both of them have suddenly made it obvious to you (during the meet) that they are more into your other half than you?

Would such repeated hypothetical disappointments drive you to limit your potential meets at clubs or maybe organised house parties?

Sorry if I am asking a question that seems to have an obvious answer, I am just genuinely interested in your insights and/or experiences.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

I would suggest OP that's it's even not as simple as that as sometimes I've been invited to join a couple and even though I am bi naturally I may not fancy engaging with the guy once we're I'm the throws of pleasure. That might be due to how he comes across, and people do sometimes change in character when they get in a sexual connection, which I find off-putting. It's a chemistry thing with me it needs to feel right not just a sex thing.

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By *_Marius OP   Man
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"I would suggest OP that's it's even not as simple as that as sometimes I've been invited to join a couple and even though I am bi naturally I may not fancy engaging with the guy once we're I'm the throws of pleasure. That might be due to how he comes across, and people do sometimes change in character when they get in a sexual connection, which I find off-putting. It's a chemistry thing with me it needs to feel right not just a sex thing. "

So you'd be happy to "get the pussy" while leaving the guy aside....precisely the kind of attitude that spoils it for the rest of us when it comes to MF couples who are fed up of being messed around....

If I didn't like one half of the couple, I would stop ALL play and politely ask to leave.

Why bother asking for a threesome if there is no threeway attraction of some sort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest OP that's it's even not as simple as that as sometimes I've been invited to join a couple and even though I am bi naturally I may not fancy engaging with the guy once we're I'm the throws of pleasure. That might be due to how he comes across, and people do sometimes change in character when they get in a sexual connection, which I find off-putting. It's a chemistry thing with me it needs to feel right not just a sex thing.

So you'd be happy to "get the pussy" while leaving the guy aside....precisely the kind of attitude that spoils it for the rest of us when it comes to MF couples who are fed up of being messed around....

If I didn't like one half of the couple, I would stop ALL play and politely ask to leave.

Why bother asking for a threesome if there is no threeway attraction of some sort? "

personally I agree with what the OP has put here and I’d have a lot more respect for a male that did this when playing on my couples profile if we say we’re looking for a bi male it’s because it’s something that I like to see myself and is a refreshing change from the usual “I’d like to put on a show for my husband” when we have couples msging us or I simply don’t want to be the center of attention

I’d actually be fuming if it was the case a man turned up and decided that he just wanted to play with me and would feel like we’d been lied to

A lot of people on here really should go with the basis that honesty is the best quality

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Honest communication is always the key. Unfortunately sometimes that does get stilted, and things breakdown, as unsaid expectations take over and someone's boundaries get ignored.

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By *entlecaressMan
over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley


"I would suggest OP that's it's even not as simple as that as sometimes I've been invited to join a couple and even though I am bi naturally I may not fancy engaging with the guy once we're I'm the throws of pleasure. That might be due to how he comes across, and people do sometimes change in character when they get in a sexual connection, which I find off-putting. It's a chemistry thing with me it needs to feel right not just a sex thing.

So you'd be happy to "get the pussy" while leaving the guy aside....precisely the kind of attitude that spoils it for the rest of us when it comes to MF couples who are fed up of being messed around....

If I didn't like one half of the couple, I would stop ALL play and politely ask to leave.

Why bother asking for a threesome if there is no threeway attraction of some sort? "

No you misunderstood what I was saying I wouldn't play with anyone including the lady

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